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ok so i apologize if this ends up being extremely long, but i just have so much ANGERR. theres this girl and we used to be really close friends. tell eachother everything, you know the whole deal. except we fight 24/7. like atleast once or twice a week. but about a month ago we got into a HUGEE fight, and havent been talking. we both decided to just end the friendship, but she came running back to me like she does after every fight last night. me being the nice and dumbass person that i am, accepted the apology. this morning i got a text from her and it made me pissed, so we started fighting once again. when things are good between us, they are amazing. but they seem to be bad more then they are good (not sure if that made any sense..) basically what im asking you if i should end this forever and never speak to her again, or if i should keep doing this on and off fighting. i mean ending it once and for all would hurt alot, but not ending it means crying every night and that hurts even more. hellppp!
oh and also, shes my neighbor and her sister is one of my best friends, so it makes things ten times more awkward.
loveee yaaaa.
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Hey there,=)
sorry your in this situation il do my best to try help.
in the last sentance you mentiond abbout if you end it now it will hurt alot but its better then the constant hurt and make up sinaro,very true
but are you sure you want this?,and that you two cant try a little harder to get past it or is it something that you are absolutely sick and tired of?and feel like you cant put up with it anymore and its time to move on,if thats the case do just that but make sure abandoning the
friendhsip is completely what you want to do.
Okay heres what I would do if it were me.
instead of the idea of ending the friendhsip all together why dont you too just try to be civil?
For the sake of her sister since your good friends with her also
sit down and talk with her tell her how you hate fighting with her (I dont know what theese fights involve but surely they are over small enough things)
and that if the friendship is gonna have any chance of working it has to stop otherwise say you just can't do it anymore.
I would say give it one last attempt at sorting things out and really doing your best to fight if one occurs just both agree to disagree and move on before it escalates.
also try giving each other space from time to time too you dont have to spend all your time together (im not saying you do just sugesting this could be the reason for the fights that your becoming iritable and annoying to each other)
If things don't change then Id say yes its not worth the effort.
Hope I helped in anyway, good luck
hope it works out =)
Much <3
Jess [15/f]
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