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So there's this AMAZING GUY that I like soooo much. Like, I am practically in love with him. I love everything about him: his smile, his laugh, etc. Like EVERYTHING! It drives me crazy how much I like him. Whenever we talk, he looks so interested in everything that I'm saying. And he'll ask me questions to further the conversation, so I know he's really listening to me :) He's so sweet and funny and nice like omg you have no idea! We'll call him A.
Then there's this other not so amazing guy that most days I hate, like completely hate. But sometimes, when we aren't arguing, we have really great conversations. And, I think he sorta understands me and some of the stuff that goes on in my head. And I kinda understand him too. Like our thinking processes. We have this connection you could say, despite all our bickering. We'll call this guy Z.
Anyways, I'm really confused. Z in general just confuses me. I don't know what my feelings are for him. Z just drives me crazy with all his confusing vibes he's sending me. One day, he hates me. Next day, we're like best friends! And then I hate him even more for confusing me because it's making me question my feelings for A!!! Like I keep asking myself which I'd rather go out with but then I'm like, wait no! I hate Z! That's not an option...or is it???? What's going on? Can anybody explain this weird behavior or why I feel this way or even which guy seems better to you? I dunno...
Dumb boys.
The "boys" here aren't the problem. The problem is your inabillity to decide what your feelings for each of them really are. Ultimately, nobody can decide on this but you, but my advice to you is to not take any action unless you're sure where you stand with both of them.
It's generally okay to be confused and single, but being confused and in a relationship tends to drag other people into problems that they may not nessessarily belong in, and hurt the relationship overall.
ok so i broke up w/ my bf recently and i really miss him and now him and my bff is about to dte him but i dont want to tell her wat do i do
The best thing to do in these kinds of situations is to remember that "This, too, shall pass". Whatever kind of pain and discomfort you're in now won't last forever. Your ex BF is not the be-all end-all, and if he dates your "bff", it won't be the end of the world. Remember that time heals all wounds all look toward the future.
15/f
i got my first period this past november on thanksgiving. i got it december onm the 21st again then january on the 22nd. in february i got it the day after i got back from a cruise which was like the 24th but it only lasted for about 2 or 3 days and was very light. i haven't gotten it since. is that normal, considering i haven't had it for that long, or should i be worried?
Don't expect your period to stablize anytime soon, 15/f. You have nothing to be worried about, and this is completely natural. Get used to it, because you won't know when your period will strike for quite a few years to come.
well there is this guy i like and he happens to be a good friend of mine.he likes me back but hasnt asked me out.we kissed once because a dare but he wanted to before that so i know its not just because of the dare.he always flirts with me but im not gonna be innocent and say i dont flirt back because trust me i do majorly lol.well i thought at first he didnt want show other people he liked me but today he kinda proved he didnt care infront of 1 his ex 2 who is still his friend and last 3 the girl who has the biggest mouth.i think its a sign but i dont know and i only think it is because he used to NEVER flirt with me infront of other people besides a few so ya.i dont know what to do so what do you think i should do about him?
People rarely think about who they're in front of when they flirt with people they truely like. That said, I think you're reading too much into this, looking for signs where there aren't any. However, he does like you, and you do like him, so what you should do is really quite obvious.
im going through some things and i really just want to listen to some sad slow songs or some love songs im very mad to but more sad me and my boyfriend are getting along to good so if you know any songs then please tell them to me. thank you very much
I generally find that when you're feeling this way, action beats inaction. The best way to make yourself feel better is to DO something, and plan the music you're going to listen to accordingly.
For example, when I feel down, I usually drive very fast. In this kind of situation, a good song would be "Stand And Recieve Your Judgement", by Darkest Hour.
hi well this is about me & my boyfriend.. we both have trust issues..but weve been dating 7 months so we trust each other with everything..but im very paranoid bout him going thru my phone..bc, well my parents split up & now my mom & i are dirt poor, & i cant afford my phone. so, im REALLLY not proud of this, but i send this guy..pictures..& he pays my bills. so he text me last night saying "hey sunshine" & my bf saw it..& he kept asking who that text was from & i was drunk so i said idk then i deleted it. & then he saw i deleted it..& now he says he doesnt trust me anymore bc of me not telling him (he doesnt know about the pics..) & i feel so hurt bc he doesnt trust me anymore (but i would feel the same if the roles were reversed) but i dont have any money and i dont consider it cheating bc idk this person, theyre on another coast, & i have NO feelings for him. but it kills me inside whenever i do it & i want to regain my bfs trust but i just dont know what to do..about any of it..please help??
Regardless of what your finacial situation is, your boyfriend deserves the truth. He says he doesn't trust you because he has a reason not to trust you, and you're the person who gave him that reason.
It doesn't matter if you don't consider it cheating, or which coast. It's obviously wrong, and your boyfriend would not approve, in the same way that you wouldn't approve of your boyfriend recieving naked pictures. The best thing you can do is stop trying to justify it and recognize it for what it is. Only then can you start to do something about it.
If you genuinely want to regain your boyfriend's trust, immediately stop sending any more pictures and come clean about the whole thing. Tell him the complete and absolute truth.
So I have been missing my periods and then getting them like every 2 weeks. and then i would miss a month and so on. I just started last july so i know they are still irregular but i was just wondering if any of you have had the same problem. please advise what you think could be going on. thanks
I am a male, so I don't have this problem.
However, it's extremely common. Don't expect your period to stablize anytime soon. It's completely natural, and you have nothing to be worried about.