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theres this guy that i really like but he only likes skater girls well that wat he told me today idk if he likes me? should i com stright up with him and say like i like u or just let it pass by

~confused

you should ask, because maybe he didn't mean he only likes skater girls. he probably meant he's juss attracted to skater girls. like that's his type. juss try telling him how you feel so he knows. you never know, he might like you too!

good luck!♥

Is it weird to wear a shirt you got on sale, for the first day of school? It's just a t-shirt that says american eagle three times on it.

I THINK I HAVE THAT SHIRT! lol definately not weird whatsoever. a lot of ppl in my grade juss wore a tshirt on the first day.

-hope that helped!♥

My hair is dirty blonde with hightlights in it which make it look really bolnde. I was just noticing that it looks fake when it starts to grow out and I don't like that. Would it be a good idea if I got my hair colored to my nateral hair color and got redish/copperish streaks in it? I've always wanted somthing new other than blonde but idk if I should do it!! What do you guys think? Blonde or not blonde?

well my hair is brown & for some reason w/ my family backround, i have red underneath..not like a carrot top red, like a dark brown/red & all my friends like that color, i mean blonde can probably get difficult to handle juss because of all the recoloring plus it costs money. plus it's gonna be fall anyway, so brown would be a good color, & then maybe for summer blonde, because brown to blonde is probably easier than blonde to brown. if that makes sense haha.

-hope that helped!♥

what stores have cute maternity clothes?

i found a website for ya

http://www.motherhood.com/home.asp?Media=Motherhood

-hope that helpes!♥

I have this gown (for my bat mitzvah) and it is salmon pink and very see through. I can't wear regualr underwear because it shows through. I could wear no underwear because its pretty long. I could wear a thong, but of course i have to buy one. Which option should I go for?

hmm maybe try a thong, because then there's like nothing to see haha. they aren't comfortable but no underwear would be a little risky.

-hope that helped!♥

Earlier today i downloaded +aim and i like it a lot because you can see any convo you had because it like saves it or something... well i saw something for aimutation and it looks awesome but i wanted to know if its possible to also have a conversation history saved thing there too? because you can't have both If its not possible that can you tell me which one is better?

ok! well i never had aimutation but aim+ does have history but of course you can set it so it doesn't. like both of them, you can fix it so you don't save every convo. juss remember that aim+ has spyware which can ruin your computer. but then again..aimutation might too, not sure. i juss use reg. AIM and then use aim express for another s/n.

-hope that helped!♥

i heard this thing on the radio about a nine layered vegetable dip or something?? it sounded really good it had like avocodo(i think) on the bottom and cheese on the top. it also had beans and vegetables in it. it sounded really good does anyone have the recipe? sorry i couldnt be more specific!

thanks i rate 5's for anyone who tries to help!

hmm..i was looking at the other poster & i'm not sure if that's exactly right. i found this 9 layered mexican dip w/ avocodo & cheese. try this-

http://www.cooks.com/rec/doc/0,171,145163-239207,00.html

-hope that helped!♥

I really love this boy but he just told me he liked this other girl. Then he asked me if I still liked him. This girl is going to his next game and I was going with my guy friend. Seeing him and her is going to kill me. IDK what to do. I REALLLLLYYYY like him and I feel like crying right now. Please help me out and tell me what going on with him?!?! he liked me before I went on vacation and now its nothing?!?! help!

hmm..you know you could have some fun with it? i mean if he really did like you a lot, he wouldn't of juss forgot about you when you went on vacation. i think that you should try meeting other guys to hang out with. if you really can't do that, then when he's not hanging out w/ that girl, try asking him to do stuff with you. ya know like dinner, movies, bowling, miniature golfing, etc. juss fun stuff w/ a group of ppl, and not her! lol. if that doesn't work then juss try to move on. i know it may seem difficult now but it'll become easier.

good luck!♥

I have been good friends with this guy for 5 years and had a "crush" on him for 2. I have been rather forward with him, smiling at him (not something I usually do), talking to him whenever I can, giving him treats I made myself, that sort of thing. Recently,

he definately likes you. if he didn't, he'd probably pay more attention to his friends er another girl. he wouldn't spend his whole night talking & flirting with you for nothing, er to lead you on. since you guys are good friends, he probably likes you & wouldn't be mean & lead you on like that.

-hope that helped!♥

what are some ways to tighten up my stomache in 3 day please help me fast

are you looking for a semi diet?? because sometimes if you juss eat right & stuff it'll help. but if you wanna tighten up your stomach you should do 50 crunches. slow crunches, the slower the more difficult which are better because they work your abs. umm try scizzors. like lay on ur side w/ your legs together and move the top 1 up & down until you feel your muscles start to tighten. then you're doing it right. what else..oh pilatees! wow they hurt but you can tell that they're working. try this-

http://www.bodybuildingforyou.com/training-fitness/ab-exercise-workout.htm

good luck!♥

I would like a girl to answer this for me. I not sure when I'm going to start my period I have had blood from down there but that was last year and it hasn't happend since and I have all the signs that I'm going to get what should I do???

sometimes it's like a false start? almost like a pre-start where you think it's time for your period but it isn't. you'll probably get it soon though so carry pads in your purse, bookbag, whatever you want juss incase. if you do get your period make sure you talk to your mom, er parent about it. embarrasing as it seems, it helps. also if you think that's like..not right, then you should go to the gyn. er doctor.

-hope that helped!♥

okay well theres this guy i like alot and i mean alot !! he is like perfect.. anyways.. is four years alot or distance or no? i rate high !!! easy 5's guys!

nahh! ok like i'd say 10 years is a lot, but definately not 4. maybe if you are in school it'd seem a lot because you guys aren't in the same grade, but when you're 21 and he's 25 er vice versa it won't matter. as long as you guys love eachother!

-hope that helped!♥

i need help when i ask my girlfriend a question i get so nervose i close my eyes and have my head so it looks like im looking down i just need help knowing how to get over it help plz! i rate 5s fo good answers!!

oh don't be nervous!! she is your girlfriend right? exactly so you should try to be more comfortable with her. she likes you obviously & you like her, so juss be yourself. maybe if you asked her more questions every day then it'll become easier for you.

good luck!♥

Hey.. I'm a sophomore in high school, I go to an all girls school in Missouri. I came to high school without any friends from grammar school really.. I had no close friends of which I hung out with. I came into high school and met a ton of people.. but all of freshman year I never went out on a friday night. Now, I just started sophomore year and I'm making a real effort to talk to people and try to make friends but it's not working. I'm in honors classes and it just seems like a lot of the girls in the class are not like me at all. I try to be social and make friends but no one seems to wanna hang out wiht me. I'm also just a totally different person at school than the person I am at home. I am really funny and loud at home and at school I'm quite. I'm shy sometimes too. I think people get the wrong impression of me. I just really want this to work. The girls in my honors classes are "loserish" I guess you could say, and the other girls drink, and I don't drink (alcohol). I feel in the middle.Theirs a sophomore dance in february and I want a group of friends by than so that I can meet some guys through them to go to the dance with. It's really depressing and upsetting. I know that most of you will probably say that I should get to know people, and introduce myself, and I am. I am in class with basically the same girls I was freshman year. If no one could give me advice, and encouraging story would be good. Is there any of you that were in my situation and found a group of friends? please help!

heyy i know how you feel. i'm definately one of the 'innocent' ones i guess you can say outta my school, like me & my group friends. everyone else had sex, does drugs, smokes, drinks, etc. you juss need to talk to ppl & be social & they'll grow to like you. juss be yourself, because if people don't like you for who you are, then obviously they aren't good friends. juss be yourself & be social. if you talk to random people about school & stuff & maybe you can say 'hey wanna hang out sometime' er stuff like that. i wasn't in your situation juss because the ppl i went to preschool with are in my classes now, like we've all been together since we were little. juss try working at meeting new people & asking them to do stuff. it'll work out.

-hope that helped!♥

okayy well.. im 14 and i think my hips are huge!! but they arent that big, but they stick out alot when im wearing jeans.. my waist is skinny so there fore my hips stick out and i wear a shirt.. normally i'll wear a jacket but its the first day of school and im wearing jeans an a shirt.. which make my hips stick out since my shirt is tight sorta.. soo i dont know.. please help i dont know what to do! HIPS! ahh!! Jeanss i love them but withuot a jacket or sweatshirts my hips stick out horriblely!!!!!!!!!! okay well please help i'll rate high!! [5's]

i have massive hips =) haha yeah & i'm not fat er anything, they're juss..there!! i wear..juss regular tshirts, but idk how tall you are. im pretty tall and i get the hipster jeans & then wear longer t's from american eagle/pacsun. that way ur hips won't be as noticeable. it's not a problem tho. hoodies help too & are sooo comfy.

-hope that helped!♥

what is the difference between binging and purging? and also what is binge eating.

try this website-

http://www.healthyplace.com/Communities/Eating_Disorders/concernedcounseling/definitions.asp

-hope that helped!♥

How do I make a picture smaller so I can put it on my colomn?

copy your picture & put it in paint. then fix it to the size you want, smaller obviously. then what you can do is go all the way to the right hand corner of paint at the bottom and click at the end of the white sheet. a blue box will appear. drag it all the way up so it fits the picture. when you're done it'll juss be the picture, no white backround. i got an account here-

www.photobucket.com

i can put any size picture i want, so i'd try that.

-hope that helped!♥

i really like this boy called saad in my school but i don't really know him and he doesn't take much notice of me...im scared to say to anyone incase he finds out and rejects me!that would be so heartbreaking! please help i really need some advise.it's been a whole year since i met him. his friend asked me out on a trip and he was there, and i rejected him because he's a pervert. did this make anything worse? what should i do?
Nosheen
(im a girl, 13)

hmm..rejection is tough but like what if he likes you too? i mean, he could be shy like you are. if you never take the chance to find out, you guys could be missing out on a great relationship. try it. maybe talk to your friends about it first. try going on group dates. hang out places like the movies, bowling, miniature golfing, dinner, etc. once you guys get to know eachother it'll become easier for you. i don't think you rejecting his friend made anything worse. maybe he was glad? you don't know until you tell him how you feel.

good luck!♥

is it okay for a 14 year old girl to go out with a 17 year old guy?

it's okay, but some people not like it. as long as you guys love eachother then who cares ya know? you guys juss cant have sex, but you can date!

-hope that helped!♥

tomorrow for a labor day picnic, im inviting a handful of my friends over. I cant think of anything to do and how to entertain them. I have no pool, and they all do so theyll probably think its boring. i have nowhere to go cause my neighborhood is in the middle of nowhere. im trying to think if something else to do besides eat, watch movies, and play Twister, cause thats what we always do. please help, i dont want them to be bored! and we cant go anywhere.

i can help! i get bored kinda easy too, so maybe i would be a good advice giver.

-like you said..FOOD!!! & lots of it
-water balloons are a lot of fun. maybe you guys can make teams & play against eachother, like tag.
-capture the flag! its a lot of fun & easy to play. juss use like an old sock er something. http://www.spiderland.org/breve/CaptureTheFlag/rules.html
that's a site juss incase you dk it.
-volleyball/badmitton, if you don't have a net, there's really cheap 1s at places like walmart er maybe you guys can make a home-made one
-lots of music
-Set up as many teams as you would like to have. Each team must have one large water gun filled with water and one team member willing to get wet. Make sure that all the designated targets don't have a shirt that has an iron-on design on the front, this prevents the game from being far. On the willing team member, squirt shaving cream on the front of their shirt. If you do the same design, it makes the amount of shaving cream the same for all teams. Each member of the team will get one squirt from the water gun to try and remove the shaving cream. You will rotate the team line until all the shaving cream is removed. The first team to remove the cream is the cream of the crop or in other words, "The Winners".

OR! you can try this
http://childparenting.about.com/gi/dynamic/offsite.htm?zi=1/XJ&sdn=childparenting&zu=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.funattic.com%2Fgame_list.htm

good luck!♥

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