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i really like this boy called saad in my school but i don't really know him and he doesn't take much notice of me...im scared to say to anyone incase he finds out and rejects me!that would be so heartbreaking! please help i really need some advise.it's been a whole year since i met him. his friend asked me out on a trip and he was there, and i rejected him because he's a pervert. did this make anything worse? what should i do?
Nosheen
(im a girl, 13)
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No, not going out with a pervert shows 'Saad' that you have standards. Just talk to him-if he likes you, it'll show...and if he doesn't, drop it and move on. 13's too young to be in love, so even if you ask him out and he says no...it'll seem like your heart's breaking, but you'll survive, and learn from it. And if he does like you-yay for you.
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Well, I think you should just start talking to the boy. Let him get to know you. Then, if he likes you he'll ask you out. But dont rush things. Guys tend to freak out and just be like oh i don't like her no more. So, just become friends and flirt you know. And ALWAYS be yourself. You'll know if he likes you or not.
~Kristy~
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hmm..rejection is tough but like what if he likes you too? i mean, he could be shy like you are. if you never take the chance to find out, you guys could be missing out on a great relationship. try it. maybe talk to your friends about it first. try going on group dates. hang out places like the movies, bowling, miniature golfing, dinner, etc. once you guys get to know eachother it'll become easier for you. i don't think you rejecting his friend made anything worse. maybe he was glad? you don't know until you tell him how you feel.
good luck!♥
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