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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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Christopher Columbus didn't DO anything! He DID NOT discover America! Its should be Rosa Parks day BECAUSE SHE ACTUALLY DID SOMETHING!!!!!!! Does anyone know any websites that I could go research that kind of stuff? To proove that he didn't do anything and that it should be Rosa Parks day?!!??!!!

So are you trying to tell us that everyone who dies deserves a day?

Let's say my grandma dies; does she deserve a day? She's a wonderful woman, but she doesn't deserve a day made after her.

Just because someone is an important part of history doesn't mean they should get a day for them.

13/F

Is it bad for a kid my age to watch porn? I mean, I just look at pictures of naked ANIME characters. I think it's funny. Me and my friends always make fun of it. is it bad? I mean, it's only ANIME porn! It doesn't sounds bad... But I justed wanted to know is it? Um, also, please don't anything rude. I don't like rude peeps cuz they're... well... rude, so yea. Jus ttell me if it's bad or not. I mean, the pictures don't really show much. They cover the guys bottom half.
I'm more comfertable by the way, watching anime porn then ACTUAL porn. And, I like GAY ANIME PORN too. Does that mean, I'm a lez or something? I hope not... PLEASE HELP!!!!!

Porn is illegal if under 18 I believe, but it's normal to be curious about stuff like that.

i thnk i walked around school all day with a blood stain on the back of my shorts. that is just so embarasing and then my friend just came to see me and i walked away and he was in the car, i know he deff saw that tho. like its overwhelming,what do i do to get over the embarasmenttt?

This happens to a lot of girls; it's nothing to be ashamed of. Just wear thicker pads or better tampons & always care extra clothes with you just in case.

Do you think that some of the older kids from the TV show Kid Nation have myspaces?

Probably. Search them & see what comes up, but do keep in mind that people are stupid & make fakes.

13/F

OMFG! I'm sick and tired of putting up with my dad! i hate him soo much! he's stupid and I'd wished he'd DIE! He's thrown me outside for saying goodnight, hes hit me for no reason, called me stupid names and menso(stupid) and a whole bunch of other stuff! My question is, How can I get him to divorce my mom?! how can I gt rid of him SOON?!?!?!? PLEASE TELL ME WHAT TO DO!!!!!! I hate him more than I hate the devil! if that's put in better words!!!!!!!!! UGGGH!!!!

Uh, you need to call the cops.

Your father is abusing you and it's illegal.

This may scare you and all but I'm fed up. nobody likes me and this guy said he hates when I'm around him so I'm going to starve myself until my body falls to the floor and I die. I have 7 more days of life what do you think I should do on those wonderful days of life that's left.

Killing yourself because nobody likes you & this guy doesn't like you is stupid. If you do that, then you're just giving up & letting people get to you.

Grow up & see a psychiatrist. People aren't that important that they should impact your death.

hey- 13|f. i need some ideas to dressup like a maid or hannah montana for halloween (: please tell (:

Maid's are less common nowadays. Hannah Montana would be pretty popular. Stand out & be a maid.

Go to any Halloween store & find the maid costume you want.

ok so for the past month or so ive been really tired all the time, ive gained a lot of weight (im not that fat though) and ive been sad a lot but i cant figure out what im sad about. I used to love playing games with my sister, but not all i want to do is just be alone and watch tv or something.

i eat a tonn and i just feel a lot of anger and nervousness.

whats going on with me and what can i do about it???

14/f btw.

Are you sexually active? If not, then you're not pregnant.

If it's obvious you're not pregnant; then you may be depressed.

Choose a site, look at the symptoms. If you have more than 5 of those for a 2 week period or longer, you may suffer from depression, so you should see a psychiatrist.

what does the term " you are the sex " means? or " its the sex "

"The sex" basically means "cool."

So, when somebody tells you that you're the sex, or that something is the sex, it means that you or the object they're refering to is cool.

Does everyone have some people that hate them?I was just wondering.

Of course.

But then they're just your fans. =]

Please tell me the truth, and the REAL truth!

Is limewire illegal or legal?
Because I hear so many things and it's confusing?
If it was illegal, why would iTunes sell songs for 99cents, are they just doing that to get money?
or what?
please tell me the truth, and give me the RIGHT answer.
Thanks!

Limewire is illegal. Downloading from it is illegal.

However, you'll probably never get caught because in order to catch you, they'd have to catch everyone else as well & there's just too many people. That doesn't mean you should download from it, but still..

what does fingering mean?? i was reading a book and these two people were making out and the guy put his arms under her shirt and it said he was fingering her bra. what does that mean? and what does it mean to pop your cherry?

Fingering usually means masturbation, and that's how a girl masturbates.

When you pop your "cherry," it just means you broke your hymen.

Sorry if in wrong catagory..

So when I fist got my period it was July 9 2007... I had it again in August, but not one at all in September... and now I have one in October 6th...

but shouldn't you get your period every month?
Will I never have a September period?

I'm not pregnant if thats what you think.. I'm a vergine..

Ahh, the first period thing.

When you first get your period, it's going to come whenever it feels like it. You'll get it one month, then maybe two months later you'll get it again. It'll be like this for the first couple of years. My period just got regular this year, and this is my third year having it, so don't freak yourself out. You're completely normal & should only freak out if you had unprotected sex & didn't see a period for a while after.

So, no, you're not pregnant. Your period is just irregular & will be for a while, so don't freak out. This is completely normal. =]

okkkay, so I have a friend who does extensions & I want them terribly for homecomming which is in 2 weeks. I can probably get them in the weekend, but he just does glue in, I was wondering if there is anything i should consider before getting them or how to take care of them , and tips. pleeeeassse.

I've never gotten extensions before, but since your friend does them, he should be able to tell you how to work with them & how to take care of them. If not, google is always your friend!

Why does everyone hate me so much. I don't have to do anything to them and they hate me. Tell me why?

Maybe you're not a likable person?

I kinda want to be a cheerleder. im not really sure but i really would like to do a fun sport like that. i do gymnastics but i want to do something school related. the thing is im not good at cheerleading. i tried last year and didnt make it and im def. not the type of popular girl who would try. my biggest problem is that i cant memorize things easily. having this problem honestly should i try or not? its not a life dream or anything just something i thought might be fun to try. so if i wont be good at it and make it i dont want to put the time into it and practice and get my hopes up to crash and burn. try-outs arent until april or sumthing obviously so its not like really soon or anything. or maybe pom-poms. i would def. like to be a pom-pom girl. is it easier or harder? i think i would actually prefer that then cheerleading. is anyone a pom-pom girl? and still would not being able to quickly memorize routines a problem? thanks so much and i will rate all helpful advice! :D

Gymnasts & cheerleaders have a lot in common because the moves cheerleaders do require the work of a gymnast.

If they ask you to do something, you should know what it is because of doing gymnastics. Ask a cheerleader what you need to learn, ask if she can help & then keep doing it & nail it at practice. If you do the same routine over & over, it'll become second nature & there's no way to mess it up.

i was so close to going out with a kid i really like but then he changed his mind about going out wuth me now he wont talk to me and i dont know why what should i do

Forget about him. He wanted to date you & then up & changed his mind just as you were about to ask him out? Who the fuck does that?

He's an asshole. I'd just forget his ass & try to go for someone else.

What makes a really, really good short story?
I already had my friends comment on my works and they say they're pretty good BUT I feel dissatisfied with them. They don't seem that good to me. So what makes a really good short story?

You should usually make a short story end with people questioning it & wanting more. Sort of like a chapter. That's all how it needs to be.

15/f

Okay. So here's the very long deal. I will try to summarize this. It could really have an impact on my life.

I've known this guy online for a year. I dunno if you read my question ...but I asked about a guy I was obsessed with online.

Anyway. I knew him for a year and I met him online. I never really liked him, but having no friends, I just talked to him and became very personal with him. He had another gf online, and now they're meeting up. I really don't care for him anymore. He doesn't mean anything to me. Of course, that feeling of "fondness" still exists, but not enough to propel me to want to meet this guy or anything. Honestly, he creeps me out. He's dirty, disgusting, ugly (shallow, I know.) and he's just so ew..He has a horrible personality. I'm through with him

Today, I deleted everywhere that I had him. Like myspace, MSN, aim etc. I was SICK of him and his stupid lies/ trying to make me jealous. Plus, I'm only a 15 year old girl! I now have more friends, school is more important to me, and I'll try to get over him..

Please...PLEASE somebody give me a pep talk...to keep me away from him. I can't tell you how many times I've UNdeleted him and continued to talk to him, being so attached. Please...words of encouragement to keep me away from a possible online predator who I know NOTHING about? :(

If you know this guy is so dirty & disgusting, why do you have to TRY to get over him? You know he's a liar, you know he's an asshole & you know he's a show off - what the hell made him such a good friend before?

Honestly, getting over him should be easy & you shouldn't need a peptalk. But, you're much better off without him in your life & I'm sure you know that, so go from there.

do guys act like jerks to show out when theyre around a girl they like? i met this guy [17/m] the 1st day of school, a couple weeks later he says he likes me and weve been talky/flirty ever since. hes a sweetie, but lately ive noticed when other people are around he can get real like snappy and stuff, well mainly just towards other guys. not to me but just to other people. my friend [his friend also] even called him out on it today, saying 'you werent like this an hour ago [before i got there] now youre just being a jerk' but i mean nothin had happened, hes friends with them and he doesnt act that way towards me? wuts his deal?

Probably just trying to show off, but he does sound like a real ass. You should probably talk to him about that & if he doesn't change, then ditch his ass.

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