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I just "broke up" with someone..I need help now..
15/f
Okay. So here's the very long deal. I will try to summarize this. It could really have an impact on my life.
I've known this guy online for a year. I dunno if you read my question ...but I asked about a guy I was obsessed with online.
Anyway. I knew him for a year and I met him online. I never really liked him, but having no friends, I just talked to him and became very personal with him. He had another gf online, and now they're meeting up. I really don't care for him anymore. He doesn't mean anything to me. Of course, that feeling of "fondness" still exists, but not enough to propel me to want to meet this guy or anything. Honestly, he creeps me out. He's dirty, disgusting, ugly (shallow, I know.) and he's just so ew..He has a horrible personality. I'm through with him
Today, I deleted everywhere that I had him. Like myspace, MSN, aim etc. I was SICK of him and his stupid lies/ trying to make me jealous. Plus, I'm only a 15 year old girl! I now have more friends, school is more important to me, and I'll try to get over him..
Please...PLEASE somebody give me a pep talk...to keep me away from him. I can't tell you how many times I've UNdeleted him and continued to talk to him, being so attached. Please...words of encouragement to keep me away from a possible online predator who I know NOTHING about? :(
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
If you know this guy is so dirty & disgusting, why do you have to TRY to get over him? You know he's a liar, you know he's an asshole & you know he's a show off - what the hell made him such a good friend before?
Honestly, getting over him should be easy & you shouldn't need a peptalk. But, you're much better off without him in your life & I'm sure you know that, so go from there.
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I'm not going to repremand you or anything. I'm just here to help you.
You should never talk to someone online that you don't know. They could be faking it and like...all their information could be unreal and not true. Talking to people online is really really dangerous.
But here's the real deal. You need to get him off your mind. You can't keep talking to him becuase it's gonig to drive you crazy. Ignoring someone you care/cared about is really really hard and needs alot of support and help from friends. You just need to tell yourself that you CAN do it and that you DONT NEED him to make you a better person.
Jelously is the devil. haha. No really, wanting something that you can't have sucks. Bad. but i'm sure that if you ignore him (which won't be easy) you'll move on. Then you can find someone who you actually know exists. hehe! =0]
But in the mean time, stay strong. you'll get through. AND BE CAREFUL WHO YOU MEET ONLINE!
I hope everything works out. Keep me posted. Contact info can be found on my Column!!!
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