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school dance
well i just went to my 8th grade dance, and lots of girls are becoming more physical with boys.. like some kids were already grinding, or some others were dancing together like it was nothing.. I dont have any guy friends like that that I could dance with them and not get embarassed or always see it in the romantic way.. Ive never even had a boyfriend while all my other friends mostly have.. I mean I'm not ugly or anything but its weird.. I guess I can be choosy with some guys but how can i be more comfortable with guys and become good friends with them and stuff? thanks. cause usually im with my gal pals.
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Well if you dont want to look weird at the dance go with some of your other girl friends that dont have dates. If you dont want to do that either start flirting around with boys you think would be easy to hang around with.
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I'm just like you! glad I'm not the only one.
Grinding is just trashy and riskay, and you are so much more mature and intelligent than everyone else for not doing it.
I hate going to most dances because i'm the only girl who's single and who isn't a slut who grinds and makes out in public.
They're just doing it to show off.
If it makes you feel uncomfortable you can just not go to the stupid dances at all.
everyone else needs to grow up.
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At my school dances, some people grind or whatever, but I personally find it rather low and like some popstar-that-dresses-like-a-ho-on-MTV-esque. I usually go there to have fun, not try to think about the way others are dancing. Just dance with your friends, and you can have a lot of fun. I feel the same way you do, I could never bring myself to do the dances that some other people do. There's nothing wrong with it, just have fun. Hope I helped. : )
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