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Q: my parents always yell, at the oldest and of course i asm the oldest i hate it and they just yeall and yell at me and its always my fualt plz help me

Its the age i tell just watch what you do and say its the best we can do at this age... to us parents are cranky! but to them we are cranky! no solving it-trix

Q: Both of my great grandma's just died. I went out shopping with my best friend all day yesterday after going to a doctors appointment with her dad. I feel terrible about not helping my dad with the funeral stuff... Should I feel bad?

Yeah you should be there for him but i dont know maybe you are trying a new way to cope with it and maybe shopping helps you i dont know just be tehre for him as much as possible-trix

Q: theres this guy who ive liked alot and hes really nice funny sweet amf hot but he doesnt notice me yea were firnds but y doesnt he like my!! he likes all my freinds but me!! y me

Just be more flirty he may look to you as the more sister type and think that you look to his as the big/lil bro type-trix

Q: i like several guys. one of them being a guy named steven. we are really good friends and just yesterday he asked me about one of my friends erica. he was like is she single? i told him yes but i am now wishing i told him no. He is a redneck (my type)and we have a lot in common. too bad he likes erica. i dont really think erica would be very good for him b/c she likes bad boyz and that he is not. how to i get the point across to him that erica is not his type and that i am better for him??

>>>i rate good

Well you dont know if she would like him or not.. Just hopefully dont let them keep in touch and just be flirty towards him! You should tell her you like him though and see what she says-trix

Q: Empty would be the word to use to describe me.
I go through life living in a world of my own.
A world that is filled with nothing but darkness.
A world that is full of pain, depression, and sadness.
I always feel like I’m alone.
Like no one wants to be around me.
So I put on an act just so I can feel wanted.
I go around being some one that I’m not.
Just so people will accept me.
But what would be the point of doing so.
If by the time I get home I still feel nothing but emptiness
What would be the point if I can’t be myself?
Am I really that afraid of what people would say about me?
Worried about how they could ever accept me.
Is my life empty because I’m living a lie?
Or is it empty because I want it to be that way.

Thats good i just hope you really dont feel like that :( i hope you are one of the writers that put themselves in other people's places like i do-trix

Q: i think im in love with my best friend... im a girl... lol n hez a guy. well ive known him since sixth grade... n now im going to 8th... n in 6th grade he had this dorky musroom haircut... n in 7th grade he cut his hair... n he looks reallii cute but usually hez not my type... i mean im in love with little ghetto boyz... n my best friend iz like more abrocombie... dont get me wrong i love abrocombie... i feel like my style is changing n i really dont know wut to do cuz he went out with my ex best friend in 6th grade... n i hated her when they went out becuz... we were fighting ova another guy b4 that... n my best friend dumpd my ex best friend... n im scared he wont like me... but im not even sure how i feel about him.

P.S. i love adri n matt like a fat kid loves kake!!

O.. well i got confused but i would love to help if you summed it up a lil bit more-trix

Q: one of my best friends wants to go out with the guy that i like and she knows i like him. what should i do?

Talk to her about it and tell her how it makes you feel-trix

Q: Can you get prenaunt from fingering?

No-trix

Q: How many people are fed up with the really silly questions.. ok ready everybody

1. if theres a guy you like YOU TALK TO HIM!!!! you dont need to ask about that ne more.. you cant get a guy to like you without being friends first...

AM I CLEAR?

thanks!

XOoxoO-- not trying to be rude but just trying to answer questions that are ALWAYS being posted...ALWAYS,ALWAYS,ALWAYYYYYS

I agree.. i just say tell him or whatever.. and idk sometimes theres more to it and they need to post it.. i like answering but i understand :) but if they think they need to be told like reassured of it then so be it cuz sometimes that is how i am-trix

Q: i like this boy and he doesn't like me and i have a major crush on himk but i dunno what to do! sooo what should i do?

Tell him just dont scare him-trix

Q: what is the right age to have sex and what are some good things to do?

I think when you are in love and a bit older-trix

Q: i have a friend who is really pretty and really popular...she could practically get any guy she wants. Whenever i have a guy who in interested in me she goes and flirts with him and he ends up dumping me and going for her. What should i do to let my friend know that this hurts me badly?

Tell her that it hurts your really badly and tell her whatever else you want to on how it bothers you-trix

Q: in my feed backs it sez 4 people rated me .. but where it sez rates it doesnt show them !! is there sumthin i have to do for it to show ?

Your letters may just blend in with the background that is what happaned to me-trix

Q: y is it that whenever i look at my inbox it says i have 2 new questions, but there's either 1 question, or none

is there sum type of mistake or what

since this will probably be deleted by administration(like 4 sum reason my questions always are), i'd like to get atleast one or 2 answers in before that happens

Difficulties it happans i dont know alot of people question that-trix

Q: i signed in and it said Inbox (1 new) and when i went to it, there was nothing there.... what's wrong?? thanks a ton

xox Kristen

It happans to everybody there must be difficulties going on right now-trix

Q: how do you make this super hot egyptian chick forget about her boyfriend and fall for you?

Just be yourself and be flirty-trix

Q: I wanna lose weight, on my stomach and my bum. But I wanna lose weight before I go back to school in 5 weeks, anyone got any good ways?

South beach diet. Go running or walking or jogging. Go to the gym or something do crunches. And pull ups-trix

Q: Hey theres this girl that im just dying to be with and she knows that I like her. Im 16 and shes 14 but her parents dont let her date guys my age cuz theyre more near her brothers ages. What should i do to get her parents to let her be with me?

Well you could maybe wait until she is 15 so you guys are right next to eachothers age unless you turn 17 before she turns 15.. but you could have her introduce you guys.. and let them see for themselves that your a good guy-trix

Q: i rele didnt no what to call this
last school year i was rele flat if u no what i mean and now im not but im not fake how do i get people to realize that? because all the guys think i stuff what am i suppose to do take off my clothes and prove it?

Well dont do that.. unless you honestly want to.. then you could.. but i wouldnt recommend it at all i would just say that you dont and stick up for yourself and do what you can.. but theres not much you can .. like you said you can stick up for yourself or show? you take your choice-trix

Q: Theres this kid nd hes like my brotha i love him so much but he just like randomly desides to hate me madd bad its soo f*ckin stupid he seriously randomly woke up one morning nd desided to hate me i mean wuts up wit that? now he gives me all this bullsh*t bein all b*tchy nd sh*t nd its soo shady i mean like seriously we used to be like best frends wut is up wit this!! why would ne body do sumthin like that! i swear to god i didnt do ne htin to deserve the shit htis kid is givin me!! i need some help here.. :'(

Just find out from others and see what they know and just call him and say your sorry for being b*tchy nd sh*t and you didnt mean to.. you could blame it on mood swings if you want? lol-trix

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"