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Q: i have this friend who always makes these really unessessary comments about things i say, and it gets on my nerves real bad, i wanna talk to her, but every time i talk to her about anything we get into a fight, so what do i do?
Write her a note or a email or something like that.. she may just make fun of you behind your back.. but hey you cant hear them-trix

Q: me n my friend sam have this big arguement goin on for months now wen you put a tampon in do you insert it upwards or downwards? plz help me!
upwards look at the box-trix

Q: U gave me some great advice on boyfriends in the past... so im coming to u for more advice.

After falling in love with someone... is there any way to keep from getting hurt if things dont work out? I really don't want to go through that again. I have been hurt before, and it wasn't very fun. I was depressed for WEEKS... is there any way to avoid having that happen again?
Well I have been hurt sooo many times before. I lost my appetite.. i was head over heals for this guy! You wouldn't believe it but he heard a rumor that i was cheating on him.. and then we broke up and i was crushed!! But i couldnt trust very much after that he said we'd be together for ever.. of course i believed it.. its what i wanted to hear.. so i did and then i got hurt.. it sucked but i learned i cant just remain single for my whole life otherwize ill never be married and have kids.. I am getting my way there im young yeah but i am going out with diff. kind of guys knowing what i like in a guy and right now im in love with nathan and im happy i may get hurt in the end.. but i look at it and i think this is all worth while im all grins and smiles cuz i love him so much and he's going to be worth the pain weather he causes it or not. So you need to trust and you may get hurt in the end but thats the risk you have to take and thats how life is. I just am taking my time slowly with nathan and making sure everything is perfect for us two. So just do that and take things slowly and hopefully everything will work out!!-trix

Q: HELP! I'm going to a party 2nite, and I need 2 get rid of two nasty looking pimples! I already popped them, but blood just came out. HELP!!! I'll rate, just please help! Don't delete this question, please! (:
Cover it up and put toothpaste on it and it takes the redness away so its easier to cover up-trix

Q: My best guy friend hangs out with my boyfriend. Today he told me that my boyfriend was talkin about how annoying I am because I play mind games with him (I have NO idea what kind of mind games I play..) He said he doesn't love me as much anymore and he might break up with me.

Should I believe my best guy friend and expect the worst... or do I just ask my boyfriend about it and hope he doesn't get mad at my guy friend.

I don't want to ruin their friendship, but I don't want to get my heart broken because I didn't listen to my guy friend... What should I do??
Ask your boyfriend-trix

Q: does n e on have n e GOOD qoute sites? PLEASE help me!! thanx a bunch PLEASE DONT DELETE THIS MODERATOR PLEASE =(
firehotquotes.com well you could also go to imbum.com they sometimes have quotes.. but sometimes away messages too-trix

Q: i really like this guy but hes gay and hes soooo nice and cute and he likes me but hes neva had a relasionship with a guy idk y he says hes gay???? what should i do
Maybe he is scared for others to know that he is gay.. he may not be gay he may be bi.. you may want to talk to him about it-trix

Q: Is it nice having a boyfriend or are boyfriends annoying? I'll rate really good, thanks so much!
I like having a boyfriend.. but sometimes its nice to not have on to cuz your free to flirt.. without hurting someone that is.. but i love nathan and im glad we are going out and i wouldnt give him up for the world or to flirt-trix

Q: I'm addicted to taking pictures of myself, i have lyke over 400 recent pics. All of my friends lyke always say that I'm lyke conceited or that I'm in love with myself, but I honestly think their just jealous!...what should i lyke do?!@#$^&!?
Well just dont show them all of your recent pics just a few.. maybe you could show a few diff. to diff. friends that way you could show them all to but not all to everyone but just diff. people sorry if im confusing.. ima blonde haha.. but you could also take pics of you and your friends too just dont try to rub in that your good at picture taking-trix

Q: Anna Joe
The kid no one really knows
Just sat
She was kind of fat
Every day people would critize
About her size
I was the only one who heard her crys
Her endless sighs
I never knew
What she was about to do
It was a misty Monday
I wish she found have found another way
We walked in
Right before she commited her sin
They laughed at her and called her fat
And there I sat
Wanting it to stop
I could have fought
Before I could think
In just one blink
She reached in her shirt
Everyone screamed as shots beamed
Up and down each row
Then it came to me and she said no
I was in shock
Then came a knock
Hurried,
In her head
There everyone sat dead
I burst in tears
Because I had no more peers
I could have stopped this all
I heard voices down the hall
Terrified yells
And there i was
Just because
I did'nt call her fat....
But I just sat
I let her cry,
wanting to die
And it just might be
Because of me
Everyones dead
And poor Anna shot herself in the head

www.poetrypoems.com/bleedingeverywhere give me feedback on my site and dont try to copy and paste cuz these are published



Hey i am signed up there and i have some of my poems published in a book but not for this site i almost got 1st in a contest but there was amazing in front of me.. so whatever they deserved it. but i like this and you did very good-trix

Q: is it ok that i like older guys?? they are more mature and cuter in my opinion. i was wondering is this ok??
Its okay just as long as there not 6 or 7 yrs old cuz thats kinda gross.-trix

Q: ok im 16 and i am pretty in shape. i am not extremely ripped but i have a nice figure. ive done a million sit ups and i know that i have a 6 pac just EGGING to pop out, but i need to lose a little bit of fat on my stomach for it to show a lot. whats a good, fast way to lose just a little bit of weight so that my abs will show a lot more?
Do sit-up ands crunches.. crunches are very strong we do at least 50 every class (martial arts class) and i can feel it in my stomach-trix

Q: I have a very bad head ache right now. It hurts all behind my left eye. I've taken two extra strength Tylenols, but they don't seem to be helping. Is it safe to take more then 2 within 4 hours even though the bottle does not recommend you to? Are there any other solutions out there to save my brain from splitting in half?
You could go to the dr. about it.. i had that and i had a mygrain.. if you have glasses pop those suckers on.. that could be the prob. and sometimes the computer gives you a headache to so try to stay away from the computer.-trix

Q: how can i confront my like best friend that i hate it when me and her r goin out sumwhere lyke the movies or what ever that she has to bring a friend?? plesse help
Just ask her if it could be you 2 cuz you'd like to spend time and talk about things-trix

Q: i dont no recently during the summer all my friends like abandoned me.. i have like 2 rly good friends but we like never hang out i dno.. what should i do?? all my friends ditched mee..
Well call to make plans with them maybe have a big sleepover-trix

Q: my girlfriend wears some clothing that bothers me. she has a very nice body, and its cool that she is comfortable with showing it off... but it bugs me that she likes the attention from other guys and all. how do i let her know that some of the stuff she wears (low tank tops / shirts, short shorts, etc) bothers me without sounding too much like a jealous control freak?
Well just tell her that your scarred that some other guy migth come back and take her from you and you dont want that to happan-trix

Q: my friends r mad at me and i do not know what to do they say i need to shut the F*** up but i have not talked to them and my other friends go online as my best friends name and sends me rude messages what should i do
Well just get a new sn or something but i'd call the "main" one and apologrize for you bad attitude.. thats what most people do rather then sit it out and wait for it to happan and be better but you could call-trix

Q: I live in a small neighborhood, huge houses and lots of kids. That is the bad part lots of kids, so i have a bunch of friends, and they are constantly fighting. But i am always stuck in the middle, and then i give advice to 1 friend and the other thinks i'm on there side. It is so confusing and bad. hOW DO I handle this?? And i already tried the whole "its not my fight so don't get me in the middle" it doesn;t work!! i rate **LaUrEn**
Well when one comes to you say you dont want to hear it you'd love to hear but you cant otherwize you get yelled at for it and you dont like being in the middle and you've said it time and time again and your tired of it-trix

Q: what are some really good ways to change my look for school so the guys will notice me?
Be more gurlie-trix

Q: i've been going to school with the same guys for 10 years now. i don't think any of them like me as a gf. how do i get them to notice me more?
Well do you like them? If you do be more flirty.. maybe you could go out and meet some new people-trix

bio
bAhAmAmA0250
My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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