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FrIeNdS DoNt GeT It
I live in a small neighborhood, huge houses and lots of kids. That is the bad part lots of kids, so i have a bunch of friends, and they are constantly fighting. But i am always stuck in the middle, and then i give advice to 1 friend and the other thinks i'm on there side. It is so confusing and bad. hOW DO I handle this?? And i already tried the whole "its not my fight so don't get me in the middle" it doesn;t work!! i rate **LaUrEn**
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well i would say that you should get them together with u there and just be like listen yall are both really important to me and i am not going to choose sides because that isnt fair to yall or to me...and i wish u the best of luck lauren
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Well when one comes to you say you dont want to hear it you'd love to hear but you cant otherwize you get yelled at for it and you dont like being in the middle and you've said it time and time again and your tired of it-trix
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dont get in it at all..like when they are fighting just dont go over to their houses or call them or anything! find some other friends to hang out with! and get them to work out their own problems! *hope i helped* <3/Dakota
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Just dont give advice to any of them. If they are always fighting maybe some of them need to go off and find a new group of kids to hang out with. Friends shouldnt always be fighting
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just stay out of it....dont talk to ur friends until its settled...joped i helped...
-JoN
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You must understand both sides before arriving at an educated conclusion. Remain impartial by not advising, but helping one grasp the situation of the other. Make sure the one you're talking to knows you understand their side too.
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Just say.. work this out on your own.. i cant get in the middle.. or make them sit down and talk it out
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Just If you know that your friends are in a fight try sitting them down together and making them talk about it...talking things out always works.wellmost of the time!
x0x JamieLynn
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well instead of giving one friend advice try sitting them both down and reminding them of all the fun they've had together. and try to get them to become friends again. and if that doesnt work when they try to bring you in the middle tell them that if they cared about u they wuldnt drag you into it. i hope i helped! xox Emily
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just let them noe its between them tat its not ur problem! or u could just tell them ur on both of their sides.. n b4 a fight starts u should just leave b4 u get stuck in the middle! gud luk xoxo angie
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Get them together and make it clear that you arent going to be stuck in the middle and that your not taking sides! or you should just leave them 2 sort their differences out.. they wont fall out forever! :)
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