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hi. ok so i like this guy, he found out, he doesnt like me as much but he likes me as a friend. since he found it its been a little more awkward like he doesnt flirt AT ALL nemore but i do still a little. he likes his X (she broke up with him) should i give it time or get over it? he doesnt dig me rite now though for sure.

yeah give him some time. maybe he'll realize him and his ex won't work out er something & will take interest in you. i think he pulled away from flirting a bit, because maybe he thought he was flirting too much, causing you to like him. if you ever get the chance, talk to him about it. if you wait & it still doesn't seem to work, move on.

-hope that helped!♥

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Hey well theres this boy Ryan, hes kind of popular and stuff and im not really popular but im friends with some of the people so im kidna of "cool" stupid but whatever.. so some of the popular jocks just are dicks and dont like me, im sure everyone knows what i mean. well Ryans in my spanish class so i left him a comment on his picture on myspace, and he IMed me on aim and said hey thanks for the comment and i said yup no problem. later on he IMed me and didnt say anything he just said I LOVE YOU and i was like who doesntt ( thinkin it was his assholefriend) and he was like yep haha and i was liek this isnt ryan! and he said yeah it is then put an away message on a couple minutes later. he smiled at me during class the next day and i talked to him online that night and we talked then he ahd to go and said bye see you tmra and then he sed "luv yah" so i was like what the hell?.. i talked to him today and i said maybe we can hangout sometime and he saidd


ryans sn: yeah sure i dont care
ryans sn: just calll me
ryans sn: *** *** **** ( his number)

and i said i dont wanna make you if you dont wanna ! and i gave him my number and he was like ok cool are you goin to the football game tomorrow?
then i had to go and i said byee ttyl and he said bye luv ya.. so what do u think? what should i do because i can be shy expecially when i might think they might be mean or a dick cuz theyre like popular.. if hes at the game tmra what should i do? help pleasee thanks

that seems complicated, but he might really like you. try talking to him more in school er something & see what he says. if you see him at the football game & he takes notice to you then go hang out with him. idk about the whole "luv ya" stuff, but you should juss ask him about it next time he says it.

-hope that helped!♥

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hi i am so confused i have a boyfriend named phillip and he is 16. i am 17 and we have known each other before we started dating a while. i am confused b/c every since we go out he has been acting weird. this girl does not like me and i think he is ashamed to be sen with me when she comes around. like we were walking in the hallway holding hands and he drops it out of nowhere when she walks by. i know she dont like me but he cares tgo much of what she thinks. well i talked to him about it and he says he does act like my boyfriend and he isnt ashamed but what should i do? plus it really kills me b/c he gets mad b/c i am going to the movies with one of my friends old one what should i do plz help me

hmm if you can't get him to explain it to you, can you talk to her about it? i mean she might not like you, but what if she likes him & maybe he doesn't wanna hurt her feelings by you guys holding hands? could he like her? you never know. you juss sit down & talk to him about it. if he seems distant er doesn't really say anything, maybe you guys shouldn't be together. i know you really like him, but you deserve to be with someone that isn't ashamed of your relationship with eachother, if that's really the case.

-good luck!♥

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Hey (sorry its kinda long..) but anyway, i hooked up with this guy (lets call him sam )last weekend..and one of his friends (b0b) the night before was telling me to make sure he wasn't using me and to make sure he really liked me before i did anything with him. But the night i hooked up wit this guy he was piss drunk..so idk if he really remebers or whatever..Apparantly he did remember because Sam called me on saturday night, the next night and was like "Bob is going to tell you that i am using you, and i just wanted to let you know i'm not.." and he gave me this whole long reason why bob would say this..and then i was like ok fine and then i started doubting that it was acutally Sam who had called so i texted him yesterday (monday) and asked him if he had called me a few days ago and he siad no..what do you think is going on here??

it seems like bob was trying to act like sam, because sam was denying that he called you. i don't know, that situation seems confusing. do you think bob might like you? i mean, he seems concerned er thinks of you of a really good friend/person which is good. i think i would sit down with sam & tell him how you feel, ask how he feels, etc. try talking to bob too.

-good luck!♥

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13/Female.
I love wearing thongs my mom don't know it though I feel more confortable in a thong then any other kind of underwear my mother don't know I wear thongs and she doesn't understand that that's whats in and no one wants panty lines last year I asked her if I could were thongs and she said no It's so unfair. I want to be able to wear thongs it's not like I'm going to show it to anyone or anything like that. I won't wear them with skirts (ofcoarse I'm not that slutty). How can I ask her again and convince her to let me wear thongs?
I will rate 5's for good answers.
Thanks a bunch!!!!!!!

well maybe since you're 13 she thinks it's too young for you to wear them. juss explain to her that you really aren't comfortable in other underwear, & it doesn't really feel great with your clothes. if she sees it as more of a comfortable issue than anything else er slutty, then maybe she'll let you. you'll have to bring the convo up and maybe she'll change her mind. juss make sure she doesn't see it, as in it sticking out er anything like that, and you should be fine.

-good luck!♥

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a few days ago this girl came up to me and was like "michael doesnt like me" im like okay.. i dont like him either. shes like okay so leave him alone. okay whatever. anyway today she came up to me and was like "your still fuckin with him? im like what the hell i dont know what your talking about.. k well shes a black girl im obviously not being racist. but anyway yeah, shes the kind who will get in fights with people. so i dont wanna get on her bad side. but i didnt do anything! so i dont know what the problem is.. what should i do? should i talk to her? orr..?

yeah juss talk to her next time she comes up to you & explain that you don't know what she's talking about. if she still makes a big deal about it try to ignore her.

good luck!♥

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The guy I like found out that I liked him but he doesnt like me back...in fact, he didnt even know my name until my friend told him! I'm in a couple classes with him so what should I do when im around him? Its so awkward because we don't talk and he looks at me like I'm so weird!

juss try to start coversation with him. random stuff is fine. about class er school er sports anything. once your friendship builds a bit with him, ask him to go places w/ you & your friends. some good places would be the movies, dinner, miniature golfing, bowling, etc.

-hope that helped!♥

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My sister and i are going to see mindless self indulgence, a band, and both of our cars arent that great and the drive will be about 3hrs or so. How will we get there?, My sisters car can do it but shes really worried about her car actually making it there and back.

you can either rent a car er take a bus. grayhound would probably be best.

-hope that helped!&hearts

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my cramps have been so bad all day its horrible i cant focus on my homework. what can i do/take. i dont rlly have ne special stuff like midol. but like advil nd tylonal type of stuff ;).

thank you. i rate. bye

that sucks! ok what you can do is get a heating pad, er juss a wash cloth & put it where it hurts. if not, take a warm bath/shower & it will probably relieve it. running helps also & make sure you lay straight out even if it hurts more. tomorrow will probably be better.

-hope that helped!♥

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alright, so i really like this kid from my church, and he knows i like him and all..but we never talk when i see him, i guess it is cause i dont know what to say , but whenever were in a group and im there he seems to walk away, or maybe it seems it to me?..i really want to at least have a friendship with him..what do i do?


ill rate high for good answers that help!

hmm..maybe he's juss shy. it sounds like he is & you juss need to approach him & talk to him more. become good friends first & work from there. don't tell him you like him right away. wait a bit. try talking in big groups first. maybe you guys can go & hang out places. i think if you guys talked online er on the phone first it would help. juss try a few things out, & if he's still being shy about it, then ask your friends to help you out.

good luck!♥

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my hair got cut short! Chin Length..anyone have any hairstyles to work with

you could do double braids!! they're cute & stay out've your face. maybe two bobby pins, er curling it under. scrunching it would be cute too.

-hope that helped!♥

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what are some ways to rip my jeans so they look good?

oh i'm good at this! haha ok. well i bought these jeans from american eagle & they're realllly cute but idk if you're a guy er a girl, but if you're a girl! thenn i have a great idea, well a guy can work too i guess.

here's a good website-
http://www.teenvogue.com/advice/fashion/050131adfaan/

if you wanna get fancy then if you rip it, try putting a random pattern underneath by sewing it, extremely cute.

-hope that helped!♥

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This is my story.. I was dating this women when things made a turn for the worse. I was between jobs and acted poorly towards her. She had always said that if we broke up she would never talk to me again, yet when she did break things off, she called me within a day or two and we continued to talk for weeks. She told me that If I met someone else to go for it, but she didnt want another boyfriend and that there was little chance of us getting back together. I told her that I only wanted to be with her, and when we stopped talking is when I would move on. So we continued to talk. Well one week I decided not to call her, after that week she calls me late night, and we had a really good talk, that morning she called me just to say hi. Well a day had passed and I had talked to a friend of mine about a women that was drunk in the bar named jes, and how she was hitting on me. The next night I call my ex, and she hangs up on me, about 30min. later I get a voice mail from a guy named jes telling me to stop calling my ex. What are the chances of meeting a girl named jes one night and the next night hearing from a guy named jes. I know my friend said something to someone and it got back to her. after recieving that message a day later my ex's number comes up on my phone I dont answer it. Well come to find out that my so called friend was taking what I would say to her and twisting it around. Well last week her was in town and stopped by my ex's work in order to buy some batteries, another co worker of her' approached her and told her that we were never dating and that I was harrassing her. this was a complete lie. Why would she say that? She had to know that my friend would tell me, so she calls me and asked why I was talking crap about her. I was not of course, she then said to me that I was only making things worse. Making what worse? The following week a get another call from her telling me to stop talking crap or else.. Well I had told her again that I was not and of course she hangs up on me again, The whole time she has been blocking her number when she calls me. Last weekend I told my friend that I was threw with the back and forth and this was all over something that never happened. i know he went back and said something. That night I got a block call from her, and I didnt pick it up, then the next day the same block call, then last night she called three times. The fact that I didnt do anything that she thought I did and she reacted before actually talking to me makes me mad. But what I dont understand is why would she continue to call me if she hates me at this point, regardless whether I said anything about her or not, why call me. I dont know what to do, and cant understand her logic. The worst part is that i was trying to get back together with her, ever since we broke up, until my friend open his mouth and said things that I didnt say. I need some advice on how to handle this situation, I dont know whether to answer the phone or not, I would atleast like her to know that I didnt say those things and I was not talking to another women on the phone while i was still talking to her, but she just wont listen, and advice would help alot???????


breal,29yrs,male

wow! that's so weird about the guy/girl jes thing! i'd be very weirded out. your relationship with her is sort've confusing & she doesn't seem too straight with her feelings. it's difficult to get over people, but like..i think you should try not talking to her anymore. she doesn't hate you though, because if she did she really would stop talking to you. she wouldn't call you. she probably wants you to feel bad about the situation & believes your friend too much. your friend probably told her about jes, the girl at the bar, & maybe she juss got jealous she was hitting on you? you never know. obviously she is going to be stubborn to listen, so the best thing you can do is try new people. yeah, you guys can stay friends, but nothing more. i think you did your part, & if she cares about you she'll do hers. let the ball in her court(if that makes sense) & juss go out and look for new things. =)

good luck!♥

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is it true a girl can only get pregnant one day out of the month?

definately not true. not sure where you heard that, but there's certain days of your cycle that girls can have a better chance of getting pregnant. maybe thats what you mean. if you have any other questions, go to-

www.coolnurse.com

-hope that helped!♥

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wut type of shoes are in rite now? like that i could wear with jeans to school nd stuff. thanks mwa bye.

this might sound weird, but me & a lot of guys/girls at my school wear flip flops w/ jeans & then when its cold we wear sneakers er tennis shoes. some examples would be etnies, lilu's, nike, adidas, er like ballet type shoes, they're not exactly ballet, but theyre sort've like that w/ sequins. i have etnies & theyre really cute! try going to pacsun. it's in malls & stuff. here's the website-

www.pacsun.com

-hope that helped!♥

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does anybody know where a site where i can find malcolm x's civil rights speeches?

i found this 1-

http://www.americanrhetoric.com/speeches/malcolmxballot.htm

if you need more, try typing that into google, yahoo, ask jeeves, etc. er maybe you can find a data base like ebsco er gale.

-hope that helped!♥

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Can anyone tell me the meaning of the lyrics of the song Sugar We're Going Down by Fallout Boy?

i think zack is right. if you saw the music video it's about the guy w/ the antlers, & its about racism & how people are singled out. basically he was different from everyone else & the girl he likes liked him for him & didn't care that he had antlers haha. kinda weird i know, but it's a good song.

-hope that helped!♥

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okay i have some makeup questions!! my hair is brown with some blonde highlighs in it. and i have blue eyes and im somewhat tan... what sort of makeup should i wear to make my eyes stand out more, and with out looking raccoonish? also i use covergirl base makeup, but it seems liek within 2 hours of school it slides off of my face.. what are some ways to make it stay put?? i dont have anymoney to invest in more makup, so anything at home that i can use... thanks for your help! will rate five for good answres

links appreciated!! thanks!!

you should use eyeliner! not like loads of eyeliner & don't use mascara, its weird & gross. personally, i don't think it looks good. you can get good eyeliner at places like cvs, eckard, walmart, grocery stores, etc. try to juss use eyeliner on the bottom & not the top, it looks better.

http://www.free-beauty-tips.com/eyeapp.html

you can probably find eyeliner at home.

try looking for some gold eyeshadow, lightly. since you're tan & you have highlights it'd look cute.

-hope that helped!♥

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okay well this guy and me have been "together" fo about 4 months... hes never really offically asked me out, but i guess you could say were dating. im a really jealous person and i was looking at his myspace, and he added 12 new people (all girls, and all very pretty) he said he doesnt talk to them, and that i look better than them, but im still very jealous... should i be mad/jealous about this?? and also... since he hasnt asked me out (officially), do you think theres a chance he might ask me to homecoming? hes not talked/been with any other girl except for me, since june, so is there a chance he might ask me? also, what are soem hints i could give him to let him know that i want to go with him? thanks a buncH!!

haha myspace is a tricky one! i know how you can get curious but i don't think there's anything to worry about. as long as you trust him it's fine. juss ask him what he thinks about homecoming & if he seems excited about it, you can ask him to go with you. no problem in that since you guys are practically dating.

-hope that helped!♥

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what are some ways that you can hint to a guy that you want him to ask you out??

me and this guy have been together (dating i guess you could say) for about 4 months.. but i want the boyfriend/girlfriend title... ive tried (on more than one occasion) to let him know this... but he had a rough relationship before and i dunno if thats keeping him from asking, or if he just doesnt have the guts too do it?? pleas just give me ideas on what to say to him (other than "have you ever thought about us?" be ive already asked and yea!) please help though!! will rate high for reasonable answers!!

most guys don't really like when girls 'hint' because its kind've avoiding the point. maybe you can juss sit down & talk to him about how you feel. if not, then juss ask him to hang out a lot, be friendly, call him, IM him, w/e you gotta do. don't obsess over him, but like..juss show that you're interested.

good luck!♥

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