Question Posted Thursday September 15 2005, 5:20 pm
Hey well theres this boy Ryan, hes kind of popular and stuff and im not really popular but im friends with some of the people so im kidna of "cool" stupid but whatever.. so some of the popular jocks just are dicks and dont like me, im sure everyone knows what i mean. well Ryans in my spanish class so i left him a comment on his picture on myspace, and he IMed me on aim and said hey thanks for the comment and i said yup no problem. later on he IMed me and didnt say anything he just said I LOVE YOU and i was like who doesntt ( thinkin it was his assholefriend) and he was like yep haha and i was liek this isnt ryan! and he said yeah it is then put an away message on a couple minutes later. he smiled at me during class the next day and i talked to him online that night and we talked then he ahd to go and said bye see you tmra and then he sed "luv yah" so i was like what the hell?.. i talked to him today and i said maybe we can hangout sometime and he saidd
ryans sn: yeah sure i dont care
ryans sn: just calll me
ryans sn: *** *** **** ( his number)
and i said i dont wanna make you if you dont wanna ! and i gave him my number and he was like ok cool are you goin to the football game tomorrow?
then i had to go and i said byee ttyl and he said bye luv ya.. so what do u think? what should i do because i can be shy expecially when i might think they might be mean or a dick cuz theyre like popular.. if hes at the game tmra what should i do? help pleasee thanks <333
15/f
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? TheTeenGirl answered Thursday September 15 2005, 9:03 pm: I know what you mean when you hesistate to make a move or hang out with a popular guy, because he might just use you and reject you. But, about this guy, don't really make a move, if he wants to hang out, then you should hang out with him and find out more about him. Kind of develop a friendship, or a closeness so that you can decide if he sounds decent for you. But, it does sound like he really likes you. Being shy is normal, it happens, but just try to hang out and talk to him more, and you'll get a feel if hes better than you thought.
passionx0x answered Thursday September 15 2005, 7:07 pm: If you see him at the game just you know smile and walk over an talk too him and stuff. Try not too be shy, even though it might be hard. Maybe bring a friend with you that's a little more outgoing so she/he can help you out if you get tongue=tied or your not sure of what too say. I think that he probabaly wants to get too know you and saying "I love you" well, alot of people say it as a friendly way, so don't get your hopes up but don't let that crush your confidence, for all I know, he could be totally in too you. Just find out what he likes too do, what kinda music he's into, all that happy stuff, and maybe you can ask him too chill sometime outside of a game or school. Don't let popularity scare you or intimidate you because I don't think their really is such thing as being "popular", but that's besides the point. so just try too be confident, and too be yourself.
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HectorJr answered Thursday September 15 2005, 6:12 pm: Firstly, don't jump to any conclusions. This could all mean several things. One of them might be that he just wants to get to know you and that saying 'I love you' is just his way of saying: hey I like you and think you're cool. Ya know what I mean? It could also be that he really has been thinking about you and does love you. His way of saying something might not be what he wants you to think.
I say hang out with him once in a while, talk to him some more, just get to know him. He might be the type who would say that seriously or just say it out of habit with no real meaning attached. Don't expect much, or expect the worst either. So get to know him, how he thinks, all that. Hopefully its more than just his way of saying things and everything does go well. If not, thats ok, having him as a friend is still good. Hope that helped and good luck. [ HectorJr's advice column | Ask HectorJr A Question ]
Dakmor answered Thursday September 15 2005, 6:08 pm: Well, if he weren't popular, I'd say that he genuinely liked you. Of course, he is popular, and everyone knows that popular guys are dickheads to everyone except other popular people. Although I suppose you did say that you are popular... yeah, I think he likes you! If he smiled at you, that's a good sign. Besides, who could argue? His name's Ryan! They use that name on soaps! =D Just kidding, the name don't make a difference. But still. He likes you. Definitely. Hope I helped, good luck, donate to Hurricane Katrina victims, no nukes can save the whales, etc etc etc, this is Dakmor, signing out! [ Dakmor's advice column | Ask Dakmor A Question ]
xomegaroni answered Thursday September 15 2005, 6:07 pm: that seems complicated, but he might really like you. try talking to him more in school er something & see what he says. if you see him at the football game & he takes notice to you then go hang out with him. idk about the whole "luv ya" stuff, but you should juss ask him about it next time he says it.
shake answered Thursday September 15 2005, 6:06 pm: You must have missed the whole obvious stuff he's tellin ya. Since you dont have the proper IQ to decode this conundrum, I'll do it for you.
I love you means one thing. Come on..think you almost got it I'm sure of this? Here..let me wipe that drool for you...
Oh yay! You got it! "I love you" means "I love you"
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