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14/f. i hang out with guys alot and now girls think im a slut. does that seem slutty to hangout with mostly guy? im just friends with them, and i still hang out with girls too. this is really bothering mee. (link)
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No, absolutely not. I myself, have many guy friends, but that doesn't make me a slut. In order for you to be a slut, you would have to be having sex with them. Since you are not, you don't have anything to feel guilty about.
These girls are obviously not your friends, so I would just ignore them. As my wise friend always tell me "Kill evil with kindness."
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okay i have some lyrics but i forget what song it is!!!
i wonder why nobody's waiting on you
i'd like to be the one to pull you through
your darkest times.i'd love to be the
light that finds you.i see a silver
lining on your cloud.i'll pick you up
whenever you fall down
just take my hand & i'll help you stand (link)
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This song is called "Count on Me" by Default.
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i like coloring my hair but i cant permanetly dye my hair because my mom said i cant but i want to REALLY BAD!! so i was thinking she would probaly let me dye it if it came out. like after a certain amount of time or washes. i think they have stuff like that but i dont know where i would get them, would they be at someplace like walmart? ive colored my hair but with things that come out after one wash. i want something that will last a little bit longer but not really long. but ive never seen anything that will wash out unless its like after the 1st time you wash it. where could i get hair dye like what i want? (link)
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I think what you're talking about is a semi-permanent or temporary dye. There are many of these, that can be found at Walmart that will wash out within 8-12 shampoos.
Herbal Essences Color Flirt
http://clairol.com/colorflirt/usa/index.jsp
Loreal Paris Color Pulse
http://www.lorealparisusa.com/haircolor/colorpulse/index.asp
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14/f - straight
well..i had this boyfriend a really long time ago that i was like in love with
and then we kinda broke up because we both had issues with other stuff ((family..school))
but i still like love him and he's got a new girlfriend that i guess he loves
i want to date other guys
but i guess im intimidating or whatever ((ive been told a couple different things))
Other guys like me..i know..they've told me a lot.
But i feel bad because i dont like them
and i cant date someone i dont like.
i just need help with some issues i guess =/
sorry this is so long.. (link)
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It doesn't sound like you're over this guy, and you cannot move on with another guy if you're still hooked on someone else. Because it will always come back to you, and it wouldn't be fair to the other person. The only thing I'm concerned about, is that this guy now has a girlfriend. You do not want to step on any toes, so you may want to leave this alone. Unless, you feel that you should tell him how you feel.
If you don't want to tell him how you feel right now, then I suggest (not dating someone or anything like that) talking to different guys. Just talk to them and get to know them, and you may find yourself falling for one of those guys. Just make sure not to throw yourself into something you're not ready for.
Good luck!!! Don't worry, I'm sure everything will work out!
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I like this guy from another school. I see him like once a month and I don't know if I should call him. I know that he likes me but would he think I was wierd if I called him? (link)
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I don't think you have anything to lose, and if he does like you, I'm sure he'll be happy to hear from you. If you think you'll feel awkward or the conversation may get awkward, I suggest keeping the convo casual.
Good luck! I'm sure everything will work out great!
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hey okay im 5'3. and 113 lbs. i wanted to lose weight, or takesome flab off my stomach. what are good songs todance or do crunches to?? Thanks! (link)
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I think these are the best songs to workout to, no matter if you're doing crunches or sit-ups, etc.
"Sexyback" by Justin Timberlake
"Fergalicious" by Fergie
"So Excited" by Janet Jackson
"Our Revolution" by Halifax
"Promicious" by Nelly Furtado
"He Said, She Said" by Ashley Tisdale
"Buttons" by PCD (Pussycat Dolls)
"Dirty Little Secret" All American Rejects
"It's Not Me" by 3 Doors Down
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whats the name of the song that goes something like....."i smell sex in.....(dont know these parts)....hainging around down town...(something)
and i had to much caffene(to drink?)........(somethig)and there she was...like disco(something).....i smell sex in...PLESE HELP! (link)
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This song is called "Sex and Candy" by Marcy Playground.
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i need help keeping my self-esteem up cuz im not really good at anything although im into alot of hobbies. i cry for no reason and no one will ever love me. I need hope and help. (link)
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Listen, I can promise you this -- that not only will someone love you, that lots of people already do love you. Your family, your friends love you for who you are, I'm sure, that's what they are there for. I know I do not know you, but I bet you're a really nice, caring and thoughtful person. If you have a lot of hobbies, that's great, and those are things that you're good at it or that you're learning and will soon become good at.
I want to recommend a good book, that I think would really help you. Of course, it is completely up to you if you choose to read it or not. "Teen Fit for Girls: Your Complete Guide to Fun, Fitness and Self-Esteem" by Embleton, Phil
The self-esteem part of this book, is very helpful, among the rest of the book also.
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Is it possible to get pregnant when giving someone a blow job. i know you can get stds, but about pregnancy?
I'm not saying that I give them to people. I'm just curious. (link)
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No, there is no possible way that you can get pregant from this, because you must have sexual intercourse to get pregnant. But yes, you are at risk for sexually transmitted diseases.
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how do I know if the poem I wrote is really a poem? I think it's pretty good, but it's more of a short, flowy sounding, deep story. It doesn't rhyme or anything and i'm wondering if I should consider it a poem or a story? (link)
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Well, this varies because they are many different types of poetry. So there really is not one simple definition. Here are some sites on poetry, and will tell you all the type of poems to identify what type you are writing, etc.
http://www.shadowpoetry.com/resources/wip/types.html
http://english.unitecnology.ac.nz/resources/units/poetry/poetry.html
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my mom basically freaked out when she found out from my bf's mom that i gave him a hickey.. but it was like awhile back but she just found out tonight. she was all like thats innappropriate and i wouldnt have expected that from you! maybe not but this is like my first serious relationship. so i was like you and his mom and everyone else did it too while yall were growin up and she got pissed. i know she is lookin out for me and doesnt want me to screw up my life over some guy but i mean me and him are both virgins and havent gone past like fingerin/handjobs [im sure she'd kill me if she knew that!!] with each other nor with anyone else and weve been together 5-6 months. i mean im not some wild child and im not gonna screw up my life like that and ive talked to her about that numerous times but i mean is a hickey really that big of a deal??
16/f. (link)
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Personally, in my opinion, no, I do not think a hickey is that big of a deal. It could be much worse, which I'm sure is what your mother's main concern is. If you've talked to her about this, then you did make one step towards letting him know that you're not going to do anything, that you may regret later on. But, as a mother and a parent in general, they do tend to worry about their kids. Even if they are over-obsessing over something that isn't much of a problem to is, but it is to them.
I think talking to her is about the only thing you can do, and you have already done this, so I would not mention it again. Unless you feel you should try to talk to her about this again.
Good luck, and don't worry, I'm sure everything will be just fine. She's just a parent and concerned, and I'm sure she'll get over it soon.
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what are the ingredients for making hamburgers?
Im 13/f want to cook my first meal for my dad (link)
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Here's lots of info on making hamburger -- from basic to advanced.
http://startcooking.com/blog/90/
http://bbq.about.com/od/hamburgers/Hamburgers_Recipes_and_Cooking_Information.htm
http://bakingsheet.blogspot.com/2006/08/how-to-make-great-hamburger.html
http://www.taunton.com/finecooking/pages/c00238.asp
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i really want uggs for christmas but they are sold out EVERYWHERE
neimens
nordstrom
saks
lord and taylor
and uggs.com
if any of you know a site that sells them BESIDES ebay please help!!!!!!!
im looking mostly for talls in chestnut size 9 or shorts in brown size 9 THANK YOU (link)
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Here you go -- http://www.uggaustralia.com/WomenLandingPage.aspx?gID=w
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hey i was thinking of going christmas shopping tomorroww and i was thinking of buying a perfume for my self =] Do you have perfume ideas that would attract guyss =] and would make me smell good?? THANK YOU! (link)
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Victoria's Secret Very Sexy, So...? Kiss Me, Gucci Envy Me, Red Delicious by DKNY, are all very good perfumes.
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Hey its etnies40210 I wanted to know how would i become a level two moderator on Advicenators? Would i have to be on like 24/7 and get a strait 5 or is it just being a level one for a long time? In advance, thanks for the answere
Nathan (link)
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Hello, this is the FAQ for all info on moderators. Everything you need to know, you will find here.
http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?t=13
Tip: For anything else you need/want to know about Advicenators, you can always look to the Frequently Asked Questions to help you out.
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Okay, so I usually straighten my hair and it comes out really good and straight... but how do I make it like really smooth and silky?
What are some of the best products for that?
Thanks for any help
:D (link)
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I would definitely recommend John Frieda Frizz Ease Straight Answer Straightening Spray. This will make your hair smooth, silky, and frizz-free.
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I think my myspace has getten deleted.. i dont know though
www.myspace.com/moshele6
can you look and see if you think it is deleted?
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Well, it hasn't gotten deleted because I checked in the search, and your page does come up. So that means, it cannot be deleted, but there definitely is a problem. I would email myspace, and explain to them your problem and I'm sure they'll be able to help you.
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im a girl and i sorta have a moustache.
should i pluck it?
do u girls pluck it? (link)
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I wouldn't pluck it, being as it will take you awhile and that would be painful. Waxing is a good choice, but if it isn't that obvious I wouldn't worry about it, or I would bleach it. To where it would match your skintone, and then it wouldn't be noticeable.
Tip & Beauty Commandment: "Never raise a razor to your face!" Allure Magazine 10 Beauty Commandments.
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What are some movies that have recently come out or are comming out soon, i want some for christmas. Any type is good. (link)
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Some movies that I think are good, or that are definitely worth watching are Devil Wears Prada, Talladega Nights, Pirates of the Caribbean: Dead Man's Chest, and John Tucker Must Die.
Here are some sites (even if you do not shop at these places) that have new releases, so you can get some ideas from them:
http://www.walmart.com/catalog/catalog.gsp?cat=45407&fromPageCatId=530722&catNavId=530722
http://www.samgoody.com/Movies/NewReleases.aspx
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There are these red blemishes and acne on the back of my arms. I dont know what they are, but how do I get rid of them? I tried lotion and washing, but it doesnt seem to go away. Help!
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I'm almost positive this is acne. I recommend using Neutrogena Body Wash for Acne(they have a body scrub also, whichever one you prefer, but I do not recommend using them both) everyday. This should help you get rid of it, if this is acne. Just always make sure to use it everyday, otherwise it will not work as quickly, or more importantly -- affectively.
Note: Don't worry, if this does not work in one, two or even three weeks. Although, you should see some change. This may take a while, as many acne/blemish products do, unfortunately.
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