about

My name is Laura and I'm 28 years old. I live in Illinois and work as a licensed veterinary technician. I am a runner, bookworm and obviously, an animal lover.


I've been on this site since '05. I take hiatuses, but I'm never gone for good. I enjoy giving advice and I've made such lovely friends on this site that I couldn't imagine giving it up!

chat it up yo.


ps. here's my bestestestest friend.
I love him. You will too :)

advice

does anyone know the code to hide the grey box at the bottom of your page on myspace? I don't want to hide the copyright becasue it could get my profile deleted, all I need is the grey box to be white :]
thanks.

Put this in "Who I'd Like to Meet":
tr {background:transparent;}body table div font a, body table div div {display:none;}body table table div font a, body table table div div {display:none;}

-Laura. (15-f)

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Where can I get shoes like this?

http://i16.tinypic.com/5ylryhz.jpg

THANKS!

Try American Eagle/Hollister.
If they don't have them, though I'm pretty sure they do, try Charlotte Russe and Wet Seal.

-Laura. (15-f)

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i love bands like. family force 5. rediscover. and panic! at the disco.
can someone please name some more bands like that?

Hi =] I think you'll like:

Cobra Starhsip.
The Medic Droid.
Peaches.
Love Me Electric.
Paramore.
Shiny Toy Guns.
The Postal Service.
Run Kid Run.
Young Love.
Playradioplay!
Audiofly.
Bloc Party.
Freezepop.

-Laura. (15-f)

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So I had to get new windows about a month ago so bye bye music. Luckily all my music is still on my iPod so I just listen to the music from that when on the computer. I need to now restore my iPod which will wipe the music. So I just wanted to know is there anyway to get music from your iPod onto iTunes? I tried copying and pasting and dragging the songs into my library but it doesn't work x.x

Thank you for your time (:

Music Rescue.
Download it (for free) off of the internet, plug in your iPod and hit transfer.
Evrything on your iPod goes into iTunes on the computer you're using.

-Laura. (15-f)

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Sorry this is long but..OK to start out I'm 15/f.
It started when I was 12 and in 6th grade. There was this guy named Jack and we both liked each other, but neither of us admitted it to the other...then he told me that he was going to move to another country (permanently, not just vacation). When he was there, we would sometimes talk on AIM. He admitted that he liked me, and I did the same. But eventually we lost contact because of the time differences. Well then at the end of that year, for the last quarter of school, he came back. Apparently his school in China was awful. By that time, I had a boyfriend. Jack kind of layed off talking to me at that time, because I think he didn't want to cause trouble. But I dumped my boyfriend before the school year was over, and when Jack found this out he started flirting with me again. But then he went back to China. Then the summer after 7th grade, he randomly called me and told me that he was in town and that we should play tennis. So we played out and then he asked me to a movie. (Last year I was in 8th grade by the way). So then this summer (after 8th grade), I emailed him and asked if he was going to be in town and if he wanted to play tennis. He responded and we played tennis/went swimming. It was awesome, and perfect and we really clicked. Then he called me a few days later to see if I wanted to see a movie with him...we saw a movie but nothing happened. He didn't hold my hand or anything but it almost seemed like he was trying to but couldn't get the courage to or something. Anyway, he's leaving tomorrow (I saw him last night), and I really want to have a relationship with him. He's going to be in the country this coming school year, he's going to a boarding school in the east coast. But I feel awkward initiating it, and there are so many potential problems that could happen if I admitted I liked him. 1) He could say he doesn't feel the same way (I'm pretty sure he likes me, because he was acting so charming and amazing). 2) He could say he doesn't want to have a relationship, and if that happened, if I ever saw him again it would be really awkward. 3)He could say he does like me, but then find a girl in boarding school that he likes better and break up with me. I can't get him off of my mind though. When I knew it was the last time we'd be seeing each other for a while, I just started crying. What should I do? Should I hint at liking him through email or something? The longer answer the better, thank you soo much!

Thanks for asking to my inbox!
I must say, you're in a tough situation. I'll try my best to make it better though =]
Before hinting it to him, I'd ask him if he's found any girls at his boarding school. Ask if he's single, interested in a relationship, etc.
Then, find out what his true feelings for you are. Ask him if he ever thought of having more than a friendship with you. Just casually say, "You know, I think you're a really great guy and I enjoy spending time with you. Have you ever considered taking our relationship to the next level?" See how he responds to this, but don't pressure him into answering right away or in detail or anything. Let him answer when and how he wants, so he feels completely comfortable with his response. If he says yes, then great, try and have a relationship with him. It might be hard because of the distance, but as long as you have good communication and a lot of trust (which you seem like you already do), then it definitely could work. Like I said, just keep open a good line of communication, and make sure you've built up trust for one another.
If he says no, or that he justs wants to be friends, tell him that's ok, too. Don't make it awkward and ask him why, he probably just dosen't want a relationship because:
A. the distance.
B. he's afraid he'll find somebody else.
C. he just sees you as a close friend, which is fine.
As much as it may hurt, it's better to have a friendship than not have a relationship at all.
So in conclusion, let him know you're interetsed. He might be interested too, and there's nothing worse than letting a chance like this slip right past you unnoticed!
I hope everything works out well for the both of you! =]

-Laura. (15-f)

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What are your favorite songs from It Won't Be Soon Before Long by Maroon 5? I want to buy something good and a song that is liked a lot. My favorite two songs I like any only have from there second album is Makes Me Wonder (Everyone was going crazy about that song) and Won't Go Home Without You (Someone said it was good and thank god I listend to them!
THANKS

P.S. If your not a fan, please don't waste my time and give me a bunch of B.S. that you don't like this band.

My favorite band, ever, no doubt about it! =D
I like the entire album, but if I had to choose:
- Can't Stop.
- Wake Up Call.
- Nothing Lasts Forever.
- Little of Your Time.

Those are my top 4! But again, the entire album is qorth buying. You won't regret it =]

-Laura. (15-f)

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What are some things too eat before running so you don't get craps. I eat toast, but i still get craps. I just need some ideas. And breathing techniques.thanks!

You shouldn't eat before you run. But if you do, I heard once that fruits are good, because they give you energy for your run. You can also drink water before and during your run, though. And I, like the person below me, breathe in my nose and out my mouth. I also breathe slowely, and not too fast so that I don't get out of breath as quick.
Good Luck!

-Laura. (15-f)

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I need to get a lot of clothes in the next month, by the time I start school. Where can I get nice clothes that aren't too expensive, so I can get more of them?

Thank you!

Charlotte Rusee and Rave have really cute clothes and they aren't too expensive. Or, Kohl's/Target.
Also, I don't know if every mall has this, but Steve & Barry's. They have a line by Sarah Jessica Parker with some real cute stuff =]

-Laura. (15-f)

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i don't really care much about it.. but is there any way to make your handwriting neater? my handwriting is absolutely atrocious! i can't really draw either, if that makes any sort of connection haha. but my hand gets tired and sore pretty fast whenever i write alot.. so it gets sloppy. is there any way to practice having nice handwriting? sorry that this question was silly, if you don't like it, don't answer it =P thanks in advance thoughhh ♥ btw, i'm gonna be a jr in hs, so i'm 16 :) kthxbye!

I'm the same way! I'm 15 and my handwriting could most likely pass for that of a 6 year old.
But of course you can improve it, with practice. Have you ever seen those books where you trace letters and stuff? They're at msot bookstores in the little kids section, and I know they'd help you improve. Also, write instead of type whenever possible.
Or have you tried writing in cursive? I've found my cursive handwriting is much neater than my printing. Try that and see if it's the same way for you.
Good Luck! =]

-Laura. (15-f-sloppy handwriter)

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I'm trying to come up with as many creative reasons I love my girlfriend and I need ideas please. I'm trying to come up with 365 reasons I love her. Our 2 year anniversary is coming up and I thought that I'd make a cute little book with 365 reasons why I love her. I know this is something personal and I obviously know why I love her, but I just thought some cute creative ideas from someone else would be nice too. But please help me out and share your stories. Please be creative in your answers and give it some thought. I'm already to 240, so I only need about 125 more to go. Haha.

ps.
i'm a girl, and im 16
if that helps anyyy

pleasee & thankyou (:

First off, I think this is one of the cutest ideas I've ever heard for an anniversary gift.
If someone did this for me, I'd swoon, like, forever. Kudos to you my friend =]
As far as reasons go,
- She's beautiful.
- The way she smells.
- She means the world to you.
- You love holding her hand.
- She never gave up on you.
- She makes you laugh when you don't ever want to smile.
- Her confidence.
- The little things she does for you.
- She's smart.
- You love her hugs.
- She's patient with you.
- You can be yourself around her.
- The way she can always make you feel comfortable & safe.
- You can tell her anything.
- The cute things she says.
- The way you two are similar.
- How you just get along with one another really well.
- Her laugh.
- Her sense of humor.
- She brings out the best in you.
- She's all around, the only one for you.

Use memories, too. Like "The way you acted on our first date" or something.

Wow, I came up with a lot more than I expected. I'm proud of myself. ha. Good Luck! =]

-Laura. (15-f)

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i just need a vote. which do you think is more popular, or do you like more?


straight or curly


thankss :D

Straight is more popular, at least where I'm from, but I think curly looks cuter.
Though, both are fine I suppose.

-Laura. (15-f)

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i like that song bat country, but dont know any other songs by avenged sevenfold, and i want more to download. so if you have a favorite, or best songs by them please tell =b

I don't know many, but here are ones I've heard, and I liked:
- Seize the day.
- The Wicked End.
- Burn it Down.

Sorry I don't have that many, but they aren't totally my preference as far as music.

-Laura. (15-f)

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Okaii.
So i want to have a picture as my display picture but it is 19KB 324 x 244 but how do you reduce the KB to 15KB? or what ever it is.

Any suggestions are welcome.

Thanks in advance =]

If you're talking about this site, upload the picture to tinypic.com and copy&paste the url into "url of picture of you" or whatever it says.
If you need this for another website, inbox me and I'll help you out.

-Laura. (15-f)

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OK so there is this kid in my class that i like and everybody knows about it but now that summer vacation is here I dont really like him anymore.
when school starts I am scared i might like him again.

I still don't see a question, but I'm clearer as to what I think it would be.
If you're worried you might like him again, there's really not much I can do to stop you. You just have to let your feelings run their course. Why not try finding another guy to distract you from this one? Or take up a new after school activity, so you can meet new people.
Or, I know this is terrible, but don't talk to him as much. I mean, don't totally blow the kid off, but just don't let him lirt with you/don't flirt with him. Just sometimes casually talk to him, and not about a relationship.
I also don't appreciate the one rating you gave me. If you can, please change it, because it hurts my overall and I honestly didn't see a question the first time. good Luck! =]

-Laura. (15-f)

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think of your DREAM house.
and tell me something about it.
something special.
dont tell me "it has a living room"
tell me something different about it.
like how the hall, is a hall of mirrors.
or how the fifth floor is a paintball range or something.
or even somthing about the outside.
how all the windows are shaped like bongs.
or your secret garden right before the bar on the beach.
:)
things like that.
thankk yoouuu

It has a wrap around porch, a pond in the back, and apple trees. That's it. I don't have many standards. haha. Oh, and of course a husband I love ;]

-Laura. (15-f)

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if someone could seriously get me the code for the little tm i will rate high.I've looked everywhere and just no luck.

& trade ;
no spaces though.

-Laura. (15-f)

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okay well i need 3 CHEAP [we're talking $10-20 bucks here, 20 being the most] pairs of jeans for school. don't say walmart or target, & i already checked at tj maxx & marshalls. where is a good store i can get jeans from? i'm 13/f and a size 0 juniors or 14 kids if that helps. thankss :]

Do you know of a store called "Steve & Barry's"? They used to mostly sell hoodies and sportswear, but Sarah Jessica Parker did a line for them and I noticed the jeans were only like 14 dollars when I was in the mall the other day.
Try there, or Wet Seal.
Good Luck!

-Laura. (15-f)

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15/f. i'm going to be a sophmore this year which means i'll be going into high school this year.

i'm really excited for high school but the only thing i'm concerned about is that we have to take a swimming course during PE. and they make you swim laps, tread water for like 10 minutes, and do syncronized (sp?) swimming.

my problem is that i definitely CANNOT tread water for 10 minutes. i can do 1 minute and MAYBE 2 minutes.

what do i do? i don't have a pool so i can't practice anywhere. so what are some excuses to get out of swimming and if you don't know any, then what are some special techniques so i can tread for a longer period of time.

Ugh. Swimming sucks. We have that at our school. Trust me, I'm just like you. I can't even hold my breath for one minute and I'm terrified of water. I'd suggest either:

- Telling your teacher you are honestly scared and can't do it. I told my teacher I couldn't and he gave me a little floaty. I'm not even kidding. I felt like a loser, but I didn't care. I ended up passing that portion of swimming.
- Having your mom/parent write a note excusing you from that particular activity. Have them explain that you're not much of a swimmer and would rather not participate in that activity.
- Tell your teacher you have your period. Half the girls in my class did this, and the teachers can't make you swim if you have it. It's an auotmatic reason to do alternate activites/sit out.
- Ask if you can do an alternte activity to make up for the treading water part. For us, we had to ride an excerise bike and keep our heart rates above 115 or something. I'm sure you can work something out.

Now that I sound like a total whimp for admitting my floaty story, lol, I wouldn't stress about it too much. I'm sure you'll be fine!

Or you can go over to a friend's house or community pool and practice holding your breath if you want to conquer your fear and do it. =]
I hope this helps && good luck!

-Laura. (15-f-not swimmer) ;]

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I'm going to be a junior this year, and i'm taking Algebra 2. My question is what kind of calculator will I need for this course? A scientific or a graphing?

I'm taking Algebra 2 this year, too. Our school told us we need a scientific calculator. Not graphing. Good Luck!

-Laura. (15-f)

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So my cousins wedding is on august 18th and well i have NO clue what to wear. I know WHERE i can find dresses but i dont know what kind would be fancy enough for a wedding. Can you guys find me a dress online that i can buy at the mall that would look good for a wedding? please and thanks

You don't need prom dress fancy, but it needs to be more than wear to school casual. Know what I mean?
Try these:
http://wetseal.com/productdetail.asp?mi=1300&size=&style=38323263&color=78&token=

http://wetseal.com/productdetail.asp?mi=1300&size=&style=37998554&color=100&token=

http://wetseal.com/productdetail.asp?mi=1300&size=&style=38076497&color=760&token=


-Laura. (15-f)

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