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well i know you have to have an ID to get into clubs and buy drinks and everything, but is it a special ID or is it just your drivers license?

Where I live (UK), it's any form of photo identification which has your date of birth. A drivers license is fine. As is a passport etc.

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ive had my period for id say 5 days maybe and it seemed to start to stop yesterday morning then later that night and today it wasnt clotting like normal it was just like if you cut yourself is that okay?

Periods can vary. All seems normal to me, so don't panic.

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But the guy i want to do it with is 10 years older than me what should i do

If in doubt, don't put out.

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okay i have a boyfriend and i like him and he REALLY likes me, but my problem is that I like this other boy. And I really dont want to break up with my boyfriend for the guy i like. so what could i do ? and this boy likes me to . but could me and this boy be friends with benifits or what? I have tryed to stop likeing the boy so i can concentrate on my boyfriend. so please i really need help . and thank you all who help me!!

Don't even think about cheating. How disrespectful can you be?
It's simple - stop talking to this boy - and your temptations will disappear.
If you can't commit to your boyfriend, you don't deserve him.
Think about the consequences.
I do hope things work out for you. I'm just letting you know friends with benefits is a bad, bad idea.

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Does anyone know a code on a website that can help me take out that info box[it says, your status,hometown,relgious beliefs er watever!]on my page because i can't stnad seeing it anymore!..lol

http://www.mygen.co.uk/index.php?page=generators§ion=hidestuff

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14/f
hi whats that sticky stuff in my under wear when i wake up? its like clear kinda white sometimes. thanks lol :)

It's discharge. and it's totally normal.

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Why do young girls come on here to ask about sex when they can't even spell right? I find this to be a very sad look at young girls in american society today. Do you agree?

Personally, I find it ridiculous. and they don't know what they're letting themselves in for. Lets face it - what young teen knows about all the risks? Hardly any, that's for sure.. not to mention not being ready emotionally etc.
It happens everywhere and there's not a lot anyone can do to stop it but praise the people that wait. I admire that alot.

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i lost my virginity a couple of days ago, and the lad i did it with didnt use a condom, im worried i might be pregnant but i cant wait till i miss a period because i miss my periods alot, what are the other signs of pregancy?

Your best bet is to give it 2 weeks and get a pregnancy test.
Trying to spot signs this early on is a bit silly but here they are anyway;


10. Tender, swollen breasts
9. Fatigue
8. Implantation bleeding
7. Nausea or vomiting
6. Increased sensitivity to odors
5. Abdominal bloating
4. Frequent urination
3. A missed period
2. Your basal body temperature stays high
1. The proof: A positive home pregnancy test


Remember protection for the future!

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13/F

so me and my bf just broke up. Because his mom cought us makeing out and his mom hates me now. And he told me he still wnated 2 be friends and that we would date when he gets everything sorted out with his parents. And now i don't know what happend and all the sudden he won't text me or talk 2 me.

WHAT SHOULD I DO!?!?

Leave him for the time being.
You don't want to get him in any more trouble.
I'm sure if he wants to contact you, he will.
Just give him a bit of time to work things out, as he said.
I hope things work out for you.

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If a guy friend of yours looks at you all the time when your around the place hese in and he just looks at you alot of time and your friends even notice it..
does it mean he likes you?
ya, i kno stupid question
dnt matter
thanks

Well, it's one of the signs :)
You know what a sure way to know is?
Ask him!

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is there tracker on myspace to see whos looked at your profile?? i rate high

No. It's not allowed on Myspace.
Some like Trackzor used to work.. but Tom doesn't allow it. and they fill your computer with junk, so don't bother.

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so this may be an immature question but when a guy fingers a girl does he go all the way into the vagina or just around the outside?

Both.
Or whatever YOU want. :)

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If someone fingers you are you still a virgin?

Yes. A penis hasn't penetrated you.

Although, some people think once your hymen has broke, you are no longer a virgin. Which is ridiculous because hymens can break through sporting activities and the likes.
It's all down to personal opinion. Some people think after oral sex they are no longer a virgin. It's mainly through vaginal sex you are only not considered a virgin though.

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My best mate is leaving on saturday to live in cyprus. I want to get her a present but i'm not sure of what to get her.

Any ideas ?

The thing most people do in situations like this is make a scrap book. Have it involve all your best times, photos, short stories, friendship quotes etc. It's comes from the heart and it's sentimental, which is nice.
As for a gift, it's a bit wide for anyone here to suggest things because we don't know what your friend likes.
How about a friendship bracelet. Get something both of you can have, so it will remind you of each other.

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Can you cry underwater?

Yes.

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How's come people tell you to stay a kid for as long as you can. Yet the moment you do anything childish or immature they tell you to grow up.

Why are you asking all these rather odd questions..

When you're an adult and you do something immature, you should know better.
Being told to stay a kid for as long as you can is a figure of speech. Obviously you can't really do that. Probably just means enjoy it while it lasts, as things get a lot harder after.

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Why is it that no matter what color bubble bath you use the bubbles are always white?

"Bubbles are clear and act as a prism, separating the light and producing a rainbow."

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Why doesn't glue stick to the inside of the bottle?

"Glue is made up of a substance that sticks to things and a solvent that keeps it liquid until you want it to stick. When you put glue on a piece of paper, the solvent gradually evaporates until the glue becomes sticky. When the glue is in a bottle, there is a space inside the bottle above the liquid that is full of air. So why doesn't the glue dry out? Well there's a limit to the amount of solvent that can evaporate to fill the space in the bottle. Once the space is full of solvent gas, no more solvent evaporates from the glue and the glue stays runny."

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ummm k so yestaday i qot high widd this kid and then we hooked up and shit and he was fingerrin me but i was reallly high i think he might have put his dick in me but like it ddint hurt or nuttin and it was for like 3 seconds i dont kno if it was his fingers or whatt im scared i dont wann be fuckin pregnantttttt wouldnt i bleed or sumthin?

You don't necessarily bleed during sex for the first time.. especially if you've been fingered in the past because you would be used to things being inserted and your hymen would most definitely be broken.
If his penis did enter you, only for 3 seconds, you are still at risk unfortunately. (pre cum)
Wait until your next period. It's the only thing you can do, really.
Don't sweat it. Worrying will only delay it.
At least it's a lesson learnt.

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I wank my dick alot and cant stop pls give me advice on wat 2 do

Masturbation is completely normal as long as it doesn't stop you doing every day things.
Basically, keep yourself entertained.
Play games, call a friend, read, avoid porn!..

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