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theres these two boys
okay i have a boyfriend and i like him and he REALLY likes me, but my problem is that I like this other boy. And I really dont want to break up with my boyfriend for the guy i like. so what could i do ? and this boy likes me to . but could me and this boy be friends with benifits or what? I have tryed to stop likeing the boy so i can concentrate on my boyfriend. so please i really need help . and thank you all who help me!!
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if you're friends with benefits with the other boy, that's cheating. not a good idea. you're boyfriend will probably be SUPER pissed. and also, from personal experience, someone will get emotionally attached, which is the main problem with friends with benefits.
you should spend more time with your boyfriend, and even though you may not want to, you should probably stop talking to the other boy. if you keep talking to the other boy, your feelings will only grow and it will create an even bigger problem.
hope i helped & good luck!
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Don't even think about cheating. How disrespectful can you be?
It's simple - stop talking to this boy - and your temptations will disappear.
If you can't commit to your boyfriend, you don't deserve him.
Think about the consequences.
I do hope things work out for you. I'm just letting you know friends with benefits is a bad, bad idea.
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Ok, first of all I don't think friends with benefits is a good idea. I know you're not going to want to hear what I have to say, but in my opinin, you shouldn't date either boy. If either one of them was the right boy for you, you would be able to choose between them, so since you can't, I don't think you should date either boy. I think you should try being friends with both of them and nothing more. Sorry, if you don't like this advice, it's just my opinion. Good luck and I hope everything works out for you.
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hey!
I definitely dont think you should be friends with benifits, that is an accident waiting to happen. Tell the other boy that you have a boyfriend and that you have to be faithful to your boyfriend. And everytime you feel like you want to go talk to the boy or flirt with him or whatever, go and find your boyfriend. If you find yourself thinkijng about the other guy, think of how much you would hurt your boyfriend if he knew you were thinking of someone else. If you cant do that anymore, break up with your boyfriend. Its not fair to anyone to like them both and want more with the other guy. you already have an awesome guy, so why risk hurting him and losing everything for a guy who could date you for a week and break up with you for another girl. weight the pros and the cons and see what you think is best, but its all up to you girl. Good luck, adn I hope I helped. Love ya,
Angie91
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