about

My name is Laura and I'm 28 years old. I live in Illinois and work as a licensed veterinary technician. I am a runner, bookworm and obviously, an animal lover.


I've been on this site since '05. I take hiatuses, but I'm never gone for good. I enjoy giving advice and I've made such lovely friends on this site that I couldn't imagine giving it up!

chat it up yo.


ps. here's my bestestestest friend.
I love him. You will too :)

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I read your answer to the dream question...
did u really have the same dream for 3 weeks?

Thanks for asking to my inbox!
Yes, I really did have the same dream for 3 weeks back in May. It was one of the coolest yet scariest expiriences I've ever had.

-Laura. (15-f)

*EDIT*
I would not make up anything on this site to sound "cool" or whatever you said. Anything I say on here is the truth whether answering a question or chatting in my forum. =]

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13/F
Okay, last night i had two dreams. & i need help because i have no idea what they mean.
The first dream:
I was at a school fun fair. I was there with my best mate Beth, we was lining up to go on Twister [both of our favorite fun fair ride] and her brother Adam [who is 16] was in front of us. He took his t-shirt of. I looked at him & he smiled at me. Then, after that i kept checking him out. When we got on the ride the one me & beth was in, flew off the ride and just landed on the grass. Then the guy in charge of the ride shouted out 'And thats the red car off'. Then, Adam winked at me.

The second dream:
Me, my mum, & my brother were all sitting down in the living room, crying. My mum opened & held out a locket and said we should of put a picture of Jason in here [i don't know anyone called jason].
Then it turned out that we were crying because my little sister had died of cancer [i don't have a sister just one brother].

Sorry it's long, but thanks in advance =].

Check out this website:
http://www.dreammoods.com/dreamdictionary/

It will help you "uncode" your dreams.
Dreams are always weird and crazy. I once had the same dream for 3 weeks!
It's just the way your mind works.
And it's perfectly normal to have weird dreams.
It makes them all the more interesting! =]

-Laura. (15-f)

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My best friend, Melissa likes another friend I've had since 2nd grade. Let's call him Steve. So one day they were texting until 3am, and he said he liked a new girl. He wouldn't tell her who, but he said she was perfect. A few days later, I found out it was me. The thing is, I am kind of starting to like Steve now, but I don't want him to ruin my frienship between me and Melissa. I know I would NEVER go out with him if he asked because that's so mean to my friend, but things are so awkward. What do I do?

These situations suck!
I'd start off by telling Steve that you're not interested in a relationship with him, and your friendship with Melissa means more. Let him know that he's not coming between your friendship by pursuing a relationship with you. Tell him you want to stay friends though (if you do), but nothing more.
Then, I'd tell Melissa the same thing. Tell her that you know she likes him and you wouldn't go out with him because your friendship means more than a stupid guy. Tell her you'd never want something as silly as this come between you two. The friendship you've built is more important to you. "Chicks before dicks." ;]
Try to stay just friends with both of them. And maybe hang out all three of you, doing something fun, to ease the situation. Go mini golfing or something together. Have a fun time, and don't bring up the fact that Steve likes you or anything.
So basically, just maintain your friendships, and if Steve likes Melissa still ,let them work it out. Good Luck! =]

-Laura. (15-f)

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My freind and I just gat a new babysitting job for a five year old we're charging $4 an hour and both of us will get $120 a month so what should I save up for? I already have an ipod and a laptop.And im a girly girl!

Clothes- every girls favorite.
Shoes- Can never have too many.
A Camera- If you don't have one.
Purses- A cute designer one or something.
Perfume- An expensive, nice, one.
Make-up- Not too expensive, but now you can buy the better quality stuff.
Sunglasses- MY personal favorite ;]
A tote bag for school- Like a designer one.
iPod accessories- Cute covers, etc.
New decor for your room- A new lamp, mirror, pictures, etc.
Books- If you're a bookworm like myself.

-Laura. (15-f)

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what does hugs means to you when you hugging your friends?
and whats the diffrence and meaning between friends giving you regular hug and friends giving you tight hug and they lift you up?

It's really easy for people to tell what my hugs mean. Basically because I only give them to special people. (I have a thing with being touched, don't ask).
Anyways, when you hug a friend, it's not a tight hug. It's just a quick, "glad to see you" or "see you soon" thing. Kind of almost meaningless, but meaningful enough to signify your friendship, I guess?
When it's a "tight" hug or when somebody lifts you up, I think it shows more interest and enthusiasm on the person lifting you up's part. It could mean they see you as more than a friend. That's always how I saw it, anyways.
Hope it helps =]

-Laura. (15-f)

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If my friend is 20 and im 13 how many years aprt are we?

Is it 7 or is it 6 since i haven't reached my birthday this year?

I'm pretty sure it would be 6 and however many months are between your birthday months.
For example:
Say your birthday is in June, and his is in November. Then you'd be 6 years and 5 months apart or whatever.
Or at least, that's how I see it.

-Laura. (15-f)

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i put a song on my profile and it wont automatically start for some reason...in my security settings its status say that it should start automaticaly...plz help me...5 goes to anyone that gives me a solution^_________^

There was a bug on myspace today. Tom posted a thing about it on the homepage. It should be working now =]

-Laura. (15-f)

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on the kohl's commercial with the band changing outfits a million times its like

i dont need you
im a leader
cuz im awesome.

thanks in advanced =]

"Because I'm Awesome" by The Dollyrots.
http://www.myspace.com/thedollyrots
My friend loves that song. haha.
Enjoy!
-Laura. (15-f)

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There was this one song I heard one time and I fell in love with it. The people I talked to said it was called "Little Girl" and I've looked for the lyrics, but I can't find it!

I remember there is a line where the man says something like "the best candidate for a broken heart"...

If anyone knows the guy that sings this song, the lyrics, etc. PLEASE LET ME KNOW!!!

Thanks a bunch!

My Little Girl by Tim Mcgraw?
Lyrics:
http://artists.letssingit.com/tim-mcgraw-lyrics-my-little-girl-8lvc8nd

-Laura. (15-f)

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okay i really want my text to wrap around my picture on myspace. I got the code & all that & it looks like i'm doing it right but it shows up weird and doesn't work for me.
heres what it looks like:
http://i10.tinypic.com/52bxh8y.jpg
it might be hard to read but right after my picture it says "alighn="left"

Ahh the wonderful world of html =]
Anyways, it could be one of two things.
First, try this code. I know for a fact that it works because I've used it various times.

then the text you want on the side of the picture here. and that's it. nothing at the end. la la la.


If that dosen't work, then resize your picture to make it smaller.
Let me know if this works =]

-Laura. (15-f)

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umm does anyone know what song this is. it goes like this "hes everything you want, hes everything you need, hes everything inside of you that you wish you could be. he says all the right things at exactly the right time, but he means nothing to you and you don't know why" its just buggin me because I want that song!! heh thank you!

"Everything You Want" by Vertical Horizan.
Great song =]

-Laura. (15-f)

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I love animals. Basically, anything cute and fuzzy. I'm not too crazy about lizards, snakes, and the like. Horses are my number one love. I also love dogs, cats, and birds. What are some careers having to do with animals that pay pretty decent?

=D
- Veterinarian.
- Park Ranger.
- Biologist.
- Aniaml Trainer.

I also found this website that might help you a bit =]
http://www.anapsid.org/resources/jobs.html

Good Luck!
-Laura. (15-f)

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scrunching your hair. what are some good products? and how do i scrunch my hair?
step by step on you do it?

Well, how I do it when I rarely do...
I dampen my hair. Not too wet, not too dry. Know what I mean? Then, you just take a section of hair and make a fist around it, if that makes sense. Liek you're "scrunching" it.
Products I use, Hold It! Gel, in the dark blue container. Then some hairspray, but I don't have a preference as far as which. =]

-Laura. (15-f)

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i have heard this song i like once before it goes someting like this i only know like 1 line

fuck me in the backseat..push her maybe push her not

whats the song? its kinda upbeat ad rock its not pop or rap! its like a mix between rock and dance and electronic

Fer Sure- The Medic Droid.
I no joke, have that song on right now.

-Laura. (15-f)

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hi,therez this girl she likes me i like her im going to ask her out..just wondering how 2 be a good boyfriend what do girls like in a boy or boyfriend??..thanks

Well, I'll give you my top 5 qualities or things I love a boyfriend/guy I like to do:
- Don't flirt with other girls! That's the absolute worst thing to do.
- Make her laugh/smile a lot.
- Don't be afraid to hold her hand =]
- Let her wear your sweatshirts when she's cold.
- Be honest! Be yourself, let her see the real you. Don't be afraid, chances are she'll love you.
Hope it helps!

-Laura. (15-f)

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I'm writing a story...don't want to say too much!
Ask these few questions with detail and THANKS!

1. Do you think your spoiled and why?
2. Do you think if you got everything you wanted, you will be happy?
3. How would you explain the word TANTRUM?

Thanks! If you have any ideas for my story, I would appreciate everything! Plus, I this book won't publish but if it is...i promise to give cred to the people at Advicenators.com
THANKS EVERYONE!

Hello fellow writer =D

1. I think I'm in between spoiled and not spoiled. By this, I mean I have nice things and my parents take good care of me, but I don't get everything I want. For example, when I broke my iPod I had to pay for a new one. I just broke my camera, and I have to pay for a new one. (Yes I have issues with breaking things which is probably why I'm not really spoiled in the first place?) ;]
2. No. I know for a fact I (or anyone) would become a materialistic bitch. Not to sound too harsh though =]
3. Tantrums are when you just get so angry, you o full out insanely mad. I don't tink that made any sense, but it's just when somebody gets so mad, they yell, and cry, and throw things. It can get pretty intense actually. lol. I think they happen to everyone, too.

My idea for your story, hmmm, make the girl an advice columnist, but a really bitchy one. lol. I don't know. I have no ideas because I'm half asleep right now...
Good Luck!

-Laura. (15-f)

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I love shirts like this,

http://store.delias.com/item.do?categoryID=1517&itemID=46351&sizeFilter=&colorFilter=&brandFilter=
http://store.delias.com/item.do?categoryID=1484&itemID=48082&sizeFilter=&colorFilter=&brandFilter=
http://store.delias.com/item.do?categoryID=1484&itemID=48074&sizeFilter=&colorFilter=&brandFilter=
http://store.delias.com/item.do?categoryID=1484&itemID=47235&sizeFilter=&colorFilter=&brandFilter=

I'm not the skinniest person, so i like shirts that float away from the body a little.

What are some stores that sell shirts like those, but cheaper than delias. Like in the 10-20 dollar range. Preferably stores that are in Rhode Island, because i dont like buying shirts online because i cant try them on, so i dont know how they'll look on me.

thanks!

Charlotte Rusee has a ton of stuff like that. I was actually just there the other day, and I'm sure they have shrits really similar and they're having huge sales. Rave is another store with a good selection of clothes like those above. Check out both stores, they're great! =]

-Laura. (15-f)

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should i match eyeshadow to my clothes or to my eye color?


also, i have BRIGHT green eyes. what color eye shadows will really make my eyes pop? i love bright colored eyeshadow.

Thanks!

Don't match to your clothes, match to your eyes.
Use neutral colors for bright eyes. Like beige, tan, light olive green, etc.
Avoid pinks. No matter what color eye, it just looks bad =]
Also, less is more. I like the person below, don't wear that much makeup and I think it looks a heck of a lot better than when I do wear a lot of makeup. I recommend "Ten Beauty" makeup products and also "MAC" =]
Good Luck!

-Laura. (15-f)

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i kinda like this guy

and hes so cute

but hise teeht r hideous no joke!!!!!

and he needs an eye brow wax

how od i focuz on the good?!?

You should focus on the aspects that matter, like personality. I don't mean to be rude, but it's really shallow to only like a guy for looks. If you like somebody, then you should like them for who they are both inside and out.
I mean, how would you like to find out that the only reason somebody likes you is because they think you're good looking. Trust me, it's a blow to your confidence. So like I said, focus onn things that aren't physical. Like the way he makes you laugh, or smile. Or all the things you guys have in common. It's much better to like somebody for who they are inside, rather than not like them because of their teeth.

-Laura. (15-f)

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I've heard that the breast size you'll get would be the same size that the women on your dad's side has. Is that true?
Sorry if that was kind of confusing, I didn't really know how to word it, lol.

No. Everyone is different.

-Laura. (15-f)

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