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im 13 and 2 early to get a nose job although I will when I can. How old do you have to be in NY if that matters? also what are some ways you can make your nose look smaller. I RLLY HATE MY NOSE. its prety straight but boldgeyy. any ideas?!

You're way too young to be thinking about surgery. After all, your body is still growing and your face may not even look the same in a few years.

These can help you;

Take your pick girl :)
Best of luck

so me and this girl have been like seeing a lot of each other on webcam,and stuff.i have seen ppl taking a pic where both of them and the whole like msn window is taken as a pic and they don't use cameras,cause i didint see any cameras during the webcam chat.

in short,they take a pic where the whole msn window which includes the chat,both webcam parties and etc.are included,but i didin't see them using any cameras,if they did it would show on the webcam

so how do you take a photo of the window?or even of a pic which includes both parties on webcam cause we usually just gaze at each other on webcam and i want that photo,it's sweet to me.

is it under one of the msn tools?or the webcam tools?

thanks

You see the button which says print screen on your keyboard? (Towards the right, at the top normally).
Press it and open something like MS Paint and simply click edit and paste.

ive had sex around ten times, but i've never orgasmed during sex. ive heard that if you are on the bottom you wont orgasm, so is that true?

It's not true.
ALTHOUGH:
Some women CAN'T orgasm through sex alone, sadly.
You probably heard the "if you're on bottom you won't orgasm" thing because if the woman is on top, she has control.
You just have to see what works for you. You've just begun so you have alot of time to experiment and see what ways and positions etc please you. :)

this might sound really dumb but im 15 and ive never kissed anyone. my boyfriend wants to and i do too but i dont know what to do or anything. please help. thanks

You've probably heard this so many times but I'm saying it again:
It will come naturally.
It's your first kiss, so I wouldn't get too into it, because you don't seem confident at the moment.

"When your lips meet, keep them slightly parted and
press gently against his lips. Tilt your head
slightly to one side, so your noses won't get
in the way. What do you do next? It depends. If it's just alittle kiss, a peck on the lips, move away but this is very important) don't move away all of a sudden, as if you were disgusted by his kiss!
Just move away slowly, maybe while still holding hands, and looking in his eyes."

If you feel comfortable to french kiss..

"French kisses are kisses in which you also use yourtongues. (That's why you part your lips slightly.)
So, after you've started kissing, the next step
is that either he will slip his tongue into your
mouth or you'll slip yours into his. Don't let your
tongue go limp but move it around his, or playfully
push his tongue out with yours, then let him
push your tongue back into your mouth, and so on."

It's really nothing to worry about.
May seem scary thinking about it but at the time you'll be fine.
Enjoy :)

Hey, my hair is straight,sleek and smooth! It goes about past my shoulders! I have all around layers and when i put my hair into a ponytail and then take it out later, it looks like its full with volume and it looks hot! The only problem is, it doesnt last long and doesnt always work! I need more volume in my hair! I really hope someone understands what i am saying! Any ideas please? Is Garnier Fructis Style : XXL volume thickening mousse a good choice for me?
Any adivce is greatly appreciated! Thanks!!!
(14/f)

You could try volumising products, yes.
Other ways could be to blow dry your hair and use a barreled hairbrush - especially at the roots.
You could also try back combing your hair at the roots. Not alot obviously, but doing that makes your hair look less "limp" and creates a thicker more lively effect.

me and my boyfriend have been having sex for 3 weeks almost 4 times a week, i am now feeling dizy, fitgued, feverish, and my boobs have been killing me and are getting bigger. Im not sure if i am sick or i am getting pregant. When will it be a good time to take a pergnancy test so i can see if i am [my age is not important u will just judge me anyway.]

http://www.nhsdirect.nhs.uk/articles/article.aspx?articleId=948

Read it.
P.s, we aren't hear to judge you. Just be safe in future.

im interested in massage therapy and id love to get into it but do i have to go to college for it (and if so how many years) or just take a course in it what exactly please help me even if you only know a little bit about it i would like all the information you know about massage therapy thank you

You'll find lots there.
Would have been better if you stated where you're from, but you can easily do that yourself..
Good luck.

UGH!!!
why do people on my space or facebook play like there someone there not
like say ryan sheckler i want the real one that all those fake stupid people i mean relaly dont thay have a life to myspaces WHAT THE CRAP thay play like there them you say is this the real "WHO EVER" oh yes i am the real blah blah blah FAKEIES! i hate em

sorry i ahd to get it out ughh
agree?

Yes, it's annoying. and it's really obvious they're not the real people.
Maybe they aren't even intending for that.. They may just want a large myspace dedicated to a celebrity - like a fan page.
Anyway, it's nothing to get mad about girl! :)

my dad drinks alot. he thinks its stupid i want to go to college and study every night.

my mom is busy keeping this family alive working and such

and my brother only has time for his gf.

my sister is only 12. and she gets in trouble alot. she takes after my dad.

is there like some kind of phone number or something that i can call?..i just want to talk to someone. but i cant do that here.

Try this:

https://www.cxdirect.com/Visitor/IndexTalk.htm

You can talk one on one online with an adviser who will help you with any problems and give you any contact numbers you may need.

Best of luck.

okay, well i had a boyfriend for like 6 months and we had sex like once a week, maybe twice. but sometimes we would go without it for a couple weeks. but the point is, i had sex in my life. well now were broken up and i crave it so much but i'm not the type of girl to just go out and have sex with anyone just to get some. is there anything i can do to make me stop craving it so much?

1. Masturbate.
2. Make yourself busy. Go out with friends, read, listen to music etc etc.
I take it you're a teen. It's normal to have these urges.
It'll probably pass.

i hear girls saying they masturbate, how do girls masturbate?

how do guys finger you?

if you have a boyfriend in a long distance relationship, and you only see him everyone 2 months or sumthin, would he feel you up? i mean, when will guys feel you up?

1.

2. It's how it sounds.. He can either insert 1 or more fingers into your vagina, or focus more on the outside areas.

3. A guy will feel you up not only when he is ready, but when you are ready also. There's no set time. You could hint at it and see if he responds. If not, you have to wait.

ifu have signs of pregnancy but ur period is about 1 1/2 weeks away will the test you take come out accurate if you take it now ?

Thanks for your question.

http://www.babycentre.co.uk/preconception/activelytrying/howsoontestexpert/

Read through the short description. It should clear a few things up for you.
Good luck.

Lots more here if you're interested;

i really cannot remove my blackheads on my nose! i think they were there from a long time ago. do i need to do something else extreme like pop them out using a pin?

Using a pin will damage your skin.
Purchase nose strips! They're specifically for blackheads and they work really well.
Basically, they bring them to the surface and you just gently squeeze them out.
Best of luck.

ok tonight, sep. 15, is my high skool's homecomin dance, and it's a casual dance u see i want to wear my pink tank top w/ shorts and flip flops, but i also want to wear my brown strapless dress which goes up to my middle thigh and high heels

i cant make up my mind and either way i dress ill fit in with my friends cauz half of them are wearin dresses and the other half are wearin tanktops w/ jeans
what should i wear?!

I'd go for the dress. It sounds pretty.
You can wear the tank top and shorts any day.
Make this one special, since it's a homecoming dance.
Hope you have a lovely time.

i think its really really hot when guys have a cigarrete in their mouth for some reason but i hate the smell and i hate the smoke..is there anything like a ciarage that i could tell him to do instead of smoking cuz he only does it cuz it turns me on

You may think it's hot but you have to think of the other issues here. The more important ones.
Your turn ons are putting both of your health at risk.
It's good you want to use a substitute though.
You can buy fake cigarettes. Give them a try.
Or perhaps don't actually light the cigarette if it's real.
They are the only things you can do to be honest, as there's no such thing as a cigarette that doesn't smell or have smoke...
What else turns you on? There must be things other than cigarettes.
Good luck

Can you go swimming without a tampon? Because I've heard your period kind of stops in water. What I mean is when your in water there isn't a flow. Because i cna't seem to put one in and I have to go swimming for PE class! Help! Thanks so much! And I rate. :D

NO. Your period does not stop in water.
I don't know why people seem to think this.

I found this from a website:
"As for bathing, your period doesn’t actually stop flowing in water. “For most young women, there isn’t much flow to the outside when you’re in water,” says Dr. Hillard. However, even if you usually don’t bleed in water, don’t skip the tampon. It’s better to be safe than sorry."

Basically, you can risk it, but I wouldn't. Practice putting in a tampon. Practice makes perfect.

Good luck.

Hey!
Im f/17 soon to be 18!
My question is do you think that and 17/18 year old should be datting a 22 year old... like im finishing gr12.. and he's finishing University...
Is that a really big age diffrence to you?

You're almost 18. In my eyes, that means you're old enough to make your own decisions.
If you were 14 for example, then yes, it's bad for obvious reasons.
I know of people your age dating older guys. There's nothing wrong with it as long as you're comfortable with him.
and to answer your question, personally, no. It's not a big age gap.

okay its all runny && has a fishy smell .
how do i get rid of it ?

Discharge is your vaginas way of cleaning itself and acts as a natural lubrication. It's normal.
However, it shouldn't exactly smell. It could be a number of reasons, ranging from poor hygiene to an infection.
There is no way to get rid of discharge, although if it bothers you alot, you can wear a pantyliner - not a pad, as I'd imagine them to be quite uncomfortable for every day use.

14/f
im a 32a[really small]
now my chest has been hurting for atleast two days.
not really hurting but like, my boobs.. they feel like rocks? lol everyones just like they probably growing, but i see no difference... do i have breast cancer or something?

You shouldn't jump to conclusions like that right away! Breast cancer at your age is highly unlikely.
They most probably are growing, or you could be coming on your period.
You're a teenager and things like this are to be expected.
See if the pain lessens in the next couple of days.
If it doesn't, or gets worse, it wouldn't hurt to get checked out.
For now though, don't worry. :)

is your vagina supost to smell?

Smell like what exactly?
You can't expect to smell like roses down there but it shouldn't give off a bad smell...
You should be a bit more specific. You could be totally normal or have a really common infection.

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