But, I want to feel something more than just my fingers. Is there anything around the house I could use, that no one would notice or whatever.
Please help me out.
There's LOTS of things; just be creative. Walk around your house with an open eye viewing everything as the male genitalia. You could try:
- hair brush.
- handle of a screw driver.
- handle of a spatula.
- magnifying glass.
- flashlight.
- turkey boaster.
- curling iron.
- a pen.
There's really a lot of things if you really think and get creative about it! :D
♥[?]♥ Heyy..how can i send a friend a picture that i have saved on my pictures through myspace? thanks i rate high!!
It has to have a URL code. SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.. if it is a picture you have on your COMPUTER, you have to go to http://www.photobucket.com and SIGN UP for a FREE account. Then "BROWSE" for a picture on your computer. Once you've found it, click "SUMBIT". Next it will PROVIDE you with a "TAG" URL, and THAT is the one you want [the "TAG" one]. Just copy that right into the comment.
If this picture is one you just found online, simply RIGHT CLICK it. Go down to "PROPERTIES", and copy it's ENTIRE "(URL) ADDRESS". Then simply PASTE that withing this code where it says "URL HERE":
< img src="URL HERE" >
Only change you have to make is DELETING the TWO EMPTY SPACES [ONE on EACH side] that SEPARATES the < and > from the REST OF THE CODE. Make sense?
It's really quite easy. Hopefully you understand. :D
♥[?]♥ my boyfriend's best friend (we'll call him..bob) just told me he loves* me. but i love* my boyfriend. but i admit, ive had a tiny crush on bob . wat should i do?!
~thanx in advavnce~
*love as in lik a whole lot
BOB= Battery Operated Boyfriend. I, too, "love*" BOB.
♥[?]♥ im asking this question personally because i really like your advice. =) also because i need this kind of fast because its about tonight. i have 2 good friends, but i this summer i have done A LOT more stuff with one friend than the other, idk why. i guess its because more of the plans work out. well, that made the friend that im not doing as much stuff with sad and jealous i guess. i told her we might be able to do something tomorrow, but i remembered that me and the friend that i do stuff with alot already had plans. =/ i dont want to be mean and tell her she cant come over because i have plans with the other girl. i really want to do what me and my friend have plans for. i dont want to bail out on her. idk what to do cause somehow the sad friend will find out that i'm doing something and be even more sad, or maybe even mad at me. =(
Well I definitely see the dilemma here. Is it COMPLETELY out of the question for the girl that you don't spend too much time with to join you and your other friend on tomorrow's escapades? I'm shore she'd be more than thrilled to do so. Perhaps she'd be a bit disappointed, seeing as how I'm shore she would rather it be ONLY you and her, but I suppose it would be better than nothing, right??? I say, if possible, invite her to join you two tomorrow, and then set aside a day or even two the following weekend to spend with her, and HER ONLY. But even if it's not a good idea for her to join you tomorrow.. you ALREADY HAVE PLANS... end of story. You don't bail on one to bum around with another; that's just rude.. Just tell her you have prior engagements, and canceling them would simply be unfair to the other party. She'll probably be disappointed yes... but a deal is a deal, and you were already booked up. I'm shore she'll understand. Perhaps next time you could be a bit more careful when setting up weekend plans, as not to hurt anybody.
It's Really not that difficult. Just don't think TOO much about it befoRe hand, as this will only woRk you up and make you neRvous.
-- TO GO ABOUT IT: it's pRettie simple. FIRST, I suggest you ask him HOW HE DOES IT.. just to get an idea of what he likes. And noooo this won't make you seem lame oR inexpeRienced at all!! DiffeRent people peRfeR diffeRent things, so even if you've given 3243475 handjobs befoRe... ONE PERSON might not do it the same as ANOTHER PERSON, so always always ask!! But you just gently gRab ahold of it, and slowly, at fiRst, move youR aRm up and down, in time incReasing the speed.
-- TIPS: they like if you'Re naked, oR at least topless... it's a gReat visiual and helps keep them eRect. They also like talking diRty. So don't hold back on that. Just tell them it's nice, it's big, how good it looks, and how bad you want it. Then you could tRy talking about how much you want theiR load, and wheRe it's going to end up [meaning: napkin, youR mouth, youR face, etc.]. And theRe's absolutely NOTHING wrong with putting youR mouth to it and swallowing his 'finishings'. NOOO, you CAN NOT get pRegnant, and NOOO you will not get sick; it's actually healthy -- high in pRotein. And the taste honestly DOES vaRy fRom peRson to peRson, so no one can tell you how it will taste. OR, if you'd RatheR.. just let it come out as it does... like on youR hand wRapped aRound him foR instance; theRe's definitely nothing wRong with that!
-- It's pRettie simple. The only pRoblem you might Run into [which you moRe than likely will] is that youR hand will get tiRed; and this is fine. Guys can do it foR long peRiods of time, because chances aRe that they've had yeaRs of pRactice, and this would be youR fiRst time, so they won't be suRpRised oR disappointed. Just if that DOES happen.. don't give up oR keep saying "I Can't", that's a BIG tuRn off!! Keep tRying, and if needed, have him do it foR a couple seconds while you stay Right theRe and watch. It's honestly not a big of a deal oR hassle as it may sound.
*I seaRched online foR you if you feel you need moRe infoRmation. PeRhaps you might like to check this site out: http://sexuality.about.com/od/masturbation/ht/handjob.htm It goes into a tad bit moRe detail on HOW TO DO IT, I suppose.
You'll do just fine, Really -- no woRRies!! If you have any fuRtheR questions oR would like some moRe infoRmation, don't be afRaid to contact me. Hopefully I've been of at least SOME help heRe! :D
♥[?]♥ i had my period for about 3 months. i never told my mom because she died.. so now i have a step mom and we were never close. i was planning to wait until she asks me if i have it and then say yeah. but im afraid she'll never ask. if ur wondering how i get my pads i get them from my step sister. should i wait?? please help ASAP!!
I don't see why you should keep this from her. It's really no big deal. Just tell it to her real quick and flat out, as to avoid embarrassment. :)
♥[?]♥ okay. so, i have this problem.. this is going to be kinda long but i really need help! i get REALLY embarrassed really easily. people could just look at me the wrong way and my face turns BRIGHT red! and it takes a while for it to go completely away (not like 10 minutes..but like 20 seconds) but when you are embarrassed it feels like FOREVER!! but the thing is, i don't know if this is normal or not, because of how extreme it is. i mean, i can't even look people in the eyes without turning red. i always feel that i am being judged, and i am so insecure! but i hate it so much, it holds me back soo much! i can't even be myself around anyone because of my face turning red. it makes me feel like such an idiot! i need help. like how can i stop it? do you think i have a problem where i would need to take medicine or something to make it go away!? because EVERYTHING embarrasses me! i even get embarrassed when i am talking on the phone and i say something and the other person laughs. even when people are laughing WITH me and not AT me i get embarrassed, so needless to say when people laugh AT me i am totally humiliated!! HELP!!!!!!!!
Awwwwww!!!!!! This question broke my heart. I can tell this is a big set back in your life, and I'm sorrie to hear this is so. I wish I could recommend a few things myself to help you out with your situation, but unfortunately.. I know of nothing off hand. ERGO.. I looked online for you, and I came up with a few websites I think you should look at:
- http://www.hypnosis.me.uk/pages2/blushing.html
- http://www.uncommonforum.com/viewtopic.php?t=6036 [This one is a forum, where the topic is discussed from people going through the SAME THING as you are. I felt it important to include this link for you.]
- http://www.profindpages.com/Hypnosis_Downloads_Online_Stop_Blushing.html
- http://www.hypnotics.co.uk/self-help/blushing/how-to-stop.htm
- http://www.hypnotictapes.com/transcript/general/TS-STOP_BLUSHING.shtml
I have NOOOOOO idea what all of that Hypnosis talk is about, but if it's in every website, perhaps they're onto something! =]
I'm sorrie I can't be of more assistance, Hun. Hopefully these links help you out!! I wish you the best on your quest!!! :D
Okay so there`s this boy, we`ll call him jeff. and i really like him. a lot. okay so i hang out with jeff a lot then one day i told him i like him and he blushed and changed the subject right away. so we were hanging out 2 days ago and he was being really sweet. not that he`s never sweet or anything but he was different. it was me, jeff, and our friend. but most of the time it was just me and jeff. he was being really nice. he insisted on buying me food. when it started pouring on us.. he took of his sweater and gave it to me. everytime i look at jeff i catch him looking at me and he blushes and then he smiles at me. what do you think? do you think he likes me or is he just being nice because he knows i like him? you don`t have to be positive but i just want a few opinions. PLEASE help
Oh My Gosh, AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!! That is the sweetest thing ever!!!!!! I wish someone would treat me as wonderful as he seems to treat YOU! I know I'm not there to actually WITNESS this, but from what you've described it DEFINITELY sounds like he has feelings for you!! Go get 'em, Tiger!!!!!!!! =]
♥[?]♥ Hey. I have no idea how to spell Ouijji board so just bare with me. lol. okay well i was wondering i play the ouiji board with my friends & its pretty freeaky. Like some things we asked actually came true and it seems so real. Does anyone know if its actually spirits or Our minds?? Has anyone had freaky experiences with them?? & do you think its safe to play it? thx tonsz' xOx
I've never had a "freaky" experience at all while playing. I DO believe it's safe to play, but in MY opinion.. I think it's all in your head. I just think people hype themselves up so much and become so nervous they start to freak themselves out unnecessarily. :)
♥[?]♥ i no its werid but its true and idk how to make out can someone tell me like what to do?
It's difficult to tell you HOW to make out, but I found a website that thinks it's capable of doing JUST that: http://www.virtualkiss.com/kissingschool/ Goodluck!! Hope this helps!! :P
♥[?]♥ Hey. iM not Shallow or anything but i was just wondering if theres ways guys like for you to dress or wear your hair? i know that guys like natural beauty. & what are some things they like as in clothes, hairstyles and the way you act?? It would help if a guy answered this or a girl that knows. xOx thnks guys. I rate high
I've always known guys to perfer a more casual and conservative dresser when out in public, as they feel you're "theirs", and they don't want others looking at you. A nice tight fitting tshirt and a pair of blue jeans is perfectly suitable. Rarely is it the case that it's the CLOTHES that makes the person sexy and beautiful. It's all about personality and confidence. And providing you're with a decent guy, he will find you beautiful no matter WHAT you wear. As far as hairstyles.. whatever, ya know? Anything works really. I'd say MOST guys would be more attracted to a natural hair color as opposed to blue and lime green, ya know?? And as far as length and shades of colors.. that just depends on the guy. And really as long as you're polite, modest and friendly.. people should generally just gravitate towards you naturally.
Hopefully this answers your question as you were seeking. =]
♥[?]♥ should i tell my mom about my first kiss? if so how
Wow! I'm surprised you even WANT to tell her! But if you're really THAT close to her, why not just flat out say it as you would to a friend of yours? Just be like, "HEY!! Guess what!!! I had my first kiss with [peron's name]!!!" It's really no big deal. =]
So I was out with a group of friends at a party and I had to wait for someone outside so I'm waiting and all of a sudden I hear the door slam and there's this guy Adam, and his friends locked him out of the house. So we sat out there for like twenty minutes talking waiting for his friedns to let him back in. And he was pretty cool, so after the party I'm standing with my friend Callie, Adam asks one of us to call him to see if his cell's working I don't have one so Callie does. They trade numbers and she eventually gets a crush on him(this is over 2 months or so). But then he tells her he's gay & of cousre she tells me, so they became just friends.
Then apparantly a month ago there was this girl and she "turned him straight." And now he's telling Callie he likes me, in her words "serious relationship likes you." And I don't know what to do. He's cool and all, but I'm not quite sure about the whole once gay thing, he claims he's not bi either. And also since he's not gay Callie seems to be a little jealous.... WHAT SHOULD I DO???
Oh yeah and I'm a fifteen year old doll.
I don't think that being a homosexual is something you can recover from like that. I believe you either ARE or ARE NOT, and that's JUST THE WAY IT IS. Perhaps he was mistaking or simply jumping to conclusions when he labelled himself homosexual. Perhaps he was only bisexual, or even "bi-curious", when his tastes and views changed; this can easily happen. However, I think that you need to find out from HIM how he feels about you. You can ASSUME his feelings alllllllllllllllll you want, but that's ALLLLLLLLLLLLLL it will EVER be - an ASSUMPTION. If you REALLY wanna know EXACTLY what's in his heart, you need to make shore that these answers are coming straight from HIM, and not some third party. Hopefully everything goes as hoped. =]
♥[?]♥ my boyfriend and i wanna have sex but we dont know when to. our parents both really dont want us to but we want to do it anyway. what should i do?
Like Panramos mentioned, I'm assuming you live with your parents?? I really don't see your rush, but I know that if you WANT to do this, you're GOING TO DO THIS regardless of what people may tell you here on Advicenators. SOOO.. if you really do INSIST on going through with it, I guess you'll just have to be patient and wait for a time when the two of you can be home alone for a few hours. Or better yet, get a hotel room, that way you can be SHORE that there won't be any interruptions. :)
♥[?]♥ I gotta shake it off
Cuz the lovin' ain't the same
And you keep on playin games
Like you know I'm here to stay...
What song is that??
The song is called "SHAKE IT OFF", and it is performed by MARIAH CAREY. It's on her 2005 album, "EMANCIPATION OF MIMI".
LYRICS can be found at:
http://www.sing365.com/music/lyric.nsf/Shake-It-Off-lyrics-Mariah-Carey/7D483F0FE291291D48256FBE00285671
SONG can be heard at:
http://a425.v8384d.c8384.g.vm.akamaistream.net/7/426/8384/3b858b51/mtvrdstr.download.akamai.com/8512/wmp/5/293/30725_1_3_05.asf
♥[?]♥ Kay well my boyfriend IMed me and said " if i recieved a nickel for every time i saw a girl as beautiful as u i would have 5 cents" & i odnt get it!! is it sweet?? im not stupid or anything haha.xOx thnk you !!
I guess it's meant to be sweet, because he's saying YOU are the only one with such great beauty. Basically he means no one else can compare. Personally, I don't like that quote, but perhaps that's just me..? :D
♥[?]♥ okay i go to camp and we take songs and change the lyrics. we took this one song and i really liked it. i dont know who sings it but im pretty sure its called I Want to be Subdated? im not sure though.. and i barely know the words. all i know is it goes something like..twenty twenty twenty four years ago.. lol thats all i know!! help!!!!
The song is called "I WANNA BE SEDATED", and it is performed by THE RAMONES. It is on their "HEY HO! LET'S GO: THE ANTHOLOGY" album.
LYRICS can be found at:
http://www.seeklyrics.com/lyrics/RAMONES/I-Wanna-Be-Sedated.html
SONG can be heard at:
http://a425.v8384d.c8384.g.vm.akamaistream.net/7/426/8384/3b858b51/mtvrdstr.download.akamai.com/8512/wmp/3/754/10917_1_23_05.asf
♥[?]♥ i have limewire and all my friends say its illegal but i think its legal. u dont pay for it or anything. which is it? i rate
If you are taking items songs and movies from the internet WITHOUT paying for them, this is THEFT, which is illegal. :)
♥[?]♥ I was on the 7th and 8th grade basketball team for middle school and I got alot of playing time but I dont think Im that good. I dont thin i should tri-out for high School my school is really into basketball and i just want to have fun. I like basketball but i dont thin its my sport i think volleyball is. I dont kno if i should do both or just vollball? what should i do
If they are played during two separate seasons, I say definitely go for both. However, if they should be during the SAME season, I think you're better off sticking with the one. Usually in high school you get slammed with a grip of homework, and many people find it difficult to devote time to ONE sport. Bearly anyone can do TWO during the same season. Not to mention those times when games and practices interfer with one another. And actually, some schools WON'T LET YOU do TWO sports at the same time. I guess if you are trying to do two things at once, neither of the two are getting your COMPLETE attention, and that makes sense, if you ask me. But personally, I'd rather go with volleyball -- it's just always been my favorite!! :D
♥[?]♥ i put a chatterbox on my xanga. i want it on the right, top. but its at left, bottom. how do i move it??
Uhm, I'm not quite shore off hand, honestly. However, if you'd be willing to link me to your Xanga, I'm shore I can figure it out. =]
