Two quick questions here. My boyfriend and i (of 1 year 1 month today) are spending new years together. Ill be spending the night at his house. we have done everything BUT sex so far...but i think were ready to move a step forward (im not positive yet...im sleeping on it for a few nights). Anyways....on to the questions
1.) Sooo my bf got a condom from a reliable friend id say....5 months ago...and its an individual one..and it doesnt have a expiration date on it. i was wondering if like condoms go bad after that amount of time or if its more along the lines of a year or something. I know people are supposed to pay close attention to the exp. date...and it sucks that it doesnt have it on it.
2) Is it more likely to not get pregnant if you are having your period (i think i may have mine tomorrow) ? I know he wont care if its bloody/yucky...but i was wondering if it wood be a good thing to be having sex during it (or vice versa...a bad thing). We will, of course, be using that condom.
Soooorrry its so long but i really hope i can have some help with this!! thanks!!!
I would definitely buy a new condom! It could have expired, and its just all around better to buy a new one. Like the person below me said, temperature plays a part in it. And its better to be SAFE than sorry. :]
Also, it is acutally LESS likely you will get pregnant on your period (However, it is still possible!) But you still have to wear a condom because you can still get STDs.
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okay, i really like this guy named Richie that i've known for awhile but one of my friends also likes him. i think that he is going to ask me out soon and i want to say yes but i dont want to hurt my friends feelings because they really like him too. i dont know what to do. plz help!
Well, if he likes you - theres not much you can do about it! So, I say go for it. Talk to your friend first and tell her that you dont want a guy to come between you two and that if she's not okay with it, then you'll be reallyy hurt but you like him too.
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How do you make a Relationship Last?
Honesty, trust, loyalty, excitement, attraction, love, lust, communication, spark & patience. :] ♥
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Everytime i try to Upload a Picture for my Column is says "You tried to upload a picture, but it was greater than 15K in filesize so it wasn't uploaded." How can i get a picture on my column?
Upload picture to Tinypic.com.
Then copy the Image URL.
Then go to Profile Settings.
And paste the URL in "URL of a picture of you" box. Its in PArt III - Stuff we show everyone.
Then Submit and youre done.
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im getting a haircut tomrorow[saturday]. i have pretty straight dirty blonde hair that goes right on my shoulders. im into that whole like... unique look. i want layers... and like long bangs but that still go on my forhead. i cant find any pictures of it though. help?
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how do i get a guy i like go to the movies with me?
and how do i get him to at least hold my hand if it turns out he likes me?
Ask him what he's doing on a certain day. Example:
"So, what are you doing on ___(day)___? I heard ___(name a movie)____ is really good. Maybe we can go together."
And if it turns out he likes you, hold handing will be pretty natural. It'll just happen. But to hint at it, try when youre walking, to accidently bump his hand and keep it there for a few seconds.
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Let me get straight to the problem.
My boyfriend is a really bad kisser.
He's only had 2 other girlfriends before me
and i dont know if he made out with
either one of them, but when we're kissing
he acts like i dont know i cant even describe it
but he definitely doesnt know what hes doing.
I dont't like kissing any more because its THAT bad. What should i do? I really need your help!
I think it would be good to HELP him. Teach him tips on how to be a good kisser! If you do it in a nice, sexy way, he'll think its wayyy hot youre taking control of the relationship. I would just be like, "I like it when you do ____" Tell him what you like. If you want him to not use his tongue as much, say, "I like it when you play with my tongue with yours softly." Hope that helps you. ♥
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whats B.A.M.F stand for. I have seen it in some Aim profiles and on myspace. Does it mean someting?
Bad Ass Mother Fucker. Comedian Dane cook basically made the abbreviation famous. :]
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Ok guys, if you were going to use a girl for sex what would you do exactly?
Because I want to know if I was used, Id just like to know opinions
Thanks !
16/f
He'd be very physical with you.
He wouldnt introduce you to his friends/family.
He would be very secretish about you.
He'd want to have sex when he hung out with you. (obviously.)
He'd compliment you physically.
He wouldnt say "I love you." in a way that you knew he really meant it.
He would skip foreplay (kiss, cuddling, etc.)
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14/F
okay, so there was a guy who used to go to school with me a few years ago, but then he moved to san francisco. i don't know anything else other than his first and last name. i don't even know if he still lives there. i want to get back in touch with him becuase we were really good friends. I just don't know what to do. can u help please?!?!?
You can look him up on Myspace.com. Or facebook.com. Most people have either one or the other these days! Also, since you know his last name, you could look him up on google. Or Yellowpages.com. Or ask around to see if anyone has his number/screenname. :] Good luck!
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im 13 and i havnt gotten my period yet is that bad?
Totally normal. Some girls get it at 12, some girls get it at 16. So, you still have a few more years to get it before its something to worry out. Be thankful you dont have it yet, it sucks. ;]
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Hey =]
I have a crush on a boy same age. Our birthdays our about 2 days apart and Valentine's Day comes right along! So...I was wondering if you could give me some advice on what to say to him? A lot of people know I liked him before, and so did he. But, I stopped; now I like him again and ....I just wanted to say something nice to him on the bus.
-lzrfacexo
I would just be really nice to him. Make sure you say, "Happy Birthday!" and smile. He'll be flattered that you remembered! Also, if you want, make him a cupcake for his birthday. :]
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Hey everyone!!! I am 15 years old and I have never had a bf. I dont think that I am ugly, nor i am not antisocial. Is something wrong with me? After all, i am already a sophmore....
Hmm Im in the same situation as you. So, youre not alone. Theres NOTHING wrong with you. :] Im 15 and I, too have never had a boyfriend. And Im not scary looking or antisocial. Im positive its that you havent found the right guy yet. A lot of dating in high school is simply trial and error. You go on a date with someone, you find out if you liked them and why and if you didnt like the person, you just try to avoid that in the NEXT person you date. Its pretty pointless to me - I used to care about not having a boyfriend, but I realized its silly. Youre still young - theres plenty of time to have boyfriends. I know it feels like youre missing out, but youre really not. MOST relationships in high school are NOT like the movies at all. Theyre not perfect and cute and they definitely do not last forever (try a few months.) And the guys at 15 are mostly stilll immature. So, that plays a part in it too. Try not to focus on it too much. Ive heard its like waiting for water to boil. If you wait for it and wait for it and watch it closely it wont boil as fast, but the minute you leave the room and do something else, it boils! I guess what Im trying to say with that analogy is that love comes when you least expect it - and you'll find a guy thats RIGHT. And it'll totalllyyy be worth the wait.
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can anyone give me information on mystic tanning? how do they do it? how much does it cost? can you get tanned naked or does like someone spray you? does it make you orange??
does it wash off? how long does it last?
im in fla if that helps :) i know i can just go in the sun but i hate tanlines.
I got a Q & A on a site about mystic tanning that should answer all your questions + more.
http://www.mystictan.com/faq.htm
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I didn't know what category to put this in.
Hope that's k.
What's a good/free photo editor??
Thanks =)
Irfanview & Photoshop.
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Everytime I'm laying down on my boyfriend and we are making out, he always seems to shake his knee/foot (like move it back or forth, tap it, i can't really explain it). It's really starting to bug me as to why he does this. It also happens when we're making out standing up. Why does he do it? Does it mean anything?
He's probably really nervous when you guys are making out. No big, its just a pet peeve youre going to have to used to I guess. If it really annoys him, tell him.
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Is there any other movies with Channing Tatum in it except step up and shes the man because i already have them.
thanks :]
Not really. He only had small roles in:
War of the Worlds (2005) (uncredited) .... Boy in church scene
Havoc (2005) .... Nick
Supercross (2005) .... Rowdy Sparks
"CSI: Miami" .... Bob Davenport (1 episode, 2004)
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i LOVE singing. Everytime theres a song on that i like i sing. I really want to become a singer but im not sure if im good enough. I always sing in the car when my parents are there but they dont say oh wow your good, but the dont say im bad either. I record myself but my voice seems really low so im not sure if its me or the recorder. When i sing out loud and i hear myself i think i sound really good. A couple of my friends said im really good. Also my sister and I were playing this game because i wanted to see what she would say about my singing and she said i was great but im not sure if thats true because shes only 9. So what can i do to see if i sing good and also what should i do if i want to become a well known singer?
sorry this is long.
thank you so much :]
Im a singer also! And I very much want to be a famous singer, I think Im pretty good. Like you, Ive heard a million times people say, "Youre amazing!" But, sometimes I think theyre just being nice. :] Anyway, if you truly think its your passion you need to invest a lot of time in it. I take voice lessons and I benefit from it a LOT so I reccomend you do the same. It will really help you train your voice - very important if you want to be a singer! Also, try not to sing TOO much. If youre belting a song on the radio, try to sing from your lower abdomen (Ive really ruined my voice a lot by screaming songs like 'LaLa' by Ashlee Simpson) Haha, so dont do it! Also, if you want to get noticed, its a lot of work. And the chances are SLIM, but that doesnt stop me from trying! So it shouldnt stop you. Basically, sing anywhere you can. School plays, local talent shows, karaoke bars - you NEVER know who is watching you and when youre going to get discovered. So, neverrr pass up an oppertunity to sing. Then, you need to start writing some of your own songs and it would help to learn an instrument like guitar or piano since you'll stand out more if youre multi-talented. Then just wait. Its probably better to finish school and get an education. Im definitely going to college because if the singing thing doesnt work, you need something to fall back on! Seriously! So, try hard at school and get good grades, practice singing a lot, and maybe try to get an agent in your local area and make a demo to send to record companies.
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Okay whenever me and my boyfriend are messing around and i like touch him or poke him down there...he always tells me im making him hard?? im not sure if this is a good thing or a bad thing or even what it means..haha cause hes comeing over tonnight soo pleeasee help! thanks :]]
He's getting an erection. Its when his penis gets hard when touched or aroused. Good thing. :]
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What is your opinion on blonde hair?Do you think it is ugly?
No. But Im wondering why the same person keeps asking if ____hair is ugly? NO HAIR COLOR IS UGLY. It is unique and it usually looks beautiful but that depends on the person its on.
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