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Richie
okay, i really like this guy named Richie that i've known for awhile but one of my friends also likes him. i think that he is going to ask me out soon and i want to say yes but i dont want to hurt my friends feelings because they really like him too. i dont know what to do. plz help!
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Talk to her about it. Tell her you like him, and ask if she'd be upset if you two ended up going out. If she says she would be (which if she's being honest, she probably will)--well, then it's up to you whether the chance of the relationship is worth taking the chance of ruining your friendship. I will say this, though: guys will screw you over on a regular basis your entire life, whereas a truly good friend will be there for you until the day you die.
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Talk to them about it, one thing i learned is if you're friends cant be happy for you than they might not be worth it. Its not like its their Ex boyfriend of course they might get a lil jealous though. hope i helped=]
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Well, if he likes you - theres not much you can do about it! So, I say go for it. Talk to your friend first and tell her that you dont want a guy to come between you two and that if she's not okay with it, then you'll be reallyy hurt but you like him too.
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I would have a talk with her about it. If she's not already aware you like him, let her know. And decide what you two are going to do in the case that he asks either one of you out. Will you be both alright with it if he asks the other out? I mean, of course you'll be jealous, but you want the other to be happy, right? ( I had a current situation just like this, and me and my friend reached that decision that whatever happens, happens, and we'll be happy for the other. )
And in the end, that both gave us an opportunity ( but if you're sure he's going to ask you out, then it gives you alot more of a chance and everything and makes ties between you and your friend a-ok in the end ). Just, don't rub it in her face or anything. Try and point out other guys to her that also might meet her interests. Don't rush her to get over him, though. It's going to take some time, but just be there for her, and help her try and get over it, and hopefully she will soon.
But if you two reach the point where she'll get upset if you date this guy ; you really got think of wether it's really worth it or not. Friendship, or guy? I say: "guys come and go, but friends are forever." Eventhough a boyfriend's great, most relationships never last forever, and whose shoulder then would you have to lean on? Not hers, I bet. So if she's uncomfortable with you dating him, then I suggest you seriously sit down and think about what you feel's more important. A friend, or a guy.
I hope I helped.
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Hey!
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I`m sure you don`t want to hurt your friends feelings. But, if you turn this guy down, he could potentially go to this other chick & her ask out, then she could say yes.
You should totally date this guy if he asks you out. She`ll be mad for a few days, but then she`ll realize how dumb she`s being, & then everything will be OK again. Just be sure not to like kiss him or anything in front of her. You won`t know it, of course. Just try not to make her jealous, y'know?
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He'll ask out who he likes. If your friend is really your friends, she won't care. She'll be jealous for a while, but eventually, she will get over it. Friends will care, but she'll be there.
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