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I'm Almedina. I'm foreign, and I'm pretty much ready to handle whatever life throws at me. Ha, pretty random that I go from being foreign to life,but anyways. I've had this column for about two yearsnow, and I don't update it as I should, or want to but with school and this crazy teenage life of mine, it gets pretty hard to do so. I've been giving advice to all my friends since I can remember and I love trying to help them. I'm out going and extrememly loud once you get to know me. I'm usually shy at first unless I've gotten to know you. I don't understand life sometimes. But I've got my whole life to figure out the meaning of it. I'm selfish at times, and stubborn. I care too much about things I shouldn't and not enough about the MOST important things in my life. I'm very annoyed with people at times, and tend to just block everyone out. I'm afraid to say I'm in love, but I'm not afraid of love itself. I'm myself and that's all I can be. I've gone through a lot, so I'm willing to help in whatever way I can (:

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so theres this cutie in one of my classes and like usually he "flirts" with me.or i think its flirting? but the kind of flirting he does is aggressive..like pushin you around and stuff..ist that considered flirting or considered "i dont like you get away from me" and then today like jokingly every time i walked my him he would like push me around and be like ya lil BiaTch! and then i would say somethin back..ad then do you think he does this to flirt or does it because he doesnt like me?! hope ya can help!
thanks love

Well you should probably talk to him and ask him why he pushes you. If he says like because it`s fun or something weird but cutish then he`s just flirting. But if he`s like because I can or something mean then I`d stay away from him.

♥ aLMA

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okay well one of my good friends likes this lil hottie! and yeah ive never met him b4 but ive seen him around and shes told me alot about him. now i want to help her try and get him..what can i do? because she is wayyy to shy to go up and talk to him you know..even tho she talks to him in school i guess? im afraid that if i meet him or my friend wants me to talk to him or something that maybe he will start flirting with me..then what do i do?! im soo bad at like just blowing off hot guys..well not blowing off just not flirting back. because i would LOVE to flirt back but i DO NOT want to hurt my friend at all..what do i do!?

Well if you are afraid you`ll flirt with him then tell your friend that. If she wants this guy she should get her courage up and do it herself because the guy might think she`s too shy for anything. That sounds kinda confusing but whatever,lol. That`s all you can really do is stay away from the guy if you know you can`t control yourself, but if you are a real friend you wouldn`t do something like take the guy she likes away from her.

♥ aLMA

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okay..well i kind of like this kid i dont even kno if i like him its just that im really attracted to him!!..he doesnt know yet tho..i dont know if he even knows me? maybe what i look like! haha anywaysss he likes to do stuff with girls i guess. or he has "gotten stuff" if ya kno what i mean. this makes me jealous because i know that he thinks other girls are hott! and that makes me really jealous..even tho i havent really even talked to this kid before but he is just hilarious and just a lil cutie! what do i do?! i really wanna makeout with him =0 thats a problem tho since i havent actually met him yet and i wont see him for AT LEAST about another 2 weeks..bummmer! but yeah and then when i see him its only for like 2 hrs and hes always talkin to other people..blahh! what do i doo? im really shy so that doesnt help..well when i first meet someone i am lol but i LOVE to flirt..just not right when i meet someone..well i do but yeah i dont knwo if you get it? and lately this guy is all i can think about seriously.. and i havent even met him i dont even think he knows i exist! but yeah .. when i go to bed i think about him every night before i go to sleep..like us bein together DREAMIN heheh.. maybe sounds obsessed? i dont know.. ahhh..got any ideas for me to get this guy!!
haha thank you dear
xoxox

Well your first step would probably to be to meet this kid becuase he needs to get to know you and you need o get to know him. He might be cute and everything but what if you meet him and his personality is completely wrong for you? Just like talk to him online and be like we should hang out and then just hang out with him. Let yourself get to know him before you go crazy about him. Sorry I couldn`t help much.

♥ Alma

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Please only answer this question if you know a lot about singing and have musical knowledge. Thanks!

I've been singing for about 3-4 years now, and I've always been an Alto (I'm a female, by the way).
My voice isn't that great though (in my opinion), even though I've been singing for a long time.

I have a vibrato (For those of you that don't know, that's when your voice shakes a bit when you sing. I can control it, though). My question is, is there any way I can improve my voice and make it higher, like to a second Soprano?

Thanks so much!

You can`t force your voice to go up an aoctive [sp?] but you can practice by singing the Soprano part, but don`t force it. I`m a high Soprano but even I can`t sing the high notes so I drop down to the second Soprano part. Don`t force your voice or else you might not be able to sing again. Good luck babe ! :]]

Alma ♥

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ok so theres this boy and ive none him since 6th grade and im in 8th now and we went out in 6th grade like ALL year and then finally desiced to be friends and then the next year in 7thgrade we had leik a lotta classes together and then he played me ALL year and we never went out and then now im in 8th grade and hes duin it again but im not surre if hes playin me and i no im not going to get caught up in him b.c. this is my last year and i dont want a stupid boy to ruin my year or break my heart.....I DONO WAT TO DO ANYMoRE! =[

Well I don`t know. I agree with you. It is your last year and you should`nt let a boy ruin it for you. If he`s playing you then you would know since you`ve gone through it already once. But then again he could be having feelings for you again. Just see what`s going on for the next few days and if he`s messing with you, your heart will know it. :]] Talk to me more about this on AIM, and I think I can help you more.

♥ ;; ♥ ;; Alma

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http://www.livejournal.com/users/xd0nthatex_fake/

Wow.

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I love giving advice and havemade a couple of advice websites myself but they never suceed.That's why I joined this site;so I could give advice.I think it's something I'm good at and I'm not really that good at most things I do.Ilove this site because you can ask anonymous questions aswel as choose which questions you answer or not.I still want to be with this site but I also want to have an advice website of my own. Anybody have any ideas how I can build my own website and make it expand so I at least get 1 question a week.I would really appreciate reasonable answers thank you in advance

You can just find a free website or you can buy one. It matters on what you want to do. Well then you can just try to figure out how to put a "ask questions" buttom and stuff like that. I`m not a master at this sort of stuff but if you are it should be easy. This is kinda of like having your own website as well except there`s moderators that check up on things and fix things for us. But it`s up to you if you want to do something. Good luck :]]


♥ // Alma

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if you have just a regular xanga plan can you still add pictures.. or do you have to have primumen (spl?)

You can still add pictures, but there`s a limit for regular users and premium users.

♥ // Alma

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my cousin is getting married next august. im really close to her and we're trying to pick a good song for at the reception when they announce the people and they walk down. she wants a real fun party song like "Here For The Party" by Gretchen Wilson or "Let's Get This Party Started" by Pink. it doesnt have to have the word 'party' in it but can you help us think of any?!?! thankx... ♥

These are the top 15 songs for "wedding party songs" under google. Hope you like them. :]]
1. That's What Friends are For -Dione Warwick
2. Celebration -Kool & the Gang
3. YMCA -Village People
4. We Are Family -Sister Sledge
5. Theme from Friends -Theme from Friends
6. Thank You -Dido
7. RESPECT -Aretha Franklin
8. All My Life -K-Ci & Jojo
9. Lean on Me -Club Nouveau
10. A Little Help from my Friends -Beatles
11. Thank you for Being a Friend -Andrew Gold
12. You've got a Friend -James Taylor
13. You've got a Friend in Me -Randy Newman
14. I Will Survive -Gloria Gaynor
15. Let's Stay Together -Al Green

♥ // Alma

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ok so like i just met this girl like a month or two ago.. and now shes like one of my best friends. well i told her who i like and she told him online but i dont think he believed but then like she's always talking about how i like him and stuff.. he used to be her boyfriend and like he kissed her .. but shes going out with someone else so obviously she doesnt like him anymore. like i dont wanna stop being her friend or w.e. but i hate how she's always telling everyone.. like i dont wanna just be like "STOP!" but she just gets kinda tells everyone stuff about me and i hate it. PLEASE HELP ME.. AND ANSWER SERIOUSLY

Well the only good thing to do is to tell her how you feel, and if she acts like a stuck-up b!tch about it then she`s not worth it. She`s just trying to make you jealous and it looks like you`re letting her win. =[[ Good luck though. Sorry I couldn`t help much. =[[

♥ Alma

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Wait, I forgot the other part of my questions. Big pearls, or like smaller ones?

Hmm, well I don`t excatly know what you mean by big or small pearls. So I`ll answer in both ways that I think can be answered, lol.

If you mean thicker or thinner - I like the thinner ones but yet the thicker ones look amazing too. =]]

If you mean longer or shorter ones - I like them both. I like wearing short ones and then longer ones over them. But sometimes the shorter ones look a little better.

♥ Alma

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Do you like white pearls or creamish color?

♥ Me!!!!

I would rather like white pearls becuase well white goes with everything, but creamish colored ones are gorgeous. I just love pearls in every color. So I would say I like them both, but I love white ones a little more ;]]

♥ Alma

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Anyways, about the ex.. me & him always look at each other and stuff and I guess you could say " show off" in front of each other.

Most people can tell I still like him, but the thing is I never show it. I can't ever talk to him. I mean it's really hard. You can't just go up to someone you loved and be like heyy. You know what I mean?

Hm.. what's your opinion?

Yes, I know what you mean. I`m in your sitution as well. But listen as hard as it is, it`s better if you talk to him that way he`ll know you still care for him. To me I am still best friends with my last ex. And I love him very much still, but I thought about it and it`s not worth not having a best friend. Even if he is the ex. I know it`s tough believe me but you`re stronger that it so don`t worry about it, lol.

Yea I can imagine you guys "show-off" in front of each other because both of you are trying to impress each other. And that`s normal. It seems like you both still like each other very well.

♥ Alma

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Okay, well. The guy I went out with last year.. well I like him still. Of course. I mean I really loved the kid.. Now he has a new girlfriend and I don't really like seeing them together. I don't know if I get jelous or what. Am I over reacting or what?

No, this is a normal feeling. You`re always going to get a little jealous of the other girl because it reminds you of how you guys used to be. You`re not over reacting, but you`re probably just starting to like him. Don`t stop liking him but don`t think so much about him. Keep your mind busy on other things as well. And maybe if his current relationship doesn`t work out, yours will start up again. Good Luck.

♥ Alma

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what r some things that turn u on about guys?

A lot of things. Here some that I can think of right now.
Hair ; smile ; eyes ; body ; personality & sense of humor
If a guy plays a sports or surfs or snow boards - I think that`s a major turn on. Becuase no girl wants a guy who just sits around all the time.
Girls love a lot of things about guys, and a lot of thinks turn them on. As long as you`re taking care of your body you`ll be fine. =D

♥ ♥ aLmA

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i started school just about 2 months and i had a new teacher and i was not bothered about him at first actally i kind of hated him like other students. Students used to talk to him funny and i started to laugh abit he got mad at everyone when they started to laugh so he shouted at them but no at me.
After i stared having feels for him
Then after about a month:My mate was bothering him like making noise and she ran off when i was sitting down outside the classroom so he thought it was me so he told me to go in side the classroom for detention i told him that i did not do it, but did not belive even when my firends said she was making the noise
The next day i had a lesson with him and he talk to my mate who did it and said that I Did'nt expect you to go bargin in(thats when she said she did it)
Anyway i really like him even though he's a teacher and on monday am going to say sorry but i want him to know i like him how......

Yes you`re to young for hiM. He`s your teacher what do you think ?? You shouldn`t even have to think twice about this kind of stuff. It`s wrong. Don`t like him that`s all you should do. Sorry if this sounds mean. ♥ aLmA

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I know this is a stupid question. But can someone explain to me what a " queer " is ? Im so confused about it. I'll rate if you want me to

"Queer" can be another word for someone being bisexual or gay. I personally think it`s such a stupid word. ♥ ♥ aLmA

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alma i like these 2 girls but i dont know which one i like more ? i wanna ask one of them out but which one ?

Well make a list and see which features you like more about each girl. It`s tough to like more than one person and then have to choose one. Make sure the girl likes you, too. Good luck [♥] Alma

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do girls like the smell axe or tag.

Girls love the smell of Axe and Tag. I LOVE the smell of Axe. Any guy who wears Axe is good in my book, hehe. =D [♥] Alma

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Hey, your layout for your site is really cute. I was wondering where you got it. Please help me out. Thanks

Well at first I didn`t know how to do it either but my wonderful friend. Teza - who has a great column - helped me. She didn`t really tell me how to do it, I figured that on my own. All you have to do is save the background from another webiste [ like yoru xanga ] Then save it to like photobucket [www.photobucket.com] then copy the URL under the picture and put it under column settings. You should find something that says background url. Good luck [♥] Alma

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