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i slept over my friends house and she has a super hottt brother a couple years older than me wen she fell asleep he went up my shirt and fingered me and i gave him a handjob should i tell her?

please let me knoe as soon as u can


hahah you should tell your friend because after all, they are related .

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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I like this kid who my friend like but he dosent like her i think he likes me and ive always had a thing for this kid but my friend kinda stole him off of me even tho he isnt interested in her what should i do


im so confused ;; what are you saying ?

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If A Boy Jacks Off and Has Cum On His Hands Then Fingers You Could You Get Pregnant?


uhmm no a boy cant get pregnant from himself but if he fingers a girl with the cum still on his hands then there is a chance that the girl will become pregnant .

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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lately i have been soooooo stressed about homework and classes...is there anything i can do, like meditating or something to be less stressed?


breathing deeply and listeing to relaxing sounds help to soothe many people when they are stressed .

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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Hey well theres this guy at my school that I have liked for a really long time, and i'm pretty sure he knows. He always comes up to the hallway just to say hi and walks with me to my classes. He seens so comfortable around me and everybody thinks that we would be a cute couple. But the problem is that he has never had a girlfriend, and he literally wont ask a girl out. I really like him and want to go out with him, but idk if he honestly doesnt want a girlfriend, just afraid of commitmentm or is shy. oh ya, alot of girls like him and he even said (in a kidding way) that he could get any girl he wants.


whaddup danny

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how do you get backrounds on myspace??


www.createblog.com and www.whateverlife.com both have some really great selections of myspace backgrounds .

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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is pubery 101 a fake site??

noooo lol puberty101.com is a site that explains all kinds of different situations that your body goes through as a teenager .

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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can anyone tell me how to make a facial mask?

**sleepiesheep**


i know a good mask -- its called almond, honey and lemon facial scrub .

to make this gentle exfoliator, [in a saucer] put 2 tablespoons ground almonds (if you are allergic to nuts, substitute fine oatmeal), 2 tablespoons good quality honey, and 2 tablespoons of lemon juice . mix them together, then apply to the face in small circular movements, avoiding the eye area . the ground almonds removedead cells and smooth the skin, honey is hydrating and lemon juice tones the pores . leave on for 15 minutes, then wash off with warm water .

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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is it true tampons make your cherry pop? and does it mean you're not a not a virgin anymore?


its most likely going to pop your hymen, but you wont lose your virginity to a tampon, so dont worry =)

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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Oh Kay. so i was best friends with this kid since like forever and we liked each other and went out then i dumped him and after that hooked up with this other kid. and he was pretty mad at me after the breakup and then we talked and were going to go back out so we went to the movies and did stuff. and then days later i asked him if we liked this girl and he said no he just didnt want to go back out and now things are awkward between us and i still like him what should i do.


it seems like this boy is really bad with commitment . even though you went out with him, you were the one who dumped him and it was deffinetely for an important reason because you liked him .. why did you dump him anyway ?
but anyway when you hooked up with another guy and the guy you dumped got mad, he was obviously jealous and wanted you back, but since he said that he doesn't want to go out again i think you two should be friends with benefits . that way you can still like him ( and he probably still likes you but he has a hard time showing it . ) anddd you can hook up with other guys too - if you still want to do that - and he wont have to deal with going out with you, you can keep doing whatever you did at the movies .

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hi i was just wondering where i can find really cheap accessories. that look nice and expensive not like claires.. bangles, danbgling earrings, rings, and stuff like that like the preppy jewelery.. oh and i was wondering where i can find the pointy dress up heel with a low heel its really like skinny.. some websites where i can find those shoes..

and also where do you find the same type of heel but the front looks like flip flop

thanxxx so muchhhhh


where to get dangling earings under $20 :

xx- forever 21
xx- alltherageonline.com
xx- buckle
xx- wet seal
xx- hecht's
xx- express

bangels :

xx- alltherageonline.com
xx- kohl's
xx- dillard's
xx- macy's
xx- bloomingdales
xx- sears
xx- forever 21

biggg hott rings :

xx- girlprops.com
xx- fredflare.com
xx- marshall fireld's
xx- guess
xx- alltherageonline.com
xx- forever 21
xx- rue 21
xx- mandee.com
xx- 5*7*9
xx- wal - mart

of course allll of these things can be found at claires and icing in addition =)

as for the shoes id say the clearance section in dsw might be a safe bet .

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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is it ok to wear an (light) orange polo with a denim mini and pink flats?


yesss it sounds completely adorable ♥

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i just got my period, but the thing is, i got it 2 weeks ago, too. im really worried, im not expecting it for another 2 weeks! whats wrong?


aww hun its completely normal because its just irregular since you only got it 2 weeks ago . i know exactly how you feel .

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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i got my period about a year ago and i still have discharge even 2 or 3 weeks before my period comes..i know its not a yeast infection..is this normal?? 13/f


yess ! its totally normal ! almost everygirl goes through what you're going through.

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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Ok.. so Me & this guy.. Ben. Were like 'best friends' in the summer.. & he had a girlfriend since 7th grade.. & they broke up in like.. October.. so it was a pretty long relationship. & I helped him get through the whole break up phase & to basically get over her. Then in late October Me & him were at a party & we both got drunk & hooked up & he fingered me. So that made things kinda weird because we were so close. & I`ve liked him for a long time.. but idk what to do bc he`s still not totally over his ex.. & i'm not sure how to tell him or show him that i really do care about him & i wanna be w/him.. If you can help me figure out what to say/do.. that would be greattt


okayy well first of all, i think you should talk to this boy, if you haven't yet . you need to let him know how you feel about him, and chances are that since you hooked up and went to third are that he likes you ( even though you were both drunk ) . plus he is single now, and it seems like he is pretty much over his ex girlfriend . if things get too weird because maybe theres still that slim chance that he still does like his ex, then maybe you should give him a little bit more time to completely get over her and make sure that shes totally out of the picture before you get with him . after shes out of the picture then lifes a party so get down and dirty and have fun !!

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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is it gay for a guy to go on a diet?


hah why would that be gay ? its fine to diet as long as you excersize and eat normally and healthfully .

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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Is it weird that I love my daddy more than my mom?

No smartass comments!


noo haha its fine ! some people favorite one parental unit over another because maybe theyre nicer or treat them with more respect .

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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what exactly does it mean to be friends with benefits? like what is different about it than being b/f and g/f? thanks


friends with benefits means that you can hook up with a guy, and then go and do it with another guy, or just stay with that one guy and not be boyfriend and girlfriend . when your going out then you have to be honest with eachother and not cheat on him, but when your fwb then you dont have to go through the breakup process, and thats why people do it these days .

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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why does everyone look at a teen having a baby like the end of the world for them. i mean i know its hard but I've seen tons of people work through it,and live successful lives. so its a challenge. but worse can happen. i mean if the person can be a good monther and somehow support herself and her child isnt that enough?


it deffinetely is . i dont know why people make big deals about it either .

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okay i am 14/f in case it matters

okay well you see, my cousins from arizona came up for christmas and new years to visit us. one is 16 and the other is 22. well they came up and they were staying at my grandmas hosue. well i wanted to hang out with them so i figured id spend the night (by the way both of my cousins are guys). anyways so i got there and my grandparents werent there. my cousins said that they went to dinner 2 hours away at some really fancy returaunt. well, they took me upstairs and they told me to sit ont the bed. they started kissing me and slowy putting their hands down my pants and up my shirt. since i had never had a real boyfriend befor they told me that they were only showing me what to expect when i had one. so thye kept doing all this stuff to me and made me do some weird stuff to them and practically forced me to have sex with them.

i know its wrong and that i should tell someone one but what wiill people say when i tell them i had sex with my cousins? please help me idont know what to do =(

♥ ~*me*~ ♥


okay, so basically you were raped by your relatives and you need to tell someone (a parent or confide in a friend) and let them know what happened . it totally wasnt your fault, so they wont be mad at you or anything like that . good luck !!

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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