Ok.. so Me & this guy.. Ben. Were like 'best friends' in the summer.. & he had a girlfriend since 7th grade.. & they broke up in like.. October.. so it was a pretty long relationship. & I helped him get through the whole break up phase & to basically get over her. Then in late October Me & him were at a party & we both got drunk & hooked up & he fingered me. So that made things kinda weird because we were so close. & I`ve liked him for a long time.. but idk what to do bc he`s still not totally over his ex.. & i'm not sure how to tell him or show him that i really do care about him & i wanna be w/him.. If you can help me figure out what to say/do.. that would be greattt<33
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? iiloveyou answered Thursday January 19 2006, 5:35 pm: okayy well first of all, i think you should talk to this boy, if you haven't yet . you need to let him know how you feel about him, and chances are that since you hooked up and went to third are that he likes you ( even though you were both drunk ) . plus he is single now, and it seems like he is pretty much over his ex girlfriend . if things get too weird because maybe theres still that slim chance that he still does like his ex, then maybe you should give him a little bit more time to completely get over her and make sure that shes totally out of the picture before you get with him . after shes out of the picture then lifes a party so get down and dirty and have fun !!
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