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Uhh Me && This Guyyy<3
Ok.. so Me & this guy.. Ben. Were like 'best friends' in the summer.. & he had a girlfriend since 7th grade.. & they broke up in like.. October.. so it was a pretty long relationship. & I helped him get through the whole break up phase & to basically get over her. Then in late October Me & him were at a party & we both got drunk & hooked up & he fingered me. So that made things kinda weird because we were so close. & I`ve liked him for a long time.. but idk what to do bc he`s still not totally over his ex.. & i'm not sure how to tell him or show him that i really do care about him & i wanna be w/him.. If you can help me figure out what to say/do.. that would be greattt<33
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If you want to get him over his ex and liking you be very flirty.. yet don't over do it, make it obvious, and push him away.. play around with him alot when you're together and even give him little suprises.. if you really want to get his ex out of the way show him how she never deserved him and how he can have so much better.. make him feel like she wasn't worth it.. you can even tell him he needs someone more like you who is totally way better! ;) he seems like he does have feelings for you with some of the things he did and keep that in mind to assure yourself he's not exactly looking to be "just friends".. the more you flirt with him and make him see what a great girlfriend you could be the more he's going to want you and forget all about that other bitch..
i hope i helped some<33
Lindsey<3
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wow that is quite a problem but i think the best thing to do is to sit him down sometime and let him know how you feel. There is nothing worse than going through life with "what ifs" in your mind. If he doesn't know how you feel then there is no gaurantee that he will ever know unless you tell him. The worse thing that can happen is that he doesn't feel the same way about you and you both end up just being friends again.
Let him know he has to get over his ex if he is ever going to move on in life.
Hopefully after letting him truly know your feelings everything will work out
good luck
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