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born and raised in chi-town.(a.k.a.- chicago- for the slow kids)Last time i checked, i was a girl.and i have 10 piercings- 9 of which i did myself.(all but my eyebrow). fun stuff.

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okay well i am going onto my parents plan this weekend. and i am going through sprint. i really want a razr phone but they do not sell them at the sprint store so this is what i was thinking. (i have no knowledge on this whatsoever). okay well i was just going to add a line onto their plan and with that i can get one of the free phones. well if i got a free phone would i be able to switch the sim card out of that phone and possibly like buy a razr off of ebay with no sim card in it and put the sim card from my free phone into the razr phone? would the sims card only work on sprint phones or how would that work? i know one of my friends got a new razr phone and she put her sim card from her old phone into her new razr. but she had cingular. thanks in advance. and i am getting my phone this weekend so please hurry.

i bought a pink razr and switched my sim card into it from my old phone. mind you, i am with cingular, and i had to pay the flat rate of 350.00 to get it. you morethan likely will have to pay the same amount since you cant add a cingular phone to a sprint plan. i wouldnt recommend buying one off of ebay- because it could seem to be fine- but it could start acting comletely strange after a while. (theres ovbiously a REASON someone would be selling it so cheap online)- but- as far as i know, anyways- no- you cannot take a sprint sim and use it in a cingular phone. it won't accept it. it will keep saying please insert sim card, and wont even acknoledge tht there is one in there. i would suggest either buying your own plan with cingular to get the razr, or not even wasting your money to try and put your sim card in one. it wont work.

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answered Sunday June 4 2006, 5:49 pm:
there is noway i was going to sit and read all of your question- tht was like, an essay. but as far as i got- about him liknig kelsey- who was with his best friend- you have no right to claim tht shes not pretty. because obviously she is to TWO different guys. if shes your friend- you should back her up- not be jealous of her, and beat her down because she got the attention of the man you like. and even if she was the uglies thing on earth- did you ever think that guys go for morethan jsut looks?- because its true! so maybe you dont have what thyre looknig for in a personality.< thats what you said but i have to disagree.First shes my best friend not his. He just met her that day. And i kno this guy and the looks what gets u in his door. Sounds shallow but trust me 99% of guys are liek that. Dont hope theyre not because they are. Ive been through sooo much that i know these things. PLus im not calling her ugly but shes NOT his type at all. And it figured out after couple days when he was like wtf was i thinking shes nothing im looking for. And i am. He just cant admit when his sober because hes afraid and i dont kno what to do.

first off, dont tell me how guys are. ive got a feeling ive got much more experience with that- seeing as how ive been with my man for over a year now. who are you to say that 99% of guys are like that when theyre not. did you ever think that youre just attracted to jerks?- learn to hang out with people who respect you, and youll find that not all guys are like that, my friend. so, i dont even wanna know what it is that youve 'been through' to know that. thats disgusting. and who are you to say that youre the person hes looking for.?- obviously YOURE NOT! when people get drunk- its EASIER for them to tell you their feelings. if hes not even telling you when hes drunk out of his mind- then HES NOT INTO YOU! get over it and stop being easy- stop obsessing over this one jerk of a guy who cant even stay sober for 2 seconds, and realize that HE DOESNT WANT YOU. thats life. get used to it. i know what im talking about.
p.s.
keep your legs shut. he obviously doesnt even want any of that- no matter how shallow he is.

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i REALLY want to shop at a&f and hollister and stores like that. it's not because everyone else does, it's because personally i like there clothes. my parents make me shop at wal mart and it's messing up my social life. i hate wal mart's clothes and shit and my friends ask me why i don't wear the good brands. and it's not like my family can't afford good clothes, because my dad's a multi millionaire. they just don't understand WHY i want to spend so much on clothes. i've made up my mind and don't tell me it doesn't matter what i wear because i'll give you a 1. i need to prove to my parents that shopping at the expensive stores is worth it. and i can't make any money on my own because if i do, my parents say I CANT spend it on a&f and hollister clothes. it's messing up my social life. i wont have friends ever again because i cant wear nice clothes. im done with wal mart so what can i say to my parents so they'll let me shop where i want ?!? i'm old enough to choose where i want to purchase my clothes, especially when my dad was over 1 million dollars.

anything good will get you a 5
i promise

haha. youre a trip. what makes me believ that your dad is a multi-millionaaiire if he shops at walmart. that is the lamest thnig ive ever heard ,and you need to get a tight grip on reality- no one cares what you wear!- trust me- they have better things to worry about. and- i dont think ive ever been mean to someone on here, but youre honestly a loser for even thinknig youre going to lose friends because your poor dad shops at walmart. did you ever think they might not want to be friends because of how dumb you are. c'mon. lets think.

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hi everyone:)

k so i'm 14/f and i'm really fair skinned and for some reason i can't find out how to get a natural tan (without using a bed or spray or self tanner) i mean real tan from being outside. How low long dose it usually take to get one? and is there anything i could put on to get a tan while i'm outside?

Thanks,
Becca

time depends on a lot of things. so i cant really help you on that- its all genetics, but what i can recommend is a tanning lotion. doesnt have to be expensive but make sure it has some kind of spf in it. apply that all over, and when youre laying out- when laying on your back- apply a tanning oil to all exposed parts of your body. when about to lay on your back have a little assistance in applying it on your backside. i wouldnt recommend aplying the oilallover before you lay down- because it can get really uncomfortable. just put it on which ever side of your body youre about to tan. hope i helped!
p.s.
hawaiian tropic works real good. but any kind will do.

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Hey im a girl. Im 15 years old. I really like this guy who is a year older then me. We do not go to the same school. So we met on myspace but we live close to each other and next year im going to be going to the same school he is. We met and talked and we also talked alot on aim he was giving me all hints he likes me: calling me his favorite and telling me how amazing i am. Then couple days after we hang out on the weekend it was me him two of my girlfriends and his friend. He was flirting with me and i was flirting with him and i was pretty much positive he liked me. Then we went over to his friends house and everyone else saw we liked each other. They asked me if i liked him and i said yea then they asked him if he liked me and he said he didnt know but i never knew that so i thought he did so i kept on acting like nothing was wrong. Me and him ended up making out for hours. Next morning he was a little akward around me but i knew for a fact he enjoyed making out with me he even told me that. That day i texted him asking him if he liked me as a friend or more because i needed to know. He texted back saying he likes me as a friend. I was really bumbed. Btw my other girlfrined(kelsey) hooked up with the guy i like best friend after an hour of knoning him and did more then make out with him. But going back i was really mad at austin for making out with me and telling me he likes me as a friend. Next couple days i didnt talk to him so he talked to me like nothing was wrong and he stil thinks im the shit and he likes me(he never told but hinted). The very next day i find out he likes my friend(kelsey) who hooked up with his best friend. I was in SHOCK! shes not his type at all! She not very bright or pretty not sound mean or anything but guys never really go for her specially from me to her and so i was really confused. I was soo pissed off also he was doing and tellin the same things he was doing to me. I got over it but then after a week the guy i liked started texting me at night saying he misses me and we need to start over i went and asked my friend why is he liking me all of the sudden didnt he like kelsey a week ago and she just said he was drunk when he texted me. So i kind of just forgot about it but that weekend i saw him and he told me that he doesnt like kelsey anymore so i was like alright. but he was flirting with my other girlfriend and not me. Then he got drunk and everything changed he totally liked me we went to his car and he told me all this stuff that he was afraid he would never get me and thats why he went for kelsey and that he really really likes me and even loves me but i was drunk too(tipsy)So we made out and stuff. Next day he told me he didnt rember anything when i know for a fact he was not that bad to not remmeber anything. So please someone help me? is he PLAYING me? whats going on. Some people say hes way to innocent and shy and had no confidence so he doesnt try to get wiht me because hes afraid to get hurt and turned down.But i really like and i wouldnt do that to him and i think? he knows that. PLease tell me what to do!!!???!?!

there is noway i was going to sit and read all of your question- tht was like, an essay. but as far as i got- about him liknig kelsey- who was with his best friend- you have no right to claim tht shes not pretty. because obviously she is to TWO different guys. if shes your friend- you should back her up- not be jealous of her, and beat her down because she got the attention of the man you like. and even if she was the uglies thing on earth- did you ever think that guys go for morethan jsut looks?- because its true! so maybe you dont have what thyre looknig for in a personality.

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If the guy you like, asked you if you liked him, what would you say? Should you tell him the truth and take the risk, or just tell him you don't like him and keep it all inside for him to find out?
Thanks.

definetely tell him how you feel. you beat around the bush- youre takig a chance that he mightmove on to someone else. its not worth it- be honest with him.

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I am 18 f I dont like my body cause I am tooooooo little I eat everything in front of me and then some but I cant gain wait for anything I know there is nothing wrong with me cause I went to the doctor what can I do

thts jsut your metabolism, sweetheart, all i cn say is just be happy with what you were given,and behappy you werent born morbidly obese. i know it sounds harsh- but its true! hope i helped

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My boyfriend just got back from Iraq. I missed him and with him being gone for 7 months was very hard for me. He is about to leave again in January to ship across the world. Which he will be gone for 6-8 months. We are both into each other a lot. When we started dating I knew it would be like this but now that I am see first hand what its like its like I dont get to see him that much. He still has about 2 more years in the Marine Corp and he could go back to Iraq and he was telling me the other day that he was thinking about relisting again. I love him and want to be with him. But what if he asks me to marry him cause I kn ow the question is about to be asked.

then youve got to tell him straight up, that if you guys do in fact get married, then he really should think about the way that you feel, and what you want out of the realtionship. tell him that you would like him to be around,d and that you dont like worrying about him all the time. but i know exaclty how it is to be scared all thr time liek that- my cousin is in the navy, and every day im scareed that somethig might happen to him if he goes into iraq. but the best way to handle this would beto tell him exaclty how you feel. he loves you to death- he will definetely understand. really hope i helped. good luck.

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14/f...ive been going out with my boyfriend for about three weeks and his birthday is on the last day of school. One of my friends is throwing an end of school party on the last day of school (his bday). I can't bring him to the party because ALL my friends don't like him at all; they won't let me bring him basically. We've already talked about his birthday but I haven't had the courage to tell him that I would rather go to my friends party but I don't know how to tell him. What should I do?

dont listen to your friends- what are they going to do?- kick you two out because they dont like him?- iftheyre real friends at all- then they wont care who youre going out with.

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oh, so i took my retainers out in school and put them in my pocket. at the end when i took them out there was a crack in it. i put it on my teeth and got scared becaue i'd have to pay for them. well when i went to take the retainers off the crack got bigger and i wripped a piece off. i am sooo scared. my mom would KILL me if she found out they were in my pockets. can someone help me thing of a good excuse? like getting hit in the face with a basketball or anything? is that a good one? ah im soo scared because i heard they are sooo expensive to replace..are they?

thr basketball thing is definetely a good idea. other than that- theres really nothing i can think of.

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ok well i have all these bumps all over the back of my thighs and on my but i dont no why they are there but i dont like it ,,how can i get rid of them?

i rate 5s

i got the same thing from a lotion once- my skin got real irritated. another reason would be if your pants, capris, shorts, etc. are too tight. often, when you sweat, it can get trapped if theyre too tight. hope i helped.

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What is 666? I know it has something to do with the devil.. I'm an atheist, so I don't know what it is and why the heck everyone is so worked up. Can someone please explain this to me?

we are not going to all die on june 6th 2006. 666 is the mark of the beast that will be put unto all people who deny Christ after the rapture. the rapture is when God will come to earth and release our souls from our bodies to be taken into heaven. anyone who is left with the mark of the beast after the rapture will not be allowed into heaven,and will not be allowed to trade goods on earth to keep themselves alive. therefore, they will be destined to die, no matter what- and even the devil cant help them. also, God stated that you will not know when he comes to earth for the rapture- so why everyone is claiming its gonna be this tuesday is insane. if everyone knew what day he was coming back- they would enjoy themselves, and at the last minute repent for their sins and take it all back. God wont give you the benefit of the doubt- thats why you must be prepared to leave,and be following God every moment in your life, because we never know when he will come back. ifyou want to talk anymore about this- IM me- mikelly4039. ill be more than happy to talk to you about any questions you have.

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ok so im a freshman in high school (15 yrs old) and like every weeekend someone in our grade has a party at their house.. and of course there's drinking. a lottt of people go.. and it's always the thing that everyone is talking about the week after that in school.. i havent gone to any yet.. but i really want to. what are some tips to like "fake drink" or only drink a little?

dont do it. i can already tell that its somethig you dont want to do. so dont do it. faking it (which is impossible) will just look dumb. be yuorself, and dont drink.

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when parent's ask you a question you don't know the answer to what do you say. They hate it when you say i don't know.

say, "honestly, i have no idea"- they cant accuse you of lying if you sed, 'honestly'. good luck.

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I'm going to a dinner with my husband, it's an Awards night. It's at a well to do Horse Racing Club so I need ideas on what I should wear. I haven't been to one of these things before so I really don't know what to wear.
Please Help.

a little black dress, and awesomely sexy heels. curl your hair, and make it look gorgeous for him. you cant go wrong! good luck ,and havefun!

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Ok, So I am 13 years old and since May 2005, I have found myself madly in love with no other than a 20 year old McDonalds worker. He has started to open up a little more in the past couple of months, and he gives me lots of hugs, flirts, and shows all the "signs" of love back. Yet he has never told me. This week we are supposed to go to the movies. My question is, Should I open up and tell him I love him or should I just wait until he does?

when yout tell somebody you love them for the firt time- its not something you plan out beforehand- its something that you jsut do- without thinking. when i was talknig to my boyfriend on the pohne late on night when i was on vacation- we atrted talknig about family issues that i had had and about my dad. he tried to comfort me, and make me stop crying- but instead- i came out of nowhere and just sed- "i dont know how youre going to take this- but i love you". needless to say he took it very well, and weve been dating now for over a year. now doesnt that sound a whole lot more romantic than planning it out at the movies? good luck ,and i hope i helped!

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hey... well my boyfriend jordan and i have been going out for a month now. but my problem is that he invited me to go to the community pool with his family tomorrow. but, i don`t want to go. i am veerrryyy self-concious when my stomach is showing, because i`m quite chubby for my age. i don`t want to lie to him, but i also don`t want to be in a bathing suit around other people. so, i`m scared to go because i`m afraid he`ll be embarassed to be seen with me. what should i do??

get an amazingly cute one-piece. they have them out now where they peek and show a little bit of your tummy, without showin it all. i was even thinkin about getting a one-piece because theyre coming back in style

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tomorrow i am meetin my boyfriend of 10 months mom. i would like to know some do's and dont's about. i was wondering if it would be okay to wear make-up and what is something to wear. thanks 4 everyone who answers. i will rate

dont feel unworthy- the fact that youre so willing to make a good impression on her would mean a lot to her if she knew. id say makeup is fine. wear, probably a cute polo, and a decent pair of capris and flip flops or sumthin. nothng to dressy, and nothing to worn in. other than that- be yourself, and everythig should go fine. good luck.

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i am not very athletic. I hate running, and i'm not particulary competitive. I dont like being responsible for things on a team because i'm always scared i'll let the team down.Also i hate practices where you have to do sprints and drills esp. since i'm not a fast runner. I take dance and i play a little tennis but i'm not particularly good at eaither. What would be a good sport for me to play?

well, because you seem so hard on yourself, honestly- there doesnt seem to be a sprt good for you. in orderto be in a sport and truly love it- youve got to learn to be confident.

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well, i was in my bf's room a few weeks ago and he left for a moment, and i found a piece of paper saying "her" with an email address. I got immediately suspicious and remembered the email.
Later I added the email using a fake account and it turned out to be his ex! I started talking to her out of curiosity and we became "friends" she soon started going on about her ex and I know it was my bf she was referring to. i know they had been together a very long time and i think he really liked her, but the rest of the details of the relationship he didn't tell me because he knew i would be jealous. we were only friends when he was dating her. now i'm finding out all sorts of things, and i've found out he's lied to me about a few things from his past. she's also made out that he still isn't over her but she is over him. he told me he was over her. i really didn't mean to find this stuff out. the more i find out, the more upset i get. besides, i keep comparing myself to her because she's older than me and has had so many bfs and experience, and my bf seemed to like her more than me!

what should i do? should i continue speaking to her, or tell my bf everything and confront him? i feel awful about it now.. i wish i had never added her because it was going behind his back. but i also feel i need to keep speaking to her to find out the truth. this is a hopeless situation - please help? thank you

this is definetley a hopeless situation. youre being mad at him for lying to you, but yet- youvepretty much lied to him by talknig to her behind his back. i'd say this is a lose lose situation, and youd be better off to not say a word about it to him unless you want to feel real stupid. sorry i hadto be so blunt- only tryin to help. good luck.

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