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okay so this guy has been talking to me.
and like he is always calling me babe or beautiful
but i heard he is a player. and when i imed him
today he said "hey kid" what does that mean?
that he thinks im way younger then him.
i mean he is one year older then me. i mean he
has gone all the way and i have only made out
but does that mean im still a kid. i need help
I'm sure its just a term. My friend calls me kid all the time, I call him kid too and hes a year older than me. I don't think it means anything. Hope this helped
Ok so you know how underneath your belly button theres like that fat? Its like a band of fat around the bottom of your stomach? How do you get rid of that? Do you know any exercises to get eliminate that?
Crunches, situps, theres plenty of things you can do.
http://www.self.com/fitness/workouts/search?query=category%3Aabs
But if your a girl, which I think you are, Ive heard that the fat or skin below your belly is for when you have children.
I want to get my belly button pierced, but if I get it pierced, can't I like not go swimming for like 6 weeks?
Well when I got mine done the guy said that swimming, hot tubing, bathing- those will all help clean it out. Mine has been in for maybe a month and a few weeks and ive already taken it out, switched it, swam, done evrything and its fine.
14/f
well there is this one boy...i really really liked him and i still do...but i found out he was cheating on me with this girl and then broke up with her...i found out bout it later...after they broke up...i talked 2 him and he said that he only went out with her b.c he didnt want 2 hurt her feelings...he said he wanted another chance with me...he says he really loves me...hes willing to do anything 2 get me back...wut should i do? i really love him...but he could cheat on me again...
so i guess my question is...should i go out with him again or not?
please help me!!
If you like him enough then yeah, give him another chance. People change, but then again they might never change. You never know unless you give him another chance. It would hurt alot (i think) to just say no to someone you like that much and have to not be with them when you know you could. I say give him a chance, you never know unless you try. Hope this helped
16/m/il
My question concern's what makes a girl the horniest. Is it how you touch them and where, how you kiss them. What is the best way to make a girl HORNEYY...
It is different for some girls. But i think most of them like gentle touches. Like if you run your fingers down there back, or their arm or leg.
-Kissing a girls neck
-puting your hand around their waist
-wraping your arms around her
-puting your hand on her leg
Honestly, it differs. Some girls might like other things. Hope this helped some
holy cerplunk!!! thanks so much! if you didnt tell me to tell my mom about this thing on my private part and i didnt go to the doctor then it probably would have got infected and it would have got really bad and it wouldnt be good! thank you sooo much you are the best advice giver ever!!!!
Your welcome
okay so im a female and 5' 4 1/2" and i weigh 110 pounds. is that overweight for me? because im in good shape i just dont know if im too heavy. thanks so much katie. i love you
Its healthy. Its a great weight. Don't worry about anything your fine. Haha, thanks =)
Hey katie, this is actually a good friend of yours :). I'm just kind of confused on a few things and I'd like your help..this might be kinda long =/. Well, me and this boy are kind of together, basically dating just not official yet, if you get what I'm saying. I've already done stuff with him and I like him, and I'm pretty sure he likes me a lot too. The only problem is I miss my ex more than anything. I'm still pretty much in love with him and I dont want to think about him anymore. I mean, I like this boy, but I love my ex boyfriend. If that even makes any sense to you? And I feel like I'm cheating on this new boy that I'm 'with' because he thinks that I only like him. In fact, everyone thinks that I only like him. No one really knows that I miss my ex, not even my ex himself. He actually has a new girlfriend now and we're finally friends again, it's a long story though and I'm kind of just rambleing haha. I just dont know what to do. Should I keep this guy I'm with or should I stop while I'm still ahead to avoid hurting him? Please help
You weren't rambling, its fine. I understand your problem don't worry, I know what your talking about =). Well it sucks that your still so into your ex but when your around your new guy do you think about your ex alot? Sometimes you can be with your new guy and then get home or whatever and have time to think to yourself and then you'll be like, "wow i haven't thought of my ex all day" or something like that, and it will amaze you. If you do that, then I guess thats good because your new guy helps take your mind off your old boyfriend. And yeah I guess you can feel guilty for loving someone when your almost with someone else, but you know what, only you know so don't let people find out or give you crap about it because thats just more sh*t to deal wtih. And your not even going out for sure yet either. But since your ex has a girlfriend, ask yourself if you really have another chance? Im so sorry I absoulty hate facing reality like that and i feel horrible making you think that because I know how much it hurts thinking you can never be together again. But do you think you have another chance wth your ex? If you dont, then I would just try to stay wtih your current guy and hopefully forget about your ex over time. Maybe if your friends again with your ex he can like you again and you might be together? Im not sure, anything can happen. Sorry this is kind of confusing what im saying. I think this is a time consuming thing, my best advice is to see how you feel around your new guy. If it feels good, right, it makes you happy then try and stick with him. It's up to you. Yeah you don't want to hurt him but you've got to find something out right? So when the time comes for him to get hurt just be easy on him. SOrry for the confusion, hope this helped.. if not ask again and i'll try to be more clear.
-Katie
alright i told my mom about my problem like the hair thing and shes calling the doctor and i think im going to go in and have it looked at. thank you so much! you helped me alot.
Your welcome =)
alright i just went to go tell my mom about my hair on my vagina thingy. and i got scared. so i just went upstairs. i dont know how to approach my mom about this kind of stuff. like its every awkward. please help me! thanks alot.
Just be like, "mom I think i need to see the doctor". ANd she'll ask why, then you can say, "because there is something wrong down there, its purple and it hurts really badly". If shes asks anymore just tell her, what other options do you have?
yeah im the same person who had that hair on my head thing that went into my vagina. and i didnt tell anybody i was just going to see if it got better in the next day. and it didnt. it got worse. the little bump got bigger and its turning like purpleish reddish. and it really hurts. should i tell my mom so she can take me to the doctor/hospital. or do you just think i should leave it. i dont know but im scared. thanks alot.
Tell your mom please. Don't let it get worse. Tell her right away. It might be nothing but it can also be something, so tell her right away.
http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y11/Zeilay/hoih.jpg
I've put on weight. And today two seperate people were like
"Oh,Jordann you've put on weight."
One even was like you were like this [ ], now you're like this [ ]" (with her hands)
I'm feleign really self-conscious, and insecure.
Should I try and drop a few?
You look thin. It doesn't matter what people say or what anyone says. It's what you think. If you want to loose weight Im sure its healthy and fine. I think you look fine, but its all what you think. Were you satisfyed with your body before they said anything? If so, keep yourself the way you are.
okay. so like there was a piece oh my hair that was on my head that got like onto my vagina in the shower some how. then somehow it like wrapped around a little part of my vagina so its like cutting off the circulation. like now theres a little bump and its turning like purple because the blood isnt flowing through. and i tried to like cut the hair off of it and because its wrapped so tight around it wont come off. this sucks because it kills so bad! please help me. im in so much pain.
That sucks. Try taking a bath and scrubing down there to see if it gets off. If not, try taking a mirror and looking around to see better. If nothing works, tell a parent and maybe you can go to the doctor, hospital, anything. Good luck
so theres this guy and i thought i liked him but then when we were hanging out, like out of nowhere he just like kissed me and then he tried to makeout and i pulled away cause i didn't want to but then he tried it again and that was the first time i ever kissed a boy so it was kinda weird and i dont have feelings for him anymore but he still likes me! how can i tell him that i just want to be friends without breaking his heart?????
Theres no sure way you can't hurt him. You'll just have to let him down easy. Tell him that you just don't like him as much anymore. Or you just want to be friends. Sure guys hear that all the time but what else can we say? We don't want to hurt them ya know? Just be nice about it and I'm sure he'll be fine with it sooner or later. Hope this helped
I live in Indiana 13/F. I weight 131 lbs. I cant get out much because i have to watch my three year old sister almost everyday. What can i do to lose about weight and not have to go out doors? I would like to lose 20 lbs because I seriously have a preagnant looking stomach. Well I hope you can help.
Thanks.
If you had a tremil, start walking! Walk if your not as active, then start running/jogging. Do whatever feels good. Walking is real good so you should start. If you don't have a tremil maybe go for walks with your little sitter (stroller or not). Bike riding is great too, if you ever have time for that. Since your stuck inside do crunches or situps. Theres so many exercises to do. But mostly, cardio will help burn calories eventaully helping loose weight. And cardio gets your heart pumping. So running, biking, swimming, jump roping, anything active do that.
http://www.self.com/fitness/
That site has a bunch of stuff you can do inside. Crunches will help with yuor stomach- I had a stomach like that and I do 100 (most days) crunches and it went away. So try 100+ crunches a day. But of course if you don't eat right you don't even need to bother trying to loose weight. Eat good- cut out fast foods, pops, sweets, alot of snacking. Dont' starve yourself at all! But before eating a bowl of icecream ask yourself.. "Do i really need this"?. Try a breakfast, snack, lunch, snack, dinner. Keep it small though, make sure not to over eat. And your last meal should be atleast 2 hours before yuo sleep. I keep the last thing I eat before 7 usually. Here..
http://health.yahoo.com/topic/weightloss/overview/article/prevention/17888;_ylt=AmLOwDPfUIHXfgbhOkj6fBTOtMUF
That could help. If you need anything else i.m me.
-katie
idk if you've ever seen how people copy & paste comments to there about me and stuff . like just by selecting a comment & then saving it or w/e. i was just wondering if you knew how to do that. haha.
Im really sorry. I know what your talking about but I can't figure out how to do that. I tried going to my comments and saving the window, then opening it on paint but it's not what your trying to get. Sorry, I tried =/
im a 14F and have started giving my boyfriend
a hand job it seems to take a while before his
penis to get hard im not sure if im doing it right
is there way to make a guy cum quicker?
Hmm, thats weird. I thought this question was odd so I told some of my guy friends and they said that a girls hand alone in their pants would give them a boner. Even thinking about it could get them hard. So thats different I guess? If he doesn't have a boner, try making out with him before and kissing and stuff to get him warmed up. Hope this helped
okay , im a girl
& im going out with this kid who is really nice and cute anf funny. we have been goin out for only like a month. not even. the first time we went out i broke up with him cuz i just didnt like him anymore and i broke his heart and his parents didnt like me anymore. =/ then i missed him so i asked him out again. and now i think i dont like him anymore again [ for real this time ]. but my mom and his mom are REALLY good friends and i dont want his mom to like hate me if i break his heart again. but like i really want to break up with him. and i just dont know what to do.
and like some people think i dont like him, too. so like yeah i dont know. please help
You coulddd try the whole, "get him to break up with you" thing, but then you'd have to do something that you might get a bad reputation for. And if it were me I'd rather have one mom mad at me instead of a bunch of my peers thinking I am something Im not. Ya know? Just break up with him. If you want to, do it. You do what you want not what you think you should do. He handled it before, and im sure he can again. If you don't like him then don't be with him. Too bad if his mom is mad about it. Maybe talk to your mom and get her to talk to his mom so she can understand your situation a little more. Hope this helped
i am 14/f 5'9" 136 lbs. how many calories should i eat a day to get to 130?
1600 is good for anyone.
http://www.caloriecontrol.org/calcalcs.html
I typed in your age, height, weight with light activity and it says you need close to 1900? (Check out that site)
http://www.self.com/fitness/calculators
Those can help you both.
Ok I weigh 135 lbs and I want to lose atleast 10.
I'm 5'3.
Its mostly my stomache that bothers me,
what are really effective exercises that will help that, that I can do at home.
I'm also trying to eat right,
but no matter what I eat in a day, even if its healthy and not huge portions I always gain atleast 2 pounds, and yesterday I only had 1,000 calories.
I'm so confused, help?
FYI silly- when you wake up, go to the bathroom, then stand naked on the scale, that is your true weight. So if you eat a lb of food threw the day that doesn't mean you gained a pound. Wait till morning. I weight myself only once a day every morning after I wake up.
My stomach was huge too, I looked pregnant. But I started doing crunches (sets of 25, 20 if you want to) everyday. I still do atleast 100 crunches and my abs are toned. Start off with 100 or more a day. Do them when you're watching tv or just laying around the house.
When your eating, make sure to just controll how much you eat. Don't stop eating either because when you eat again your metabolism isnt as fast and you put on weight. Also, eat breakfast because that starts your metabolism. Hope this helped. If you need more info you can ask me because I have tons of sites and facts to help you loose weight. =)