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What ages do most people with Cerebral Palsy die??

- Thanks.... (link)
any age, they could live as long as sane people. my mom works with them so she should know. x0


i'm so confused!!! see i like this guy, and he's sending me mixed signals. but the thing is we have had an extremely rocky past...see, we broke up, and it wasn't pretty. but that was a long time ago, and now every time i talk to him he's all nice and stuff, and we were in a show together and he kept looking over at me and flirting, but at school he acts like i'm not even there. i think if we talked more something could happen, but should i persue it or let it go?
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its all up to you if you really want to get back together with him, other than that, i dont think you should go back out with him, if things didnt work out in the beginning i dont think itll work out now, im sorry hun, its better to be friends with him =) but good luck in your show! x0 Renee


My parents might get a divorce. And i feel like i should do somthing to try and save their marriage. Is there anyone who has gone through the same problems that i am and can help? (link)
its their problem and they need to work things out, trust me, my parents went thru one and i tried, nothing helped. all you have to do is accept the fact that your not going to see one of them as much anymore, im sry hun, i know its a hard thing to go thru because sometimes it may seem like its your fault but NOTHING is your fault, remember that, and i'm sorry and i hope you can work through this. x0 Renee


I live on Long Island.

yeah fighting doesnt do anything it just causes a bigger problem..yeah i know and there was another guy who did the same thing to my friend..and im like whoaaa damn...but i mean he keeps saying that he doesnt think that he deserves her or anything n im just like damnit u do!!- thx again (link)
your welcome, i'm glad to help, ask me something any time =) xox


yeah thanks i know i told him to go out with his friend tonight like go to the mall or go skateboardin down in an old loty across our library that he goes, to get her off his mind..he wasnt in the mood and that he didnt want to go to the mall bc chris normally hangs out there on fridays and that he didnt want to see his face or he was gonna punch it or w/e...n im like good choice!! yeah he asked me if i thought he was a wimp and i said 1st why are you asking me this in the 1st place? and he said reasons just wondering...and i said from my point (not in exact words bc i dont quite remember what i said since it was like an hour ago n its like midnight now...) i dont think your are wimp...you are who you and and what you belive in...what my im trying to say is that your caring, loving, talented, kind, funny, smart and much more...just because you backed out once or twice doesnt mean your a wimp...and he said thanks for your answer and i said your welcome...yeahh he said he was cheering up a lil...which he said that helped a little and he was taking weird pics with his digi cam and showing me it was awesome to see them...thx again


*btw where in NY? (link)
thats good that you cheered up your friend a little bit, hes not a wimp for backing out, its the wise thing to do, it shows that your friend is more mature than chris, wayyyyy more mature, fighting doesn't do anything! lol but i'm glad that your there for him, your a good friend, i live near buffalo, you live in ny too? you can im me if you want to, ((starzzz789))


my friend likes this girl (whos also my friend)...who also likes him..he asked her out n she said yes then after a week he wanted to pos pone the relationship, since there was so much stuff goin on as well..and she seemed to started to inorge him but didnt notice that she was and theyre are still friends..and hes been depressed and shit, its just that he still feels like he screwed everything up again and that he missed my chance by wimping out of it..and he was going to ask her back out today and didnt...and now he states the he is worried about this fag chris trying to pull sum shit off ....since this chris guy seems to giving him smirks when ever she is around both of them at the same time..and he did it to my friend be4 this one with the other girl he liked..and he is afaird he is gonna punch a whole in his wall bc he punched one in anger..and i dont know what to do..he calling himself a loser..and i know that he would never go anyone near sucide or w/e since he is a high honor student, in honors classes, band and etc..i dont know why someone would not wanna go out with him in the 1st place..hes just soo awesome..and i told him that he wasnt a loser..and that he was awesome..but i dont know exactly how to help him..hes like my bff now hes just soo gr8 when i need him for advice and such...any advice for me or him...(or both)-thx

P.S. i met him in july on-line (yeah i know i know the whole speech) with a bunch of others in our school..and we became really close....hes almost a 2nd me..he seems to be open to me n im open to him as well..like he told me a serect only me and someone else know..and something that only i know..and the thing is i dk it seems strange not even a year do we know each other only 6mths and were really open to each other
-thx again (link)
seems to me is that he needs to be cheered up! its not that weird to open up to someone within 6 months of knowing eachother, it just shows that your comfortable with tell him things and you trust him alot and he def trusts you alot too. i think your guy friend should just go have some fun and get this girl off of his mind, he didn't do anything wrong, alot of other things were happeneing its not his fault that things didn't work out, he just realized it and thats good. and you, hun, your a good friend looking out for him and worrying because hes your bff and i understand how u feel. and tell your friend that he shouldn't worry about chris, he just seems like a jerk trying to scare your guy friend. its good that you two have eachother, ok i hope thats the kind of advice that you were looking for, if not i tried, sorry! =) x0 Renee


Well, I have this friend, and it seems like every time she gets a boyfriend, she forgets about all of her friends. It drives me crazy b/c we're supposed to be like best friends but everytime she just meets a new guy and like...ditches all of us. And then she wont hang ot with us unless he can come and all she does is like make out in front of us with him. Im getting really annoyed with her but I dont know if i should say something or not... (link)
ok, listen to this, this is why i have no friends at the moment, they all hate me because i did what your friend did, and you know what, they NEVER told me that they were mad at me, they had to have my worst enemy tell me that they hate me, ((how rude)) so definitaly if you have a problem with your friend def tell her and talk to her about it, it will make you feel better and it will make her feel better that she bugs her best friends that she doesn't want to do. so please tell her before things get crazy and you guys HATE eachother. x0 Renee


hey umm i no this isnt bout sex.. but how do you make these things with the lay outs and have people actually look at it.. you have like 1000000 people do yours thanks a bunch

kathleen (link)
i'm not quite sure about what your asking, i have an online journal that has a layout.. idk, im me starzzz789


hey im 14 and everyone says your supossed to shave DOWN THERE but i dont no how i mean the front wont hurt but like the bottom and shit would.. wouldnt it.. and what if you cut yourself.. i dont know what to do... can someone help me pleaseee

confused (link)
ok, i dont think i should write a response of my opinions on here but im me! starzzz789 =)


Alright well here is the story hehe! I started going out with this boy and at first I didn't like him that much...well for Christmas he bought me a diamond ring! It kinda freaked me out...he kept being like way too clingy and I got kinda scared. I mean I liked him but I didn't think I liked him that much. Well I told him that I got punished and I really like him but I didn't think it would be the best time to have a boyfriend. Well he still wanted me back and I started to like him more and more well randomly out of no where he told me I was acting differently and now he said we are friends. Well you probably guessed...I like him A LOT now!! I don't know what to do...I told him I still liked him alot and he sometimes seems like he likes me like he kissed me on the forhead the other day but I don't understand. I don't know what to do, I really want him back! I asked my brother about it and he told me to just like fall back and don't beg him just kinda avoid him and not seem very clingy or whatever..I don't know if that will work...Does anyone know what I should do it seems I am fresh out of ideas!!... (link)
wow sometimes siblings give good advice too! haha, yea i would go with your brother on this one, dont be clingy, just be friends with him and i'm sure you guys will go back out, well dont avoid him like if he talks to you walk away, just dont be clingy basically lol. idk, if he kissed you ithink he still likes you which gives this whole thing alot of hope! =) x0 hope things go like you want them to go!


I love my boy friend so much. We have been going out for a while now and (i no its early) but valentines day is coming up and i want to get him somthing that shows i realy care and love him. Something really special. But the thing is, i have no idea what! any suggestions? thanks i rate high.. and srry to burst some of yalls bubbles, but sex is not an option l.o.l. (link)
all of my answers for getting you significant other gifts.. all i say is make them a card, it shows that you put your time and effort into it, and you care about them more than going out and buying one, and then get something little on the side like if they really like candy, get them a bag of their favorite candy. you dont have to go big especially on valentines day, like if your bf likes chocolate, give him a little chocolate heart thing and a card thats all. i'm sure he'll be happy with whatever you get him =) x0 Renee


Ok, this is such an odd question, but it has been bothering me for a little while now. theres two commercials on the television that play the same ear-catching sound, the Vonage commercial, and the Cobalt commercial (car), but the tune is simple, and if you write it out it goes:
wu who wu who who, wu who wu who who, wu who wu who, wu who wu who who.
If any of you know this i am gunna be extremely happy.... what is the name of that song!? (link)
yea its some japanesse girl band group type thing. yea and it is from kill bill ( i love that movie ) i dont know what its called or anything, all i know its from that movie and its a japanese girl group. x0


okay so i have this boyfriend, and i love him soooo much! he is my life pretty much. all i ever think about is him and he's everything i've ever needed and wanted! anyways, he used to tell me he loved me like all the time, now he seldom does. he says it's because everytime he told me, i'd say ok..i love you too.. but that i didn't believe him. so lately i've been telling him i love him, and he says i love you too. but i dont know there's something changed, we don't talk as much, he doesn't call me nearly as much as he used to, but we promised e/o that if we liked other people that'd we'd tell one another! oh and another thing is, we have a tendancy to argue a lot.. but when we don't argue it's like everythings perfect. so i dont know what the deal is. but ill rate 5's to anyone who can help!! (link)
well i think that he doesn't think that he needs to impress you or get your attention by calling you all the time and syaing ilove you as much, because he knows that you love him and that your realtionship is working out that you guys can be laid back in a sort of way.. idk if you get what i mean, you both really like eachother so i dont think saying ilove you and calling eachother as much is going to make anything better. try not to argue as much! i dont think theres anything behind this and i dont think he likes anyone else. x0 Renee


I am 14 (soon to be 15 in march)
well I have a stupid crush. Its not that the guy is stupid its just me having a crush. Feeling this way is of no use to me. I mean I was perfectly fine walking by a hot guy and thinking now he is "FINE" but when I get around my crush I get this weird tingling thing in my stomach and feeling kinda warm in my face. The weirdest thing is when ever I am around him I feel pretty. Stupid I know. I just want to be normal again. Its not like I act silly with Alex its just that I don't want to have any crushes. Crushes are stupid in my case...they never work out.
The problem is I know how to give myself advice and its some pretty good stuff its just that my crush's acts of kindness toward me makes the feeling in the pit my stomach increase somehow...I just want to be normal and to have a clear mind. (link)
it doens't seem to me that you want to go out with him, am i right? just have your friend alex around when your around this boy, and soon youll be acting normal around him and you wont get butterflies in your stomach, everythings okay, its nice to have little crushes, thats the fun of it, you just like guys thats all. well just be with your friend when your around the guy. x0 Renee


does anybody know if claire's or hot topic does belly button piercings? thx ahead of time! (link)
they have the studs, if that was what you were looking for, but they dont pierce them, but they do sell the pretty dangling ones, idk about hot topic but SOME claires do sell the rings. other good places to go is pacific sunwear (if there is any around you) they sell them for good prices and sometime they have sales, x0 Renee


hi. im 13/f. i was just wondering how to get a bf. i mean, ive never had a relationship or kiss or anything. and i feel bad at school when i hear girls talking bout their bfs. i am shy round guys and...yeah. :( it sux. help please. please dont say "flirt" or crap. what can i do 2 get a bf? (link)
dont change when your around guys for them to like you! be yourself, nothing is better than someone being their normal self around whoever! i know that you feel like your missing out on things but dont worry you'll find someone that you like, and while their getting hurt you'll have a serious relationship! well maybe, lol.. just be yourself! x0


ok i go to carroll middle school and i am 13 well anywas during the christmas break i forgot what the guy that i like looked like but wen i got back i notest that he got even hotter than he was before. if i forgot what he looks like during the christmas break but i think he is still hott and as cute as a baby do i really like him please help i am so comfused.

XxfluffyxX (link)
if you think that you like him then maybe you do, because if someones hott and he got your attention it means that your kinda of attracted to them, so you kinda like them ;D so yea, you might really like him! i think you should talk to him.. hehe x0 Renee


OK here deal Me and Bestest best friend both like the same guy((im pretty much over him this is all about my bestest best friend)) BUT he doesnt like ethier one of us like that you kno he likes a lil slutty 6th grader((we are in 7th grade))now my bestest best friend lets call Katie so Katie has a real serious relationship with her current b/f((he got her a real diamond bracelet for chirstmas)) but she likes this guy alot more i really dont kno why but he juss has that chram i mean he is real sweet and stuff i juss dont kno what to do i mean bcuz im worried that Katie might ruin her relationship with her current b/f ((we are real open about this subject so i could talk to her about it)) (link)
well i think you should talk to your friend about that guy that doesn't like you or her, before she does anythign stupid to ruin the relationship she is now in, shes lucky that her bf gave her a real diamond bracelet, thats cute, so hopefully shell realize that she likes him more before anything does happen. so tell her about how your worried, be a good friend and do that, be honest! x0 Renee


What does "shanking" mean? (link)
i think it means to steal.. but then again i really have no clue what it really means. sorry. x0


Hey guys! I'll try to make thise short.. okay, so I want to go to this high school in Aurora, IL and I am from Springfield. It's called Illinois Math and Science Academy. My parents don't care or anything but they say that I can't go to Florida with my youth group or Puerto Rico with my friend Erin over the summer if I want to go to this high school. It's a 3-year school and it would mean I skip 9th grade, but I would also get to study many cool subjects like astronomy. Which should I pick and why should I pick it? i rate high. Thanks in advance! ~Brit (link)
well.. you seem like i would say 13 14? cuz of 9th grade, and if i were you you seem young and just want to have fun i bet, i think the school would be the best thing if you were older tho, (i loved doing the astronomy unit in science lol sry) start looking forward to your career.. but then again going to puerto rico and florida could be a once in a lifetime thing, i know you could go when your older and stuff, but your going with people that you'll never forget, ya know? well pick whatever you want because both are really good choices! but if i were you i would go with your youth and friend.. but thats just me, i'm sure whatever youll choose will be good for you, x0 and have fun with what you pick! x0 Renee




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