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i want a boyfriend
hi. im 13/f. i was just wondering how to get a bf. i mean, ive never had a relationship or kiss or anything. and i feel bad at school when i hear girls talking bout their bfs. i am shy round guys and...yeah. :( it sux. help please. please dont say "flirt" or crap. what can i do 2 get a bf?
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First.......you dont really need one....boyfriends come n go and you rarely find your mate when your 13...plus dont get one just because everyone else has one...you gotta like the guy and hes gotta like you...so spot one guy that you have liked for a while and ask him out....its worth a shot....good luck..
~Katie Leigh~
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well the first thing im going to say is that guys are as scared of talking to girls as girls are talking to guys. so find the person you want to be your boyfriend and talk to him, like ask him to explain a problem in math or whatever subject you have with this guy. then try talking to him durring class and see what you guys got in common. if your comfertable then ask him to a movie but if you dont want to really go anywhere (i know most 7th graders don't) oh and also dress really cute the days you know your going to see him... hope you get one ;o)
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you feel left out in the conversations and stuff well thats okay they just have matured faster than you and i tihnk being young rocks! well imean try to make friends with more boys like hang out and out of theb unch pick the one that attracts you the most and get to kno him better you kno give him special attention and maybe one day ya'll will hook up and you can be in the conversation w/ the other girls but i mean if your not ready don't feel like you need to ahve a boyfriend :) good luck!
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Sounds to me like you feel like you are missing out on all the fun. I think it's great to be 13 and not kissed yet :) Don't feel like you have to find a boyfriend and kiss himjust because everyone else is.
Try making some friends who are boys---really, that's the best way to get a decent boy friend...you could suggest you and your friends do something with a bunch of boys, or if that's weird, could you join a youth group or a club at school? That way you could do something you enjoy and meet some boys...:)
~goodluck~
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lol hun ur 13. dont worry about it :) Im 16 and ive never had a bf and ive never had a kiss, never done nothing, dont get desperate, its not worth it, and i know i didnt realli help and im sorry i hate it when people dont answer my questions but im sorry!!
-Jenn
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dont change when your around guys for them to like you! be yourself, nothing is better than someone being their normal self around whoever! i know that you feel like your missing out on things but dont worry you'll find someone that you like, and while their getting hurt you'll have a serious relationship! well maybe, lol.. just be yourself! x0
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i was really shy around guys and the way i got my 1st bf was by telling him that i liked him.also be yourself. also if u no a guy that you really like than spend alot of time w/ him (but not as a friend, or he will think of u as a friend)hope my advice helps!
~(~*~)~andie~(~*~)~
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the only thing I can say to you is....be yourself. If you have an interest in someone...you have to speak up and tell them...What if a guy likes a girl and the girl likes the guy..and they had the potential to be a great couple and spend the rest of their lives together?? But neither one of them speak up..so they just missed out on a helleva lot. It all starts with a convo! and always be yourself!
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