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missing him....
Alright well here is the story hehe! I started going out with this boy and at first I didn't like him that much...well for Christmas he bought me a diamond ring! It kinda freaked me out...he kept being like way too clingy and I got kinda scared. I mean I liked him but I didn't think I liked him that much. Well I told him that I got punished and I really like him but I didn't think it would be the best time to have a boyfriend. Well he still wanted me back and I started to like him more and more well randomly out of no where he told me I was acting differently and now he said we are friends. Well you probably guessed...I like him A LOT now!! I don't know what to do...I told him I still liked him alot and he sometimes seems like he likes me like he kissed me on the forhead the other day but I don't understand. I don't know what to do, I really want him back! I asked my brother about it and he told me to just like fall back and don't beg him just kinda avoid him and not seem very clingy or whatever..I don't know if that will work...Does anyone know what I should do it seems I am fresh out of ideas!!...
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Wow! Okay sweetie i know EXACTLY what you are going through trust me... i just went through the exact same situtation, and i know... it isn't fun. My boyfriend and i had been going out for like 2 months and he told me he loved me and that totally scared the shit out of me!! Then i broke up with him and was totally sad and missing him after like a week. But now we are back together and i will tell you why!! Your brother is completly right, throwing yourself at him isn't going to make him want you. Think about it, guys and girls aren't that differnt. When he was throwing himself at you and getting you a diamond ring and whatnot it kind of turned you off or pushed you away... but now that he is sending mixed signals you want him so badly. It's because he is giving you a challange. Guys like a challange! Just as us girls do. So back off, i know it will be hard, it was so hard for me but once i stopped telling him how much i missed him and i stopped calling him, i could see the differnce in how bad he wanted me back too. Give him space for a week or so, act like you're happy and yu don't need him. Then maybe after a week or two talk to him again and ask him how he would feel about getting back together, tell him that you miss him but you don't want to play games and you don't want to wait for him forever. And let him know that if he doesn't want to get back with you you want to move on. And if that doesn't work then maybe you really should move on... I really think this is your best bet!! It worked for me and now my boyfriend and I are happier then ever, i like him so much more theni did before and i really think this situation will end up making you guys closer then ever!
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Ok, DON'T BE CLINGY, IT DOESN'T WORK! But don't ignore him either. Let HIM start the conversations. Maybe suggest going to the mall or movies AS FRIENDS with him or something... and maybe while you're there he'll act forward and get things moving.. who knows..
Hope I helped.. fill me in on what happens!
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wow sometimes siblings give good advice too! haha, yea i would go with your brother on this one, dont be clingy, just be friends with him and i'm sure you guys will go back out, well dont avoid him like if he talks to you walk away, just dont be clingy basically lol. idk, if he kissed you ithink he still likes you which gives this whole thing alot of hope! =) x0 hope things go like you want them to go!
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