Am a bit of a wrinkly now (i was 24 on 4/9/05, but I had the best birthday I've ever had in my whole entire life!!!) but I know an awful of stuff about an awful lot of stuff!
I am COMPLETELY NON-JUDGEMENTAL and you can always inbox me with stuff you wouldn't ask anyone else @ MelanieHarvey81@Hotmail.Com
Mel xxx
"Dance like no one is watching and love like you've never been hurt"
E-mail: MelanieHarvey81@Hotmail.Com
Gender: Female
Location: Long story, born in Germany, Parents are Spanish but grew up in the UK!!!
Occupation: General Superstar and all around heroine!
Age: 24
Member Since: December 24, 2004
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I was wondering if anyone knew a website that had good homework stuff like, current events(articles),help,etc. Thanks (link)
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HEy,
The best site I have EVER found (and I did my exams 6 yrs ago!!!) was WWW.TheSpark.Com (I think it has changed to www.sparknotes.com, but the other one still works!)
They have loads of revisions notes on ALL subjects and loads of forums where you can meet people and exchange info.... they also have loads of fun stuff to help you take a load off. (if you get time!!!!)
Try the "Stress Test"
You have to register your e-Mail to become a member, but it is well worth it. They don't spam you either!
Good luck!!!!
Mel
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ok i'm realy sorry if this is gross but it's kinda freaking me out. OK well i'm 14/f and i've already had my period and it doen'st come to the end of the month i dunno if that matters
Ok so when ever i go to the restroom and i wipe like clear stuff comes. what is that and is it normal and healthy?!
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Hey chick-adee, (it's an english way of sayin "hey Girl")
This is absoluely NOTHING for you to worry about.
The reason that you produce this clear "GOO" os because your BODY is now ready to bear children (THIS DOES NOT MEAN YOU HAVE TO GO OUT AND GET PREGNANT AT THE FIRST OPPORTUNITY!)
This clear stuff you are on about is an internal cleanser that your body produces to keep thisgs all nice down there....
It is abso;lutely nothin for you to worry about, it just means that you are turning into a woman!!!
If you have any other questions like this then inbox me or e-Mail me at MelHarvye@Hotmail.co.uk
Take Care and keep smilin xxx
Mel
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how exactly do you scrunch your hair? (link)
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I have waist length curly-ish hair (and i'm old, 24 3 day ago!!) and I find the best way to scrunch my hair is to wash it and condition it as noraml then put a whole herd (about 3 tennis balls size) of mousse thorugh it! Though this depends on how lomg your hair is.
The mousse I use is "Garnier Grific, Ultimate Curls, Styling Mousse" and I let it dry naturally cos if you introduce any kinda heat or moisture to curly hair then you end up looking like Diana Ross on a Bad Hair Day..... (if you fon't know who Diana Ross is ask ur Mom or Dad to show you!!!)
Take Care and have fun.... remember, thousands of people everyday pay to have thier hair made curly where as only about 1,000 pay to have thiers made curly!!!
If ypu want any more info on how to make ur hair curly inbox me or e-Mail me on Mel Harvey@hotmail.co.ul
Take Care
Mel oXo
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so i have a birthmark on my penis, and its not huge or anything, but its noticeable. would girls get freaked out if they saw it? and how would you go about removing one at a doctor or something?
thanks
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Honey, as a 24 year old woman , a birthmark doen not do anything to change your sexual ability.
My fella has a birthmark on his penis.
As the song says "it ain't what you do it's the way that you do it!"
As long as you love and respect the preson you want to have sex with it won't matter one bit...... promise ya!!!
If you want anymore advice or need a chat with a bloke then you can e-Mail ME on my address MelHarvey@hotmail.co.uk...... or if you want my fiance's point of view then e-Mail the same addy but put "FAO ROB!!!!"
Take Care and don't worry, ypou are completely normal!!!
Mel
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what is the fastest way to get rid of a hikki im asking for my best friend because she just got back with her boyfriend and she has one and it is bruised so? Help her please! (link)
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A hicky is caused when someone breaks small blood vessels under your skin.
(They are very similar to bruises except you
can't get a hicky walking into a table!)
Once they are there the only thing that I have foubd that gets rid of them slightly quicker is a homeopathic remedy called ARNICA.
A lot of people may tell you to put ice on it (that's just really cold11) or rub butter into it (this just makes you look like a great big grease ball!!) but these remedies WILL NOT WORK (Believe me I tried!! ;o)
Arnica accelerates the healing process, it about £3 for 100 tablets in the uk, not sure how much it'd cost anywhere else but it's not too expensive.
If you need anymore advice inbox me ar if you need a quick reply then e-Mail me at melharvey@hotmail.co.uk
Take Care
Mel
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hey..this s kind of disgusting but here it goes well my left breast has been very itchy lately like the tip is itchy is that normal? do you have any ideas to stop it kthanks (link)
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Hey Chick-a-dee (it's a UK saying!!)
Please don't worry about it.... it's itching cos it's growing!!!!
Happens to all us girls when we are your age or thereabouts.
It's a scientifically proven fact that most 9 out of 10 women have one breast bigger than the other, This is why the left one is itching you at the moment! Cos it's getting bigger!!! Don't worring that your gonna be lop-sided tho, cos the right one will soon start! Then you'll have 2 that are itchy.... it's your skin stretcghing that does it!!!
The best advice that I can give you to alleviate the itching in NIVEA cream, and if you can't get that where you live then anything with Aloe Vera in it will cooooool the area and stop the itchiness. (Cabbage leaves also work but they make you smell funny!! :o)
If you have any other ?'s you want to ask inbox me or for a really quick reply then e-Mail me at MelHarvey@Hotmail.co.uk
Mel xxx
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13/female...
I know it's hard for you guys to answer specific questions like this one if you've never met me or the guy i'm about to tell you 'bout. But thanx if you can give me your honest opinion on this, i'll rate you if your advice helped me!
Okay, so there's this guy I like. I'm on his bus. His locker's kind of near mine, and his house is within walking distance. We used to talk a whole lot last year, but we don't really talk to much now..I mean, we still do, but not as much.
So anyways. I have some signs that he likes me too. They are -
-when he passes me in the hall sometimes, he doesn't say hi, but he says "ew, it's you!" in a flirty kind of way..then he smiles at me.
-he always laughs when i try to make a joke or be funny
-one of his friends talks about me and the guy i like when i am alone with his friend (he just talks about conversations we've all had and stuff..nothing too important..)
-he always tries to sit near me on the bus, if he can. but sometimes he'll try to sit with his friends. Sometimes he even sits with me, but that was only twice.
Also- there are some signs he doesn't like me. They are:
-He flirts A LOT with other girls, not just me.
-He asks other girls if they like him (BUT NOT ME)
-He says he doesn't like me (my idiodic friend asked him one day! now he avoids me a lot, cause he has the right idea, that i DO like him!)
-He also tries to sit next to this one girl who I HATE (cause she's pretty and seems like she's perfect, pretty much everything that i'm not!)
-His friends and him talk about me sometimes, and they were calling me retarted and stuff..but that's just the way boys are lol
I'm SO sorry this is so long, but my real question is - do you think there is any way I can get his attention on ME and not other girls? Also - do you think he likes me and what can i do to get him to ask me out/what can i do to ask him out? Please help. Thanks so much! Like I said I will rate if it helped ♥ (link)
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Hey chick-a-dee (this is an english girl saying!) one o fthe first ways you know a guy likes you in a way that is more than friends when you have been mates with him before is that he ignores you..... this is because he is embarressed/nervous talking to you.
If you were friends with him before all this happened then try anf collar him on his own one evening and see how he acts, If he can't find anything to say to you then chances are he likes you and doesn't know how to act around you.... it happens to all of us! Promise (I spent a whole year chasing my secondary (high school if in US) school sweetheart aroud playin on the same joke.
If you need to chat more inbox me of e-Mail me at MelHarvey@hotmail.Com
Take care..... am sure it'll all work out for the best xx
Mel
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I'm 15 (almost 16) and female.
A certain *someone* constantly complains about my naps. I take naps because I get tired.
In the past I used to sleep extremely late (we're talking about from 2-4 AM or later) during school nights. However, I would also get half of my other sleep during the day when I got home from school, since at night I was busy with homework. I couldn't resist taking a nap once I got home from school because I'd be way too tired to concentrate on homework anyway if I didn't nap.
This is probably a question for high schoolers and up, because those with a large homework load will understand why my sleeping schedule is this way.
Now back to what I first said. According to that *someone* naps are horrible and it's totally killing my health. Okay, I understand if I don't get enough sleep it is really bad for me. But I do get enough sleep. Not to mention I don't sleep that late anymore, I try to sleep as early as I can (latest is 1 AM so far because of homework).
What I want to know is, are naps really that horrible? If you don't get enough sleep will your health be really bad? If you sleep enough, but part of your sleep is at night and part of it is in the afternoon is that bad in anyway? What advice would you give me in order to help me sleep earlier? I understand that *someone* cares about me a LOT, but it gets really annoying to always be nagged about when honestly I already am trying my best to get a normal sleeping schedule and it is really hard to NOT take naps.
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Hey,
When I was your age I was constantly tired too. Doesn't nessicarily mean that there is anything wrong with you!
At your age you have loads to worry about...... exams...boys...yous parent (wouldn't it be great if you could pause them til you were 21!!!!)
Just make sure you are eating the right stuff (did ya know if you are a regular junk food eater that you eat ar least 12 pubic hairs PER YEAR!! Don't believe me see www.junkfacts.com!)
Don't get caught up in griends falling out, stay impartial cos then everyone loves you and most important of all, DON'T CHANGE YOURSELF!!! Be who you want to be and your REAL FRIENDS and family (and more importantly yourself) will be proud to know you.
However, saying all that, if you ahbe real concerns about your helath then go see your GP.
Take care and if you habe any other questions then e-Mail me at my NEW add: MeHharvey@hotmail.com
Take good care of yourself
Mel xxxxx
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a friend of mine said dr pepper will make a girls "stuff" stink. is that true? (link)
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No it won't make your "stuff" stink!
Whoever told you that clearly doesn't have a clue what they are on about!
Happy drinkin!
Mel
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Is there a Diet Beverage that has Artificial sweeteners,no sodium and no caffeine? I started a diet that states I am allowed one 8oz a day does this even exist? (link)
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The only one that I have ever heard of is Diet Rite soda.
It DEFINITELY does not contain sodium or caffeine, and you can get Black Cherry, Cola, Golden Peach, Kiwi Strawberry, Red Raspberry (My Favourite), Tangerine, and White Grape flavours.
They are a little more expensive and you may find them hard to get hold of but they are definitely worth it!
Good luck with your diet!
Mel
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hi i was eating a jawbreaker today and since i licked it a lot i have cuts on my tongue, and they hurt a lot. does any1 know how to help it heal faster? cuz it feels like its nvr gunna heal.
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Ice will numb it and make it less painful.
Other than that you could use mouthwash, or if it's really sore teething gel for babies may help.
Your tounge/mouth is one of the quickest places on your whole body to heal so you should be fine in no time!
Take care
Mel
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Ok, I think we have all been here, but I've been really thinking about my past lately. Mostly my love life. My problem is this: my first girlfriend really had a vicelock on my life. We went out for a little over a year. We nearly got back together last summer, but someone I thought was a friend severly knocked that for a tailspin. Me and "C" ended on very bad terms. A nuclear bomb coulda done less damage. But I look back, and I realize, I cant escape the fact that I am NOT over her. I can't tell if I just feel guilty, cause it IS my fault, Im big enough to admit that, or if I do still care about her. I want to write her a letter to apoligize, but I wonder if it will fall on deaf ears. What should I do? (link)
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All I'm gonna say is that "ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THEN WORD"
Show her how much she means to you and then when you are on your own then tell her.
you can but try mate..... what eber happens go by our family motto...."whatever will be, will be!"
TC and I REALLY hope it works out for you and this time you appreciate her for what she is.... the girl you love....
TC
Mel
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i am just wondering why people put lemon juice in there hair. i am not bein mean but i just wanna know what it does
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Most normal people DON't put lemon juice in their hair...... however, girls that BLEACh their hair to within an inch of it's life put lemon juice in their hair to stop it from going ginger!!! They also put Tomato Ketchup in their hair (if when they have home-bleached and they have washed it in the wrong shampoo!!!) when it goes slightly green-ish!!! Cos it balances the colour out
TC
Mel xxxxx
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Ok, I want a treadmill, cause i luv running.
The thing is, i'm not rich and from the looks of most treadmills they're REALLY EXPENSIVE!
Does anyone know of a treadmill website or something that has cheap treadmills?
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Honey, you'd be better joggin round a coupla blocks.
Not only do you get to see more interestng stuff, but excersize burns more calories when you are outside!!!!
Mel
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I am not big AT ALL, I am very little and I am NOT bragging. I am 13 years old and I'm female, guys don't really want to go out with me because I'm so thin. how do I got more meat on my bones faster than a few mounths or weeks?
P.S. I am 65 pounds. (link)
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The best thing I can advice you to do is eat a healthy balanced diet - if that doesn't help you then I would go and see a nutritionist - you may be just one of those BERY lucky people that can eat what they like but not put on any weight"
Thanks
Mel
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For some reason, things that my husband says or does make me so irritated and angry I end up saying mean things to him. He is very negative and says things that aggravate me, but I know that I overract and need to control my temper. For example, we were watching a kid's talent show that I really enjoy, and every time I try to watch it with him, he makes snide remarks about the kids and their parents. He seems to disaprove of children competing in a talent contest and parents encouraging their talents. I ended up getting angry the last time this happened (just recently). I turned off the show and told him he was being idiotic and there nothing wrong with children having a talent and pursuing it. He kept on calling it "child abuse" because a little boy was out of breath after playing the drums on the show, and making a big deal out of the fact that he was "only 5 years old." So what? I told him a lot of famous musicians and athletes started at young ages, and it's not child abuse if they enjoy what they are doing. I think he is very narrow-minded about this subject and other things as well and it leads to some heated arguments, mostly on my part because I think I explain my point of view much more clearly than he does and he tends to just repeat the same things over and over. It wasn't till much later in the argument that he said he disaproved of the music that the boy was drumming to because it was heavy metal and had strange lyrics. I said that you can't even make out the lyrics in the songs and even if you could, I doubt that a five-year old would understand them. Besides, he listens to this music too. This led to an argument that there shouldn't be music that you can't play in front of your kids. I believe all music should have clean lyrics. He said why don't we go further and have only g-rated t.v. and movies? I said that it is easier to control t.v. and movies. You can block out channels you don't want kids to watch, but you can't do anything about people in other cars blaring their obnoxous music with vulgar lyrics when your kids are in the car with you. I know I have strong opinions, and some of you probably don't agree with me, but I can't help how I feel. I guess I need to learn how to express my opinions without hurting my husband. I love him, I just don't always agree with him. Does anyone have any advice? I know I've been judgemental and already feel bad about it, so try not to make me feel worse. Thanks. (link)
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It doesn't matter what music the kids were singing on this talent show they wouldn't be doing it if they werent enjoying it...... has your husband ever tried to make your kids do something they didn't wanna?!?!?!?! If not then maybe he should.... so then he'll know that kids'll only do stuff when they want to!!!!
Music s purely a medium which people express themselves.....although if you think that the music that he is subjuecting your children to is unsuitable then you should stop him.... explain the implications to him.... like you kid's coming out with a like from a Snoop song that his or her teacher wouldn't particukarly appreciate.
You should make an effort to take your family to crazy golf of paintballing or go-karting or something that you will ALL enjoy - then you will really see the fun side come out in all of you!!!!
Take care and whatever you do ...1) Do it as a FAMILY and ") Make sure you enjoy it!!!
TC
Mel xxxxx
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im sick with a plain cold...what are some good medicines that actually work that ARE NOT pills
ill rate
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Get down to your local health food shop - or if you have little brothers or sisters send the,.
Get yourself some EcinaChea. It's been used for millions of years. It's a general boost for the immune system.
Cures loads but if you wabt to stop yourself ever getting ill the get some Efficotonic, which is a liquid made from pure Echinecae juice - tastes foul but it really does you good.
If that fails then get your Mom to make you some good old fashioned Chicken Soup!!!
Tc - hope you get better soon!!
Mel
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society tells us that having premarital sex is wrong, (risk of pregnancy, stds...) but also emotionally, that you cant handle a breakup after you lose your virginity to someone, it changes your life forever, etc. I know all of that, but is it true with EVERY SINGLE relationship that if you have premarital sex, it'll drive you two apart and you'll eventually break up. How wrong is it to have sex in highschool (only with 1 person of course and you keep it between yourself.) my boyfriend and I have been going out for 7 months and I want to have sex with him eventually but I'm afraid it'll make us break up... why does that happen? like think back in the 1940's, if you got pregnant both of you would drop out of highschool and GET MARRIED...why cant it be like that these days? (link)
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To be honest the first thing that strikes me about you is that you are a very responsible young person an that you always think about the consequences before you do anything.... this alone tells me that if you decide to divulde in pre-marital sex that you won't be doing it irresponisibly.
Depending on your faith there are lot's of "Do's" and "Dont'D"
It amkes no difference what you believe in of whatyour parents force upon you. As long as you take into consideration your future everytime you think about going against what they've said, and it's what YOU want then you shouldn't have a problem with it.... at the end of the day "Viva el Dia" - Live for the day!!!
Take Care
Mel
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I've never had a boyfriend and I'm 15. I know that it's ok and that I don't need a boyfriend to make me happy, but I really want one. I see how happy my friends are with their relationships and I just want to feel that special feeling, you know? I don't wanna sound conceited but i don't think looks are the main problem. My friends tell me that I'm not flirtatious and outgoing like them. Its just that I feel awkward being flirtatious and always question myself like omg he doesnt like me and stuff. How do I become more flirtatious and outgoing to get a boyfriend? thanks so much (link)
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Have you ever heard of these 2 sayings....1) Good things come to those who wait..... and patience is a virtue...... you don't need to make yourself more flirtatious to attract boys/men..... from the way you write you are confident enough in yourself already... just take each night out as it comes...... you'll find the guy you are looking for when you least expect it......
Just be yourself.....
TC
Mel
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does anyone know how to make really good smokey eyes like how they have it in the magazines and stuff? (link)
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Depends what skin colouring you have..... if you have Olive-ish skin like me then you should use really light base tones like silver gold rtc then put a darker grey?gold above it... butthen it entirely depends on what you are wearing as to what make-up you wear..... just go with what you think looks good and what you are comfortable with wearing and you'll look good...
TC
Mel
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