LiLReBeL6907's advice column

i have dark skin (not brown, but VERY VERY dark white, do you get it? And i dont like it, when i tan it gets uneven and ugly, and i cant leave it lik this..should i use some oundation or try to get it lighter (if thats possible) or get a proffesional tan or what am i to do?

I suggest to stop tanning. Let your skin even itself out. Tanning outside can also make your skin look uneven because certain parts of your body gets affected and burnt worse than others, causing an uneven skin color. Try applying a lotion that evens skin tone to your entire body everyday for about two weeks. You should notice a dramatic difference in your skins coloration and texture. From there you can go tanning again, but I suggest going to the tanning bed or getting a sunless tan at a tanning salon. I hope this helps. ~Sherah

[view]

My husband cheated on me and left me for 4 weeks, now he has come back and I'm trying to get past this, but I feel so betrayed and cant stop thinking about them together. I think I still love him and want us to work out, he tells me he loves me and he made a mistake. I thought we were close. The sex has been great since he came back, but I just dont think I can move on. Any advice would be greatfully received.

Personally its anyone's first impression after being cheated on to think that the guy will do it again and that they are untrustworthy, but it all depends on how well you know the guy and the circumstances surrounding it. How long were you guys together? What was his reason for cheating? Do you really trust that he won't cheat again? Trust is going to be the biggest problem in your relationship from now on, so if you want to keep continuing being with him then you need to break that barrier so that it doesn't linger. I suggest going to a councelor about this to figure out the underlying problems in your relationship and how to rebuild that trust. I have been cheated on and I never would have taken the guy back, but when your married its a whole lot different. There's a whole lot more commitment and sometimes that scares guys and they want to remember life when they didn't feel so "tied down". But he is very lucky that you took him back and he knows it. So try and work through what happened, teach him to regain your trust, and show him that although he made a mistake that you still love him, you forgive him, and you want to keep being with him. And never EVER think that him cheating on you was your fault. It was his mistake and you did not cause him to do it. I hope this helped. ~Sherah

[view]

okay my friend is having a party tomorrow night and her parents arent going to be home .. and my mom treats me like im 5 so im thinking of getting dropped off early and then sleeping over there and then getting picked up later the next day so theres no sign that there was a party .. do you think thats going to work?? cuz if it doesnt then im screwed!!

Alright, that does sound like a good idea, but you have to make sure that there is no way your mom could find out about this party. I have done this many times before, and I have even had to sneak out a couple dozen times at one in the morning just so I could go to a party, since my mom treats me like I'm in kindergarten. So far I have never gotten caught, but I have had some close calls. And the only reason I almost got caught once was when my mom had called someone's parents and found out that I had been lying about who was going to be over and where I was going to be. Luckily I was able to lie my way out of it and didn't get in any trouble. So this is what I suggest you do: First think if there is any way your mom could find out that the party has no parents. (Does she know your friend's parents well? Could she call over there to check up on you and find out about the party? Does she ask for the phone numbers of your friend's parents?) If she does and she asks to call and talk to the parents then this is what you need to do. Give her your friend's home number and have your friend pretend to be her parents. This really does work, trust me. I've done this before. And after your mom is convinced tell her the time you want to get dropped off at and picked up at the next morning. But consider any other problems that might come up: (What if your mom wants to say hi to the parents when she drops you off? What if she pulls up at the house and sees that there are no cars in the drive-way and thinks there are no parents home?) Think of lies to come up with if this happens, like "One of their cars is being worked on right now so her mom has to share the other car with her dad. She just got home from work, and her dad probably left to go pick up her brother from basketball practice"... or something like that. If your mom wants to meet the parents then you need to get a ride to the party other than your mom, because if she wants to meet them then you are screwed. After you are at your friend's house everything will be alot easier for you. Then all you have to worry about is your mom calling over there to check up on you, or even dropping by. If she did do this then think up another lie: "I didn't know there was going to be other people over here. Her parents let my friend's cousins come over and some of their friends for this family thing. It's no big deal. Relax." If you think through every possibility of your mom finding out about this party and you come up with good solutions for every situation then you should be ready for this party and it should work out perfectly. Just make sure to let your friend in on your lies and plans on how to get this to work, because you don't want your friend saying something to your mom that might make it seem like you are lying. That is really hard to cover up plus it will make your mom more suspicious and she will start asking more questions. This should work and hopefully your a good liar and your mom is gullible lol. Have fun and Good luck! ~Sherah

[view]

hey, today my crush dropped a major hint for me to give him my phone number, but i didnt...its cause my parents dont know about him, and i feel really uncomfortable talking to them about guys unless im going out with them and want to go to the movies or something...what should i do? i really like this guy and i want him to call me, but i dont want my parents to know!! please help!!! ill rate...

I've been there and done that so my solution was to pay for my own phone line, that way my parents didn't know who I talked to and couldn't learn about any guys I talked to. But I don't think you can convince your parents to install a seperate phone line for you. So you have two other solutions. You can give him your cell number (if you don't have a cell then if you have enough money buy a $40 one that has a pay-as-you-go plan) or just get his number and call him. Explain to him about your parents and the whole calling problem and then ask if you can call him instead that way you two can still talk on the phone. I hope this has helped. Good Luck! ~Sherah

[view]

Im not very positive about myself. If im at the mall with my best friend or something (shes SUPER pretty) and guys are like all over her I feel really bad. I try everything to make myself prettier. I have some acne and im really skinny but not aneroxic. Im going up to west virgina to see this guy next week.. What can I do to make myself more prettier?

First off, focus on your acne. If you are having break-outs use Clean & Clear Face Scrub at night to scrub away dead skin cells that make your skin look dull. Then apply a masque, try Queen Helene's Mint Masque, only on each of the pimples on your face. This will dry out the pimple so only apply it to the pimples, NOT your whole face or your face will be really dry in the morning. Keep continuing this daily routine at night and you will see dramatic results. If your skin is dry and doesn't get oily then you shouldn't use the Masque method. Instead of using a masque at night, apply a blemish/acne medication that moisturizes, like Clean and Clear Invisible Blemish Treatment. It contains salicylic acid which will fight break-outs while you sleep. When you wake up in the morning wash your face with a gentle wash and scrub, and DO NOT apply a facial moisturizer to your face after you wash it if you have oily skin. That will make it even worse! Only use a facial moisturizer if your skin is dry. After washing your face apply a thin layer of foundation (Cover Girl Tru-Blend is perfect. It has 24 different shades so you can find the perfect match to your skin color). If your skin is oily use a powder foundation. If your skin is dry use liquid foundation. If you have combination skin, use liquid first then lightly apply powder after it and gently rub in. Next apply a concealor to any zits that are still visible. I would try a concealor stick, because liquid concealor rubs off easily and doesn't cover as well. You can also use concealor for under-eye to help brighten your eyes. Dab one or two dots under your eyes and everywhere else you need to apply it and lightly rub it in. Next put on eye shadow. If your lids get really oily, try this method. First dab concealor on your lids and rub in completely. This sets as a base so your eyeshadow stays on longer. Next apply your eyeshadow. I would try Maybelline Cool Effect Eyeshadow Sticks, because it comes in many colors and stays on tremendously long. Pick your shade of eyeshadow depending on your outfit. If you like pastels, pick out a pastel colored eyeshadow that will match your outfit. Remember if you have fair skin, NEVER go for dark colored eyeshadow. It only makes your skin look more pale. If your cheeks are naturally pink, DO NOT use blush. If they aren't naturally pink then try something subtle, like a powder bronzer. This will brighten up your face. Try Bonnebell Glimmer Bronzer. Shake the powder onto the lid then pour it back into the container. Then dab your finger over the lid and put one or two dots of the shimmer on the apples of your cheeks. Then gently rub in. To make your eyes stand out even more use eyeliner. I would go for an eyeliner that is waterproof. Try using Revlon 16-hour Stay Eyeliner in Ivory. It goes on smooth and lasts really long. Apply the eyeliner on your lower lid only. Putting eyeliner all the way around your eye will accent them WAY too much and will make you look overdone. After applying eyeliner move on to mascara. Try Maybelline Blackest of Black. It doesn't clump or smudge. Try practicing your new style and routine of make-up ahead of time that way you can get used to the new methods. I hope this helps. If you need any more advice you can ask me anytime. Good luck! Remember you are beautiful no matter how you look on the outside, so just be yourself and you will be just fine. ~Sherah

[view]

Hi, I know this might be a stupid question....
My boyfriend and I have fooled around naked, although not had sex. My period is now late, could I be pregnant?

Although it is very unlikely that you are pregnant, it is actually possible. Even though you guys didn't have sex you can still get pregnant since his sperm could have came into contact by either his or your fingers so if you are really worried I suggest taking a pregnancy test. Keep taking the pregnancy tests once every week after your missed period. If you keep testing negative and you still haven't started yet, go to a Planned Parenthood or Teen Pregnancy Center in your area for a blood or urine test to determine if you are pregnant. Some places give these tests free, but most places cost a small amount of money to get it done. I suggest Pregnancy Centers over going to the doctor because most of the time your doctor is legally required to tell your parents of any STD, Pregnancy, or other tests you have taken. At a pregnancy center they have a private policy so your parents aren't required to know of any testings you have done. If you test negative at the Pregnancy Center then you might have missed your period due to stress, poor eating habits, or many other causes that can cause a missed period. So try not to stress over this too much. I hope my advice helps. Good Luck! ~Sherah

[view]

i just had sex for the first time... the guy gave me a head! i enjoyed it...
but, this white/CLEAR stuff keeps coming out of me
what does that mean?

Well that is basically your body responding to you having sex. That white/clear stuff is a natural secretion your body makes after sex. This secretion is your bodies natural way of giving you the ability to get pregnant, because it helps sperm stay alive long. So there is nothing to be worried about.

[view]

heyy, im a guy 17y.o., neways im having a problem with this girl and one of my good friends. To make things shorter... like we both liek teh same girl. i dunno what to do i mean i just recently started liking her and hes liked her for a while and took her to prom, but i think she might like me a little. i know this might be a hard question to answer but what should i do? should i continue to go for her and potentially ruin my friendship with my friend, or should i just lay off? (which would be sorta hard to do)...damn it this sux, please help me

Damn hun, that does really suck. First consider one thing: Who is more important? You and your friend? Or you and this girl getting together? Because obviously either way someone ends up getting screwed over. This mostly depends on how the girl feels. Since you said she and your friend went to prom together, I'm guessing they just went as friends. So try and find out how the girl thinks of your friend and you. If she likes him alot then you should really back down, but if she likes both of you then that will be a big problem. I have been in this kind of situation before. I had been friends with this guy, and I knew he really liked me and I was sort of into him but then his friend came along. And I started realizing I like him too. I didn't want to mess up the friendship of the two guys (they had been friends since kindergarten), but I didn't want to just be friends with both of them. Everything, luckily, worked itself out and the one guy that really liked me moved on to another girl, so when me and his friend hooked up he had no problem with it. But I don't think that will happen here. Just think of it this way and ask yourself: How long have you liked this girl? What do you like about her? How well do you know her? Is she worth the risk of screwing up a good friendship? If she is worth it, then don't lay off. Try to figure out how she feels about you and your friend. And if she turns out liking you then the worst part is going to be breaking it to your friend. He is going to feel totally betrayed. So if you and this girl end up getting together just be prepared to possibly lose a friend. Hopefully your friend will realize that it is not the end of the world and you guys can still be friends. I hope my advice helps you. Good luck! ~Sherah

[view]

okay-- the guy i like knows i like him and he keeps tellin me hes thinkin about me and he told me he could see me as a potential girlfriend... so how long do you think it would take for him to fainnaly ask me out?? ive already been waiting like 3 weeks (and im just a lil bit curious!!) thanks!!

Maybe the reason he hasn't asked you out yet is because he is a little unsure about your feelings about him. Sure he knows you like him, but does he know that you want to go out with him? Just because you like someone doesn't mean you will date them. So maybe he is unsure of that. He is obviously trying to let you know he likes you by saying that he sees you as a potential girlfriend and is thinking about you. But did you return the favor? He knows you like him, so he lets you know that he not only likes you but sees you as a possible girlfriend. So let him know you see him as boyfriend material and hopefully he will take that as a clue to ask you out already... lol. Anticipating is the worst part. So hopefully he will stop driving you crazy with curiosity and ask you out. I'm sure he will, so just be patient and make sure he knows for a fact that you would love to be his girlfriend. ~Sherah

[view]

Okay in my last question I asked about how I should ask this guy out and it ended up being that he asked me like 2 weeks ago. Now theres this girl in our class, big boobs, yeah I know grade 7? but anyways she's like sugar and the guys in our class are wasps. If she's standing alone anywhere they'll rush up to her, annoying. For the past little while she's been holding hands with the guy who asked me out. She likes to hug him in front of me and she acts like their together. She has a boyfriend but I still don't get. I haven'y blown up in her face yet but I will soon. His friends name is Derek and he asked them to like lay off on what their doing cause it's annoying me but they haven't. I want him to just say no to her but I don't think he can. What should I do?

Your so-called boyfriend is treating you like shit. If he really cared about you he wouldn't be all over some skanky, fake breasted bimbo! Tell your boyfriend that either he lays the fuck off with her, or you are going to dump him on his ass and he can have her. And if your boyfriend hooks up with this girl, then steal her current bf and flaunt it in her face! That way she will get a taste of her own medicine. I hope this helps. ~Sherah

[view]

ok i am 13/f,

I was wondering if 13 is too young for someone to usae a tanning bed. i know it is bad for you, but is it to young. i know poepl who are my age and go year roung. i am only going for a month because i have an occatuion i want a tan for, and where i live we dont uch sun. myother question is,can i getskin canser even if i am only going a month..it is kinda late now to ask for me last day will be 2 marrow. but i would ,like to know your oppion.

thx, i rate high!

Alyssa

Well 13 is pretty young, because the younger your skin is the more damage you will get after tanning. By age 18, you will have 80% of skin's damage due to the overexposure to the ultra-violent rays from tanning beds and the sun. So if you start now you are only doubling the amount of damage to your skin in the future. Many people don't know this but tanning is actually your skin's reaction to damage. When you tan it damages the pigments in your skin, the pigments that produce your skin color. When your skin gets damaged it darkens the pigment to try to protect itself from the damage. And the more you tan the better chance you have of getting skin cancer in the future, not to mention wrinkles, discolored skin, and many other side effects people seem to dismiss. But since you only go a month, it isn't quite that bad. When you go tanning, never tan more than 3 times a week, and space them out. Apply a tanning lotion/spray to enhance your tan that has a little SPF, like SPF 15, that way you can still tan but protect your skin. And when tanning, try not to burn, because when you burn your chances of getting skin cancer get higher. I hope my advice helps. ~Sherah

[view]

Hello, I am a girl and I want to buy an at home waxing kit for my face, mainly my upper lip and my eyebrows. I have sensitive skin. Im not that educated on waxing. I dont know the difference between, hot waxing, cold waxing, 'sugaring', and no heat waxing, ready to use strips, or something. There seems to be alot of products by sally hansen. My question is, which is the best, easiest, and cheapest one to buy? Keep in mind my skin is a little sensitive, and I dont have alot of money, either. 10 dollars is even alot for me. I also dont want the hair to grow back very fast, i just got a wax on my uperlip and it was a very bad job and grew back in 2 days. Any suggestions on which little kit thing i should buy (no nads)? THANKS!

Alright, I have tried many products... And DO NOT use Sally Hansen. It sucks! The kind I use is not only cheap, but works way better than ready-to-use strips and hot waxing. Plus it last 6 to 8 weeks! It is called Surgi-Wax. It comes in various sizes but has a small size specifically for the upper lip and smaller regions. All you have to do is heat up the wax in the microwave for 30 seconds, take it out, and with a small spatula, spread it on a small area at a time, opposite the growth of the hair follicles. You let the wax dry a few seconds and then pull. It gets every single hair and is not very painful. And it costs only about $5.95 at drugstores. The difference between it and every other product out there: It uses no strips, which barely grab the hairs, and only seem to pull out a few, leaving a gross, hard to clean residue on your skin. It requires minimum amount of heating and can be reused all the time. The regular "heat up" waxes are messy and you still have to use strips, which are confusing and hardly work at all. Surgi-Wax uses no strips, is not messy, and is very quick and easy to use. Trust me, it works. And I have tried all the waxes out there. This one is the best and I would never use any other kind. I hope you try it. ~Sherah

[view]

this isnt exactly about sex, but i think it may have something to do with it.

i have a lump on the very top inside of my thigh, underneath, yeah. well its not always there, but every now and then it just kinda shows up. usually for about 4 days or so. but this time its been there for about a week. could this be something wrong, or maybe just a gland. and if it has n e thing to do with it, i am not a virgin. please help, im freaking out! thanks soo much.

I highly doubt it would be your lymph nodes. The body has lymphnodes located under the armpits, on the lower abdomen, on the back of the head, and in the neck. The lymph nodes in your body helps to fight against infections and helps your body to rid itself of impurities that could cause these infections. When infection does occur the lymph nodes swell sometimes being very painful. But based on the fact that you said it was a lump on your top, inner thigh, where no lymph nodes are located, I'm pretty sure it can't be that. It is most likely a cyst. Cysts are usually harmless but could be cancerous. Cysts are lumps, located in the breasts, inner thigh, and head region. Most likely if it is a cyst, it is a sebaceous cyst. Sebaceous cysts are non-cancerous and are nothing to be worried about. Most of the time these cysts are painless, but some people feel tenderness or inflaming of the cyst. These cysts form due to the increase in stess or activities. They swell up during those periods of time, and then go down after a few days. If you are still worried about it though, I suggest you go to a doctor and get it checked out just to be sure. ~Sherah

[view]

Hey whats up ok id appreciate if you all read this it hurt's so much to esplain but it would mean the world to me if you answered it, I will rate evryone a 5just for reading my problem!!! Thanks!

-Ok my name is stephanie I am 15yrs old and I live in jacksonville florida, I have lived here since I was a baby I was born and raised here. Thing is I have a boy im inlove with and I know its hard to find someone that you will love and care for and stuff but I really do! It all started in the 6th grade I had alot of fun and stuff and I met Josh I didn't really liked him and stuff but we were always best freind's and I told him everything and we would always mess around with each other and stuff. But we went out for like a day but I told him he was too much of a friend to me. So then like we were bet friends alll 6th grade, Then round the corner 7th grade came, And I still kept in touch all summer and we got together and I swear he was my first kiss, first serious bf everything (and yes im still a virgin). But yeah we gott into 8th grade and went on with out realtionship so we were like best friends at the same time but like middle school sweethearts if that makes since. We kinda grew up with eachother and changed like with each other and like see the thing is he moved last summer, And I talk to him like occcasionally on the computer and he talks to me and like I called him like few monthes ago to check up on him and we called each other today. And I kno he is coming in 10days to Jacksonville to visit. Thing is its hard to say but I love him alot and like ive only been in like what 2 relationships since me n josh split cause he had to move. And like I dont kno something tells me he wont be stayin here cause he told me he doesnt know if he is gonna move down here yet cause like his mom is poor and stuff and his sis is in college and he doesnt wanna b like in her way cause she is busy and stuff. So like I dont kno what to do honestly im freakin out and I know if he comes back likehe is to visit im gonna get even more attached to him then I already am! But he said he will try n talk to his sis bout it, But I dont kno her so I really cant judge her actions if he wanted to move back! I really wish there was something I could say that is really sweet and will make him come back!! PLEASE ANYONE I LOVE THIS BOY TO DEATH JUST ANSWER ME!!! I have aol my screenname is MOMMYSLILBOO so please answer me! I appreciate it all and Ill rate you all a 5!

-stephanie-

Wow.... I'm speechless! You must really be in love. And it definently has it's down sides. But it is so amazing that you love him that much that you and him stayed in touch after he moved. Most realtionships are not like that, especially you and him going from friends, to best friends, to on-and-off couple, to best friends again. Him coming back is awesome for you. You have 10 days with him for sure so spend every second you have with him. And if he already doesn't know how you feel then tell him you love him and you hope he can stay. Just try not to get your hopes up to much, because if he can't stay it will be even harder for you to say goodbye and watch him leave you again. Just remember that everything in life happens for a reason. You love this guy, no doubt about it, and if he doesn't know, then let him. I'm sure he feels the same way. And I hope that he gets to stay, because for you only being 15 and finding a love that lasts, its only fair that you and him get to be together. Just hope and pray for the best and Carpe Diem (Seize the moment). Good luck! ~Sherah

[view]

So when I wear eyeliner it always seems to go into the side of my eye and goop or w/e. help me!

This happens because the eyeliner you are using is not waterproof and is not made to last for long periods of time. When hours pass, oil builds on the skin causing your eyeliner to literally slide and it gets into your eyes because of this. It also smudges making your makeup look overdone. Another reason why your eyeliner is getting into your eye is because you might be over doing it a little, or putting it too close to the center of your eyes, so when your eyes naturally water when they become dry during the day, the eyeliner globs where the tear ducts are. So try using an eyeliner that goes on smooth, that is waterproof, and is guaranteed to last longer than 16 hours. I would try Revlon Timeliner for Eyes, or Prestige (both you can buy at most drugstores). And don't apply alot near the center of your eyes. When you rim the underpart of your bottom lid, thin it out making it thick at the corner and thinning it so it stops before it even gets to the center of your eye. That way it will stop it from globbing. Hope this helps. ~Sherah

[view]

alrigh tim 13 and well im half a virgin ( i havent had sex but ive given something) and well it was with my x boyfriend and this was like in april of this year and people are still talking about it and every since then theres this group of boys in ym class that are all my friends but ever since that thing in april they've all been like well kinda giving me names and stuff like today they said im gonna be a hooker when i grow up, you know stuff likw that and i was just like wondering if i should be worried about that.. like do you think it'll go to far and well how oculd i convine them to stop it?

Alright, I will tell you from personal experience, just ignore the stupid fuckers! People that used to be your friends, especially guys, sometimes get upset when the innocent friend they once had changes and does something they might take offensively. Or they might actually be into you, and are upset and jealous over what had happened, even if it was a while ago. A few of my guy friends got real shitty with me when tons of rumors were circulating that I was "a big whore", "I work the street corners", and "I've fucked tons of guys" (which I ignored all rumors becuase I'm a virgin and the only people who talk shit are people who don't have a life so they have to talk about everyone else). My guy friends got to the point where they called me names everyday, saying "You're such a whore", "Move it slut!", "Go suck some guys dick!"... and the list goes on. I just laughed it off. And the next time they called me a name, trying to offend me I got up in their face and calmly asked, "So, since you act like you know everything... What makes me 'such a slut'?" And they had no reply. They would try to bring up things that they "heard" I had done but everything they said I shot down. I told them that the funny thing is that they are talking about me like they know me, when they really don't know shit. And the shit that they do know, wasn't even that big of a deal. So just don't worry about it. Laugh off their stupid attempts to make you upset, because a few years from now, when you graduate from school, you probably won't talk to half of the idiots in your school anyway. Just have fun while you are still in school, and don't give a damn what people say, because half the reason they talk shit is to make you mad in the first place. So don't let them win. Play it off and everything will be fine. ~Sherah

[view]

Well okay. I want to break up with my boyfriend but i dont know what to say. like, i still want to be friends and i dont want to hurt his feelings, you know? Okay please help me! oh and if it helps i want to break up with him because summers comin up and i wont see him. thanks!

Alright, I've been there and done that so I hope my advice helps. Well it mostly depends on how long you guys have been together. The longer the worse it will be. Just be sincere and kind about it and don't make it sound like it's his fault you guys are breaking up, because that will make him feel even worse about the break up. Depending on how you want to break up, I've always been the kind of person that likes to break up in person, because I think the phone, email, or IM is way too inpersonal. But that mostly depends on how long you have been going out with him. If it was a long relationship, I think meeting in person is alot better. But if that idea makes you uneasy, the next best thing is telling him over the phone. This is probably a better option, because if breaking up with someone makes you really nervous, you can write down the main things you are going to say to him, that way when you are breaking up with him over the phone you won't forget what you were going to say. Say something like this, "(His name), this is really hard for me to do. I really care about you and I always will. And I'm hoping after everything we can still be able to talk to eachother and maybe even be friends. But that is all up to you. I've been thinking about this upcoming summer, and the fact that we aren't going to be able to see eachother at all, and it really bothers me. I'm afraid that during that time we are going to grow apart and we won't be as close as we used to. And that would really hurt me. I think it would be easier for both of us if we just weren't together." I hope my advice helps you. Just think about what you are going to say ahead of time, that way when you say it you will be calm, and less nervous. Breaking up with someone is really hard, so hopefully it works out okay for you and him. Good luck! ~Sherah

[view]

how can u be half virgin?

Some people consider themselves virgins if they had sex, but they have never had it anal. Others consider it if they have had it anal, but never the other way. But the most common reason why people consider themselves "half virgins" is if they never had their hymen popped during sex. And since the hymen is a symbol of a virgin, if it was never popped during sex, some consider themselves half virgins.

[view]

My brother is 26 and is a major drug abuser? Does any one know oof any rehabs we can take him to (also counseling because he wants to kill hisself). We dont have any money and we are in the LA area of Calif.?

Ignore Supaiku.... obviously the psychopath should try focusing on his mental problems instead of answering other people's problems. Something is definently fucked up in that kid's head! lol.. Anyway... To get your brother help you can go to several places in the LA area that aren't expensive, some of which are free.

Here's a list of a couple places he can go for Drug Rehabilitation & Therapy:

Harmony Place
Malibu, California 90265
Phone: 888-866-9778
Website: http://www.harmonyplace.net
Email: info@harmonyplace.net

Oasis Treatment Center
222 W. Ball Road
Anaheim, California 92805
Phone: (800) 550-0467
Phone: (714) 991-4673
Website: http://www.oasistreatment.org?source=4therapy

Capo Beach Drug and Alcohol Rehabilitation
Website: http://www.capobeachdrugrehab.com/
Phone: (949)-533-3209

Newport Harbor Recovery Center
Webiste: http://newportharborrecovery.net/
Phone: 1-949-645-5775
Email: info@newportharborrecovery.net

I really hope this helps. Good luck with your brother and I hope everything works out. ~Sherah

[view]

<<< Previous Advice Column

Next Advice Column >>>