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Hey there (: I'm Bryttnii ♥ I'm a Senior. I'm 17 and I seem to have been through a lot in my seventeen years. I love giving advice & recieving advice. I'm here to give you my honest opinion & responses to your questions. I don't give the answers you want to hear, I give the answers you need to hear. I've had an advice column since I was 14. But of course, I made a new one that I stay on constantly! I take Cosmetology in school and I love it. I get my Cosmetology license in 9 months. I'd like to go to college for Criminal Justice and be a Detective ;] Speak to me about anything.




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Well where do i begin?? haha well see i met this boy over the summer when i went to visit my dads, and we hit it off really well. We hung out almost every day. But the thing is, i added him on myspace, and we started talking....there is three scenarios that i want you to read...
1) His "friend" started talking to me and wouldnt tell me who he was. He just said "do you like my friend?" and i was like "my guess is he is in that room with you. who are you" and he was like "i cant say" and i was like "well does ty like me?" and he was like "i cant tell you i just cant..." and i was like "ok its funner that way" and he said "okay i will talk to you later"....
2) I asked him if he missed me and he said "a little not a lot tho" then signed off real quick.
3) My dad said he has been asking about me and when i am coming up again and how i am doing...

Now i am kind of thinking that he likes me...but i dont know so i need your help. My cousin said "what guy would tell you they sort of missed you?"... but i think that maybe he said a lil not a lot tho to tell me "hey i really do miss you alot but im just too big of a pussy to say it out loud."

what do you think????? sorry its so long!~!!!

Hm, well it seems to me like he probably does like you and there are a bunch of different reasons he could of said that. It could have been his friend that said that acting like him. Or he could of said that because someone was next to him & he wanted to look cool in front of them. Well just let him know the next time you plan on going to your dads & ask him if he wanted to see you if you went. If he says yes, then that's a definite he likes you. When you do see him just point blank ask him what he meant by missing you a little. Good luck girl, hope this helps you out somewhat! ♥

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Last night I got a littleee drunk, and went on facebook. I had a friend request from a guy from my drivers ed class, so I accepted, and then I decided to message him. In it I said "you are soooo hot lets have sex" haha :(
Anyways, he wrote back "i think we should"
Now I'm SO tryna hook up with him (not have sex you know) so what am I supposed to write back to that? Like in a way that keeps us talking so that we hang out and hook up. Lol its a weird situation...
Thankss :)

Just message him & let him know first off that you had sent him an accidental drunken message. Then be like but it'd still be cool if we hung out. Just take it from there. Keep a conversation going. Most guys think it's attractive for a girl to be bluntly honest with them anyways ;] ♥

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Good emo/screamo music anyone?
thank you

Personally, I like:
Chiodos
Angels & Airwaves
Atreyu
Tegan & Sara
Underoath
The Spill Canvas
Brand New
CARTEL

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How do you make a shirt, like how do you stick a design on a shirt? And what type of fabric is needed. Please just give me everything that's needed to make a shirt and how to do it.

I use to have this program on my computer,
that allowed you to pick a design out & then print it out on paper that is ironed onto t-shirts. I use to make them all the time. I'd go to Walmart & buy a pack of plain white t-shirts or buy one of a certain color & come home and print out any design I wanted and you just iron it on the shirt! I can't remember the exact program but if you google it they might have websites just for you to do that. Go to Walmart to get the paper needed for it. It should say something like graphic t-shirt design paper or something along those lines. Have fun with it! Also, if you go to a store that sells computer programs [games & what not] they might have a program there too. It's free & a lot of fun! ♥

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YAY my friend asked me if I wanna hangout sometime! I'm not a looser or anything but my parents are strict about me going outside even with my friends so i've never actually been out. And i have no idea of what we could od or where to go.

And ideas?

Hmm, well it all depends on where you live! I live in a SMALL town & It's in the country so if I ever want to go to the mall or out to eat I have to drive 45 minutes lol. If you live in a town like I do, I like to go to a pool & swim or a park! If you live in a big city where there is plenty of things to do, go to the movies or the mall. If you're able, go out to eat! Or you could have her over and watch movies or something along those lines or go to her house & do that. Good luck & have fun baby girl! ♥

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I met a guy on vacation and we both really love each other n he asked me out I said yes. But I really dono, I love him, but it turned into a long distance relationship and so far I just cant take it. Were total opposites but we both love each other but if I am gona keep getting broken by it and never be able to see him only talk, what is the use. Even last night, he wouldn’t talk to me so him n my bff could text, then talking about each other non stop to me wtf. But then he asked if it was ok if he added her to his myspace an if its ok that he would not call me n I just texted “I guess, bye” “ok well have fun ima proly just go to sleep now bye I love u, night”. They both know I had an extremely bad day and that im bipolar and just having trouble. I can’t even explain it to my other friend, but I finally told her about my depression an bipolar an what had been going on w me, n told her I was done with life done with whatever it is im trying to live through. What can I do its down to stupid stuff like this that bothers me enough to cry hard for 3 hours. when i said im about to loose it, i just lost it.

Well, being bi-polar doesn't mean you have to be mean to everyone around you. I learned that the hard way. But it is really messed up of him to be talking to your friend like that. I'd be pretty angry myself. If I was you, I would sit down with my best friend & let her know that it was such a bitchy thing to do talking to your boyfriend like that whether he lived near you or not. Second, I would talk to your boyfriend. Let him know that with ya'lls relationship being long distance, that it's hard on you. I've been in one long distance relationship. They usually don't work out. There is the whole trust issue & what not. But if the love is strong enough, some people can make them work. It sounds like you need to pick a better friend, that wouldn't try to steal your boyfriend. ♥

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I was in town yesterday and there was this girl and she had an amazing skirt!
it was an ordinary denim mini skirt, but she'd faded it(like with a cheese grater), had some bleach spots and on the back(on the ass)it was ripped, and there was like red material behind it(not her underwear).
Also she had those festival wristbands sewn onto the edge of the skirt (you know those fabric ones`?)
It was so cool! I want to make my own, but I don't want to copy her, cause she goes to my school, so what are some things I could do to customize my skirt? :D

Btw, I'm not a prep or anything, please don't suggest pink or flowery type things.

I've seen a lot of girls buy denim skirts, then cute a little bit off the bottom so it has the strings & it's shorter, then cut one of the pockets out of the back & sew a patch of fabric on it. Also, I've seen girls buy little rhinestones and glue them on with fabric glue & sprinkle glitter in some areas. Good luck! ♥

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ok so i was txting my friend (shes about to b my step cousin) and she said she had a docters appointment and i said ohh why? and i sorta kept bugging her cuz it was bugging me and she goes: (my name) please nobody knows about thin except me my mom and my dad okay.
and i really wanna know!! shes 15
what do u think?

Well, it could be something personal that she doesn't want anyone else to know. Just let it go. Maybe eventually she will come around & let you know what it was all about. If not, you can't get mad at her because some things that happens in peoples life need to stay private. Just apologize to her, and let her know you were just concerned and wanted to make sure she was okay. ♥

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Alright.
Is there a way you can know if your bipolar or not without going to the doctors?

I really think I am. I mean I'll be all happy and fine one minute and then someone will say something and I'll go quiet and not laugh or say anything. Or I'll be sitting in my room singing and just messing around and then i'll just suddenly stop and start crying (most of the time for no reason, or a really stupid reason like my boyfriends not around). I just dont know what to do anymore. It really kills me and I know it messes up my boyfriend.
Does it sound like im Bipolar to you?

So another question I guess would be how do I bring it up to my mom if I need to go to the doctors to find out?

And how exactly do they know?

I am diagnosed with Bi-polar, severe depression, social anxiety, and OCD. I didn't know I was bi-polar or any of those. I started noticing more and more when my boyfriend mentioned something about it. We would be fine one minute & then a minute later I'd find myself screaming at him and getting mad at him for no reason at all. I also, would sometimes be so happy then a minute later cry for no reason. Finally, I went to the doctor and all they do is evaluate you. Be honest with them & they can really help you. It took a lot for me to get the courage to ask my dad to take me to a doctor. But he said he had noticed the same changes in me too. The doctor will ask you questions, and ask how your feeling. Just answer everything truthfully & they will let you know if something is wrong. If so, they will put you on medicine to help control the sudden mood swings, etc. Ever since that, I have felt a lot better. I'm still on the medicine & I still have my bad days but it's nowhere near as bad as it use to be. Good luck sweetie! ♥

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17/Female :)
So im really worried about it hurting my first time. I just started using tampons and feel like im really tight and that my hymen is probablly really thick. Can anyone give me their personal stories about their first time and how it felt/if it hurt/if you bled.

Also what are some ways i can stretch/slowly break my hymen so it doesnt hurt. thanksssss

Aw, the first time for me hurt but not too bad. He went really slow and it made it less painful. I bled afterwards but not a lot. For the next couple of days my legs were sore & it felt funny when I walked lol. But not every girl is the same. Some girls it hurts more than others. Some girls it doesn't hurt at all. I've heard running can help stretch you so that it doesn't hurt bad. I don't know the truth behind that, but I've heard it a lot. Good luck! ♥

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i am completelyyy in love with my boyfriend. i know this for a fact and am not afraid to say it ! so i have a few questions i hope i can get solid honest answers to. i admit to being very unexperienced, but hey, you have to start somewhere.

1) we are both virgins, does this mean we can't get an STD?
2) when giving him head, do i HAVE to swallow?
3) also when giving him head, would a condom be useful?
4) i hate asking this but it has to be asked: wtf do i do with the pubic hair on both me and him?

haha thanks

Okay.
1) Just because you both are virgins, you can still get an STD from oral sex.
2) Some girls swallow and some don't. It's up to you in that area. Most guys like girls that swallow, but if you & your boyfriend are close and you don't want to do that, tell him you'd prefer not to swallow. He should understand.
3) Most of the time, they do not wear condoms when recieving head, however, it can prevent STD's by wearing a condom.
4) Most guys don't shave their hair. Most girls do though. If you don't want to shave, then there is nothing you have to do with it! ♥

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Exactly how dangerous is it to skip a period while on birth control? I go to the beach in two weeks and I will also be on my period then. Is it okay to just go on to the next pack and skip my period? If so, do I have to make up my period and have two in one month? Will it definitely work? If it doesn't work, should I go back to the period pills? Or is all this skipping around too much? Sorry for so many questions, but thanks for the help!

I've skipped my period ONE time using birth control. You will still get your period for about a day but it's not bad. But the next time your period is due, you'll bleed a lot more than you usually do; only because you have a lot of blood waiting to be released. ♥

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16/f

my boyfriend & i have been together for a year & a half and we haven't had sex, but we do fool around a lot (been to 3rd base), and occassionally we send dirty text messages or emails to each other. okay here's the problem..his parents read an email i send him (DIRTY!), they told my parents, and he got his phone/computer taken away, and my parents said i'm not allowed to see him the entire summer. neither of us have our licenses, & now his parents hate me. i don't know what to do. he's my best friend & i can't not talk to him or not see him!!! any advice?

I've seen this problem often. My advice to you, is to talk about it to his parents. A mother is very protective over their sons. If you sit down one day & talk everything out with his mom or write her a letter or a phone call, anything to get out what you need to say to her. Just let her know you were joking around & that you and your boyfriend have not had sex. Let her know how sorry you are & that you won't say anything like that again. If you make mends with his parents, then work on yours. Tell your parents that you're not a little girl anymore & that you were respectful enough to talk to his parents about it & everything is okay now. Tell them it was a misunderstanding. Let your parents know that you're growing up and don't need to be punished for it. If worst comes to worst, tell them you're going to a friends house. Meet him somewhere! ♥

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me and my boyfriend have had sex about 15 times maybe?
and he still can't last longer than a minute.
why is this? and is it normal?
i'd really like us to be able to do it longer so do you have any advice on how to?

It is normal for a lot of guys. Many guys have that problem. Sometimes my boyfriend can last 1 minute and other times he lasts a LOT longer than I really want haha. But when you are having sex, I learned that by the guys wearing condoms their not as sensitive and can last somewhat longer. Also, when he's about to cum make him pull out and just make out for a few minutes to make him relax more. ♥

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me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year.
for our 1 year aniversary i want to get him a really sexy gift. like a box of anything for like foreplay or like teasing him and sex and stuff like that....I have a few ideas...but more would be good...any ideas?

Ha, one time my boyfriend gave me a bag from Pricilla's, that had a thong, sex dice, and stuff like that in it. If you go to Spencers, they have all kinds of kinky stuff that you'll like and he'll like too ;) Or just take a cute bag and fill it up with all kinds of suprises such as a pair of your underwear, edible underwear, a big lollipop (fantasies), sex cards (cards with different sex positions) etc. He'll have a present he'll never forget, and one you both can enjoy. ♥

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Okayy Thenn,,
This Is weird but i just want to know what its like having sex for the first time,,and does it hurt..?
xx

Well I'm not going to lie. It hurts REALLY bad the first time if your really tight. Meaning you've never really had anything up there before. It hurts some girls more than others. Some girls will cry and make the guy stop because it hurts too bad. Some girls can take the pain & let him get it all the way in. If you're brave enought to stick out the pain like I was, after a little while the pain kinda stops. But you will be sore for a couple days & you will bleed a little. ♥

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I was just wondering if my boyfriend is either REALLY bad in bed or it is just ME!! :) because, i have only had sex with him a couple of times and i dont get any orgasms!!! is it because Im new to sex and so I need some time to get use to it, or is it that he just cant give me orgasms??? Totally confused and WORRIED!! I want to enjoy sex, feels like masturbating is better than the real thing.... But that is not what everyone says, plus I should love the REAL thing!! :D Right?!?!

Most girls don't orgasm off sex. Weird, but my dad told me that for a girl to orgasm, it takes her being with the right person that she feels comfortable around. Idk, but I think you just have to feel comfortable with the person your with and you just have to be into it. ♥

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I was just wondering if you are supposed to shave your pubic hair?
Like do you only shave it before sex, or do you just shave it all the time!
I need help, haha.

Well, some girls like keeping it shaved all the time while other only shave it when they know their going to see their boyfriends & etc. But it's really only what you want. If you don't like having hair then shave it. It's not nessecary to shave it if you don't want to baby doll! ♥

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14/f
ive never been fingered before, but i was just wondering if most guys are expecting your vagina to be completely shaved or what..? thanks for youre help!

It isn't necessary to shave, but most guys think it's sexier when it is completely shaved. Some girl leave little patches or whatever, but I'd just shave it all & it's easier. Ha. ♥

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I am going for a spray tan on Thursday and the salon have advised me to wear dark, loose fitting clothes and flip flops between tanning and showering, which is not advised for at least eight hours. The trouble is that I am due to go out a couple of hours after the tan and don't really have any dark, loose fitting clothes I could wear. It also isn't really warm enough in the UK to wear flip flops.

Has anyone had a spray tan before? Would it be okay to just wear normal clothes when I go out as long as they are dark?

Eh, I've went spray tanning a couple times and everytime I've gotten one It's always left me orange and streaky. But It is best to wear loose fitting clothes because it lessens the chance of you being streaky. ♥

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