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Orgasms
I was just wondering if my boyfriend is either REALLY bad in bed or it is just ME!! :) because, i have only had sex with him a couple of times and i dont get any orgasms!!! is it because Im new to sex and so I need some time to get use to it, or is it that he just cant give me orgasms??? Totally confused and WORRIED!! I want to enjoy sex, feels like masturbating is better than the real thing.... But that is not what everyone says, plus I should love the REAL thing!! :D Right?!?!
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Most girls don't orgasm off sex. Weird, but my dad told me that for a girl to orgasm, it takes her being with the right person that she feels comfortable around. Idk, but I think you just have to feel comfortable with the person your with and you just have to be into it. ♥
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There are many, many reasons why you might not be climaxing.
1) Comfort. A woman's orgasm is more mental and less physical than a guy's is. Men are required to orgasm for procreation, women's is almost entirely for pleasure. So if you arent in the right frame of mind, are nervous, etc, it can make it harder.
2) Sensitivity. Most women seem to become more responsive and sensitive as they grow older. If you are young enough (and I'm guessing you're under 18) that could be interfering.
3) Yes, he could be very bad in bed.
It takes time for sex with someone to be very good. Sex is a skill, and you get better with practice.
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Try getting really relaxed next time, sometimes, if you tense up, it can take longer to orgasm. And try not focusing on the actual sex going on, focus on your boyfriend and how turned on you are, that may help also.
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some women have trouble with orgasms, so it could be either you or him, or both. since im not allowed to get too specific, since thats against the rules, try new things that you havent and see if that works.
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