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parents found out
16/f
my boyfriend & i have been together for a year & a half and we haven't had sex, but we do fool around a lot (been to 3rd base), and occassionally we send dirty text messages or emails to each other. okay here's the problem..his parents read an email i send him (DIRTY!), they told my parents, and he got his phone/computer taken away, and my parents said i'm not allowed to see him the entire summer. neither of us have our licenses, & now his parents hate me. i don't know what to do. he's my best friend & i can't not talk to him or not see him!!! any advice?
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I've seen this problem often. My advice to you, is to talk about it to his parents. A mother is very protective over their sons. If you sit down one day & talk everything out with his mom or write her a letter or a phone call, anything to get out what you need to say to her. Just let her know you were joking around & that you and your boyfriend have not had sex. Let her know how sorry you are & that you won't say anything like that again. If you make mends with his parents, then work on yours. Tell your parents that you're not a little girl anymore & that you were respectful enough to talk to his parents about it & everything is okay now. Tell them it was a misunderstanding. Let your parents know that you're growing up and don't need to be punished for it. If worst comes to worst, tell them you're going to a friends house. Meet him somewhere! ♥
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Sneak out! :]]
Or you could talk it over with your parents
Or you could just tell themm you were going to another friends and then go to his house.
Hope I helpedd <3 :]]
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my best adivce would be to win over your parents. if you can win them over, they can work with his parents. Parents tend to listen to parents better than kids. So take on more house work, be more calm, udnerstanding, after a few days or weeks sit down with them and have a talk, tell them you dont want this to become a fight, you just need to talk. ask them if they have anything to say before you start. DO NOT INTURRUPT TEM. Then tell them you want 5 minutes to get out everything you feel you need to say and explain, and plleeeaasse nto to butt in. tell them and be HONEST with them, dont just talk about the sexual stuff, talk about the friendship and everything else. Hopfully if you play your cards right they will think about it for a few days and maybe talk to his parents.
...a similar thing happened to me when i was younger, we sent letters to eachother via our other friends houses.. which worked out pretty good so maybe you can try that
anyway try it and i really hope that helps
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parents tend to freak badly at first, seriously give it a couple of days let him cool down, maybe sit down and talk to your parents, explain that you're growing up. and while you respect their opinions it's your life, and if you want to make a mistake they can't protect you for forever.
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