I am totally honest i tell it like it is and if you dont like it im sorry but im not going to sugar coat answers to make you feel better i want to tell people the truth and tell them what i think is right so if you find that what i say is mean or not helpful just give me a low rating and move on but please dont be rude after all i did answer you question even if its not what you wanna hear just take the time to appreciate. Feel free to message me thank you :) (L)
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i like this one guy a lot but he doesnt know about it and im friends with most of his friends and hes friends with most of my friends and of course were pretty good friends and i dont know how to tell him that i like him because im afraid he will take it the wrong way and wont want to be friends with me anymore and ive kept this a secret for about a year and i havent really gone out with a lot of people and hes only gone out with 1 person which was my friend.. i mean i want him to know that i like him but then again i dont what should i do?
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I think you should just tell him because if you don't he will start to go out with other girls and you will feel very jelouse and thats not good either so i really suggest telling him and even if he doesnt like you back i dont think he would break your friendship i mean sure it would be awkward for a bit but eventually things would smooth over so dont think about the bad things that could happen concentrate on the good ask him out or tell him you like him and ask him to just hang out that way he can see how much you like him and it will give him more of a chance to see you for who you really are.
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wut r some good exersices that will make u lose weight in ur stomach lol sorry i dont know how to describe it but newayz.. im a gymnast so i mean i condition but that doesnt seem to do alot well it does but i dont do it enuf i mean i already do sit-ups crunches and push-ups every night wut other things could i do?! thanx! (link)
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Running or getting an elliptical stationary bike or going to the gym to use it will do a lot for you i burned 200 calories on the bike everyday it took me about an hour everyday and it made a huge difference not only in my stomach/abs/love handles but also in my legs it also makes your body a lot stronger i really suggest it.
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I'd like to start waxing "down there" because when I shave it grows back quickly, but the stubble isnt long enough to reshave for awhile and it's annoying. I definitely wouldnt feel comfortable having someone else wax me there. I tried waxing once a lot time ago and it didnt really turn out well. Like the hair didnt come off with the wax. So I was wondering what are the best brands for at home waxing. And any tips to make it work better would also be appreciated. Oh and I want to be completely hairless down there if that makes any difference! lol 18/f (link)
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Ive actually been looking for the best brand of wax myself i find that persian cold wax is the best its kinda pricey but its worth it and i suggest putting in the microwave for a few seconds even though its cold wax and your not suppose to but i find if u microwave it hurts less and doesnt give you redness.
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my best friend is a guy, he's turning 16 in june. he says he's got my present covered in a couple months, so i really wanna get him something good.
- he loves cars, lovessss classics, etc
- likes the color blue
- enjoys hip-hop music most
- always happy, good to be around
- type of guy who likes shoes, 'fresh kicks' lol
- eminem, 8 mile, etc
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get him a pair of shoes he likes or some cd's or concert tickets or posters of his favorite band guys like that kind of stuff.
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does anyone know any stores that sell off the shoulder band shirts? (link)
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check out these online store
amiclubwear.com
hotmiamistyles.com
i saw some in both of these website stores.
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So my ex broke up with me about 6 weeks ago. He said he needed some time apart and he just didnt like me as much as he did before. We obviously hungout less and talked less.He got sick and I didn't see him for a whole week ,but he talked to me one of those days.Then in class,we had to work in groups and he wanted to be in my group and ofcourse he flirted with me and what not and we made plans to hangout ,so we went and hungout at his house and watched tv and he wanted me to come lay next to him and we did the classic play fighting etc. and we just talked a lot ( i made sure not to bring up our relationship or anything like that) and we didn't hookup, but the tension was there. Then we went to a volleyball game and sat really close to eachother and it seems like everytime we talk ,i just feel like he looks at me as more than a friend. Also, he left his shoes at my house from a long time ago and i said we could get them after the game but he said "he'd just get them from me over the weekend " implying that we are gonna hangout on the weekend.. i don't know if he still feels for me or just likes me as a friend..I dont want to bring it up because that might push him away because maybe these hangouts are his thinking times to decide whether or not he wants to try again and i don't want to rush him or annoy him so im letting him come to me for hangouts and talking ,etc. or what should i do!? (link)
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you need to talk to him because hes sending you mixed signals and if he keeps doing this your gonna end up liking him too much and then if he does break your heart you probably wont handle it well. So i suggest you either talk to him and find out how he feels or wait for the heartbreak if he doesnt really like if he doesnt like you stop hanging out with him and move on to someone who really does like you but you need to find out how he feels its the only way to move on and dont be scared of him going away from you its the best thing to do i mean would you rather be in the dark about this whole thing i think not. Good luck :D
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I dated the guy for few months and we are really like a couple in-love. He calls me everyday, we go out often. He said i have a special place in his heart. I cannot say we were in a relationship because he never said he loves me. Unexpectedly i got pregnant, he said he is not yet ready for me but he loves to have the baby and he will be responsible. He was very supportive during first few months of my pregnancy then he got cold, fewer phone calls until none at all and we don't go out anymore. I asked him what is the problem, he said some issues about him self, i asked if we can talk about it, he just asked for time. We did not communicate for few weeks, i gave him space then I recieve 2 easter greeting text message from him the other one is not for me but for his ex-girlfriend's mother. Honestly my response is not good i told him to get out of my life coz i felt he still loves his ex thats why he ignores me. He said sorry through text and never called me few days after due to depression i deleted him in my ym and blocked him in my mobile. I decided not to have communication for a while because I am so hurt and i don't want to say more odd things. It has gone for more than a month now. I sent him text message the other day and offline messages and no response. Will I let go? (link)
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Obviously he isnt be responsible so theres no need to have him around you need a guy who is going to be there for you and your child and honestly he doesnt seem like the type to be by your side so let him go just forget him and ignore him your better off alone then with a guy who is only going to hurt you more in the long run just stay happy have your baby and just wait one day the right guy will come around and you will be happy about the decision you made to let this guy go. Good luck :D
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Well there's is this girl, I really love so much & adore with all my heart and care bout' so dearly. She lost her grandma, someone who was so so special to her like a mother. Now she's suffering and crying due to her loss & as a guy I feel worthless and ashamed that I don't know waht to do to help her. Waht shud I do ? :\ I don't like seeing her like this. Any advice I can give her ? (link)
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Just give her a hug and tell her that your there for her and that she can talk to you and just tell her that losing somone special is hard but tell her that her grandma will always be around her watching out for her and that if she ever needs to just talk or just needs a shoulder to cry on that your there and just take care of her and tell her that everything is going to be fine basically comfort her in anyway you can.
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Hi I am a 19 year old college student and I've noticed that whenever I eat a fiberOne bar a few hours later I get really bad stomach aches. I was just wondering if you knew why this happens? Thank you! (link)
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Check the ingredients maybe something in them is doing that and if they dont suit your body dont eat them try some other gornala bar types maybe they will be better for you i suggest the special k bars there really healthy low in calories and really good.
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I have everything planned for my sweet 16 party except I don't have any idea what to do about my invitations. Could you tell me what you did for yours? I want to get them done professionally but I want everyone to know that they came from my heaart if you know what I mean?
I will SO rate you! (link)
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What i did for mine was i got my invitations done professionaly and baked cupcakes and decorated them and gave one to each person with each invitation that way people know you actually care and actually took the time out to personalize each and every invitation people were really happy when they got my invitations and really knew how much there frienship means to me.
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There is a boy in my english class and I think for a total fact that he likes me. He does that grade school shenanigans, he makes fun of me, pokes me, touches my desk, flips my book pages when I'm not looking. My table makes me do all the work. He just broke up with his girlfriend so I want to be there for him because he looked really not himself today. We talk every single day. We look each other in the eyes all the time, even if we aren't talking. He is adorably cute. He's a flirt but when he was dating his girlfriend he was really loyal and I respected it. He would trace around her fingers on the desk in english. They would hold hands all the time. They were always together. I kinda want him but do you think he likes me? If so, what do I do? Thanks! (link)
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I think he does and the way to really make sure is just ask him if he wants to hang out sometime afterschool and im sure he will tell you his feelings and if he doesnt just be straight forward and just ask him how he feels this is the best way to get to know him better plus a better way to find out how he feels.
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My friends are ALL talking about Justin Bieber's interview today.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DkKqihEUmH4&feature=player_embedded
Here is a link to the youtube video if you haven't seen it.
So since he doesn't even know what the word German means even when he reads it off a card, why are all my friends still crazy about him? I was the only one who thought he sounded like a girl and had stupid scene hair. Now he shows he is a moron and they just "think it is cute!" AWWW! I could vomit.
Can you tell me why morons with stupid hair are sexy? I don't get it.
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haha i know i dont really get whats so special about him either but every girl has different taste so i guess they just have a crush on him plus i think its because girls just think hes cute and because hes young and new to the industry people especailly girls will be crazed for a little while but eventually things will die down and he wont be as popular its just a part of the entertainment buisness.
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Hey, I really like this guy. But I'm 13 and he's 16. But I've liked him since the beginning of last year. Were both in Band. And we both have really good taste in music. But he has a girl friend. And I really want him. He's sweet, he plays the piano, he can sing, he's funny, and he's got great hair. It's not fair. He's like the perfect guy. And I can't have him. But I'm also very shy around guys. Is there anything I can do?????? Please help me
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I think your a little young to be dating someone 3 years older than you plus he has a gf so you shouldnt be interfering its not nice and its totally wrong i think you should date someone your own age plus a lot of guys seem perfect but you have to get to know them and actually have something in common with them but ya i suggest you just be friends with him and nothing more and as for the being shy thing you need to break out of your comfort zone just go up to him or any guy and just strike up a conversation and the more you start talking to people you havent to before the more confidence you will gain and i dont easier said then done but your going to have to atleast try to get less shy and to be able to talk to guys.
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I feel like this boy is kinda liking me and I heard that if you think you like someone, your usually right. We have one period together in school and we usually talk in that period but we don't talk a lot. Usually every time we talk, though, he has me laughing. However, he is a funny kid, so it's not like he only makes me laugh. My friend said once in a while he glances at me in class when I'm not paying attention to him. He had a bonfire but I wasn't invited which made me sad and made me really believe he didn't like me. My friend said this to my other friend "You don't see how he loos at her? How can you tell he likes her without seeing how he looks at her and how she laughs at everything he says and how she always smiles when she's around him." Every time we talk, we look right into each others eyes. What do you think? Is he diggin me? Now, if you think he likes me then how do I talk to him more? Thanks! (link)
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I think when a guy makes you laugh tries to talk to you and looks at you secretly he likes you and the best way to respond is to start talking to him more and to do that you need to start a conversation maybe about something he likes im sure if you talk about something he likes he will be into the convo more and then you'll have a longer conversation
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Shari (my best friend) since 1st year high school was who i thought the most IDEAL. We dont have much in common but i grew closer to her.. sometimes, even silence is understood.. we fought a lot when we're in high school. When i entered college, i met two people who change my life for the better. I learned a lot and i managed to be more of myself when I'm with them. Sometimes, i compare them with Shari but i shrug off the idea.. But i came to a point, when i started to doubt my friendship with Shari.. She's this very sophisticated lady. You can't really grab her to a street food joint or do fun, stupid things with her.. I MUST be my BEST, city girl when I'm with her. We talk about serious matters and sometimes problems are magnified when i'm with her. And i talked to her about this but she says im just making a big deal out of all this. When im with my college buddies, i honestly feel happier and just being ME... how can i handle this?
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I think if your not having a good time around someone then you should be around them because you only want people in your life that you have fun with and who you can just be crazy and funny and just yourself you shouldnt have to change yourself for her if shes more serious and sophisticated then let her be but you dont have to be especially if your not in reality i know shes been your friend for awhile but sometime even old friendship die and you just have to move on so dont feel bad i mean im not saying totally cut her out of your life but just spend less time with her otherwise your going to have to be someone your not around her and thats not good. I hope i helped good luck :D
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I want to go sun bathing so I can get some color on my skin. I'm very white without the sun. Yesterday I got burnt pretty badly when I went out for an hour and a half. I know that that's way too much exposure of UV rays. So from now on, I'm just going to go out for 30-40 minutes. 15-20 minutes on each side. I need advice on how to tan healthy without suffering from a sunburn. Will I tan well with spf45+ or spf30? Or do I need tanning oil? I don't know what to put on my skin. I don't want the sun totally blocked because I want a tan but I'm not really sure how sunblock works when it comes to tanning. How long would you suggest that I spend out in the sun? What procedures should I take in order to be tn with little damage and to be as tan as I could get? (link)
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Honestly sun tanning is not the best thing especially now in days people are getting more and more diseases just from being in the sun too much skin cancer is a huge thing right now so be careful i suggest getting a tanning lotion insttead because it gives you the nice tan without damaging your body and i should mention that sunscreen or any other product wont help so ya again be careful. :)
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My friend recently found out that she was born with only one ovary. She has never had a period and she is 17. She is supposed to see a specialist very ssoon. I have tried serching online for these kind of topics but this condition is very rare. I guess my question is why hasent she gotten her period? She is still flat too. its like she has no hormones that make her grow into a woman. would doctors give her hormone pills? If she went on birth control, would that make her have her periods? Im just kind of worried for her. I know she ill find all this out eventually but im just curious. (link)
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I heard that if a women hasnt gotten her period its because she has a male hormone in her and that changes everything so maybe just wait until she goes to the doctor because they can probably tell you whats going on better also it could have something to do with weight if shes overweight that could be another problem but ya a doctor again would be the source for all the information.
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so, i need some advice me and this guy were together for a little while and he was inlove with me and i would be such a bitch to him cause, i really was not interested in him which was in the beginning of the year i would say around september through december or january we were on and off. & he used to walk me down the hallways all the time and used to stick by my side at the time i didn't find him my type at all, then i started liking him little by little we would text, and such. Then, to rewind in the beginning of the year he asked me out and i said no, because for me it's hard to make a decession, i have a problem wit choosing and at that point i didn't know how i felt about him, then to fast forward he was drinking one night, and i was texting him and i was being all flirty like "i wonder who i like (:" things like that making my feelings obivious, i guess ethier he didn't remember from the night before or he just wasn't interested or leading me on cause he thought i was easy, but the next day he had a hangover and i was being all nice to and i texted him like "when are we hanging out" and he replyed and was being all passive aggressive. then that night i just gave up and said "i guess i should have never said what i said that night =/" he replyed with "do whatever you want =/" and then i said "but i really like you" then this was the best feeling ever to get a reply from someone you really like "..." that was all he had to say so that night i cried and balled my eyes out called up his friend who was also my friend and talked about it still crying on the phone, and two days later, he had been onto the next girl. i tryed talking tot him but all he had said to me was i'm ignorging you, he said i should have known why but this, was months ago i still don't know why. & now in May i have feelings for him once again i feel like he hates me, but my friend who also is friends with him told me that he just feels awkward around me and whenever i'm talking to his friend and he's around he just pretends like im not even present like i'm invisible or something or sometimes even just walks away. but i really wanna let him know how i feel and i really do miss him, and want him back to prove to him that i'm not the same girl i was but it really seems like he doesn't want me or just avoids me most of the time, my friend told me i should tell him how i feel but i'm afraid he'll break my heart all over again and my heart already feels broken right now what should i do? help ):
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Honestly i guess your just getting treated the same way you treated him its a part of life what you do to other eventually happens to you too but what i would suggest is just telling this guy you like him and tell him to give you one more chance to prove to him that you really like him and if after that he still doesnt like you or doesnt give you another chance then just move on eventually you will forget about him plus theres tons of guys out there and if one guy isnt into you then you shouldnt be wasting your time with him.
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i have two parakeets, one had her wings clipped when i got her so she couldnt fly, (she still doesnt fly) and the other flew all over my room (i have high ceiling, he fly high up too). however, i let him out of his cage today and he wouldnt fly up, just down. it was hard for him to get far up. why is this??? (link)
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im sorry you didnt like my answer but when it comes to animals you need to take them to a vet when there sick and besides they have ways to help you if you cant afford it and next time please be a little less rude to someone who helped you.
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Ok, so my friend, let's call her Jamie. Well Jamie was over at my house and we were sort of being rude to my neighbor, let's call him Chase. So Chase is bipolar so at first he knew we were just kidding, then he got really mad and flipped us off. We got mad and went inside. We came out to apoligize and I said to Jamie, "Say sorry with me" and she didn't want to! And I said to just apoligize and she threatened to go home and I let her because I knew that I couldn't make her say sorry. Then as she went home I chased her down the block and I said "Jamie. Why did you leave? I said you didn't have to say sorry." and she didn't respond. Then she was all like " I'll say sorry in fifth hour!" and I said "You don't have to say anything if you don't want to. But why are you leaving now that you don't have to say anything?" she didn't respond and she just turned around and left! What do I do? Jamie is a good friend. I don't want to loose her. (link)
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Call her or send her a message online and invite her over and talk to her and tell her that shes a good friend that you dont want to lose im sure once she hears how you feel about your friendship. Besides it wasnt like a huge fight so she doesnt really have a reason to be mad you didnt really do anything wrong im sure she'll come around again just give her time.
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