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my ex...mixed signals!
So my ex broke up with me about 6 weeks ago. He said he needed some time apart and he just didnt like me as much as he did before. We obviously hungout less and talked less.He got sick and I didn't see him for a whole week ,but he talked to me one of those days.Then in class,we had to work in groups and he wanted to be in my group and ofcourse he flirted with me and what not and we made plans to hangout ,so we went and hungout at his house and watched tv and he wanted me to come lay next to him and we did the classic play fighting etc. and we just talked a lot ( i made sure not to bring up our relationship or anything like that) and we didn't hookup, but the tension was there. Then we went to a volleyball game and sat really close to eachother and it seems like everytime we talk ,i just feel like he looks at me as more than a friend. Also, he left his shoes at my house from a long time ago and i said we could get them after the game but he said "he'd just get them from me over the weekend " implying that we are gonna hangout on the weekend.. i don't know if he still feels for me or just likes me as a friend..I dont want to bring it up because that might push him away because maybe these hangouts are his thinking times to decide whether or not he wants to try again and i don't want to rush him or annoy him so im letting him come to me for hangouts and talking ,etc. or what should i do!?
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First off, you have to talk to him. Letting things go on too long like that, could end up in even more heartbreak for you. Guys who break up with you because they need "time apart" normally just feel too clinged to. So maybe he feels as if how you two are both handling this at the moment is how he wants the relationship to be. That is if he wants another relationship. By simply asking him what he wants shouldn't be annoying him. Just ask him how he feels and that you feel that he is giving way too many mixed signals, and that you think he still likes you. If he does, then talk about what you two are going to do, and talk about the problems you had in your previous relationship. If he doesn't then continue to stay friends, but ask him not to send the mixed signals.
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you need to talk to him because hes sending you mixed signals and if he keeps doing this your gonna end up liking him too much and then if he does break your heart you probably wont handle it well. So i suggest you either talk to him and find out how he feels or wait for the heartbreak if he doesnt really like if he doesnt like you stop hanging out with him and move on to someone who really does like you but you need to find out how he feels its the only way to move on and dont be scared of him going away from you its the best thing to do i mean would you rather be in the dark about this whole thing i think not. Good luck :D
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