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Hey my name is Caitlin I'm 14 and i love giving advice! I'm gunna be a freshman@ Bristol Plymouth
I LOVE: My boyfriend Dylanger♥ // my bestest friends♥// Fall Out Boy♥//Relient K♥// hanging with my friends♥// eating♥// cookies♥// talking on the phone♥// chatting online♥// taking pix♥// writing in my journal♥// swimming♥// the beach♥// music♥// taking walks♥// dunkies (dunkin donuts)♥// mountain dew♥// bike rides♥// going on adventures in the woods ♥//sneaking out♥// streaking♥// sleeping♥// singing♥// drawing♥// skating♥// cheering♥// shopping♥// money(which i never have!)♥// hot topic♥// tinkerbell♥// cartoons♥// t.v.♥// bologna and cheese!♥// DC shoes♥// PacSun♥// clothes♥// shoes♥// baking♥// candy♥// steak and cheese!♥// the Country Side♥// dancing in the rain♥// movies♥// ON DEMAND♥// downloading music♥// burning CD's♥// painting♥// kissing my boyfriend♥// making smoothies wid my bestest friend in the whole wide world... Brittny!♥// dirtbikes and quads.... wish i had one! :(♥// fireworks♥// the 4th of July♥// Halloween♥// ice cream♥// making stuff♥// doing hair and make-up♥// getting all dolled up for nothing♥// making fires♥// goin to the mall and the movies♥// roller coasters!♥// cotton candy♥// cook outs♥// summertime♥// snow♥// Hampton Beach♥// Henna tatoos♥// pizza♥// piercings♥// Target!♥// concerts♥// being me!♥// going crazy♥// snow boarding♥// skate boarding even tho i suck♥// parties♥// and a lot more♥//

I can relate to a lot of people and i know about a lot of different things ask me what ever you want and i can try and answer you the best i can!
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advice

i've been going out with a guy for over five months, and i think he wants to but he hasnt tried to kiss me... how do i let him noe im ready?

Dont let him kno juss do it when he least excpects it and then he will get the whole idea and follow along!!! lol
Hope i helped Good Luck


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im the skinniest one on the team so they made me b flyer. lol i kinda like it but i get really nervous when we make a pyramid or i have to do a dismount. i get shaky too and i feel like im goin to fall. what should i do to relax for a big move.. haha thanx!

Just kno that nothing iz gunna go wrong and its gunna be a perfect dismount and kno that u can trust the ppl who r catching u!! lol
Hope i helped!!


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Do you think my brother's gay? He got caught looking at male porn once and hasn't had a girlfriend.. he's 23..

You neva kno my bro's gay so it dont matter whether he iz or he isnt you should except him for who he iz not wat gender he likes!!


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do u guyz think u have 2 be a certain age 2 be in love?? im 12 but i do think i have been in love.. i bet most ppl will say it wasnt.. i wasnt even dating tha guy but i totally felt like it was love......and like i sed i loved him and stuff.. and i meant it. he sed it back 2... but he thinks hes to young 2 be in love... i juzt dont think u have 2 be a certain age 2 be in love. like if hes all u think about, all u dream about and all u talk about. is that love? or is that juzt like?

x3 CuRiOuS BeBe x3

Well u can be any age and when your in love u just kno but when your inlove wid sum 1 u should figure out how they feel bout u and then you could be in a relationship and it would be really special trust me u will just kno when u find the right guy!! cuz i found mine last year and we been togetha for ova 9 months he iz the 1 for me and i luv him 2 death!!! so juss follow your heart hunni!! GOOD LUCK!! Hope i helped



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i need help..i really feel like im fat..my friends say that im not but i really think i m. i am 13 years old nd i weigh 120 pounds..my sister is 14 nd she weighs like 90 pounds...nd shes super skinny..she eats so much more than me nd shes still skinnier!! sumtimes i cry at night cuz i feel so fat...ive tried exercisin nd dietin..i even went on a starvation diet for two days but then i stopped cuz it wasnt healthy..even tho i lost 10 pounds...i hav a pool nd i go swimmin alot but i dont like to be seen in a bathin suit..i always go swimmin alone..i really need help..can sumone please help me!!
xOxO unc0mf0rtable xOxO

U should be proud of your body ad trust me your not fat im 13 too and i weigh 125 or suntin like dat its perfectly healthy but if u wanna try n lose sum weight even though u prolly dont need 2 but wat u can do iz try n eat maybe healthier foods if u dont eat that healthy and like go runnin or walkin!!!!
Hope i helped!



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ive been really really close with my friend emily from 4th grade....i've also been friends wit another gurl chelsey since 1st....emily hated chelsey...then one day this year i invited both of then ova hopin they'd become friends...they did...now they hang out moa than i've hung out wit both of them....i cant tell emily a secret wit out her tellin chelsey and vise versa...sadly i think im jelous(:-(....i dont want to lose them!..what do i do!

wat u do iz try n be like ok u cant be tellin emily wat i say when u tell chelsey a secret same wid when u tell chelsey a secret i mean u cant stop them from bein friends or nuttin u kno but juss get the 3 of use togetha n talk to them n be like ever since use became friends i feel like im the 1 bein left out now and we dont chill as often as we used to u kno juss be straight up wid them and get it off your chest!!!
Hope my advice helps~!


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i really need help please help me. ok here's the story..ok me and my friend were just getting tyte we were doing a lot of stuff together and we told eachother everything and then she goes to our other friends house that she didn't like too much and then she comes home and then all the sudden they're best friends so the other friend kinda took my place. and i'm soo sad i think i lost my BEST friend! i don't know what to do cause i can't talk to her bout it i've never been good at that i freak out and i just can't do it. and i cried when i found out that she took my place! please help i dunno what to do!!??

She didnt take your place they are juss hangin out more u kno and u kno u can have more then juss 1 best friend so try n talk to her n make plans for use to hang out more n stuff like dat!!
Hope i helped!!!!



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Ive liked this kid for almost a year now and I like him a lot but he likes another girl. He told me he liked me and he wont go out with her because hes been thinking about me but there always together and it bugs me. I cry a lot cuz i really like him. What should I do?

Be like if u like me then why dont u juss go out wid me b 4 your chance goes down the drain n i dont like u n e more the opportunity is yours pick me or her! juss be straight up like dat k
Hope i helped!

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School's coming up and I really want to have a school-year boyfriend, if you know what I mean. I want to meet some new guys this year and start going out with them. What's a good way to get guys to notice me more this year and for them to see me as more than a friend? Last year I had tons of guy friends but no boyfriends!

You should juss be yourself and try not to change that but maybe u want to change something bout your apperance like a hair cut or new close or sumtin!!
Hope i helped



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Ok Caitlyn I really need your help. There this friend of mine and me and him have been really good friends ever since we were little little kids. But jus the other day we where talkin and he ask me if he had ever broken up wit his girlfriend if i would give him head. And i really dont know what to do. Cuz we have been friends for a really long time. I said maybe So I wouldnt hurt his feeling but I really dont know what to do cause i dont wanna do it and then after a while not be friends any more..and it get around that I did do it and then be called a slut or anything like that so can you help me plz. Thx

Juss be like im sry i only see you as a good friend and we have known each otha n been friends for such a long time that it would be extremely weird and maybe kinda even gross u kno if u kno him so long u might see him as family or like a brother and it would be so wrong and it might make u feel uncomfortable and stuff so juss be straight up wid him!!
Hope my advice helps!



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how will i no if i found the right person. Cause i think i found him but im scared to ask him out?

You will juss kno when u find the right person and juss like be straight up wid him and be like will u go out wid me or suntin like dat!
Hope i Helped! GOOD LUCK!!!



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i am 14 years old and i am pregnate. my mom wants me to give the baby up for adoption but the father of my baby doesn't want me to give it up. i am 7 months pregnate and i don't know what to do. it is a girl and i am afriad that if something goes wrong and i can't have children again and i give this one up i am never going to have a baby again. what should i do?

You should do wat u want to do not wat your mom sez becuz u might not be ready to take care of a child at your ae and it might interupt school and stuff but if u feel the right thing iz to keep the baby then do wat u wanna just think it through and look at your options and talk to the baby's father bout it!
Hope i helped! GOOD LUCK n God bless u n your baby



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what kind of car should i get? im a girl, and i want a convertible. any sugggestions? thanks

you should get a mustang convertable if u have the money for one! lol
Hope i helped


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I just started chours this year in school. My friends have told me that my music teacher will make you sing in front of the WHOLE class to see if you can be a soloist. I like to sing but I don't know if I have a good voice! I don't want to be humiliated in front of everyone! What should I do?

I felt the same way when i was gunna sing for my skool talent show i was scared i was guna be bad but i ended up doin awesome and i gut standin ovations from every 1 and i was told by a lotta ppl i did awesome but wat u can do iz if u have a mic or u kno sum 1 who duz try n record yourself singing a song and see how u sound or if u dont have that u can sing to sum of your friends and ask for their truthful oppinions
Hope i helped!! GOOD LUCK


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does anyone know a good way to get your jumps better in cheerleading? i practice everyday and nothing seems to be working. help!

Im a cheerleader and im 13 my jumps are really high wat i do iz practice ona trampoline its not my trampoline its my friends next door so i would recommend that and stretch your legs a lot b 4 u do jumps so your muscles arnt so tight n they can get higher. Also when u do them make sure u try n jump really high like use all the muscles in your legs!!! Hope i helped

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how do u make out???

ok well i gut this off a website called www.myjellybean.com- Yes i kno its very long but it has good advice!!!! hope this helps u!!
GOOD LUCK!!!!!
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ok well my friend said that i should turn punk b4 school starts and i want to but when i came home from buying some clothes for turning punk i was having some 2nd thoughts about it and so i told her that i had some 2nd thoughts about it and stuff then she goes thats y i called u a poser cause u change ur mind to quick and stuff and i also listen to punk music and stuff thats y she said i should turn punk.....i found out y im having 2nd thoughts about turning punk and its because ppl will say that im a poser and stuff....should i turn punk or not...?


signed,
confused

well personaly u shouldnt do it cuz your friend wants u to do it cuz u wanna n cuz u wanna be differnt from otha ppl!! i mean i am like kinda both some times i dress normaly and sum times i dress punk, rock, or like sk8er!! u kno n u dont have to become complete punk n if ppl call u a poser then juss be like screw u i listen to punk n shizit like dat so get off my back for it n if ppl ask u if your gothic so no u prolly dont even kno wat goth iz and im not it im punk-prep ok!!!
Hope i helped!! GOOD LUCK


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My boyfriend & I just broke up. It was the best relationship I ever had, even though we argued alot and were off & on many times. The break up was because of trust issues/cheating & that we tended to argue alot. It seems now that everything reminds me of him and I can't stop crying. I still love him and I'm pretty sure he feels the same. Our relationship was full of good, fun times and great, funny conversations. Do you think we could get back together if we gain more trust for each other and stop arguing so much or do you think a relationship like ours doesn't stand a good chance?

I think u should try again if you both stil have feelings for each other and i kinda am goin through the same trust issue to but i kno i can trust my bf n he knows he can trust me but he iz away at camp n im juss scared he will meet anotha girl but i love him enough and he loves me enough that im pretty sure he wpuldnt hurt me in that way cuz we been 2 getha for ova 9 months n im only 13 so i think you should try n build more trust between the 2 of use n get back together!!
Hope i helped!!!! GOOD LUCK!! if u need n e more advice my advice column name iz DeeplyInLove102203


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Which do you prefer? i use tampons later in my period becasue im afriad that if its too light in the begining like it normally is that i might get TSS. I'm actually Horrified to the point where i wear a pad until its fully started. i'm new to all this because I just started getting mine the beginning of this year. I am 14 too. Also every once in a while i get one day that out of the blue i get this discharge that has some blood in it. it confuses me because i know its not my period and then the next week or so later i do get my period...I hate being a girl it really sux and its really complex

thanks for the help
~Terrified of TSS

Well actually im 13 and i juss started usin tampons like a month or so ago but i prefer tampons now because u cant feel them and it seems as if u dont even hae your period! and u dont have to worry about TSS because thats only when u keep it in for over 8 hours so juss make sure u change it like when u need to juss dont keep it in longer then 8 hours n u will be fine!!
Hope my advice helps!!


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i used tew be really shy and all of a sudden i made a big change all of my friends see it to, i dont think a lot of people exept that im changing.........and im not sure but a lot of people started calling me a slut or a hoe and like a whore and i dont no why, and even if i was doing somting it would only be with my boyfriend and its not even there buisiness, im so confused

Dont listen to wat others say n dont let it get to you cuz u kno that your not a hoe or a slut or a whore so dont take it to heart k
Hope i helped!!!


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