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Well hello, hello.
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Well I use to be on advicenators a while back, & then life got way too busy & I no longer had time for it, & after I while I forgot all about advicenators. =/




I'm sorry guys. But I'm back.



Let me start over & introduce myself.
My names maria, but people call me smalls.
I'm 5 feet tall, which would explain why my nick name is smalls. ;]




I'm 17 years old, and a senior in high school.
I always gave great advice before but now that I'm older and wiser, I give
awesome advice.




I'm very open minded, so feel free to ask me anything. I never judge people & I'm
Always here if anyone needs a friend. =]




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It's not that Im not hungry, really. All the foods I'm used to liking make me want to vomit. French fries dont even taste the same to me anymore.

And it was rape, I think because I let him kiss me but he was trying to finger me and eat me out and I was pushing his hands and his face away. I told my best friend about it and hes a boy - and he thinks I was raped too. But I also think it was kind of my fault. Anyway thats not the point.

Alright sweetie well i just answered your question again on the site, and i saw that you already added that information. If this was rape you should think about telling someone about it beside your friend. Even if you did let him kiss you he had no right to go on with anything else if you had asked him to stop. Think about it.

If you want to add more information about this then please do. I would love to help you out some more if you need it.


♥ maria ♥

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There is a long story behind this, but basically I had drunken sex that I didnt want to happen so it could be called rape, but its a whole messy story.

But anyway, onto my question. I was on the last day of my period. My period had stopped earlier on in the day. I don't even know whether the boy wrapped it up or not, and just the THOUGHT of him makes me want to vomit, so I'm not asking him. I wasnt on any birth control because I use the ring - and you take that out for the week you're on your period. I've been vomitting and feeling sick to stomach all the time since then (which was Friday night) and I can't eat. How possible do you guys think it is that I'm pregnant? And should I wait to take a pregnancy test or should I just take one now? 17/F

Hey

Well you just asked me this question in my inbox and i still think you should take a pregnancy test right away. Just to be on the safe side.
Also now that you gave additional information all the symptoms sound like you are indeed pregnant. But I could be wrong. Go to the doctors and get tested.

Good luck sweetheart and sorry for answering your question for the second time i just want you to be safe and for you to do the right thing.

♥ maria ♥

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i saw a question about kanye west and i just love his new song diamonds are forever. This part is just so powerful to me. I was sick about awards
Couldn’t nobody cure me
Only playa that got robbed but kept all his jewelry
Alicia Keys tried to talk some sense to them
30 minutes later seems theres no convincing them
What more can you ask for?
The international awards? nah
Who complains about when he is old?
And throw a tantrum like hes 3 years old
You gotta love it though somebody still speaks from his soul

does anybody agree?

Hey

Yeah. wow that's my favorite part of the song. The guy honestly does speak from his soul.

Oh btw this isn't really a question.
Next time be sure to ask one LOL

♥ maria ♥

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wow who else thought the VMA's
rocked?

Hey

Yeah. I loved the VMA'S this year. Diddy did a great job hosting the show.

♥ maria ♥

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There is a long story behind this, but basically I had drunken sex that I didnt want to happen so it could be called rape, but its a whole messy story.

But anyway, onto my question. I was on the last day of my period. My period had stopped earlier on in the day. I don't even know whether the boy wrapped it up or not, and just the THOUGHT of him makes me want to vomit, so I'm not asking him. I wasnt on any birth control because I use the ring - and you take that out for the week you're on your period. I've been vomitting and feeling sick to stomach all the time since then (which was Friday night) and I can't eat. How possible do you guys think it is that I'm pregnant? And should I wait to take a pregnancy test or should I just take one now? 17/F

Hey

Oh gosh that's horrible. I honestly don't think it was rape but the guy did take advantage of you. No wonder he makes you sick. Since you had sex the same day your period ended i don't think you are pregnant but to be sure you should take a pregnancy test right away. That way if you are pregnant and you don't want to keep the baby you have time to get an abortion or do whatever you feel the need to do. Since you are not even sure if he used a condom i strongly suggest you get tested right away. Just to be safe. About you not being able to eat is kind of funny because one of the most important symptoms of being pregnant is wanting to eat ALOT. The other symptoms make sense but it just doesn't add up. Maybe your just feeling sick because of what has happened. It's possible.

If you need anything else just comment my inbox

♥ maria ♥

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Hey, does anyone know the real name of Matin on 7th Heaven?

I thought it was Adam LeVito, but I may be wrong...

Hey

No. Actually his real name is Tyler Hoechlin.

You can go here to look:

http://www.tv.com/7th-heaven/show/251/cast.html

♥ maria ♥

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i need information about kanye west?

I like his songs and suff whats a good new song about him? also is he gay?

Hey

Umm well what kind of information do you need? Be sure to give more information next time. Also no he's not gay. If you watch all eyes on kanye west you'll see that he says himself that he isn't and he gives a reason to why people think he might be. I personally love his song gold digger, and diamonds are forever.

♥ maria ♥

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looking for a song that was on laugan beach when lc was in the car with steven. Something about city boy ..? took mid night train?

Hey

Journey - Don't stop believing

Great song.

♥ maria ♥

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Does anyone else think that My Chemical Romance totally got robbed tonight and think they deserved some awards???

Hey

Yeah. I was pretty pissed off. I can't believe they didn't win shit. Even the fall out boys couldn't believe they didn't win. And helena was one of my favorite songs by them. I know i voted for them so that sucks.

♥ maria ♥

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ok this girl likes me. and i like her. but im in 9th and she is in 7th. is that kool ? should i go out with her. also she is hot lol all myu friends thing she is hot 2.

Hey

For future reference when you ask somebody a question be sure to make spelling corrections.
But to answer your question age doesn't really matter. Age is just a number. Although you didn't give me enough information. You could be the same age and in different gardes. But that shouldn't matter. Also her being "HOT" should be the last thing you care about. I really don't understand why your asking me a question that sounds like it's coming from the mouth of a little 10 year old boy.

NEXT TIME ASK ME A REAL QUESTION. And no, offense but please make an effort to type correctly.

♥ maria ♥


FEEDBACK: I'm glad that you seem to like asking me questions and thank you. But the fact of the matter is i'm sick and tired of answering questions that you should answer yourself. The only person who can answer is you. I know nothing about this girl and nothing about you. You give me little information to go on and you hardly try on your spelling. I'm sorry if this seems to be mean but i'm being honest here. your the one who asked me a question and i answered honestly.
If you don't like it next time ask another user for help.

Thank you very much and have a nice day

buh bye

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Hey what is a way to stop from spreading dieses during sex?

Hey

It's always better off if both of you get tested before having sex and always use a condom.

♥ maria ♥

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Hey! I really need to make a couple of CD's so I was wondering if any of you knew some good songs. I am into rock, but not metal. I like some R&B, some pop but I just hate rap. So if you could list some songs I`d appriciate it! Thanks a bunch! I`ll rate if you want me to.

Hey


Nitty - nasty girl
The offspring - Hit that
TOK - when you cry (footprints)
Kanye west - Diamonds are forever
Kanye west - Gold digger
Lustra - Scotty doesn't know
Bow wow - Let me hold you
Cassie - me and you
Story of the year - Until the day i die
Sugarcult - pretty girl
Sugarcult - she's the blade
The all american rejects - dirty little secret
The all american rejects - swing swing
The killers - Mr brightside
My chemical Romance - Helena
My chemical Romance -I'm not okay
Hawthorne heights - Ohio is for lovers
Snow patrol - Run
Black eyed peas - my humps
first lady - never be replaced
Sarina paris - Just about enough
Sarina paris - so i wait
Sarina paris - the single life
motion city soundtrack - everything is alright
Lazyboy - underwear goes inside the pants
Mariah Carey - shake it off
Three days grace - i hate everything about you
The used - all that i've got
Jimmy eat world - the middle

If that's not enough just comment my inbox and i'll give you more. Make sure to tell me if you liked the songs.

♥ maria ♥

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Hey! First off Your so gorgous! im so jelouus! lol
Anyways...
My boyfriend && I broke up because im in 8th grade & he was going into high school. I was so sad. But I cannot get over him! Like he IMs a lot now & he asks me how school is & stuff. & he stil calls me his nickname for me sometimes & in his profile he had girls in it like saying that he luved em just as like really good friend. & he took them out & no whe has love quotes. & one said " as weird as it sounds shes the one im after" & another said like " i miss you" & stuff. I want to go back out with him so bad! Do u think he might kind of like me again? thanks!!

Hey

Awww gosh thank you sweetheart. But you shouldn't be jealous because i'm not that pretty and i bet your amazingly gorgeous.
Anyhow it seems like he does miss you and i don't think he ever stopped liking you. I think he just felt the need to look around and to see if anything better was out there. But i could be wrong. The best thing to do would be to ask him how he still feels about you. The quotes in his profile could be about somebody else. I'm hoping their not but you never know. If you don't want to ask him then ask a friend to ask around and find out for you. But you'll never really know without asking.

Hope i helped

if you ever need anything else just ask.

♥ maria ♥


EDIT FEEDBACK : Aww thanks but be sure to tell me when you add me so i can add you back.

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whats the song in ur myspace? i love it. i swear i admire you so much. you got good taste in music and fashion.

Hey

Aww wow thanks. I'm flattered. It's

Cassie - me and you

I'm just wondering how you know what my myspace is without me posting it on this site?! LOL


♥ maria ♥


EDIT FEEDBACK: Umm i would never block somebody that needs help or just wanting to talk. Be sure to instant message me next time. I'll be more then happy to talk to you.

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I need the Lyrics to kanyes new song but i dont know what its called. Dimonds something?

Hey

Umm well you just asked me the same question in my inbox. Next time if your going to ask a question don't ask me and then everybody else.

Thank you

♥ maria ♥

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I need the Lyrics to kanyes new song but i dont know what its called. Dimonds something?

Hey

it's called Diamonds From Sierra Leone or diamonds are forever and if you go

here :http://www.anysonglyrics.com/lyrics/k/kanye-west/Diamonds-Are-Forever.htm

you'll get the Lyrics


♥ maria ♥


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Is it bad for you to use a tampon when your not actually menustrating? I am supposed to start today or tomorrow and i just don't want to get caught by suprise. Would it be harmful if i put on in while i was still clean?

Hey

Umm honestly that would be a bad idea. When your clean and you insert the tampon in and then you end up pulling it out every 7 hours it will be pretty unpleasant. I would suggest wearing a very thin pad , and just bring a tampon with you where ever you go.

♥ maria ♥

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i am 15 and going to be a sophmore at my highschool. and i guess me and robbie had a crush on eachother in 5th grade and we went out in 6th grade and 7th but on and off ( you now how those middle school relationships are, dont mean anything) but i guess its funny because we even talked in middle school after elementary and he IMed me the other for the first time since like 8th grade.. but we have been talking online the last couple of weeks and lastnight he asked me to hangout sometime next week. we will probably end up going to see a movie or sumthing but honestly ive never really been on a date. ive had serious relationships but i mean we didnt go on dates first, i dont know how to explain it. so i need some ideas on where to go, what i could wear, and some stuff to talk about. thanks alottt

Hey

Well first off i'm VERY flattered you came to me to help you out with your problem. Awwww gosh i remember my first date. I was so scared, i kept fixing my hair during the movie and when my boyfriend tried to kiss me i ended up hitting him with my elbow. haha yeah it sucked but he loved the attention i was giving him after i had hit him. LOL well sorry back to your probelm. Honestly i hate going to the movies on a first date because you hardly get to talk to each other and have hardly anytime to get to know each other better. Although this is your first date and going to the movies might be the best choice for you. It would be alot easier and less stressful. I would suggest going for a walk after the movies. Maybe a local park? Go take a nice walk while talking to each other. Or perhaps after the movie go out to eat somewhere near by. About what to wear, well it shouldn't really matter. I mean i'm sure whatever you wear you'll look great! And for the heads up most guys dont even CARE! lol Most of them don't even notice a single thing about what you wear. But then again some do. what i would wear is Blue jeans with a cute belt, and tank top. If it's not that warm out anymore just bring a sweater with you. Something that matchs with your top. About the shoes, i would say wearing flip flops matching your top would look great! or some cute high heels. I would go with the flip flops. Also to make your outfit super cute try wearing big sunglasses if it's sunny, if not just bring a cute little hand bag to put them in once you go into the movies. Otherwise keep them on top of your head. About what to talk about , you should try talking about EVERYTHING and ANYTHING that comes to mind. Just talk about the things you talk about online. If he enjoys a sport try talking about that. You could always ask him questions about his interests. I'm sure whatever you wear, talk about and where ever you guys go you'll have a WONDERFUL TIME! Just be yourself.

And if he doesn't like that then he's not worth your time.

Hope i helped

If you need anymore advice just comment my inbox.

♥ maria ♥

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i see your very good with music questions. i am trying to find the name of this song im crazy about. its like wen you cry i cry when you smile i smile? helpp plz thanks maria

Hey

Thanks. Umm i think your talking about
TOK- Footprints

Great song!! I LOVE IT!! Pretty sad though.

Hope this is the song your looking for

♥ maria ♥

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wow your face is so clear and pretty. Do you use cover up and if so what kind? what do u use for pimples if you have any? i have lots of pimples and need a good cover up.

Hey

Aww thank you. But yes i do get pimples just like everybody else. For acne i use proactiv. I don't know what i would do without it! And i also use stridex day and night. They both pretty much help me. But on top of that i take pills that my doctor had prescribed me and i get facials done once in a while. For my cover up i use bare minerals foundation. It's wonderful. It doesn't clog your pours and it actually prevents from acne which is great! You should try it.

♥ maria ♥

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