It's Really not that difficult. Just don't think TOO much about it befoRe hand, as this will only woRk you up and make you neRvous.
-- TO GO ABOUT IT: it's pRettie simple. FIRST, I suggest you ask him HOW HE DOES IT.. just to get an idea of what he likes. And noooo this won't make you seem lame oR inexpeRienced at all!! DiffeRent people peRfeR diffeRent things, so even if you've given 3243475 handjobs befoRe... ONE PERSON might not do it the same as ANOTHER PERSON, so always always ask!! But you just gently gRab ahold of it, and slowly, at fiRst, move youR aRm up and down, in time incReasing the speed.
-- TIPS: they like if you'Re naked, oR at least topless... it's a gReat visiual and helps keep them eRect. They also like talking diRty. So don't hold back on that. Just tell them it's nice, it's big, how good it looks, and how bad you want it. Then you could tRy talking about how much you want theiR load, and wheRe it's going to end up [meaning: napkin, youR mouth, youR face, etc.]. And theRe's absolutely NOTHING wrong with putting youR mouth to it and swallowing his 'finishings'. NOOO, you CAN NOT get pRegnant, and NOOO you will not get sick; it's actually healthy -- high in pRotein. And the taste honestly DOES vaRy fRom peRson to peRson, so no one can tell you how it will taste. OR, if you'd RatheR.. just let it come out as it does... like on youR hand wRapped aRound him foR instance; theRe's definitely nothing wRong with that!
-- It's pRettie simple. The only pRoblem you might Run into [which you moRe than likely will] is that youR hand will get tiRed; and this is fine. Guys can do it foR long peRiods of time, because chances aRe that they've had yeaRs of pRactice, and this would be youR fiRst time, so they won't be suRpRised oR disappointed. Just if that DOES happen.. don't give up oR keep saying "I Can't", that's a BIG tuRn off!! Keep tRying, and if needed, have him do it foR a couple seconds while you stay Right theRe and watch. It's honestly not a big of a deal oR hassle as it may sound.
*I seaRched online foR you if you feel you need moRe infoRmation. PeRhaps you might like to check this site out: http://sexuality.about.com/od/masturbation/ht/handjob.htm It goes into a tad bit moRe detail on HOW TO DO IT, I suppose.
You'll do just fine, Really -- no woRRies!! If you have any fuRtheR questions oR would like some moRe infoRmation, don't be afRaid to contact me. Hopefully I've been of at least SOME help heRe! :D
♥[?]♥ i know that so many people have probably asked this question but do you have to pay to use this? because i havent?? thanx lucee xXx
You do noty HAVE TO pay to use Advicenators. However, should you decide to do so, it would be grealty appreciated. Also, some perks come with having a paid account. You can find more information about this at:
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♥[?]♥ i like a boy and he likes me but i'm 2 stuck on what othere people think..he's not popular but i reli like him..and i also like some1 else but that person doesn't reli like me that much what should i do..i'm goin crazy!!??
I advise you not to go out with him.
FIRST OF ALL, I believe that if you "like" TWO people [or more?], then you don't "like" EITHER ONE ****ENOUGH****. Period. No possible way around that fact. If you even THINK you do, just spare him the heartache you will undoubtedly cause him at some point in the future. If you really "like" this guy, why would you ever want to hurt him??????? I say if you really "liked" this guy you wouldn't WANT anyone else, because NO ONE else in the ENTIRE WORLD should be able to even COME CLOSE to *COMPARING* to him, you see????
Also, I could go on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on about how you shouldn't care what people think. However, I don't think my lecture would make the slightest difference to you, because you'll care regardless.
Just don't go out with him. It would be unfair to him in 324628756732569263956 ways.........
♥[?]♥ hiya
recently i have been getting deeper feelings for my best boy mate (liam) i want to do stuff with him like give head, kiss etc.... but i dont know how to seduce him what to say or whatever. any help would be good.
oh by the way we always talk about sex and stuff like that.
Guys like it when girls make the first move. One day while you're sitting next to him, lean on him, and put your hand on his chest, and your head on his shoulder. Then just slide your hand down him tummie, and rub his tummie a bit. Next, if you can grab his hand, do so and drag it across his body and place it on his groin. He will definitely get the message, and I'm shore he will be thrilled! =]
♥[?]♥ OK im 14/f and i wear a 32C and im not sure if guys like the big breast? ANd i dont wear padded(Spelling?) bra or anything and their really big. im tiny and i have big breast is that normal?
I rate High for real answers!
thanx
Some guys like largers breats, others perfer a smaller size. Everyone has their own views, like and opinions, ya know? It just depends on the guy. Body size doesn't really have anything to do with breast size. It's all in the genetic make up. A good idea would be to look at your Mother. Does she have larger breasts? My guess is yes. Almost always are females within the samge general ball park as their Mother, and sometimes Grandmother. So yes, it's perfectly "normal" - there is no reason to worrie. =]
♥[?]♥ DOnes anyone ahve any healthy and fast ways to get rid of my love handles?I rate realy high!
We'll staRt out with the obvious: exeRcises. A few good activities that can simply assist in poRpoRtioning the body in it's ENTIRTY would be anything that gets the blood ciRculation goin', such as jogging, jumping jacks, jumping Rope, and walking, and bicycle walking. Also, 'tis the season of wateR aeRobics, and they will woRk like a CHARM!!
And if you'd like to taRget youR tummie specifically, tRy doing a couple hundRed sit ups oR cRunches. I know, I know, I know.. 'a couple hundRed' is A LOT, but if you bReak it up into sessions, it's not that difficult, tRust me. I'm the Queen of lazy fuckeRs, so if I can do this, YOU can do this! :P
Also, pRoviding you cut out the EXTREMELY unhealthy foods, such as WHITE bRead [substitute it with wheat], cake pRoducts, ice cReam, hambuRgeRs, and soda... [if you'Re used to consuming A LOT of it] you can see a MAJOR diffeRence the fiRst two weeks, ALONE. My fRiend did it.. and we weRe both shocked to all hell!
As you pRobably alReady know, it's best to eat SEVERAL SMALL poRtions a day. Say, have an apple and a piece of cheese, two houRs lateR have a few cRakeRs, and an houR lateR have one piece of wheat toast, and so on and so foRth, ya know??? Little intakes of food like that givs youR body time to digest it pRopeRly. You see how that's betteR than eating one oR two huge meals a day... because it takes too long to catch up, and it can not buRn the caloRies quick enough, and then just quits, adding body fat.
But of couRse weight loss takes time.... you just have to stay committed, and have the dRive to keep it up. TRy to keep youRself busy... and sleep as often as possible... these things keep youR mind busy and off food. I can't Really say how long it will take; I suppose that diffeRs fRom peRson to peRson. It Really just depends on how much weight you'Re looking to shed. I'd say you could lose 10 to 20 pounds in a month; that's veRy possible.
Goodluck to you though!! Hopefully I've been of some assistance heRe!!
♥[?]♥ OK my cousin is pretty much a slut. she's 11. she wheres really tight shirts that go up past her bellybutton along with a really short skirt. She wears VERY thick padded bras so she uses a C cup. When someone calls her a slut she giggles and says "nuh uh..!" And I'm gettin sick of it because my friends are like "how does it feel to have an 11 yr old have bigger boobs than you" and honestly i really dont care because im not fake but no one realizes that. and on top or it, she brags about gettin slapped in the ass by other guys and she shaves which i dont think she should be doing when she's 11 even though its not my choice. What can do to help her without gettin her upset??
Well it's nice that you care and worrie about your cousin, but honestly, Hun.. it's HER life to lead, not yours. If her parents are okay with her dressing in such a way, then I guess that's where it ends. Does she know how you feel about this? Perhaps if you make it clear to her exactly HOW MUCH you fear for her safety and well being, she will hopefully try to dress alittle more conservatively to ease your mind. But if not, I guess you're just going to have to except it. By then, you would have TRIED to change things; you would have TRIED to help her, she would just have none of it. Don't beat yourself up over this; be proud of your attempts.
Hopefully all goes well! =]
♥[?]♥ i heard this song and i want to know who it is. i think it's an alternative/rock band.
it goes kind of like this:
Wont let you murder it
Wont let you smother it
Our time is running out
Our time is running out
thx so much!
The song is called "TIME IS RUNNING OUT", and it is performed by MUSE. It's off of their 2003 album, entitled, "ABSOLUTION".
LYRICS can be found at:
http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/muse/timeisrunningout.html
VIDEO can be seen at:
http://search.music.yahoo.com/search/?m=all&p=muse&x=26&y=9
♥[?]♥ My boyfriend and I had sex a couple weeks ago.. and we didn't use a condom. He "pulled out" long before he was close to ejaculating, but i'm still nervous. None of it got on me, or near me. With an old boyfriend, of a year and a half, he ejaculated inside of me, many times, and I didn't get pregnant. Should I be worried ?
Whether or not he ejactulated within you, there's still a risk of pregnancy from "precum"; so I can definitely see why you'd be worried. If you suspect you're pregnant, you can get one of those at home pregnancy tests to put your mind at ease. And just out of curiousity (I'm not trying to lecture you here) but if pregnancy is such a dreaded thing for you at this present time in your life, why would you ever engage in unprotected sex? Is unprotected sex honestly worth the feelings you're currently experiencing at this moment? Hopefully all is well. =]
♥[?]♥ Does anybody know any good Icons sites on Xanga? thanks
You can find ICONS at:
-- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=HOLLYWOOD_iiCONS
-- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=cuteicons
-- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=L0SER_KIDS_IC0NS
-- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=vintagexmemoryxxicons
♥[?]♥ I understand that "cybering" is having sex over the internet but I dont understand how you do that. My 2 friends (a boy and a girl) say they do it all the time. I'm really good friends with the girl so I asked her but all she said was that "you say what you do" and that doesn't make sense to me. Anyone care to explain?
You really do just "say what you do". For instance, "I'm unbottuning your pants" or "I'm nibbling on your ealobe"; the possibilities are endless when left to the imagination. You just type out what you WOULD be doing if you were physically WITH the person, make sense?
♥[?]♥ i like these two guys they r awesome but now i have to choose and i dont kno what to do. one lives in the same city i do and the other one lives 1 hour away. they are both super sweet to me and i can talk to both of them about anything. i dont kno what to do im so confused. please help me with my love triangle oh yes and they both like me wich makes it even harder because no matter what im going to break someones heart and im not good with that. please help me.
Honestly, I believe that if you "like" TWO [or more?] people.. then you don't like EITHER ONE ***ENOUGH***. If you DID, you wouldn't WANT anyone else, because you would realize that no one else can even COME CLOSE to COMPARING to him, and what the two of you have together. I also think that if this fucker can sooooooo easily kiss you off like that, then he's DEFINITELY undeserving off your time. I honestly wouldn't bother with him again. I say it's best to move on, and wait until someone comes along that you KNOW you have a chance at keeping a relationship alive with..
♥[?]♥ I put eyeliner on the bottom lid. The pencil stuff smears so I decided to use liquid. Well with the liquid stuff, I put it on the skin-colored barrier between the skin and the red part right above the eyelash. Does liquid eyeliner ever dry? How long does it take to dry?
If your pencil eye liner smears, perhaps you're not using a well enough brand?? I have a few suggestions if you'd like. To answer your question, it shouldn't take more than a few minutes to dry, 5-10, I'd say. :D
♥[?]♥ i hate fingering myself, but thats just my opinion. but i use this opject but i can never get it more than an inch in. I think i popped my cherry with a tampon so why wont it go in more?
Perhaps you're not inserting at the appropriate angle?? Make shore you've tried a couple different positions. If you're still having difficulties, these objects may be too large. Why not trying something smaller, such as pen?
♥[?]♥ Lately all i have been thinking about was having sex, and in all my dreams it was me having sex with someone. This is sorta embarresing but whenever i think about sex or anything sexual my vagina twitches or something. I dont kno whats wrong with me? am i sick or something? haha
Your "vagina twitches" because you are sexually aroused - this happens to EVERYONE. And everyone has, or HAS HAD, sexual dreams every now and then. It's really no big deal, and there is DEFINITELY nothing wrong with you!!! Hell, I have sexual dreams every night. It's a good thing; perfectly healthy! No worries! =]
♥[?]♥ i love the band green day i think of them dayly i want to still love them but not so lovingly if that makes sence i love music and will always but i need to hear some new stuff can u give me some cool bands i like hip hop and pop no rap or havey medal its not me
I like the band "Never Heard Of It". They played at Warp Tour about three years ago. I think they're great. You could also try "Bowling For Soup". Their new stuff is gay. They USED to be good, about three or four years ago in the coffee shops is when they were REALLY rockin'. I suggest you look into their album entitled, "Let's Do It For Johnny". You can hear 30 sound clips of each track on Amazon.Com. You could also check into "2Gether" - they were a spoof band from the MTV hit television show a few years ago. They do make their own music, and they happen to be one of my FAVORITES! BUUUUUUUUUUTTTT, my ALL TIME FAVORITE would definitely have to be "Savage Garden" - now THEY'RE simply remarkable.
Hopefully this helps you? :D
♥[?]♥ look i dont think anyone can help me but if u can then PLEASE PLEASE tell me!! okay theres this guy right and he likes me and he asked me out and i said i think we should be friends and he said no! so he was like just dont talk to me...but i mean i like his bestfriend cause i talk to his bestfriend every day but i mean his bestfriend likes me to and he no's i like him but he dont want his friend to be mad at him..but then again i dont know...but i like this other guy and i mean he hasnt seen me and i mean he is in a week.. i just dont no who to choose...cause now i like two guys!!! GRR SOMEONE PEOPLE HELP ME a.s.a.p!
Love for You!!
Honestly, I believe that if you "like" TWO [or more?] people.. then you don't like EITHER ONE ***ENOUGH***. If you DID, you wouldn't WANT anyone else, because you would realize that no one else can even COME CLOSE to COMPARING to him, and what the two of you have together. I also think that if this fucker can sooooooo easily kiss you off like that, then he's DEFINITELY undeserving off your time. I honestly wouldn't bother with him again. I say it's best to move on. If you believe you've found someone with potentional.. I suggest working to stregthen THAT relationship, instead of trying to REPAIR a shitty one with a complete idiot... make sense? :D
♥[?]♥ alright well right now i'm playing the question game with this one guy..and i REALLY need help with thinking of "dirty" questions..yeahh i know kinda weird..but please just any dirty questions will work..lol i just need some..
Here's a few questions for you:
http://www.menshealth.co.uk/talk/thread.phtml/post783357/
♥[?]♥ i had five dreams about a boy he found out and ever sence hes been acting diffrent around me .i wanna bring it to a diffrent level of going out but hes not on the top of the food chain not that i am but hes higher then me .i dont want to get hurt more should i say strait up that hey i love u go out with me and have him make me crash or leave it where it is and wait to see if he makes the first move.im a girl and 11 but not to young to be in love
Well if you're 11, you shouldn't even be ON this site. I guess I'm not trying to bust your chops, since I can't do anything about it this particular moment. I'm just saying, don't be surprised if you discover you've been banned.
But to answer your question, it honestly didn't make ANY sense to me. I have NOOOOOOOOO idea what being on the "top of the food chain" means or where it even COMES INTO PLAY. I also wouldn't suggest telling him you "love" him, as this would be a false statement, regardless of how many times you'd like to tell it to yourself. And lastly, if you're sick of waiting for HIM to make the moves, then you do it. Guys like it when a girl makes the first move, and if nothing else.. he'll at least respect you for being gutsy enough to do it!!
♥[?]♥ Okay I need help on figuring out this song.
Here are some parts of it.
Dance all night, Dance all night to this DJ.
Youre my sugar my lady.
It was on a coca cola commercial a while back. Do you know what song it is?
The song is called "STARRY EYED SURPRISE", and it is performed by PAUL OAKENFOLD. It's on his 2002 album, entitled "BUNKKA".
LYRICS can be found at:
http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/pauloakenfold/starryeyedsurprise.html
SONG can be HEARD at:
http://a425.v8384d.c8384.g.vm.akamaistream.net/7/426/8384/3b858b51/mtvrdstr.download.akamai.com/8512/wmp/0/17148/25890_1_8_05.asf
