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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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When do you first start going to the gynecologist?

You usually go once a year if you're sexually active or when you turn 18 years old.
♥ Krissy

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hi, this has been bugging me for ages. when i was 13 i got the chicken pox. i went to the hospital and was seen by a male doctor. he asked me to take my top off to have a better look at my spots. i had them on my arms and body. then he told me to take my cami-top off too so i'd be naked down to my waist. i cried but he insisted it had to be done. so i did and he touched my breasts...all this was to confirm i had chicken pox. thats not normal is it?

He sounds like he's a big time perv and what he did wasn't normal at all. My little cousin had the chicken pox and all they did was look at her arms and tummy. There's no reason why he should be telling you to take your shirt off and feeling your breast, just to know if it's chicken pox's or not. They can figure that out just by looking at your face, arms, and legs. I think you need to tell your parents about this, especially when it's upsetting you so much. Tell them as soon as you can!
♥ Krissy

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i want to make a shirt for my best friend, because her birthday is comin up... shes very religious and i want to put some sort of quote on it...so does anybody kno any short bible verses, or religious quotes?? thanks for your help!!

I think this is such a sweet idea! I'm sure your friend will love what you're doing for her. Here are a few quotes I found that you could use; "Belief is truth held in the mind; faith is a fire in the heart", "By living fully, recognizing that all we do is by His power, we honor God; He in turn blesses us", "Faith, mighty faith, the promise sees, And looks to God alone; Laughs at impossibilities, And cries it shall be done", "Even if you can't see him, God is always there". You could also try this website for more quotes, if you wanted to. I think you'll find a few that you may like. http://cwdaisy.tripod.com/quotes/id9.html I think that the pillowcase idea is really cute. Maybe you could put a cross or a picture of God on it. You could also make her a big photo album. Putting pictures of Religious things in it, along with some cute quotes.
♥ Krissy

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(FOR THE LADIES)
What could a guy do to get your attention and make you feel like the most special girl in the world?

Take her to the movies, have a nice dinner, go shopping, have a movie night at your house or her house, cuddle, have a night where all you do is talk, etc. Tell her how nice she's looking today, how beautiful she is, how nice her eyes are, how you love the new shirt she is wearing, etc. Give her loads of hugs, girls always love hugs. Some kisses here and there, some on the lips, forehead, and cheek. Write her little love notes, or leave a post-it-note with something sweet written on it in her room. Bring her flowers. Make her the center of attention, like she's the only one around, even though there's 20 other people in the room. Show her off to your friends. Tell them how special she is to you, how beautiful she is, how you guys just "connect".
♥ Krissy

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OK this girl I've known for a long time hates me for some reason. I was crushing on her boyfriend and they broke up. We've been in many a fight and I want to be friends with her but all she does is call me a bitch or a cunt. This has been going on ever since I've met her. How do I get her to stop and maybe be friends with me? HELP

She probably thinks the only reason her boyfriend broke up with her is because of you. A lot of girls always assume before they know the truth, this is probably what she's doing right now. Even though, she doesn't sound like a really nice girl to even be friends with. If she's still bringing you down and calling you names, that's not right at all and I don't know why you would want to be friends with her. I think you should just ignore the things she says to you. If you ignore them and act like what she says doesn't bother you, she'll stop. She's probably just enjoying the mad look on your face when she says these things. And once she can't make you mad anymore, she'll give up and stop bothering you. Then maybe she'll say sorry and want to be friends with you again.
♥ Krissy

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okay well my friends birthday is coming up... shes turnin 16... but her birthdays a a suprise! so i really need ideas for what to get her... her parents are gonna buy her a car i kno... and her bff is buying her a really really expensive jacket... so what are some ideas!! please help! thanks... ill rate

There are loads of things you could get her. Here are some ideas: Perfume, purse, CD's, movies, T-shirts, jeans, shoes, necklace, errings, hats, rings, a gift card for her favorite store, make-up, a photo album, teddy bears, etc. You could do something nice for her too. Sometimes gifts that you make are more meaningful then gifts that are brought. You could make her a photo album of a bunch of pictures of you guys, along with pictures of all your bestfriends. Maybe write some memories or inside jokes on the inside cover.
♥ Krissy

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my column was great..like, it had marquee of pictures and colors and all the codes and today i went online to look at it and it was all messed up. only words were there and none of the codes and none of my pictures showed up. i went to my profile settings to see if everything was there, and it was exactly the same. i tried copying everything in there and then deleting it and then going back and putting it in there but it didnt work! does anyone know whats wrong? is it happening to other people too? and if its just me, how can i notify the site to see if somethings up? i will rate 5 if i have an honest answer for all of my questions! thanks!!

For now, I guess the Admin's aren't allowing any kind of color changing or marqee's. Just the normal bold, underlined and italic lettering. It sucks, doesn't it? But it's happening to everyone, so don't worry. You could go to this link and put in a suggestion to the Admin's about this problem, if you wanted to. http://advicenators.com/question.php?u=4
♥ Krissy

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well see iv only kissed one girl before in a truth or dare game and she kissed me back and all but it was only a peck on the lips and im afraid becuase i always wanted to have sex but like im a little nervous now but only for like making out and the girl another time was dared to give me a handjob (yes we are physco) and i couldnt get a boner i tried for a really long time but i couldnt like does anyone know any things that can help me with kissing and is it because im nervous that i cant get a boner...i didnt think i was nervous but i might of been..sorry if its confusing


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You were probably just a little scared. Don't worry about this, it's normal. Maybe you can try masterbating to see if you get a boner that way. If so, when you're doing stuff with girls and you seem to not get boners it's probably because you are nervous. Just try to relax and let everything flow. As for kissing there's no really good tips I can give you. Don't open your mouth too wide; like your going to eat her face off or something. Take the kiss slow. Once you start kissing someone, you'll start following with eachother. Kissing comes naturaly, so don't get all worked up about it.
♥ Krissy

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Ok..I really really like this guy soo much, but we've only hung out 4 times, one all night..and we talk online & on the phone alot..but I don't KNOW him KNOW him..like i dont know how too explain it.. He's cute, SOO SWEET, and funny, well, he's perfect for me...and he tells me he loves me so much and everything. Today he said if we were older he'd ask me too marry him, which scared me..and now I just feel a LITTLE weird..bc I love him, but I don't know him well enough to marry him. But I really do feel he cares about me...but another thing is that he's older than me...and he's had sex, and I haven't and he walsy says "baby you don't know what your missing.." and "i wanna make this sumer one you won't forget ;)" and i'm thinking that he wants me too have sex with him..but he's told me that he doesn't want too push me into it, but he does it slightly...I don't know..

Any advice???

Lots of love & noise

I think you should talk to him about this. Explain that by him saying what he says it feels like he's pressuring your into sex. If you don't want to have sex with him, don't. Follow your gut. If he really does care about you, he'll respect your thoughts and will wait until you're ready. If he keeps bugging you about having sex with him, your best bet is to dump him. If he doesn't respect your thoughts, he's not worth it at all. From what he's saying to you about having sex and how you don't know what you're missing, this just makes him look like he's only in this relationship for one reason; sex.
♥ Krissy

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what should i name my dog?

I'm sure you'll find a name you like at this website; http://www.petrix.com/dognames
♥ Krissy

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I know this is kidda personal, but are you a virgin?

No, I am not.
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How can I make 200$$ in a week. Witth -out baby sitting, paper routes, and a job?

I hate to break it to you hun, but in order to make 200$ in a week you need to get some sort of job. Money won't just fall into your hands, you need to work for it to get it.
♥ Krissy

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ok so my friend sabrina is coming to sleepover either 2morrow or the next day. (she lives a few towns away from me) when she comes over sometimes i cant think of anything to do. we're both preteens so i need some ideas of what to do! please can u guys tell some fun games, or what should we talk about? keep in mind we cant go driving all over the state to do stuff, but we might be going to the mall, and pool, but mostly staying home. also keep in mind we arent babies so dont say like hide n seek or truth or dare. thanks and i rate high for any helpful answer!

You could do loads of things, here are a few things you might be into: Doing eachothers hair and makeup, watching movies or t.v., going on the computer, talking to eachother about things you need to catch up on, listen to really old music (such as the Backstreet Boys, Spice Girls, etc. It's always a good laugh, me and my friends do it all the time.), dance in your room, have a pillow fight, go for a walk down the street or to the park, pull some prank phone calls, talk about old memories you guys had together, talk about crushes, etc.
♥ Krissy

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what is sex, i have asked my mom but she won't tell me
please someone help!
i will rate

It's basically when a guy puts his penis into a girl's vagina.
♥ Krissy

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It gose:
Isn't any one tryin to find me
Won't sombody com take me home
It's a dam cold night
tryin to figure out what right
won't you take me by the hand
take me some were new

this lil part is stuck in my head n it really bugging me.
will rate!!!

It's Avril Lavigne - I'm With You.
♥ Krissy

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what is dry humping?

It's humping, but with your clothes on.
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What is cum?
I'll rate high!

It's white substance that comes out of your penis or vagina.
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alright..there is this guy at my work that i used to like..but now i dont like him anymore and he still likes me and he stalks me everywhere..like at work, online, and we had this fun fest and he even stalked me there..and he freaks out at me when i say i have to go..he makes me real uncomfortable and he always stares at me..and everyone knos it.and im scard cause hes a weirdo..and me doesnt leave me alone! what should i do!? xo and im 14

What a little weirdo. Stalking can lead to much serious things, such as rape and maybe even death. I think if he keeps on bugging you and following you maybe you should tell your parents. You could even tell your boss about what he's doing and I'm sure she/he will do something about it. What this guy is doing is actually against the law, but you really need to tell someone if he doesn't stop soon.
♥ Krissy

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alright there is this guy at work..hes a jr..and im a freshman..and first time we talked he thought i was 16..so for the first month of work he thought i was 16..until he asked me about it..and i told him i was 14 at first he looked taken aback..then he didnt seem to care..and me and him always flirt..but there is another girl there at is a sophmore and they always flirt right when im walking with him and the other girl hates me cause she knos he might like me cause "Robbys" older brother told my sister that he might like me cause it seems like it..but i dont kno..and plus hes 2 years older than me! what should i do?! xo

I think you should keep on flirting with him and doing what you're doing. If he cared about the age difference, he probably wouldn't have told anyone that he liked you. Maybe you should tell him that you have a crush on him and you really enjoy spending time with him at work and such. This way, you guys can go to the movies or something to see what may happen with the both of you guys.
♥ Krissy

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wat is fingering exactly, where to your fingers go? and who fingers, the guy or the girl???

The guy fingers the girl. All he does his slide a couple of fingers up your vagina.
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