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this guy i work with


Question Posted Tuesday July 19 2005, 5:53 pm

alright..there is this guy at my work that i used to like..but now i dont like him anymore and he still likes me and he stalks me everywhere..like at work, online, and we had this fun fest and he even stalked me there..and he freaks out at me when i say i have to go..he makes me real uncomfortable and he always stares at me..and everyone knos it.and im scard cause hes a weirdo..and me doesnt leave me alone! what should i do!? xo and im 14

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PrettyLady16 answered Friday July 22 2005, 4:56 pm:
your 14? oh man how old is this guy? I would tell someone if it gets extremely serious. tell him to give you your space block him on the internet... avoid him as much as you can. But make sure you alert someone if this problem persists. because that isnt good for him to be like that... well i hope it gets btter for you

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vanna04 answered Thursday July 21 2005, 10:11 am:
say DUDE I DO NOT LIKE YOU ANYMORE STOP STALKING ME nd if that doesnt work tell an adult. stakers a scary people and can make you feel very uncomfertable.

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babyxo answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 9:41 pm:
block him online..tell someone at work to watch him..tell an adult if it gets worse.. think about it in a good way ..if he tries anything with you, you can sue him & get money ;] hope i helped hun!

`baby

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SexiLilHunni4u12 answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 12:46 pm:
You need to confront him and tell him that u dont want to be bothered by him and if that dont work then u need to go to your parents and maybe they can geta restraining order on him so he wont bother you ... thats all i can say !!!

Hope i Help You!!!!!

Krissy

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karenR answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 8:32 am:
Tell the guy to leave you alone. If he doesn't call the cops and have them tell him for you.

Tell your manager/supervisor. If they do nothing go over their heads to whoever their boss is.

Do not be alone with him. Tell friends not to leave when he is anywhere near you.

Tell you parents. They can do any or all of the above for you.

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MummuM answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 8:02 pm:
What a little weirdo. Stalking can lead to much serious things, such as rape and maybe even death. I think if he keeps on bugging you and following you maybe you should tell your parents. You could even tell your boss about what he's doing and I'm sure she/he will do something about it. What this guy is doing is actually against the law, but you really need to tell someone if he doesn't stop soon.
♥ Krissy

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ncblondie answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 7:55 pm:
Tell the guy firmly that you are not interested and to quit following you. If he continues following you, talk to your boss and your parents. What he's doing is wrong, not to mention against the law. You need to make sure the authorities know about it before he tries something else.

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Sara_Lynn answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 6:27 pm:
for one thing stalking can lead to more serious things... u need to tell your parents.. or if you dont want to get him in trouble but u dont want to be around him.. do whatcha gotta do and find another job.. thats what i would do!!!

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mkanaspiration answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 6:13 pm:
just don't talk to him anymore ok! i had someone like that i just told some of my guy friends and they talked to the guy and they watched out for me!

if he still stalks you tell your parents or the manager

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