these 2 girls i met this summer went to peurto rico together for december break. all 3 of us are pretty close. but since them 2 are away on that vacation i know that they will become reallllly close. next summer we are going together to the same camp, and im worried that i'll be left out because they became really close.
what can i do to prevent this or not think about it? should i talk to them about it?
p.s i didnt go because that girl could only bring one friend... and chose her
Sometimes 2 people just have a connection and theres really nothing you can do to change that. I would try having both of them over and doing things to get close to them! Invite them to do something really fun. Obviously, you cant compete with taking someone to Puerto Rico! But, tell them you want to stay close with them. Im sure when you go to camp, it will be back to normal. Its in a few months.
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hi..
im going to college next year.. and what's bugging me right now is i don't have enough money to shop for the clothes i want..
can you give me tips in wise shopping and what to shop??
Look for sales. I always buy things out of season..For example, tee shirts and skirts are good to buy now since its winter so theyre not in season, obviously. Therefore theyre a LOT less than they are in the spring & summer and theyre usually on sale. Also, if your birthday is coming up, ask for gift cards to your favorite clothing stores.
Or you can get clothes from friends. All my friends are bigger than me, so when their clothes shrink and they are ready to throw them out, I ask them to give their clothes to me. :] Or if they just dont want it/never wear it. Thats a good way to get clothes.
Also, try not to shop at overly expensive clothing stores like Hollister and Abercrombie. Paying 90 dollars for a plain white tee shirt is effing ridiculous!
Id shop at:
Target (They actually have really cute clothes now. Like designers are designing lines for target. Ive gotten some cutttee stuff there.)
Kohls. Always really good prices there.
Marshalls or TJMax. Im not sure if you have a Marshalls in your area but its a very inexpensive store. Im almost positive you have a TJMax, theyre pretty much everywhere. Really good stuff for less money.
You could also get a part time job to get money for clothes. Easy stuff like babysitting. Hope that all helps.
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ok. if your so called "BEST FRIENDS" never called you, always stood you up with phone calls, and made you feel like you weren't their friend, what would you do?
I'd be pissed. This happens to me a lot. But, Id talk to them. Give them the benefit of the doubt. If they never call you though, and theyre supposed to be your "best friends" they dont sound very nice/social! I think you should ask them why they dont and if they dont give you a good reason, I would just get new friends!
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15/f
I never invite anyone over to my house to hang out except for my best friend. All we do is take pictures, gossip, go on the computer and watch TV. I'm afraid if I have other people over that they will be bored, so I never can invite anyone over.
What do people usually do when they go to eachother's houses? When I'm at other people's houses all they do is drink/smoke and that's definately not going on at my house.
We have a TV, DVD player, cable, digital camera, webcam, computer, internet, stereo.. and that's about it. No trampoline/swimming pool.
Right now it's rainy weather, if that comes into play.
Thanks so much!
With friends you dont know as well, heres some ideas of stuff you can do.
Watch movies. Movies are always a great thing to do with a friend you dont know well enough to do best friend things. And its a great thing to do when youre bored. Maybe you guys can go to the movie store and pick out what you BOTH want to see.
Makeup. I do that with pretty much every friend that comes over. We always do eachothers makeup and then take crazy/fun pictures and have a big photoshoot. Lots of fun.
Nails/Hair. Also a good idea. Sometimes me and my friends have a huge spa day and we do eachothers hair. Wash eachothers hair and then blow dry it out and everything. For nails, we do the whole manicure thing like massage!
Bake. Baking is a great way to bond. I love to bake with friends. Cookies, brownies, anything. Plus it tastes good.
Games. Games are always fun..and I dont mean, like, Monopoly :] Haha I mean like, video games. Guitar hero. Karaoke revolution. Playstation.
Can you go out? If you can I suggest going to the mall, getting your nails done, going to the movies, going to another friends house, going iceskating, going to the gym to work out, or going to get your hair done.
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oka yso i have alot of friends
and close ones but latley noone has asked me to hangout
new years is tomorrow and im gonna be at my house all alone what do i do
i have asked alot of them what they were doing
and they all have plans but idk why they can't include me in just one of them
If you talk to them and new years eve plans come up be like, "Yeah I dont think Im doing anything, Im going to be so bored. We should hang out." Or you could invite EVERYONE over to your house if thats possible. Its kind of cliquy and ridiculous they wont include you in plans, I know how that is. So just ask if you can come - not a big deal.
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Ok, this is a pretty stupid question, but if i ask any of my friends or anything, i will be a total loser! haha!! Ok, there is this guy at my school and being funny or as a joke, this is what he says "you crazy cracker" wtf is a cracker?? i know its something you eat, lol! but i know it has so different meaning to it. and, oh yea, what does "panzee" (sp?) mean?? sorry this is so stupid, but i would like to know. hehe!!!! thanks people! bye!!
A cracker is like the OPPOSITE of nigger. Its a bad name for a white person. Its usually used as a joke though, and isnt as offensive to say as "nigger" which is VERY bad, but it really depends on who you say "cracker" to. I wouldnt say it though, its pretty mean. It comes from the fact that white people used to "crack" the whip when africans were slaves. Kinda sad. :[ Not very funny but he probably meant it as a joke. A pansy is somone who can't stick up for themselves or somone who runs from a fight.
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sorry this is really random, but how can you act "cute" around guys?
thanks a lot!
Dont talk too loud.
Dont swear.
Giggle.
Joke around.
Be very nice.
Be motherly towards him in a CUTE way not a nagging way. For example, fluffing his pillow or something like that.
Be nice to his family.
Be yourself and dont be afraid of your maybe quirky habits. For example, if youre in the car and you love to sing with the radio, sing! Obviously dont do it so its obnoxious, maybe just dance a little.
Smile a LOT.
Make eye contact.
Try not to be OVERLY sexy.
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when kissing a boy, what should you wear.. like lip gloss, or chapstick, or nothing? like i have kissed before, but i never know what would be the least akward thing.
I would put on chapstick a little bit before you hang out with him so your lips arent STICKY (dontt wear lipgloss) but theyre soft and supple.
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Does anyone know where I can get quotes from the movie "The Notebook"?
Lovvvvve the notebook. :]
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0332280/quotes
http://homevideo.about.com/library/weekly/aa_movie_quotes_the_notebook_a.htm
http://quotations.about.com/od/moviequotes/a/notebook2.htm
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Just like my subject, how do I tell a guy that I like him?
I mean I guess saying it to face "I like you" is the best way, because I'd know the answer but I mean how do I paraphrase that or some other way?
Thanks so much
I think the best way to tell someone you like them is very subtle! Its such a small phrase but it means so much. I understand it kind of feels stupid to be like, "I LIKE YOU." totally random & out of the blue. Haha. So, try to make a joke about it! But, make sure you know HE knows its serious..
Example:
Youre hanging out and he says something or does something funny/cute. Say, "Oh godd, youre so cute haha, I think Im falling for you..." and smile at him and make eye contact.
Or just be like, "So, I guess Im in love with a comedian."
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Hey!
Well i am really tired of my library for itunes and i want to spice it up
I want songs that make you want to dance or pump you up
any ideas?
I looked it up online. My mind went blank. You can find anything on google.com, eh?
Ain't It Funny Jennifer Lopez featuring Ja Rule
Get The Party Started Pink
U Got It Bad Usher
I'm Gonna be Alright Jennifer Lopez
Stand Still Aubrey
Dilemma Nelly
Superman Five for Fighting
Roll Out Ludacris
I Need a Girl P. Diddy
Feel This 2001 Robbie Rivera
Little L Jamiroquai
Crystal New Order
Absolutely Not Deborah Cox
Yes Amber
Keep It Coming 7 Featuring Mona Monet
Know You Can Whatever, Girl
Official Chemical Dub Pistols
I Feel Loved Depeche Mode
The Player First Choice
Bootylicious Destiny's Child
Waiting For Tonight Jennifer Lopez
It's Gonna Be Me N Sync
Lucky Britney Spears
Arms Wide Open/Higher Creed
Kryptonite Three Doors Down
Who Let The Dogs Out Baja Boys
Come On Over Christina A.
Country Grammer Nelly.
Jumpin Jumpin Destiny's Child
Real Slim Shady Eminem
Back That Thing Up Juvenile
Party Up DMX
Larger Than Life Backstreet Boys
Thong Song Sisco
Bye Bye Bye N Sync
Blue Eiffel 65
What A Girl Wants Christina A.
I Need To Know Marc Anthony
The Bad Touch Bloodhound Gang
Say My Name Destiny's Child
Genie In a Bottle Christina A.
Barbie Girl AQUA
Mambo #5 Lou Bega
This Is How We Do It Montell Jordan
Clear My Throat DJ KOOL
1234 & Mo Money Coolio
La Vida Loca & Bon Bon Rickey Martin
Come Ride the Train & Space Jams Quad City DeeJays
Bills Bills Bills Destiny's Child
Maria Maria Santana
If I Had Your Love & Waiting For Tonight Jennifer Lopez
Miami/Wild Wild West/Freakin It Will Smith.
Woop There It Is Tag Team
Get Ready For This 2 Unlimited
No Diggity & Booty Call Blackstreet
Walkin On The Sun/Then The Morning Comes SmashMouth
That Don't Impress Me & Man, I Feel Like A Woman Shania Twain
Candy Mandy Moore
Shoop & What a Man & Push It Salt-N-Pepa
Smooth Santana
I Think I'm In Love Jessica Simpson
Be My Lover/Wannabe LaBouche/Spice Girls
Heartbreaker Mariah Carey
That's The Way It Is Celine Dion
Fantasy & Always Be My Baby Mariah Carey
Rhythm Divine Enrique Iglesias
Summer Girls/Girl On TV LFO
Never let You Go Third Eye Blind
Bent Matchbox 20
Loveshack B52'S
Can I Getta & A Hard Knock Life Jay-Z
Vogue & Megamedely Madonna
Forgot About Dre Dr. Dre
My Own Worst Enemy Len
All The Small Things & What's My Age Again Blink 182
Another Night & Runaway & Come and Get Love Real Mcoy
Ants Marching/Crash Dave Mathews
3 A.M. & Real World Matchbox 20
Michael Jackson Megamix Michael Jackson
Ooh Ahh Gina G.
Stayin Alive & Everybody & Larger Than Life Backstreet Boys
Believe Cher
If I Had A Million Dollars Barenaked Ladies
Fly Away Lenny Kravitz
Jump Jive Wail Brian Setzer Orchestra
Zoot Suit Riot Cherry Poppin Daddies
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Okay I will try to make it short. I have a boyfriend and I like him a lot. We have just started going out(it will be a month in like a week). Well the other day I was at his house, just hanging out and well I wont go into detail but at the end of the night we had reached 2nd base. & for me thats too fast. I mean I know we have both already had long term relationships and done everything like that, but I thought he would take it slower. Well my question is how do I tell him I want to slow it down without pushing him away?
You have every right to be honest with him that its going too fast and vice versa! For example, if he thought it was going too fast he'd have the right to tell you. You shouldnt feel embarassed to be honest with him about your pace. You need to tell him how you feel because if its going too fast for you, you could end up doing something just for HIM and regretting something. Also, for a lot of people less than a month isnt a lot of time to be getting to 2nd base! If he doesnt accept your standards & boundaries and pace, you should break up with him.
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I neeed some ideas of stuff to get my boyfriend for his birthday, Its January 12th and I have no ideas because i waisted them all on christmas. I'm getting VERY stressed over this and I am running out of time; so please..any ideas.. I'm open to anything
Hes 16 by the way.
- GIFT CARD. Gift card is probably the best idea since its only been a month/he isnt really saying what he wants. Find out what his favorite store is (maybe without asking him if thats possible).
- iTUNES gift card. Guys really like those.
- A CD. Get him the newest band out there or something you like that you'd think he'd like. DONT get him his favorite band's CD..chances, are he has it already so it will be useless to him.
- MIX TAPE. But actually a Cd. haha. So cute. Get a lot of good songs that he listens to (If you need ideas, check his myspace/facebook if he has one and look in the music section..that should help. Or ask his friends) Then put a card with it, naming all the songs/artists. And include a little note with hearts and stuff.
- TEE SHIRT. Find out his favorite band (or one of his favorites) and go to Hot Topic and check if they have the band's tee shirt! Theyre really cute and only about 20$ usually. Plus, he'll wear it a lot.
- KISSES. And a "homemade" gift card that says a free date with you to do anything he'd like! Let him take you wherever he wants to go even if it is really dorky and really guyish. He'll be happy to be with you! Its the thought that counts.
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does anyone know of anything free or non-free that you can download/buy to edt your pictures? ex. teeth whiter, tannner, delete certain things on your face, change eye color, & so on.
dont care if it doesnt have it all
I use irfanview. Its GREAT and totally easy to use. :] But a lot of people dont know about it.
You can download it at www.download.com
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does anybody know why adam brody and rachel bilson broke up??
“They’ve been done for a few weeks,” a friend close to the couple tells Life & Style. “They are just done. That’s all there is to it. There’s no drama. They just ended it.”
Basically, nothing horrible happened. They just grew apart and mutually decided to break up.
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I love music, but I'm sort of getting sick of the same old bands. I like pretty much anything, but I like emo, screamo, acoustic, and like softrock or powerpop you knowww. But I'll listen to anything. Does anyone know of some really good bands/songs ? THANKS!!!!
Boys Like Girls.
Taking back Sunday.
My Chemical Romance.
Dashboard Confessional.
Unwritten Law.
The Starting Line.
Spitalfield.
The Rocket Summer.
Paramore.
We Are Scientists.
Say Anything.
Jack's Mannequin.
Motion City Soundtrack.
Boys night out.
Weezer.
Augustana.
Cartel.
Brand New.
Underoath.
Jet.
Senses Fail.
Mae.
From First To Last.
Copeland.
The killers.
All American Rejects.
Halifax.
The Early November.
Pencey Prep.
30 seconds to mars.
Bayside.
Death Cab for cutie.
Hit The Lights.
Providence.
The academy is.
Hot hot heat.
Funeral For A Friend
June.
Armor for sleep.
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Alright, I know most teenage boys have looked at/look at porn. I'm pretty positive, considering the fact he just got all these pay channels in his bedroom, that my boyfriend does. Will it ever get to the point where he is more attracted to the girls on the screen than he is me? And if that happens, is breaking up the only thing to do?
I know I'm nowheres near looking like any of those girls you'd see online.
A LOT of guys look at porn that absolutely love their wives/girlfriends. Also, a lot of guys have said that they dont do it because they dont love their girlfriends..maybe its just fulfilling a fantasy. For example, he has a fetish he's not asking you to do for him because he feels embarassed to ask, so he watches porn to fulfill that need. If he watches it INSTEAD of spending time with you, or his watching porn just seems overall very unhealthy (addiction) you should definitely talk to him and tell him its putting a strain on the relationship but give him a second chance to see if it improves. By the way, I think normal girls are wayyy prettier than those slutty porn girls.
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It's true that you can't get pregnant when you have sex when you're on your period because your egg releases, right? Or no... ? Thanks!
Not true! You can very well still get pregnant! But, there IS less of a chance that you will. :]
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Yell out loud anything you want...
What did you yell?
ah!
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16/m
I need to find a part time job. I am able to drive. I don't care if it's being a waiter, cart boy, or cashier... I just need to make money.
I work in an assisted living place. Its kind of like a nursing home, except the people are very wealthy and live mostly on their own. Im a waitress and I love it. So I reccomend that or a nursing home if theres one near you and they hire kids!
Other ideas:
Cashier.
Fast food restaurant.
Bag boy at supermarket.
Baby-sitting.
Indoor house painting - You advertise your ability to paint individual rooms in a house. First get some experience, though!
Cleaning. Find busy people in your neighborhood and clean for them once every week or two.
Dog walking or vacation pet care.
Errand-running - for busy people in your neighborhood/town.
Washing cars - If you want extra money doing this you should vaccuum, clean the windows, etc.
Teach old people how to use computers.
Create a web site.
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