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am i going to be left out?!
these 2 girls i met this summer went to peurto rico together for december break. all 3 of us are pretty close. but since them 2 are away on that vacation i know that they will become reallllly close. next summer we are going together to the same camp, and im worried that i'll be left out because they became really close.
what can i do to prevent this or not think about it? should i talk to them about it?
p.s i didnt go because that girl could only bring one friend... and chose her
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
you should talk to the both uf them and ask if they become closer than i am with you two, can/will we still be best friends? you can do whatever you think you should do.
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Okay, well first of all.
Dont worry about them going away together,
I mean to be quite honest, living together with friends for a couple weeks, can really get on your nerves. They could get sick of each other, and I'm guessing they will. And when they come back, they will be glad to be around you.
Also, dont worry about things that havent happened you, if they didnt come back yet, dont worry about how they are going to act.
Friends are happy for friends.
You can tell them how you feel, but dont become a big baby about it, I myself have 2 best friends, and we are allowed to do stuff with just two of them and not the other one. We can meet new people, and we dont all always have to behanging out together. Just dont annoy them, tell them how you feel, and what you are afraid is going to happen, and most likely they will be understanding.
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tell them how you feel.
if they say you wont feel like that
then dont
have faith in your friends
dont think that you'll be left out,
until it happens
if you really-REALLY dont wanna be left out, i would talk to your parents about going to the same camp -IF YOU CAN-
CONSIDER IT
♥ Flaggal
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hi!
firstly there could be many reasons why she chose to go on vacation with your other friend. it could even just be that her parents know her better or she thought she would enjoy the style of their vacation more than you. she had to choose one of you and if it had been you your other friend would be left out.
all you can do is try to carry on as usual, your friend didn't mean for you to take it personally i am sure. spend time together and just try to think positively. one really good thing i have found, which encourages friendships, is if you are happy, it makes time spent with you enjoyable and memorable and this is a great way to take a friendship up a level.
try not to worry about, i know how difficult it is to do, but you are probably worrying far too much. if these girls are truly your friends, which sounds about right, they will come home and you will realise it was just you worrying for no reason.
if you are really worried a few weeks after they get back, talk to them, but don't accuse them of anything, just say you've been feeling a little isolated since vacation and they probably haven't even relaised but you'd like to spend a bit more time with them because you enjoy their friendship so much.
hope this helps,
laura xxx
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Sometimes 2 people just have a connection and theres really nothing you can do to change that. I would try having both of them over and doing things to get close to them! Invite them to do something really fun. Obviously, you cant compete with taking someone to Puerto Rico! But, tell them you want to stay close with them. Im sure when you go to camp, it will be back to normal. Its in a few months.
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