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if he'she didn't do this, then....
ok. if your so called "BEST FRIENDS" never called you, always stood you up with phone calls, and made you feel like you weren't their friend, what would you do?
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And you call them your friends because...
Look, you may not have noticed but i trully believe there is other people that are around you almost everyday and deserve better attention than them.
If they choose 2 leave you out then my advise to you is to find REAL friends that wont.
I am sure you dont deserve to be ignored!
<3
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Talk to them about it. Tell them how you feel. If they don't listen then they're not people you want to be best friends with. IF they're true freinds then they'll understand you and try to fix it. Hope i helped =D
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Communication is always the key in friendship; or any relationship at that.
I would talk to her about it. People change, and friendships stray apart. Maybe you two just need to hang out again, and remind her how much fun you two have together. But then again, sometimes friendships end. If you want it to work, try talking to her.
In my opinion, my best friend and I we talk about everything, including when our friendship feels like its drifting or like we are being cranky and what not. Hope everything gets better.<3
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I would talk to them and try to figure out what was wrong, and why they were treating me that way. Good luck. =)
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I won't hanker after them. If they dun wanna talk to me, hang out with me, share stuff with me and treat me with respect, I'd try to salvage the situation first. I'd try to find out wat's wrong.
But if the problem lies with them and not me, like for eg, if they've found new frens to hung out with, I'd just leave it. No point hankering after them. Try to find out what's wrong first and don't get mad or too sensitve bout it b4 knowing the truth.
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i would talk to them about it and make sure they are aware and if they are aware and still continue to treat you like that i would look for new friends. hope i helped
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I had a Best Friend all through school who was just like that. Thinking back, "Best Friend" was like a title we had for one another. It was definitely not the truth. I had many other friends I did things with, confided in, called on the phone, etc.
But my Best Friend and I did stay in touch. And 30 years later, she admitted something that I was always too blind to see about her. She told me that, growing up, she always had to be the Center of Attention.
And when someone is the Center of Attention, she doesn't rely on one person to be a friend. Instead, she relies on superficial qualities that put her into a better light.
So keep Best Friends like these in your heart, but don't depend on them for the companionship of a Real Friend. Actions definitely speak louder than words. And P.S. I'm sure you know this: the best way to have a friend is to be a friend. Love, Gigi
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I'd be pissed. This happens to me a lot. But, Id talk to them. Give them the benefit of the doubt. If they never call you though, and theyre supposed to be your "best friends" they dont sound very nice/social! I think you should ask them why they dont and if they dont give you a good reason, I would just get new friends!
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I'd find some new friends. :)
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