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Be like.
"Hey dad, so, what do you think of myspace?"
Then ask him if it would be okay to have one.
Thats how I asked my parents, and they didn't like the idea at first, but I explained the safety you can put on there[ like changing your city, and setting it to private ] and things.

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Hi all, this is yg. I consider this a question, I am also kind of looking for opinions. I am asking here instead of the mod forum because I'd like answers from those who are mods, and those who may not be yet. There is no right or wrong answer, so please, honest opinions only.

In the last month and a half this question, or a version of this question has come up and it bothers me. 'How can I hide that I have been on advicenators?' I assume it was meant from parents.

I would like to know if others have this problem.

Do you have to hide that you use the site?
If so why?

What do you think would make it acceptable to your parents?

Would you be embarrassed for your parents to see the site?

If so is it because of questions asked?
Questions you've asked? Or just the questions in general?

Answers given?
YOUR answers given, or just everyones answers?

Has anyone, besides myself, (who talked to both my kids about it), Talked to their parents about BECOMING an advicenator?

I think it is a great way to initiate conversation
about topics you may be embarrassed to discuss with a parent about yourself. I wonder if anyone has done that?

I think I have plagued you with enough questions for now. Thank you! :)yg

Well, my mom doesn't know. But I don't think she would really mind. The only things my parents wouldn't want me looking at, is the sex questions, cause I have learned a lot of stuff from this site.
I don't tell my friends because, I wouldn't want them seeing the answers I give. I don't know, its just me.
I love this site, and I would recommend it to anyone that needs advice!

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someone told me that if i sleep on my stomach, itll like stop my boobs from growing, will that happen?

No, your boobs are going to grow no matter how you sleep.

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is biniker a word? if so what does it mean??

Nope, it isn't a word. Someone either made it up, or you heard it wrong.

I'm sorry.. Why was I rated a one? Try googling it, try urbandictonary, theres nothing.
ZERO!

EDIT: Then where did you hear it?

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Im 15,female.Well my boufriend and i play with each other. he sticks only the head of his dick in. He has never cummed in me but im still scared. im still a virgin and want to know if there is any possibility of getting pregnant? please help me.....And wat are the possibilities? Please answer!!!

...
Is this a joke?
First of all, you're not a virgin, he stuck his penis in. IT doesn't matter how much, you're not a virgin.
Virgins can get pregnant, um, duh!!!

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I want to know each step to send a picture of my cingular phone to the computer.

Sure. All you do, is your going to "pix" message the picture to your email.
Set up a pix message, and type in your email address. Hit send, and you'll get it on your email. Pix messages cost will apply, so keep that in mind.
Just save it off the computer after you get it in your email.
:)

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what are some appopriate songs that can be played for something like a graduation? like, finishing middle school/junior high isn't really like you're graduating, but it is the end of your middle school/junior high years. so what are songs that can be related to that? new songs would be really nice, but it doesn't have to be. it should also be more fast songs than slow, since i already have some. but if you have any songs that you think will be nice to play in a graduation-type occasion, that would be good.

thanks!

http://top40.about.com/od/top10lists/tp/graduationsongs.htm

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Anyone know any stores (preferrably not online, and not ebay) that sell Marilyn Monroe purses? Thanks. And please don't guess, I need to know for sure that the store has some. Whatever the store is, I'd like to know. Thanks!

Nope. Since she is no longer in style, [because she is dead] You won't find them in stores. But you'll find them online for sure! Don't listen to the person below me -- Marilyn Monroe is amazing :)

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what you said about suicide was DEEP. truly amazing. mind if i put it on a blog on myspace? just for my friends to see. don't worry, i'll give you credit. mind?

Of course you may. Today I had a really hard time with my parents, and I was close to the edge, and I had a knife in my hand, but reading that really changed my life. So don't do it, ever :D

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Some people get to be pretty, do everything right, be popular, and make it seem like easy work while others stress constantly over everything and life...this is serious ive considered suicide A few times and I need help. how do thet do it? be so well perfect

Nobody is perfect. The people who are pretty and popular, aren't pretty because they made theirselves that way. Sure, you can fix yourself up to look decent, and better, but some people are born differently. Nobody can give you that answer, except god. He made you that way.
As for being popular, you make yourself that way. Getting in with the right people, being nice, being yourself, being "in style" is what makes people popular.
Nobody is perfect.
As for thinking of suicide, just remember, it's not the way out -- so please don't do it. It won't do you anything.

Here is something that inspires me, sorry if it is long.

Ask the 25 year old who tried to electrocute himself. He lived, but both of his arms are gone.

What about jumping? Ask John. He used to be intelligent with an engaging sense of humor. That was before he leaped off a building. Now he's brain damaged and will always need care. He staggers and has seizures. He lives in a fogt but worst of all he knows he used to be normal.

What about pills? Ask the twelve year old with extensive liver damage from an overdose. Have you ever seen anyone die of liver damage? You turn yellow. It's a hard way to go.

What about a gun? Ask the 24 year old who shot himself in the head. Now he drags one leg, has a useless arm, and has no vision or hearing on one side. He lived through his "fool proof" suicide. You might too.

But who will clean your blood off the carpet or scrape your brains from the ceiling? Commercial cleaning companies may refuse that job but someone has to do it.

Who will have to cut you down from where you hung yourself or identify your bloated body after you've drowned? Your father? Your mother? Your wife? Your son?

The carefully worded "loving" suicide note is of no help. Those who loved you will never completely recover. They'll feel regret and unending pain.

Suicide is contagious. Look around your family. Look closely at the four year old playing with his cars on the rug. Kill yourself tonight and he may do it ten years from now.

You do have other choices. There are people who can help you through this crisis. Call a hotline. Call a friend. Call your minister or priest. Call a doctor or hospital. Call the police. They'll tell you that there's hope. Maybe you'll find it in the mail tomorrow or in a phone call this weekend but what you're seeking could be just a minute, a month, or a day away.

You say you don't wanna be stopped? Still want to do it? Well then I may see you in the psychiatric ward later and we'll work with whatever you have left.

Remember, suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.

If you need someone to talk to, feel free to inbox me :)

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So. I want to get a Victoria's Secret Swimsuit.

Has anyone tried one? Do they work? Even for like...B cups?

Yes, my mom used a few, and she is very very satisfied. Like the first person said, it is Victoria Secrets. They specialize in things like those, so it's the best place to get them.

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My grade will be testing ALL week and we can't bring a backpack to school. I'm going to get my period soon but i'm not sure what day. Ware could I keep a pad ware it won't be noticable since I can't bring a backpack? I don't want to waiste them on days I wont have my period.

Keep them in your locker for the next week.

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so, im getting a puppy. a chihuahua. shes only 5 weeks,(6 weeks saturday) and she started eating by herself, so i might get her this weekend. well anyways, i like the name Stella. But when people ask me her name, i say Stella, and they give me a weird look. i think the name is cute.
so my first question. do you think the name is cute?
and can anyone think of cute unique dog names. oh and if you couldnt tell, shes a girl.. haha
thanks!!!

-Abby
-Baby
-Sweetie
-Teacup
-Starbucks
-Starburts
-Sunshine
-Stella {Yeah, I forgot to tell you, I LOVE THAT NAME!)
-Belle
-Bianca
-Bubbly
-Lila (My dogs name!)
-Capi
-Coco
-Oreo
-Chica (Girl in spanish)
-Anna
-Elle
-Sandy
-Jazzi
-Toby
-Rascal

Hope you like them.

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Okay, i have a good singing voice, but lately, i just don't think it sounds good, but i was just wondering if anybody would have any tips on how to get, or keep a good singing voice, I love to sing and i want to be able to sing good for not just anyone, but to show myself i can sing. So if anyone has any good tips that would be great thank you.

Well, I like this site. But the key is breathing, I take professional voice lessons, so if you need specific tips, like on breathing, inbox me.

This is a good site, look around.

http://notsosynonymous.tripod.com/sing/tips.html

Also, a columnist here has a singing tip site ; Igotamonopoly

http://www.geocities.com/singingtips/sing.html

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Anyone know any good, LEGITIMATE websites where I can get PROFESSIONAL book reviews? Specifically for Mitch Albom's "For One More Day?"

http://bestsellers.about.com/od/fictionreviews/gr/one_more_day.htm

I didn't deserve a 2, I gave my answer, I gave you a link, what more do you want?

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in your opinion, should sex wait until marriage or before? (if before, then what age is appropriate) just wondering, thank youu

Both. It should wait till you find your true love, who you want to spend your life with.
That is my opinion.

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I don't know if this is in the right topic, but I was just wondering-

was Dick drunk when he shot someone in the foot or whatever?

I know it sounds stupid- but I REALLLYYY like really need to know now- like before I have history class tomorrow morning. And I have lots of other homework to do- so I can't check back here after 7:00!

thnkx
Ashleee

Nope. He was just stupid, and it was an accident.

http://www.cnn.com/2006/POLITICS/02/12/cheney/

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okay so i hate reading. i can only read books that are intersting or else i just fade away and dont even no what i just read. so i was wondering wat are some good books. like preppy books. or just fun to read. thankss

Meg Cabot has a lot of books that are based arround teens, and I absoutly almost read all of them! THEY ARE AMAZING.

My favorite ones are "How to be popular, and All American Girl"

They are both amazing. Check out http://www.MegCabot.com

You won't want to put the books down.

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if you have braces and kiss someone else with braces, is there a possibility you can get stuck together?

My friends did, but I made out with a person with braces, and we were fine. I guess its fact, but not always.

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