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is it possible to get pregnant if you have unprotected sex but he didnt cum?

I think so. ♥

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a few days ago i was with my guy friend and we were fooling around.. is it possible for me to get pregnant when he got cum on his fingers and then fingers me? and im sorry if its such a dumb question

Yes it`s possible but not as bad as unprotected sex so I doubt you are but you never know.♥

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let me put this in short version. i met a boy we really clicked he told me how he felt about me and we were just really close.. he left for a week and i saw pictures of him making out with another girl..
and i asked him about it and he said he has been wanting to go see her for a year and a half now.
when he comes back to my state should i forget him?
(he makes out with 7th graders too i learned)
or should i just not date him..
we wearnt exactly dating yet
but he sure made it seem like we were going too...
i threw up three times because of this.
i really believed he wouldnt be like all the other boys but he was...
and i like it when its JUST me and ONE boy..
so my question is.
should i forget him and move on?
thanks so much even if you try..
i rate 5.

If he is like 16 or older and makes out w/ little 7th graders thats sad..you need to get over him and find someone new ..,I say forget him and move on. ♥

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i asked th equestion earlyer about the guy that i went out with for a month and we had to brake up cuz i couldnt have a boyfriend..well i know he dosent still love me.. well he might but im not sure because i know he likes this one gurl he even admits it well he dosent admit it but his password for this thing is the gurls name ( and theyr best freinds and he always says lylas to her).. but one time when we got mad at eachother and i said all this bad stuff to him he said he was gonna kill himself cuz of me ... so you think he likes me? .. or not..? thanx ly!

Well if he says lylas .. its probly not boyfriend girlfriend love.When someone gets mad they usually stay stuff they don`t mean so it's not really your fault.I still think he likes you, and as I said before talk to him just make sure he is in a good mood.Love ya too. ♥

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hey villy , first of all let me start out by saying you`re so gourges! =] well here is what i need advice for! well i had a boyfriend! and me and him went out for a month and it was like about 4 or 5 months ago but look i loved him like more then anything! ( he was like my first real love) and i am 13 by the way.. well we broke up because well i broke up with him because i couldn`t have a boyfriend! well now i`m half way over him well im pretty much over him.. theres times i think of him and i want to cry because i miss him more then words could ever say...well he`s over me i think....well i love him so much and im not sure what i should do.. & me and him like hate eachother now well he hates me czu we got in a HUGE fight...and when i broke up with him he cried fo r hours..i just want him back but idk what to do..do you know what i should do?? help pleaze thanx ily

First of thank you =] Okay well it seems like your in mad love with this kid even though you say your over him.. I don`t think you are.If someone is your 1st true love it`s most likly you won't get over that person til for ever.You need to call him or tell him to get online and tell him how feel I know it's really hard but talking things out helps so much.If a guy cries it pretty much means that he really did love you and you meant alot to him..so chances are he still does love you,he is just probly hiding it.Talk stuff about with him and you never know you might get him back.Just when you start to aruge give in first and let it all slide.You said you couldn`t have a boyfriend..for that just don`t tell your parents and things will be fine. Hope I helped. ♥

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i dont really want to get into things but i want to forget this guy REALLY BADLY! i dont need him, but its really hard to forget & go on...what can i do? he basicly doesnt talk to me anymore after i said i hated him (it was this stupid fight about feelings & shit). what can i do???
please and thankyou

Yea it`s pretty hard to just forget about a guy but ignore him..and anything that reminds you of him ignore it totally.Also find someone new that will get your mind off of him. ♥

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ok i have itunes on my regular computer and i HAD kazaa lite and it got deleted. we recently got a laptop and i just downloaded limewire onto it. how do i get the songs onto itunes without using the itunes CD? thanks villy!

I`m sorry but I don`t know about ipods I only know mp3..♥

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hello villy. ok well i have this cousin and shes prettier than me well some people think so. but anyways whenever i like a guy and we hang out and shes with me she like doesnt act herself. she always flirts with him and like checks him out and hits me and makes me trip to embarris me. im sick of it. this one time i had a skirt on and she jumped on me and my crush and his friends saw up my skirt. and then later on she ditches me for some other people. im really sick of it. please help me. i dont no what to do anymore. [[you might know who this is]]

signed
idk what to do

I have no idea who this is but you have to be straight up with her and tell her.It`s not good just to hold it all on , maybe she is just jealous of you and needs attention..thats how it usually is..talk to her and see what happens if anything else ask =]

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Ahhh, Villy! Uhm, I mean, NO I do NOT know you.

Alright so anyways, I like this guy. I told him I liked him and he said he liked me too but he didn't want a girlfriend this summer. He said he just wanted to have fun. We were at the movies the other night, and we cuddled and held hands. It was cute. :) Then, he kissed me. He tried to make out with me, but then I remembered his whole "just having fun" thing and I pulled away. He's just looking for fun and I'm not someone's toy. I really do like him though. Any advice on where to go from here?

Ah sounds so familiar..guys are like that they think girls are there toys!You have to talk to him and tell him exactly what you told me..be like if you think of me just someone you can have action with that kinda of upsets me and let him you know not just " another " girl.It seems like he does like you so I don`t see why he wouldn`t want a gf . ♥

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a couple days ago i hooked up with a guy.. were like friends with benifets and all but i have hooked up with him many times before and i dont know because now im kinda starting to like him. i know i shouldnt like him and i dont know how to stop?? can someone please help me out..

I know this might nto be the answer your looking for but I think you should go out with him.Because if you have feelings for someone after a break up chances are you still like him..if you really want to stop just ignore him and anything that reminds you of him & find someone new. ♥

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I havent had a boyfriend for like 3 months but it seems likes it been forever. I want a boyfriend bad. Is that a bad thing?

No that`s not a bad thing at all you just like having boyfriends and want one ,nothing wrong with that ♥

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14/f
I used to go out with a boy, lets call him bob. I broke up with bob and was mean to him then apologized. I still liked bob though. I recently told someone that i still liked bob and she said she liked bob too. So a couple days later this girl is going out with bob, and people say she doesnt like me. I really like bob and she doesnt. He thinks she really likes her though. I told bob i loved him and he didnt even care. I'm jealous now what should i do?
I need advice fast!

He probly likes you too but is trying to make you jealous .. which is working.You tried telling him and that`s all you can do.Just relax and try to find someone new because obviosuly he doesn`t care so why should you? When you find someone new it will get your mind off of " bob " and things will get better.Then "bob" will want to come back to you and then say no.. he is missing out on you and that`s his fault.♥

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alot of people say that fingering feels good.. but whenever i or someone else does that to me ..it doesnt feel good.. is there something wrong with me ?

Nothing is wrong with you.The guy might not be doing it right..or you might not be wet enough.Or it can be the position your in that might cause it..,but if its not one of those maybe you just don`t like it, but nothing is wrong with you.♥

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ok villy. here it is.. i masturbate way too much and sometimes i even think about sticking it in my dog and fucking the shit outa it...please tell me how i can masturbate less than 8 times a day and answer as soon as possible cuz im about to go beat it in about 2 minutes

Find a girl

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ive heard that if you can wear a tampon comfortably it means that your body is ready for sex is that true?

No,not true. ♥

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My parents are always bugging me about coming home at unreasonable times, and my mom assumes that I am into drugs, smoking, and drinking alcohol. I dont know how to gain their trust, so that they will respect me more. I always seem to blurt out words to them, and they yell at me all the time. I dont know how to handle this situation, because they are destroying my social life.

That happens alot w/ parents.Just sit down with them and tell them you don`t do all that and you will do anything for them to respect you more because they are destroying your social life.Just be open.♥

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Okay, my best guy friend likes me, I really fell for him, but when I found out he liked me back, I don`t know why but then it seemed so gross to me cause were such good friends. At times, I like him, but at other times I don`t want to take our friendship anywhere else. However, I get jealous when he talks about other girls. He`s not that attractive, and he can be annoying, and sometimes those things really get to me. I`m confusing the poor boy and myself, what should I do?

I used to like my best guy friend too , we went out and didn`t talk to each other for a little then now were back to best friends.I honestly don`t think you should lose a good friendship just to have him as a b/f.I don`t think its worth it.Try and forget about those feelings because it`s better to have a best friend who you can tell everything to , but if he was your bf after you guys would break up and wouldn`t talk for a while.When he brings up other girls just tell him to stop that you don`t like hearing it..♥

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There is this guy, Zack I really like. He used to like me but now he doesnt. I dont know why he doesnt anymore. I didnt do anything wrong. We barely ever talk to eachother. I think he hates me but I really like him. What should I do?

If you did nothing wrong he has no reason to be mad but again guys are lame like that.Have one of your friends talk to him and ask him why he doesn`t like you anymore.If you don`t want them to thenyou should.I know this might be hard but it`s better then just wondering what you did and why you stopped talking.♥

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I have a question why is it tht no girls ever look at me like everytime i look at them they never look back alot of girls say im cute and wen i get close to them i kiss them and they kiss me back but when i ask them out they tell me no what is my problem?
Please help I Rate High
~Alex~

Aw..Well I think those girls just want to stay your friends and not mess up the friendship you have w/ them , most likly after you break up w/ someone you aren`t that good of friends..maybe they would just want to stay friends w/ benifits.If you like one of them alot you just need to talk to her & tell her.If antthing else just ask =] ♥

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ok well is there any other way to let a guy know you like him without actually having to say it

Just flirt w/ him alot & make 1st moves on him, that`s the only way with out really telling him ♥

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