let me put this in short version. i met a boy we really clicked he told me how he felt about me and we were just really close.. he left for a week and i saw pictures of him making out with another girl..
and i asked him about it and he said he has been wanting to go see her for a year and a half now.
when he comes back to my state should i forget him?
(he makes out with 7th graders too i learned)
or should i just not date him..
we wearnt exactly dating yet
but he sure made it seem like we were going too...
i threw up three times because of this.
i really believed he wouldnt be like all the other boys but he was...
and i like it when its JUST me and ONE boy..
so my question is.
should i forget him and move on?
thanks so much even if you try..
i rate 5.
x0ricanchica answered Friday June 30 2006, 5:58 pm: if i were you i'd forget about him even if hes says "im sorry i'll never do it again" he's probably going to anyway...in the end its your choice but i would just move on if you dont want to get hurt again.
(dont rate high if i didnt help)
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holahayley56 answered Friday June 30 2006, 4:43 pm: You should most defently move on. No one deserves that. He obviously doesn't care about you much, or really like you. If hes making out with other girls. Go find someone.. that isn't like all the other boys. I hope I helped! bye =) [ holahayley56's advice column | Ask holahayley56 A Question ]
xOViLLYxO answered Friday June 30 2006, 4:17 pm: If he is like 16 or older and makes out w/ little 7th graders thats sad..you need to get over him and find someone new ..,I say forget him and move on. ♥ [ xOViLLYxO's advice column | Ask xOViLLYxO A Question ]
punk4lyfe answered Friday June 30 2006, 4:11 pm: move on. i meet this guy also. i went away for a week. everything was different. he had a girlfriend, a whole new group of friends. and we didnt talk as much. he made it seem like we were going to go out. and even now he still does. i try not to look at him that way anymore. i want him to know that i dont take that shit. if he does it now, he will once you are a couple. forget him. you certainly deserve better then an ass. it may be hard but you got to do it. good luck. girl. dont let him make you so upset that you puke, he isnt worth it. no guy is. even though they have the power to do that to all of us. at the moment you must move on. maybe later once he proves to you that he is a genuine guy you can think about him again in that way. but be careful once a player. always a player. [ punk4lyfe's advice column | Ask punk4lyfe A Question ]
vickiooos answered Friday June 30 2006, 3:43 pm: dont even bother with this guy. if he liked you enough, he wouldn't have hurt you by making out with 7th graders [and i really hope he's not any older than a sophomore] and making out with this other girl. it doesn't matter if hes been waiting to see her for 10 years, he startd something with you and he can't just leave that when he leaves the state.
my freshman year i wasted alot of time with this one guy that said he really liked me [and granted maybe he did] but he would always be doing stuff with other girls. so maybe our situations arent entirely the same, but one thing that i had to end up learning was that it didn't matter if he liked me, he didn't like me enough to not hurt me. i kept clinging on to the thought of us because i thought that yeah he liked me, so i can change him. but it's not like that. the truth is that he doesn't care enough to keep what you two have, sacred. and no girl deserves that. [ vickiooos's advice column | Ask vickiooos A Question ]
DefinedEyes answered Friday June 30 2006, 3:24 pm: Well how old is this guy?
If he's older than 16+ he shoudlnt be making out with seventh graders.
But if he makes out with other girls,
just forget him.
Especially if he really cared and liked you he wouldnt have done that.
Dont dwell on this,
dont makeyourself sick over a guy who obvoiusly doesnt care about you as much as you care about him.
I highly suggest you just forgethim,
you have your whole life ahead ofyou left.
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xOx_LoOvE_xOx answered Friday June 30 2006, 2:34 pm: Ok my opinion would be to wait for a while. I understand you like him a lot but just give it a little more time. If he flirts & makes out with other girl & he likes you then there`s not point of going out with him because you never know if he could be cheating on you with someone else. you might not know but he could be just like the rest of the boys. =( All I`m saying is give it & him time. hope I helped! [ xOx_LoOvE_xOx's advice column | Ask xOx_LoOvE_xOx A Question ]
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