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So throw a question my way? "I like this guy and this guy, what do I do?" PICK THE ONE WHO LIKES METAL! "I've been feeling depressed lately, what should I do?" LISTEN TO SOME METAL! "I need help with my pre-calc homework." THE ANSWER IS METAL!

I can handle it all, I will not shy away from any question. May the metal be with you!

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Okay, so i am 16 years old, a junior in high school, a guy. Girls have always told me that i was cute and nice looking and thin, so im not like a crazy nerdy fat person who drools over girls.
But ive always had a problem at school...
i live in southern california, in one of the nicest, most spoiled cities. And the high school i go to is like heaven... there are hot girls EVERYWHERE. They awlays have shorts, nice legs, asses hanging out, perfect boobs. Like i dont know how, so many hot girls. And i get so horny in class where i cant even focus or concentrate and it makes me INSANE. Like, i look at other guys, and i see that they dont even look at the hot girls. Is it just me? and once i go home, i masturbate, and even that doesnt take my horniness away, because i stil go on facebook and see all these hot girls from school post pics of them in bikinis and tight cheer jackets and spandex and... yeah. Am i crazy? or no?
I dont know what to do, but i get crazy at school to where i cant even concentrate because there are hot girls surrounding me and they smell amazing, there tanned legs are all around me, their asses are in my face. ugh.
i need advice, what is wrong with me?

I wouldn't say you're crazy, but I'd say you're a bit hornier than the average 16 year old. You'll probably grow out of it one day.

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17/f
Two days ago I had a sore throat and I thought that maybe I was getting a cold. The following day, I woke up and I was sneezing had a runny nose, and felt like my head was in a cloud. I am not coughing at all, but my ears hurt and my head hurts too. I've never had allergies before, but when I looked up my symptoms, it seemed to match up with the symptoms of hayfever. Do I have allergies? If so, should I go see a doctor? I took Zyrtec last night but it didn't help whatsoever. I feel terrible :-\ Help!

A doctor is going to be more informative than anyone on this site, even if an actual doctor answers you on here. It could be allergies, or it could be a cold, or hell it could be neither of those. That's why you should see someone in person.

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im looking for an emo nickname nd im tired of emoxxxkitty, i want something that has the word insane in it

How about, "imnotoriginalemoinsancexoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo"?

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I am a 13 year old girl and I want to know what i can to to be hotter towards guys. I find myself to be okay looking, I am 5'3, pretty straight blond hair, freckles on my nose, blue eyes, straight teeth, and im not fat but I am not skinny either. My personality isn't that bad either, I am kind to everyone, smart, but I am kind of shy toward the guys I like.

I want to know what a guy around my age considers hot and what I can do to be hotter.

And Please do not put answers like I am to young to be worrying about guys or I should not change for a guy. It is not like i am getting plastic surgery! I think it would be for the best because I could get more self confidence.

Well, you are too young to be looking "hotter" for guys whether you think so or not. You're barely a teenager and you're already worrying about your appearance? Damn, just be a kid. Enjoy being a kid. Play. Not worry. Do whatever the hell 13 year olds are doing nowadays that doesn't involve sacrificing their youth to look "hotter" to the opposite sex. You have an entire lifetime of that ahead of you, just be stress free for a couple more years.

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Help! I have a mole invasion at my house! It is going to head toward my pool and if it gets under there My family won't have a pool anymore! My dad is using a mole trap like where it scares the mole to go away and poison to where it digged you know.But this question is dedicated to my family. SO WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO KILL THE MOLE OTHER THAN THE TRAP?? HELP ME BIG TIME,FANS!! -Danielle =(

What you need to do is trait an army of other moles to go into their hole and eradicate them. It's going to take some time and dedication on your part, but once you have them good enough to go down, they'll take care of the moles once and for all.

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Hi, I like to draw my own characters like vampires elves and demons with unique traits but lately they all seem the same. Any suggestions to make a really cool different original character? Thank you! (no I don't mean ideas to copy btw.)

A pirate that has seventeen arms, laser cannons coming out of his nostrils, his beard is made of cacti, his left big toe is a hook, he flies a Jolly Kevin because he thinks, "That damn alien from American Dad is stupid," his musket fires death, and he has gills to survive underwater. How is that for original?

I want a copy of this!

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Do you know anything about Xtreme Profit Robot?

The general rule is, "If it looks too good to be true, then it is too good to be true."

I got sucked into Vector Marketing. $125, 24 hours of unpaid training, and about 8 demos later I sold like 4 or 5 knives and got a check for about $120. So I'd say just find a real job and make money the normal way.

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Hey everyone, 23/f here.
Okay, so I'm trying to be open to all suggestions as far as treating/managing/dealing with this is concerned. I've been against medicating myself for this, as I'm already on a bunch of meds for other stuff, but I'm starting to struggle more.

I have undiagnosed and untreated general anxiety disorder, and PTSD. It's starting to get in the way of my job. My coworkers are therapists and other wonderful people, so they understand when I ask them to stay five feet away from me at all times, but I shouldn't have to. I don't want them to feel like I'm pushing them away - they're like a second family to me.

I've always kind of had some anxiety, nothing too bad, but it's gotten much worse since a traumatic event about six months ago. I've been having trouble being in even small crowds, and I'm getting, like, no sleep. I'll go to bed at 12 and waking up at 4:00, unable to go back to bed. :(

My friend triggered an attack by accident today. I started crying and shaking and had to step away for a second, at work. It's ridiculous.

Has anyone dealt with or had any success in managing their anxiety? Any tips, tricks, techniques, or miracle-drugs? Any good ideas?
Help :(

Alright, I have weird anxiety issues myself and am against drugs for it, so with a bit of research this is what I found:

1. St. John's Wort. It's not medicine, it's a plant and taking it can help with anxiety problems. I've been on it for a few weeks, and I guess my anxiety is lower than usual. I just started a new job and was more excited than nervous.

2. Diet and exercise. Seriously, I guess eating right and getting to the gym, running, whatever can help your body out. I haven't been able to test this one personally, but I'm gonna be starting at a gym and trying to eat better because I just started at Whole Foods and it's full of good for you stuff.

3. Sleep! Number 2 should actually help out with this one. Getting a good nights sleep helps out wonders with anxiety. A good NON-drug path for this is taking Valerian Root and Melatonin. Both of those are natural (one's a root and the other is something in the body directed at a natural sleep cycle).

4. SAM-e. I don't know much about it, I've done research cause I want to try it, but it's all natural (they sell it at my work, so it has to be) and it's supposed to help with everything from arthritis to anxiety. It also has very little side-effects, as long as you take it on an empty stomach and not at night. It seems legit though, it's been used in Europe for a long time.

5. If you have an iPod, try a self-hypnosis app. I use one from time to time, and it just relaxes you to no end. It's just 30 minutes of listening and laying down. You'll feel amazing after doing it, I promise!

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20f Nick -19m

So Nick is 4 hours away playing hockey. Around November me and Nick started talking. I seen him in Dec when he came home for break for a week and then me and my friend went there in Jan to go see him play. Well one weekend when we were there he blew up on me over text saying he couldn't talk to me anymore and that he didn't want to "talk" or date a girl he could never see. I didn't talk to him until a month later when he chatted me on facebook asking how i was doing then I didn't talk to him until last weekend when he texted me saying "Hey can we be friends still, I'm sorry for everything and being a jerk" And then went on to say that I could come to his house sometime in the summer if i wanted and that he'll see me around.

So we're civil you could say. But then I find out that he's now talking to this girl where he is right now. He's going to be coming home within 1-3 weeks depending on how they do in playoffs so I DON'T UNDERSTAND!! Hes coming home for the summer, so he won't see her? He lives where I do, which just makes me mad because he said the reasons he didn't want to talk to me was because he would never get to see me. Yet he's talking to this girl who he wont see all summer. All his teammates and his brother loved me, they all told me I was hot haha and they don't even think this girl is cute. I was never annoying when we were talking or clingy, i did nothing wrong.

Do I have a reason to be a little upset about him talking to this new girl? I haven't talked to him, I just know about him talking to her. I still kind of have feelings for Nick which is why it bothers me a little still :( Ughhh..

No, he obviously doesn't like you so just deal with it. You have a friend out of the deal, so I don't really see the problem with the situation.

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The past two or three times I have gone to the bathroom, I have filled at least half of the toilet bowl with air poop. What is wrong with me?? What should I eat to make it stop??

Real food instead of air food.

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What makes you emo? I don't cut and I never have but sometimes feel like it but can you be emo and not cut? how?

Emo is a bullshit trend that a bunch of dumb faggots follow. If you want to a spoiled upper-middle class loser who thinks they're depressed and has the worst life ever, go ahead and be emo. If not, then realize that you're probably a teenager and being sad sometimes is normal and there's nothing wrong with you.

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I want to get a tattoo saying that I can look at every day and it will remind me to be me, to keep my head up, never look back, be happy, and live freely. Any suggestions?
I am putting it on the outside of my foot so it can't be too long, but a couple words.

It's your body so you should decide what you want as a tattoo. It should be personal.

You could make it say, "Hey world I'm unoriginal," if you'd rather.

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How do you makeout with a boy? Im 13 and i want to make out with this boy but I just dont know how! Any advice?

I'm not sure I know what the ingredients of out are.

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So.. I recently decided to shave my Vagina. I was kind of scared to shave it at first but I wanted it to be smooth. Well, I shaved it and now there are like red bumps and I can't seem to get it smooth.. Also, I've realized that the hair grows back really fast and it's been itching down there a lot lately.. Is this normal? How do you get rid of the bumps and what is the best way to shave it? Thanks!

If it was your first time shaving your vagina (unless you named it Vagina, I'm sure it's supposed to be lowercase), then it's probably not used to a razor rubbing against it.

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My mom wants to get a tatto on her back shoulder blade, of some sort, either a quote or probably a picture. She just went through a divorce and shes really spiritual. And i really want her to get it soon! Something that represents being free, and strong, and perserverance and loving. What are some symbols or words to use? thanks

You shouldn't ask people what to get as a tattoo, it should be personal. It's a reflection of what you are, so have your mom decide.

So you'd rather your mom tattoo something on her body that some retard from the internet said? Sounds like an awesome idea.

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ok well you guy are gonna think im like the craziiest person in the world :s but i NEED advce kaay well about a year ago my friend introduced me to justin bieber (not in person like she showed me his songs) and i really liked his music but lately ive been obssesing over his songs i listen to him ALL day and ALL night im always daydreaming of how it would be if i were to ever meet him and if he liked me and we started going out ive never really liked a famouse person this much and its kinda silly cause its gotten to the point were after my day dreams i start cring cause i know that ill NEVER be able to get even close to him or meet him in person and even if i did have my dream of comeing face to face with him and telling him how i feel i know that im just waaaaaaay to ugly for him to even be the least bit intrested :(( ( heres a pic of me -----> http://i784.photobucket.com/albums/yy121/EmilyAn007/188705_108547272561521_100002187478226_80259_1924690_n.jpg)

soo plzzz just give me any coment of what i should do to just get it over wiith!

You could start by listening to good music, like punk or rock and not crap music like Justin Beiber. Then when you get obsessed, you get obsessed over shit that doesn't totally blow and you wont feel as weird.

Also, I'm pretty sure any girl who isn't a model or an actress is too ugly for him, don't feel bad.

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what are sexy nicknames for a boyfriend who is really hot

Sexy sex.

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it operates on windows 7. I've tried going to control panel, and where it's supposed to say 'appearance and personalization' and instead it just says 'appearance' and there is no way to change it that way. I have also tried clicking on images and hitting 'set as background', it asks me if I'm sure, I confirm and it still doesn't happen. Neither does right clicking on my desktop, it offers me a number of options to personalize but none have to do with changing the background. any ideas?

Step 1: Go to www.google.com.
Step 2: Type whatever gay thing you want as your background in the search bar.
Step 3: Go to the image search and pick out what picture you like.
Step 4: Right-click the picture and select "save-as" and save it to your desktop to make it easy to find.
Step 5: You can leave the name the way it is, or name it "gay horse porn" or whatever makes you happy.
Step 6: Locate the picture on your desktop and open it.
Step 7: Right-click the picture in the viewer and select "set as desktop background".
Step 8: Celebrate in whatever way you do.

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my computer broke this year and with it deleted majority of my iTunes.

i downloaded a lot of new songs but- is there a way to add these new songs to my same ipod without deleting the songs that are already on my ipod?

thanks-

** please be as STRAIGHT FOWARD as possible with directions. i am not the best with computers haha. by straight foward i mean talk as DUMB as possible :)

I don't understand your question, I've never had song erase off my iPod when I added new songs before. Maybe you should own simpler music devices, like a portable records player.

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I'm a 15/f freshman. This guy keeps asking me out, but he is a 14 yr old 7th grader, so I turn him down because I question the advisability of dating someone in a lower grade (especially if they failed a grade). What do you think?

It's not the fact that he's younger that you shouldn't date him, it's the fact that he's too dumb to pass 7th grade.

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