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Am i crazy, or not?
Okay, so i am 16 years old, a junior in high school, a guy. Girls have always told me that i was cute and nice looking and thin, so im not like a crazy nerdy fat person who drools over girls.
But ive always had a problem at school...
i live in southern california, in one of the nicest, most spoiled cities. And the high school i go to is like heaven... there are hot girls EVERYWHERE. They awlays have shorts, nice legs, asses hanging out, perfect boobs. Like i dont know how, so many hot girls. And i get so horny in class where i cant even focus or concentrate and it makes me INSANE. Like, i look at other guys, and i see that they dont even look at the hot girls. Is it just me? and once i go home, i masturbate, and even that doesnt take my horniness away, because i stil go on facebook and see all these hot girls from school post pics of them in bikinis and tight cheer jackets and spandex and... yeah. Am i crazy? or no?
I dont know what to do, but i get crazy at school to where i cant even concentrate because there are hot girls surrounding me and they smell amazing, there tanned legs are all around me, their asses are in my face. ugh.
i need advice, what is wrong with me?
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I wouldn't say you're crazy, but I'd say you're a bit hornier than the average 16 year old. You'll probably grow out of it one day.
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No that sounds about normal for a 16 year old guy.
Truth be told, it gets alot more controllable when you're dating someone and you're sleeping with them. It's also possible that your overall sex drive is a bit higher than average.
Puberty sucks. I mean, really, it did for me. The hormones drive you insane. Trust me, when you hit 18/19 and suddenly drop back down to normal human adult levels it's like a gift from god. You're still just as horny, but you can ignore it when there's things to do and pay attention to it when the opportunity to indulge presents itself.
I will say, that a big part of the reason alot of other guys aren't looking is that girls aren't a nebulous concept to them. You're losing your shit about how beautiful they are when other guys are keeping it in check because they know that in order to be treated like an equal by girls you have to treat girls like an equal as a guy.
That means being able to talk to a hot girl you'd absolutely love to be involved with like she's a guy you know. Being able to treat an incredibly beautiful woman like she's just a person is a skill that comes in handy later in life.
Part of it is hormones. Part of it is the fact that you aren't getting laid right now. Part of it is just the reactions you'll have to deal with as a guy for the rest of your life. You want my advice, go up to a few girls and make a bunch of friends. It'll be good practice for acting normally when you're standing in front of a girl you're actively interested in so you don't make an ass of yourself and you can think about more than "god her curves are _perfect_!"
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